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#3251 User is offline   moonk379 

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Posted 04 September 2007 - 01:04 AM

QUOTE(XxSwt Lilo LuverxX @ Sep 4 2007, 01:34 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
how would you like a girl you dont know to approach you and start a conversation?
what would leave a good first impression?

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Posted 04 September 2007 - 01:15 AM

If a guy ain't sure about whether he definitely likes a girl or not, and they do date. How long before he realises whether he actually has feelings for the girl or not? estimate?
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Posted 04 September 2007 - 09:04 AM

what would catch a guy's attention (if i dont know him at all)
WITHOUT wearing showy clothes... >_< LOL
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Posted 04 September 2007 - 09:07 AM

QUOTE(rainbow_nonstop @ Sep 4 2007, 12:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
what would catch a guy's attention (if i dont know him at all)
WITHOUT wearing showy clothes... >_< LOL

for me, stylish clothes. Showy clothes... sends off the sluuut vibe.
nice hair, nice smile. If we make eye contact and you smile that will definitely catch my attention.
and a nice butt ;D

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If a guy ain't sure about whether he definitely likes a girl or not, and they do date. How long before he realises whether he actually has feelings for the girl or not? estimate?

If I am dating you, then I'd know within one date usually. However, i'll give it a range of a few days, and a week max. I mean if it takes a week of dating to figure out you like someone, then the dates must be boring.
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how would you like a girl you dont know to approach you and start a conversation?
what would leave a good first impression?

=]

OMG if that's you in your avatar, you can approach me in ANY WAY YOU WANT!!
I'll even give you my wallet!!

Or you could just come and say hi, ask a question, where something is, if I know such and such, maybe say I look familiar like blah blah and blah, and then ask me if I know who that is. Questions is the key. What leaves a good impression? Smile. If you've got a good smile, flaunt it!!
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Would you pick (to date) a cute/pretty girl
or a hot/sexy one if they both showed interest in you?

cute/pretty. Hot/sexy usually the party type, and I'm really not a party type, so we wouldn't be compatible.
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#3255 User is offline   moonk379 

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Posted 04 September 2007 - 12:39 PM

QUOTE(rainbow_nonstop @ Sep 4 2007, 10:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
what would catch a guy's attention (if i dont know him at all)
WITHOUT wearing showy clothes... >_< LOL


i say a good perfume becuz when a girl passes me and she smells bomb as hell then she auto catch my attention.
....cuz the music left wit you.
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Posted 04 September 2007 - 01:04 PM

ok, i'm not sure if this is spelled right or not...lol...i looked it up in the dictionary also. b/w

how do guys feel about feisty girls? aggressive girls? if that makes sense?
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Posted 04 September 2007 - 01:32 PM

QUOTE(my_love_shy @ Sep 4 2007, 04:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ok, i'm not sure if this is spelled right or not...lol...i looked it up in the dictionary also. b/w

how do guys feel about feisty girls? aggressive girls? if that makes sense?

you mean like in bed?
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Posted 04 September 2007 - 01:52 PM

QUOTE(my_love_shy @ Sep 4 2007, 04:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ok, i'm not sure if this is spelled right or not...lol...i looked it up in the dictionary also. b/w

how do guys feel about feisty girls? aggressive girls? if that makes sense?


aggressive in bed.. i dont mind wink.gif

feisty in general.. like random pinching, punching, slapping.. it'll really depend i suppose. depending on their looks (dont mean to sound rude but obviously guys wouldnt like a fat, ugly chick doing all that) and depending on how they do it (it would annoy me if they do it in a way that makes me think they are desperate for attention).
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Posted 04 September 2007 - 02:31 PM

what are some examples that a guy can get jealous about? o_o;
my boyfriend's jealous about something, but he won't tell me. >_> i know it has to do with me...
i know you can't read minds, but what are some possibilities?
thank you fellas(: <3

sorry if it's too general. >_<
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Posted 04 September 2007 - 02:38 PM

QUOTE(SweetnSour012 @ Sep 3 2007, 05:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Are all guys like wolves (늑대)? Sorry if this sounds like a stupid/immature question.. I just have bad experience with guys & they're so touchy. Do most guys touch girls inappropriately on dates? Is this a common thing? Are there any decent guys out there who actually just want to hang out w/ a girl and get to know them without trying to feel up on them? Recently I went on a date w/ a guy I met randomly and he was just a jerk. I thought he was nice, but I guess I was wrong to judge by looks. Now, I'm afraid all guys are perverted creeps. Maybe I'm just paranoid b/c I haven't dated much & I don't know if all guys are like this and I don't know what to expect. so, any guys have anything to say about this?
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Posted 04 September 2007 - 02:44 PM

QUOTE(kimseo @ Sep 4 2007, 05:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
what are some examples that a guy can get jealous about? o_o;
my boyfriend's jealous about something, but he won't tell me. >_> i know it has to do with me...
i know you can't read minds, but what are some possibilities?
thank you fellas(: <3

sorry if it's too general. >_<


hmm... some of it could be if you are becoming close friend with another guy, if you are touchy or flirty with other guys, or if you always compliment other guys but not him. there are also guys who really dont like their girl going to clubs and/or parties too much. thats about all i can think of on top of my head
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Posted 04 September 2007 - 03:15 PM

QUOTE(ONe.ShoT @ Sep 4 2007, 05:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hmm... some of it could be if you are becoming close friend with another guy, if you are touchy or flirty with other guys, or if you always compliment other guys but not him. there are also guys who really dont like their girl going to clubs and/or parties too much. thats about all i can think of on top of my head

so basically it usually deals with other guys? haha o_o;;;;;
thanks ~ ^^ <3
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Posted 04 September 2007 - 03:24 PM

ohh icic thanks^^
haha <3


what do you like better? loud talkative girls with a group of friends surrounding her OR quiet shy girls walking alone in a school hallway?
im never so sure of what guys think of when they see us.... 0_o lol
im usually walking in groups or alone. idk guys tend to be around loud girls a lot... ? lol
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Posted 04 September 2007 - 03:32 PM

QUOTE(rainbow_nonstop @ Sep 4 2007, 06:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ohh icic thanks^^
haha <3
what do you like better? loud talkative girls with a group of friends surrounding her OR quiet shy girls walking alone in a school hallway?
im never so sure of what guys think of when they see us.... 0_o lol
im usually walking in groups or alone. idk guys tend to be around loud girls a lot... ? lol


Personal taste... I like girls that giggle a lot and walk in groups XD
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Posted 04 September 2007 - 03:42 PM

QUOTE(DaAzNkIgGa627 @ Sep 4 2007, 07:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Personal taste... I like girls that giggle a lot and walk in groups XD


lol icic so it sorta depends on what type of guy he is?
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Posted 04 September 2007 - 04:16 PM

QUOTE(XxSwt Lilo LuverxX @ Sep 4 2007, 01:34 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
how would you like a girl you dont know to approach you and start a conversation?
what would leave a good first impression?

=]

busting out a super cheesy pick up line <3
shows that you have a sense of humor
and that youre really outgoing

QUOTE(rainbow_nonstop @ Sep 4 2007, 10:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
what would catch a guy's attention (if i dont know him at all)
WITHOUT wearing showy clothes... >_< LOL

if you punch him in the face
no just kidding
start up a conversation
accidently "bump" into him
guys dont notice girls unless
theyre hot, super provocative/scandalous clothing, oh so cute, oorrr
theyre outgoing and put themselves out there
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Posted 04 September 2007 - 05:24 PM

I've posted not too long ago about a guy I've sold my books to. I thought he seemed "interested" in talking to me (however, I answered with short answers due to my shyness)... but I was maybe really off the track.

I saw him today again... and he didn't seem to recognize me. And I didn't dare to say "hi" to him since he was with his friends and in fear that him and his friends would go o_O, thinking I'm some really random girl. (And plus, I'm starting to forget how he looks like *headdesk*... so I'm afraid say hi to the wrong guy).

So my question is... was my feeling way off track? Has he simply forgotten about me?
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Posted 04 September 2007 - 06:07 PM

QUOTE(kimseo @ Sep 4 2007, 06:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
so basically it usually deals with other guys? haha o_o;;;;;
thanks ~ ^^ <3

USUALLY. there may be exceptions so keep that in mind. but usually guys could care less about other things, its hard for guys to be jealous about things other than their girl having something to do with another guy.

QUOTE(rainbow_nonstop @ Sep 4 2007, 06:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ohh icic thanks^^
haha <3
what do you like better? loud talkative girls with a group of friends surrounding her OR quiet shy girls walking alone in a school hallway?
im never so sure of what guys think of when they see us.... 0_o lol
im usually walking in groups or alone. idk guys tend to be around loud girls a lot... ? lol

i like both actually as long as we click or there's some sort of mutual understanding. i think shy girls are very cute and more towards the innocent side than the loud, talkative girls (just my opinion) and if they do show the willingness to be friends with me, i'd gladly have the girl as a good friend.
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Posted 04 September 2007 - 06:20 PM

QUOTE(rainbow_nonstop @ Sep 4 2007, 06:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
lol icic so it sorta depends on what type of guy he is?


Yeah... like some guys like "fresh meat" and shyer girls.... some guys like girls who are the life of the party.

Although I will say this, some guys dislike their crush's/girlfriend's friends.... so being a shy girl who walks alone might work for you, or being the life of the party might work against you, but just be yourself ^.^


QUOTE(lily-chan @ Sep 4 2007, 08:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I've posted not too long ago about a guy I've sold my books to. I thought he seemed "interested" in talking to me (however, I answered with short answers due to my shyness)... but I was maybe really off the track.

I saw him today again... and he didn't seem to recognize me. And I didn't dare to say "hi" to him since he was with his friends and in fear that him and his friends would go o_O, thinking I'm some really random girl. (And plus, I'm starting to forget how he looks like *headdesk*... so I'm afraid say hi to the wrong guy).

So my question is... was my feeling way off track? Has he simply forgotten about me?


Hmmm... well you never know if a guy is fishing or if he's just not interested.... My guess is that he can't forget you that quickly (I'm assuming this first meeting took place a few months ago at latest), but he might just not have seen you at that time or just didn't feel like saying "hi".... But just say hi, chances are he'll be friendly and remember (and if he doesn't just politely remind him... no big deal right?) and start a little conversation... see how it goes and then go from there ^.^

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Posted 04 September 2007 - 06:45 PM

QUOTE(PEANUTBUTTERCUP @ Sep 3 2007, 11:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Would you pick (to date) a cute/pretty girl
or a hot/sexy one if they both showed interest in you?


cute/pretty for the nerds. hot/sexy for the jocks. i'm a nerd.

QUOTE(jaejae @ Sep 4 2007, 01:30 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
If you guys had a feeling that the girl you liked, liked someone else. Are you most likely to
a ) Try and win her over by showing more hints.
b ) Get over her.
c ) Continue to secretly like her.

=)


likely choice a but that's been failing for a while.


QUOTE(XxSwt Lilo LuverxX @ Sep 4 2007, 03:34 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
how would you like a girl you dont know to approach you and start a conversation?
what would leave a good first impression?

=]


find out what the guy is good at and ask him a couple of questions on it. however if that's you in the avatar then i think you'll be fine whatever you say.

QUOTE(devils_ear @ Sep 4 2007, 04:15 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
If a guy ain't sure about whether he definitely likes a girl or not, and they do date. How long before he realises whether he actually has feelings for the girl or not? estimate?


an hour of deep conversation's enough. that may be just 1 date or could also include a some additional phone calls.


QUOTE(my_love_shy @ Sep 4 2007, 04:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ok, i'm not sure if this is spelled right or not...lol...i looked it up in the dictionary also. b/w

how do guys feel about feisty girls? aggressive girls? if that makes sense?


feisty/aggressive's cute if that's not what the girl's always like, including in bed.
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