[DarkWaltz]

two questions!


1) what is a guy's definition of a 'dull' girl?

2) if a guy likes a girl, what would be some possible reasons why he doesn't ask her out? for example, would a reason be that he's in college and working so is too busy to have a girlfriend?


thank you

1) For me, a dull girl is someone who doesn't speak nor smile/laugh a lot, and can be pretty boring in the long run because her sense of humor doesn't match with yours. We guys always love girls who tend to laugh at our jokes, else, we won't feel attracted. But then, that doesn't mean you have to force yourself to laugh, lol. When there's chemistry you'll feel naturally inclined to anyway. Oh, and maybe a girl who's not quick-minded enough to catch the jokes or anything else. But, the dictionary would explain better than me.

2) The top reasons would be that either the girl is taken, either he doesn't know if she's taken, or he's afraid of being rejected. Reasons such as "working, too busy", I'd never let that in my way, we can all always manage our time and it'd be stupid to miss an opportunity because we just "felt" we didn't have enough time.

[letsdosomethingcrazy]

guys r single minded. we focus on one thing and put near all effort into that. therefore it is hard to find a guy who multi-tasks as well as woman but some guys may be v.feminine i.e. some guys can.

i however cannot do so. e.g. hate it when people talk to me when i am driving lol.

then i must be a guy....seriously

[EYJAYJAY]

two questions!
1) what is a guy's definition of a 'dull' girl?

2) if a guy likes a girl, what would be some possible reasons why he doesn't ask her out? for example, would a reason be that he's in college and working so is too busy to have a girlfriend?
thank you

1) for me, it's when she doesnt really have a passion for anything whether its socializing, school, art, sports, hobbies. if im chillin with her and she's always so quite and doesnt show any sort of interest, she's dull.

2) there would be waaaay too many reasons. and yes, being in college + working = busy life unless he really slacks in school, so it could be a valid reason. i know ppl who are studying their butt off to get into med school, full time student.. WHILE working 30-40 hours a week. im sure he can still find time but that time probably means 10 minutes a day or something. but that example is a little too extreme.

[JESS.]

Tell me what you guys think about this...

My boyfriend went to watch football with his friends. And before he left I told him to call me whenever he's free. And I specifically told him to call me not when it's almost time for me to sleep. However, he doesn't call me, but he DID text me (but only because I texted him). I understand not calling me when the football game is going on, but what about after the game or half time?

Then this morning, he calls me, and he asks why I feel down. I told him I was disappointed that he didn't even call me last night. Then he gives me excuses (I forgot what the excuses were, but they were lame). And then he even said "Why do I have to call you? Do you have to keep an eye on me on everything?"

This exact same thing happened when he went to watch the duck's game. All I asked is to call... if he said "OK" then I expect him to call. I feel like he should respect what I say, and not talk back at me and make stupid little excuses.

[moonk379]

Tell me what you guys think about this...

My boyfriend went to watch football with his friends. And before he left I told him to call me whenever he's free. And I specifically told him to call me not when it's almost time for me to sleep. However, he doesn't call me, but he DID text me (but only because I texted him). I understand not calling me when the football game is going on, but what about after the game or half time?

Then this morning, he calls me, and he asks why I feel down. I told him I was disappointed that he didn't even call me last night. Then he gives me excuses (I forgot what the excuses were, but they were lame). And then he even said "Why do I have to call you? Do you have to keep an eye on me on everything?"

This exact same thing happened when he went to watch the duck's game. All I asked is to call... if he said "OK" then I expect him to call. I feel like he should respect what I say, and not talk back at me and make stupid little excuses.

i think your overreacting, but thats just me.

[EYJAYJAY]

Tell me what you guys think about this...

My boyfriend went to watch football with his friends. And before he left I told him to call me whenever he's free. And I specifically told him to call me not when it's almost time for me to sleep. However, he doesn't call me, but he DID text me (but only because I texted him). I understand not calling me when the football game is going on, but what about after the game or half time?

Then this morning, he calls me, and he asks why I feel down. I told him I was disappointed that he didn't even call me last night. Then he gives me excuses (I forgot what the excuses were, but they were lame). And then he even said "Why do I have to call you? Do you have to keep an eye on me on everything?"

This exact same thing happened when he went to watch the duck's game. All I asked is to call... if he said "OK" then I expect him to call. I feel like he should respect what I say, and not talk back at me and make stupid little excuses.

i think you are overreacting too. maybe he shouldve called you but he's out there having a good time, give the guy some space u know? im sure him and his friends (if he didnt go alone) talk about all the stuff that's going on in the game when it was half time and after the game, it's not unusual to just chill with friends for a bit before splitting and once he was done with that, you were asleep so he didnt call. at least he called u up in the morning and not later in the day.

[chiluvskk]

This one guy knows that I like him because I told him myself. He seemed happy when I told him. I've noticed that he's been staring at me quite a lot lately. How come he just stares at me and doesn't do anything? He already knows how I feel about him.

can more than one person answer this?
lol i'm kind of in the same situtation too

[sWtB]

if a guy mentions how its neat that you guys have many "under the table" conversations...
what kind of a connection is that?

[Pinkychan]

hii what i ahvent read thins in a while lol i jsut ahev a question

if a guy asks this "heey who is that girl you were with at the library, she so cute"
what is that suppose to mean??
jsut commenting? or intrested?

thaaanks >< ^^

[ChromeHearts]

hii what i ahvent read thins in a while lol i jsut ahev a question

if a guy asks this "heey who is that girl you were with at the library, she so cute"
what is that suppose to mean??
jsut commenting? or intrested?

thaaanks >< ^^

interested

[Elee]

A question:

why does this guy like me so much?! im a freshman, hes a sophomore, and i already told him its not gonna work out. but i think he thinks im playing mind games or something. i told him we could still be best friends and everything. and we still are, but i wanna keep my distance now, because i dont want to hurt him and make him wait for nothing. but today, were not even going out, he told me he might love me. if i hadnt matured and gotten hurt over the summer, i know i would be in love with this kid already. but im not... because i really don't want to get in any kind of relationship right now, because i just want to keep up with my grades and keep making friends ! but what should i say ? does this guy like me because im challenging or something? but i told him i only see him as a friend...

[DarkWaltz]

A question:

why does this guy like me so much?! im a freshman, hes a sophomore, and i already told him its not gonna work out. but i think he thinks im playing mind games or something. i told him we could still be best friends and everything. and we still are, but i wanna keep my distance now, because i dont want to hurt him and make him wait for nothing. but today, were not even going out, he told me he might love me. if i hadnt matured and gotten hurt over the summer, i know i would be in love with this kid already. but im not... because i really don't want to get in any kind of relationship right now, because i just want to keep up with my grades and keep making friends ! but what should i say ? does this guy like me because im challenging or something? but i told him i only see him as a friend...

When a guy loves a girl so much, sometimes he just can't let her go. Also, he might think that persistence is the key to get who he wants, so he might believe that he will get the fruit of his efforts in the long run, no matter what you'll say to him. It could be infatuation. Also, time changes a lot of things. He could probably believe that after a certain duration, you will start falling for him without realizing. Best way is to make it clear one more time, and tell him to expect you'll have to avoid him else it's gonna get worse.

[rainbow_nonstop]

okay heres anotehr question fellas

so in our school band, all freshmans thru seniors are all in one band together. ~ hehe im a band geek XD
okay so theres this sophmore and he plays drums. hes always looking toward my direction and during band camp when i was with my friends, he would look in our direction and keep on talking with his friends. i have a hint that hes intrested... and i know hints when i see them lol.
i personally think hes really cute looking. lmao yes im quite shallow XD
i dont actually know him except that i know his name. hes always with his friends and i am too so its awkward to just walk up to him...
like his friends and him are always choosing seats close to me and its REALLLLLY awkward at times... T^T
srry if this sounds confusing..... lmao

basic question:
is there a way for me to talk to him WITHOUT being obvious that i am intrested in him?
by the way, im REALLLY shy >_<;; T^T

[DaAzNkIgGa627]

okay heres anotehr question fellas

so in our school band, all freshmans thru seniors are all in one band together. ~ hehe im a band geek XD
okay so theres this sophmore and he plays drums. hes always looking toward my direction and during band camp when i was with my friends, he would look in our direction and keep on talking with his friends. i have a hint that hes intrested... and i know hints when i see them lol.
i personally think hes really cute looking. lmao yes im quite shallow XD
i dont actually know him except that i know his name. hes always with his friends and i am too so its awkward to just walk up to him...
like his friends and him are always choosing seats close to me and its REALLLLLY awkward at times... T^T
srry if this sounds confusing..... lmao

basic question:
is there a way for me to talk to him WITHOUT being obvious that i am intrested in him?
by the way, im REALLLY shy >_<;; T^T

Heh... well you could do the thing where you book him and then help him pick up his books, but that works better when you're a guy =P

Anyways... here's a good strategy. (I'm assuming your not drums) Just go up to him and casually hang around in his general area without being around him. As his friends are packing their drums catch him in a time he's alone... just introduce yourself and take that conversation into the hall....

You could just go straight up and talk to him... (which really isn't that hard.... I used to be super shy too... now I'm fairly extroverted and outgoing)

I dunno.. giving the signal that you like him is an important signal!!!!! =P

[sillyvivian_yo89]

arrggg... how come my questions are never answered here?! T.,T


oh well, here's another one, please answer.. i need help... and I sincerely thank you guys a lot



would a taken guy [guy already has a gf] ask another girl he randomly met for her phone number?!

a guy asks for a girl's cell number, does it mean that he's single?!

[Tranque]

If a guy istaken and he asks a girl for her phone number randomnly he is most likely a player.. but i doubt a taken guy would..

[kimseo]

This is for my cousin. XD

My cousin is in 8th grade and she has been going out with her bf for.. a few months. This month's 20th will be their 4 month anniv.
She's one of those.. tries to understand kind. She's nice to everyone, unless she's pissed off. XD
He's the same age as her. He's not like my cousin, but it seems like they do have some things in common..

Anyways, she's getting a feeling that he doesn't like her anymore.
They go to the same church so they only see each other on sundays. But the thing is, her bf completely ignores her when he's with his friends and sees her in a hallway by herself.
She keeps on saying that she understands, it's because his friends are there with him.

But online, he barely gets on to talk to her.
When she comments his myspace, he barely replies back but he always replies other people's comments.
They used to talk on the phone, but now he doesn't even call her.

When she tries to be mushy with him by saying "i love you," he either goes "....... mushy" or just ignores what she said and keeps on going with what he was saying.
He shows almost no feelings toward her.

What should she do?
Is it her or him that's.. having a "problem?"


I'm sorry for the long essay. XD

[Keiyun]

I'm really confused. ._. (I'm a girl if it isn't already obvious ^^)
There's this guy I like... and recently he got my email through another friend. After that, he asked for my number, and of course, I gave it to him. xD;

He talks a lot to me on MSN, but not in real life. He also likes to text me at 10/11pm asking if I'm sleeping. xD;
Then, one day, we were talking about who we liked before. I told him who I liked before, and he told me that he liked me before. I was shocked... and he said he was embarrassed. I understood that, of course, but I told him not to be embarrassed. However, the way he acted even before he told me this made it seem like he still liked me. >_<; Or maybe he's just a flirt... o_o

Everything changed yesterday, though... he texted me twice, but after that, he seems to log off MSN whenever I'm on. When I go off... he goes on (according to my friend).

Ack... I'm sure I didn't say anything to offend him. Any opinions on why he'd suddenly start avoiding me?

[Fropit]

Ok...

So My crush and I were chatting...
It goes like this..

shen:why are you always laughing? =)
crush:nothing..hehe..what are you doing right now?
shen:chatting w/ you
crush:only?
shen: what do you mean only?
crush:you not doing something else?
shen:uhmm..im breathing.., is that what you mean?
crush:hey, uhhmm..not that..hey..i gotta go..bye, take care.



_______________HE LOGGED OFF_______________


Ok, the Q is:
What did he mean by only?
Why didn't he answer my question?
(the "is that what you mean?")

[EYJAYJAY]

arrggg... how come my questions are never answered here?! T.,T
oh well, here's another one, please answer.. i need help... and I sincerely thank you guys a lot
would a taken guy [guy already has a gf] ask another girl he randomly met for her phone number?!

a guy asks for a girl's cell number, does it mean that he's single?!

just cuz a guy asks for a girl's number doesnt mean he's single nor does it strictly mean he has the intention of dating you. it may be due to other reasons like school work, a friend of his who wants your number..

This is for my cousin. XD

My cousin is in 8th grade and she has been going out with her bf for.. a few months. This month's 20th will be their 4 month anniv.
She's one of those.. tries to understand kind. She's nice to everyone, unless she's pissed off. XD
He's the same age as her. He's not like my cousin, but it seems like they do have some things in common..

Anyways, she's getting a feeling that he doesn't like her anymore.
They go to the same church so they only see each other on sundays. But the thing is, her bf completely ignores her when he's with his friends and sees her in a hallway by herself.
She keeps on saying that she understands, it's because his friends are there with him.

But online, he barely gets on to talk to her.
When she comments his myspace, he barely replies back but he always replies other people's comments.
They used to talk on the phone, but now he doesn't even call her.

When she tries to be mushy with him by saying "i love you," he either goes "....... mushy" or just ignores what she said and keeps on going with what he was saying.
He shows almost no feelings toward her.

What should she do?
Is it her or him that's.. having a "problem?"
I'm sorry for the long essay. XD

the dude is most likely losing interest. tell your cousin to be careful of a breakup.. i personally see it coming.

I'm really confused. ._. (I'm a girl if it isn't already obvious ^^)
There's this guy I like... and recently he got my email through another friend. After that, he asked for my number, and of course, I gave it to him. xD;

He talks a lot to me on MSN, but not in real life. He also likes to text me at 10/11pm asking if I'm sleeping. xD;
Then, one day, we were talking about who we liked before. I told him who I liked before, and he told me that he liked me before. I was shocked... and he said he was embarrassed. I understood that, of course, but I told him not to be embarrassed. However, the way he acted even before he told me this made it seem like he still liked me. >_<; Or maybe he's just a flirt... o_o

Everything changed yesterday, though... he texted me twice, but after that, he seems to log off MSN whenever I'm on. When I go off... he goes on (according to my friend).

Ack... I'm sure I didn't say anything to offend him. Any opinions on why he'd suddenly start avoiding me?

seems to me like he still likes you and he's really shy about it especially after you told you he liked you. another possibility, which i hope not, is him playing a hard to get game but i hope that isnt the case, it's just stupid.

Ok...

So My crush and I were chatting...
It goes like this..

shen:why are you always laughing? =)
crush:nothing..hehe..what are you doing right now?
shen:chatting w/ you
crush:only?
shen: what do you mean only?
crush:you not doing something else?
shen:uhmm..im breathing.., is that what you mean?
crush:hey, uhhmm..not that..hey..i gotta go..bye, take care.
_______________HE LOGGED OFF_______________
Ok, the Q is:
What did he mean by only?
Why didn't he answer my question?
(the "is that what you mean?")

absolutely no idea. u gotta wait and find out yourself on this one sorry.