[xm1chelle]

why are guys so different with guys than with girls? because when i talk to guys individually, they're super nice but when their friends are around, they change into a whole other person

[lyne]

does guys usualyl chooses his friend before girls? i hope they do..
so do you?

[winks]

thanks for the reply inevitable..though it was 15 days since you posted it hehe ^^ i just read it today.

i have a question im really stuck.. soo theres this guy ive been on about since december 07 last year.. and he likes me too except that he doens't know that i know_ call him Boy A
no one knows, till 3 days ago.. my friend told me taht she likes him, and dont know what to do, she has this urge to want him to like her do.. i was shocked that she liked him and said 'i duno.' i didnt know what to say to her.because i was stil shockd.. she said 'i dont know if i like him. wel i do, but i want to like him bt in ways i dont want to.whenever his nearby i just have to look'_ call her Girl B

and that friend is a really close friend that is a very dedicative friend.. im a 'chicks before dicks'type of girl.. .. so i decided to not talk to that Boy A since i foud ou about Girl B(3 days ago) but he just thinks i don't have the internet for a couple of days thats all..

i don't know what to do..? =( i dont wana lose that friend. i feeel that its not right to like him anymore because of her, and i think i sholdnt tell her bcos its not right for her to stop liking him because its my problem at 'first' not hers.. so i think i should do something about it that doens't invovle of her change in feelings.. is this the right thing to do? am i thinking too much for her? :S

boy A and myself don't really talk at school because people might make rumours especially my friends.people don't know we even talk though we talk on phone, hang out and stuff. and also his friends like me =( but but.. i didnt do anything to them i hardly talk to them!. and his not the type that approaches girl..

girl B today said that she doesnt like him.. but im sure she does.. i talked to Boy A on homephone when Girl B came over my house, and she kept on wanting to talk on the phone about random stuff..happens few times(but this was before i found out) even though if she gets over him, i feel its not right if i 'go out '' with him.. because thats like going with who my friend use to like. and plus Boy A has a friend called Boy B who likes me =( and theres another Boy C who use to like me whic is Boy A's friend..and thers a Boy D tat likes me jus that Boy A doesnt know.. and thers a Girl C who has a bf already, but when she was single use to have a spark for Boy A(and shes a close friend).. Boy A isnt popular or anything just normal person that doenst approach girls

so what should i do? should i talk to Boy A? should i tell Girl B? should i stop talking to Boy A? should i just be his friend and keep talking to him regularly as usual .. but if i do . il get to attach to him yet i cant go out wit him or anything like that.. then i cant move on..
what do you think i shoudl do

[Fropit]

uhmm..ok

will the guys be annoyed if i keep on nagging them?
uhmm....
and are they really laughing when they
are saying hehe or haha while chatting?


dumb q's >.<

[hked]

uhmm..ok

will the guys be annoyed if i keep on nagging them?
uhmm....
and are they really laughing when they
are saying hehe or haha while chatting?
dumb q's >.<

yes..please dont nag, it pisses the hell out of me, and chances are no, theyre not laughing =\

does guys usualyl chooses his friend before girls? i hope they do..
so do you?

hmm personally i tend to spend 50/50 distribution of my time amongst my gf and friends, but most of my friends, sadly dont....they got attention seeking gfs, so they end up dogging the whole group *Sigh* but it varies, so no definite answer,

[Inevitable]

ahh havent been here in a while, sorry if I skipped any

well school is starting for me soon.
anyways so last year, i liked this guy for about 4 months.
he was new to the school with anothe rguy friend, so i took the initive to like
talk to him during math class and stuff and yeah we got pretty close, talked,high fives,hugs/
and yeah i told him on the third month that i liked him, FACE TO FACE. LOL
and yeah it was so nerve wrecking, but after i told him, we both went different directions and he gave me a hug. LOL
anyways after that we still talked and stuff as usual, which was a good thing that nothing change.
but yeah, since summer came i didnt talk or see him. so yeah i dont like him no more.
i still wanna be friends and stuff, so should i like still talk to him and stuff like i did before?
how do i approach him this year :S

From the looks of it, you should be fine talking to him the same way you did since things didnt really change after you confessed to him. If you flirted with him before, try to tone it down a little this time so that he wont think your feelings for him are still the same

hey what does it mean, when a guy that you like knows that you like them and even though you two ignore each other he still pays attention to what you say even how small it is?

this is a bit confusing because you said you two both ignore each other, so how does he listen? =P I'll try to answer as best I could, if he pays attention to things you say, he probably has some sort of interest or is curious about you.

so whats a good way of knowing whether a guy likes you for sure.... besides the direct approach of asking?

Observe how he acts around other girls, then compare it with how he is around you

do guys like it when their girlfriends wear lace/ruffle tops? is that like exposing as in "oh she only wears those to public." or do they think it's sexy like?

This would really be based on personal preference, some guys will like it while others wont

so this one guy friend of mine, we were pretty cool and he's really fun to be around with~
then a week ago our friend told me that he likes me and asked me if i like him too. now i totally didn't expect that...i guess, then i said i dont'' like him in that way... i don't know if our friend told him anything, but he like stopped talking to me ever since, and im kinda sad..? he was really fun to hang out with...=(
is he mad? embarrassed? shy?
i don't 'know if i like him cuz i kinda miss him too... but then do i really like him or do i just like being loved?
im confused... and i don't have the courage to actually talk to him about it...=.=

from the looks of it, something was said to him which is why he is sort of avoiding you. he's probably just a little crushed about it, which is natural, so his way of dealing with it is by not talking to you. i can't tell you if you like him or not, but i think you should probably talk to him about the whole situation

hey guys...so theres this one guy in my spanish class that i sorta know[lets call him Bob], we havent really talked that much and exchanged names yet. but at freshman orientation where we help out the freshies and show them around, i was talking 2 a friend, and bob and his friend walked by and his friend said, "hey ---, your hair is so short!" and then i just gave a quick smile and then turned back 2 my friend and kept talking. then bob said, 'whats her name?' and his friend said, '---' and he said, 'hey ---!' i glanced quickly but didnt have time because the freshies were calling them so i just shook it off.

i have him in my spanish class n on the first day of skool i was there a lil bit early, but wen he came in, he looked around n saw me, and sat right next 2 me. n when we had to find partners for this one on one activity, i couldnt find anyone, and was about to ask the girl sitting behind me, but then he asked me if we could be partners. he asked me for my name and what ethnicity i was [that wasn't on the paper we were supposed to fill out].

and wen the teacher was teaching us how to pronounce some sentences, whenever i laughed at the teachers jokes, i catch him looking at me.
this guy is totally popular tho, and most grls like him. and on his myspace, his top friends is full of girls. does he like me or is he just playing around? PLEASE HELP THANKS

honestly, this behavior seems pretty normal, with no hidden intentions. I guess you have to wait for a few more signs because I dont think he's at the point where you can really tell if he has interest in you.. but this doesnt me he has no interest, cause he might.. it's just difficult to tell at this point

so i just met this guy (let's call him Joe) on sunday. we talked as a group and everything. then i randomly asked him if he was interested in helping me with this door-to-door survey that i'm currently working on for the non-profit organization, which is where i volunteer.
now, Joe is a "perfect guy" in my eyes... and in many other girls' eyes. he's nice, respectful, generous (likes to help others), pretty outgoing... he's a gentleman! anyway, Joe agreed to help me so i called him up on wednesday to see if he was busy or not.. he wasn't so he came and helped me with the survey with one of my friends. it was raining at that time so we didn't do much.. and went to lunch.. but we did some more after lunch. then when it was around 3 something or 4.. we took a break and went to my other friend's house. after an hour or so.. we were about to go do more survey (we were already outside, ready to go do it), but it was raining again.. plus we were lazy. so we ended up going back to my friend's house. he could've went home, but he chose to stay and hang out with my friends and i (he doesn't know any of my friends.. just me). so yeah... we were just hanging out/talking... and at around 7 or so.. i said that i'm going to leave.. and Joe and my friend also left at the same time with me. i spent a total of 7 hours with him that day o_O
today, which is thursday, i called Joe again to ask him to do the survey with me and my friends. he agreed and came to where we were at like 15 mins after i called him.

anyhoo, my question is... is Joe just being nice? or is he interested?
also would you guys want to volunteer when a girl you just met asks you to (and she's the only person that you know out of the volunteer group)?

I think he's just being nice to you. It's too early to tell if he has interest because, even though he spent practically the whole day with you and your friend, it seems like he had nothing else to do that day, so.. if I were him I wouldve probably hung out too. I personally wouldnt mind volunteering if I wasnt busy, but i can't say all guys would do this for just anyone =)

[dazzleanddestroy]

sooooooooooo uhmmmmmmmm....
i'm just replying cuz that foo above me told me to.
errr..
i dunno what to ask
O_O




so, i'll leave it with..
keep up the great work guys!

[Inevitable]

^muahahah (evil song)

why are guys so different with guys than with girls? because when i talk to guys individually, they're super nice but when their friends are around, they change into a whole other person

Lots of guys act different to people when their friends are around. It's sort of like, trying to impress their friends somehow. Just imagine a stranger walking up to you and a group of your close friends. There's a good chance that the stranger won't be taken in and treated the same way as everyone else until you get to know them better

does guys usualyl chooses his friend before girls? i hope they do..
so do you?

This would really depend on how serious the relationship is. I try to keep a balance, though

thanks for the reply inevitable..though it was 15 days since you posted it hehe ^^ i just read it today.

i have a question im really stuck.. soo theres this guy ive been on about since december 07 last year.. and he likes me too except that he doens't know that i know_ call him Boy A
no one knows, till 3 days ago.. my friend told me taht she likes him, and dont know what to do, she has this urge to want him to like her do.. i was shocked that she liked him and said 'i duno.' i didnt know what to say to her.because i was stil shockd.. she said 'i dont know if i like him. wel i do, but i want to like him bt in ways i dont want to.whenever his nearby i just have to look'_ call her Girl B

and that friend is a really close friend that is a very dedicative friend.. im a 'chicks before dicks'type of girl.. .. so i decided to not talk to that Boy A since i foud ou about Girl B(3 days ago) but he just thinks i don't have the internet for a couple of days thats all..

i don't know what to do..? =( i dont wana lose that friend. i feeel that its not right to like him anymore because of her, and i think i sholdnt tell her bcos its not right for her to stop liking him because its my problem at 'first' not hers.. so i think i should do something about it that doens't invovle of her change in feelings.. is this the right thing to do? am i thinking too much for her? :S

boy A and myself don't really talk at school because people might make rumours especially my friends.people don't know we even talk though we talk on phone, hang out and stuff. and also his friends like me =( but but.. i didnt do anything to them i hardly talk to them!. and his not the type that approaches girl..

girl B today said that she doesnt like him.. but im sure she does.. i talked to Boy A on homephone when Girl B came over my house, and she kept on wanting to talk on the phone about random stuff..happens few times(but this was before i found out) even though if she gets over him, i feel its not right if i 'go out '' with him.. because thats like going with who my friend use to like. and plus Boy A has a friend called Boy B who likes me =( and theres another Boy C who use to like me whic is Boy A's friend..and thers a Boy D tat likes me jus that Boy A doesnt know.. and thers a Girl C who has a bf already, but when she was single use to have a spark for Boy A(and shes a close friend).. Boy A isnt popular or anything just normal person that doenst approach girls

so what should i do? should i talk to Boy A? should i tell Girl B? should i stop talking to Boy A? should i just be his friend and keep talking to him regularly as usual .. but if i do . il get to attach to him yet i cant go out wit him or anything like that.. then i cant move on..
what do you think i shoudl do

I don't remember the question I answered (went through a lot of questions ) but no problem

Wow, you seem like a person that cares a lot about their friends, but you should also think of yourself too. You said you've been liking him since last year, which is a pretty long time. I think it would be best to let your girl friend know that you've had a thing for Boy A for a while and just let her know how much you cared about her feelings enough to confess this to her. Since, (i think) she doesnt like him anymore, she should be perfectly fine with it, and she'll respect you for letting her know about the whole situation. If everything works out, keep going after him, since he does (as you said) like you too. good luck

uhmm..ok

will the guys be annoyed if i keep on nagging them?
uhmm....
and are they really laughing when they
are saying hehe or haha while chatting?
dumb q's >.<

guys get annoyed when they get nagged. especially if it's in an annoying way lol

and when guys say hehe or haha, theirs a good chance they arent literally laughing out loud, probably just smiling ^^

[poopiness]

does guys usualyl chooses his friend before girls? i hope they do..so do you?

you mean like to hang out? because my best friend ditches me ALL the time for his old girlfriend.now with this gf, he ditches me too, but since his gf is also my good friend we hang out a lot more.

uhmm..okwill the guys be annoyed if i keep on nagging them?uhmm....and are they really laughing when theyare saying hehe or haha while chatting?dumb q's >.<

I think everyone will be annoyed if you kept on nagging them.don't nag, remind nicely, or in a clever way.or ask nicely.probably not. It's the same as saying lol. Must people that type lol really isn't even smiling.

why are guys so different with guys than with girls? because when i talk to guys individually, they're super nice but when their friends are around, they change into a whole other person

image. insecurity.
Most guys are not completely comfortable and secure with who they are yet. I used to be like that.
So when they talk with you, it's just you and them. But in front of the guys, they don't want to come off as girly and be made fun of later.
This is also the same reason why some guys kinda ignore their gf when they're out with friends, and don't display any affections.

Just wait for them to mature.

[aval-zo]

question: what do guys think about girls who never dated before?

a friend of mine is having this problem. she's your typical quiet girl, never really thought about dating until now. She just met this guy and i think she really like him from how she's been explaining to me.

[DaAzNkIgGa627]

does guys usualyl chooses his friend before girls? i hope they do..
so do you?

I'm one that's very diplomatic and tries to make everything work =P.... I'm just greedy like that.

question: what do guys think about girls who never dated before?

a friend of mine is having this problem. she's your typical quiet girl, never really thought about dating until now. She just met this guy and i think she really like him from how she's been explaining to me.

I don't have a prejudice in that sense.... But you want a girl who's not a slut right? The sweet innocent factor really works in this case.

[mojomunkeez]

question: what do guys think about girls who never dated before?

a friend of mine is having this problem. she's your typical quiet girl, never really thought about dating until now. She just met this guy and i think she really like him from how she's been explaining to me.

"Fresh meat" is always good. We guys like innocent girls, that way we know nothing has happened to them before. And also, we feel really special when we're the girl's "firsts".

[ultaeja]

Do guys ever check another guy out? O_O Like, you know how girls check each other out and think stuff like another girl has a nice body, etcc. Or like, clothes/style, etc.

[DaAzNkIgGa627]

Do guys ever check another guy out? O_O Like, you know how girls check each other out and think stuff like another girl has a nice body, etcc. Or like, clothes/style, etc.

Daniel Henney's hot XD.....

Lol I don't go looking for guys, but I say that guys are good looking/have good style... stuff like that, but I don't check guys out per se.

[BOO♥007]

What do guys, generally thinks of a complicated girl?
I mean .. someone who's hard to understand?


And do guys give up on a girl because she's indecive with her feelings?

[mojomunkeez]

Do guys ever check another guy out? O_O Like, you know how girls check each other out and think stuff like another girl has a nice body, etcc. Or like, clothes/style, etc.

I do. But my friends say I'm really feminine.

[stonerboi27]

Do guys ever check another guy out? O_O Like, you know how girls check each other out and think stuff like another girl has a nice body, etcc. Or like, clothes/style, etc.

lol well i woulndt use the term "check out" but yea sure, all the time. we may "check out" others shoes, or be like "damn i wish i had abs like him," etc.. we just dont usually compliment each others the ways girls do =)

[sillyvivian_yo89]

thanks Crisco =)

I'm working in the Gym... and I caught one guy kept looking at me and my directions.... Sometimes when I looked back, he turned away at first.... it's the same thing days after that... then eventually I smiled back and he did the same thing~

now whenever he walked into the Gym, he usually looked at the direction where I work... and if our eyes met, he gave me a smile and I gave him one back... xD

just today he asked for my name....
question: does it imply/mean that he's interested in me at all?!
cuz I dont think i'm an attractive person, yet he's a cutie~...

so....?~
thanks a lot <3

continuing problem/question...


however... today when I worked... [usually I don't see him going to the Gym on Friday]... but today he was here.... yet he seemed pretty... dull towards me...

like... before he was as if he was interested in me... but today he seemed so dull and kinda neglected my presence...



wat the heck was that?! >< how could guys change attitude sooo quickly?! he makes me confused =(


feedbacks are greatly appreciated =)

[angelcadex]

Hmm...my first time asking a question here, but anyway,
so my boyfriend put me in an awkward position last night.
Or at least I think it was awkward.
We were talking and it somehow got to him asking
"How long was your longest relationship?"
"How did your exes treat you?"
Stuff like that.
To me I think exes should almost never be mentioned.
And then he asked me to compare him to them.
I was like...wtf...
I don't really know what that means?
Why would he ask that?

[mojomunkeez]

Hmm...my first time asking a question here, but anyway,
so my boyfriend put me in an awkward position last night.
Or at least I think it was awkward.
We were talking and it somehow got to him asking
"How long was your longest relationship?"
"How did your exes treat you?"
Stuff like that.
To me I think exes should almost never be mentioned.
And then he asked me to compare him to them.
I was like...wtf...
I don't really know what that means?
Why would he ask that?

He wants to know how he stacks up, like how good of a job he's doing. Naturally, he wants to be the best you've ever had, and he's looking for affirmation of it. Don't freak out too much, tell him the truth. If he isn't as good as some of your exes from the past, that will motivate him to try harder, if he really is the best you've ever had, then he'll feel really special and happy.
Basically, he just wants to know whether or not he's doing a good job as being a boyfriend or not.