[natt2828]

So... um

I've liked this boy for a year now
When we talked on msn, i would be the one who tried to make the effort and stuff
(obviously right? because i like him) but he didnt talk much at all.
A week before school started, i msged him online asking how he was doing and etc
and surprisingly, he opened up. He started asking me questions about school
and talked to me a lot more. so i decided to ask him out on a date.
okay this is our convo (the important part)

me: I'm just wondering if ur busy this friday?
him: yeah, why do u ask?
me: because i want to go see the movies with you.
him: oh, I'll be busy most of this week, maybe when school start?
me: okay (: you owe me to a movie!
him: okay
me: are you joking me?
him: are you joking? lol
me: LOL of course not
him: then i'm not joking lol

So all that came from a shy quiet guy ... really laid back kind of person.
The school just started, and i havent seen him at all
(the school not that big but we have A LOT of students)
and plus i dont have any classes with him >.<
Then on friday, i saw him walking with his bud down the hall.
He saw me but he looked away. (i dont know the reason behind that)
I switched my courses and found out later that i have psych with him.
i'm so nervous because i dont know what to do.
I thought he was a bit interested.
Now i dont know how to bring up the date thing that we were suppose to have. =S
He's too shy omfg T____T

any ideas what i should do tomorrow when i see him ? =(

[DarkWaltz]

I have a crush on a guy at my school, so when I found his msn I added him. We talked for a while and he asked me if I could put the webcam on So I did and then he suddenly asked me where my name came from. I told him it was Persian and a couple of seconds later he asked me if it meant princess in Persian. I was quite surprised. He even told me he liked my name. When I asked him how he knew, he told me he had looked it up, because he supposedly knew Persian names had a lot of definitions. Why the hell would a guy google the definition of your name? I don't understand , some friends told me he might be interested, but I'm not sure. And he's very nice to me. So what do you guys think?

I hope it's not too silly to ask.

He could be interested since he put some effort in trying to impress you with some knowledge, or trying to show you that he gave a bit of effort as a hint. Hang out with him and try to find out if he has any more hints to be sure before.

So... um

I've liked this boy for a year now
When we talked on msn, i would be the one who tried to make the effort and stuff
(obviously right? because i like him) but he didnt talk much at all.
A week before school started, i msged him online asking how he was doing and etc
and surprisingly, he opened up. He started asking me questions about school
and talked to me a lot more. so i decided to ask him out on a date.
okay this is our convo (the important part)

me: I'm just wondering if ur busy this friday?
him: yeah, why do u ask?
me: because i want to go see the movies with you.
him: oh, I'll be busy most of this week, maybe when school start?
me: okay (: you owe me to a movie!
him: okay
me: are you joking me?
him: are you joking? lol
me: LOL of course not
him: then i'm not joking lol

So all that came from a shy quiet guy ... really laid back kind of person.
The school just started, and i havent seen him at all
(the school not that big but we have A LOT of students)
and plus i dont have any classes with him >.<
Then on friday, i saw him walking with his bud down the hall.
He saw me but he looked away. (i dont know the reason behind that)
I switched my courses and found out later that i have psych with him.
i'm so nervous because i dont know what to do.
I thought he was a bit interested.
Now i dont know how to bring up the date thing that we were suppose to have. =S
He's too shy omfg T____T

any ideas what i should do tomorrow when i see him ? =(

You did most of the job already. If you see him, strike a casual conversation as if nothing happened (online), and wait a few days to see if he's going to bring the movie topic up. He might be shy, but that'd be pretty dumb and cowardly to not be able to make a move when you already gave him a solid green light. Play it cool, don't try to chase too much at the beginning. If after a few days he didn't bring that up, remind him casually "btw, don't you owe me something? i don't remember what it was but i know that you owed it to me..." That being said, if he says he doesn't remember or doesn't know, forget the guy, that already means he's not interested. If he remembers, it's good, but you still had to push him a bit, so still, don't put your hopes too high on it. Good luck with that!

[asianami]

okie dooks yoo``
! ! AMi hereee ! ! : D

well . . . i met this guy thru one of my freinds
&we online talk online tho. i've known him for about..
a yr? yeah something around that&we've became really good freinds n__n;
well anywho, a few days ago (since he moved out of the country to uk),
he asked me to invite "AWESOME PPL" in our convo
so i invited my bff in it. it was nice&they became friends too.
now, he hardly talks to me&only if my bff signs off.
and she says that in her convos with him,
he always say he loves me lotsa times
&also he talks to her, even if im online too he ignores me o__o;
in our (he&me) convos before he met my bff we'd say ilu~ too&YOURE AWESOME
but imo, we were just joking around.
&nowadays whenever he ims, he stops talking to me just randomly.
hmm, then a few days ago when i put
"ZOMG ME&*HiM (my crush) EVA!!11!!1!!!!!!! <33 XDDDD;;" in
my display message, he imed me "WHO'S HIM?!"
i was lyke im not telling you XP (i was too happi that day... forgive me u_u)
and then he stopped talking.. ? again .. ?
i thought he was just playing around ..
ehh im so lost ..
what is UP with this dude?! srsly o___o ''
awesomeness ppl, please fill in your opinions about what's up with
this guy's behavior ~~ thankies ! ! ! :3 :3

[stonerboi27]

Erm... If there's this girl who gets your number (assuming you give it willingly) and she texts you once a day with sweet messages and greets you "good morning" or "good night" or something... But you don't really talk or see each other often. You're friends for about 7 years, though.

What would you think? How'd you feel? Would it make her seem easy or cheap because she made the first move and asked for your number first? :x

If you reply sometimes (with sweet messages too), what would that mean? :x

hmm im actually kinda in this situation. my friends ex keeps IMing me and calling me sweetie and whatnot... and always trying to get me to see her... and in my case its kinda weirding me out. of course, being me, i play along but in no case do i want to go out with her.

but if it was someone i liked, i'd def enjoy answering back. point is, you cant tell much from just sending IMs or text messeges. best way to find out is to ask him to hang out with you or invite him somewhere. if hes interested in you he'l def be there.

and no, i wouldnt think you're cheap or easy.. esp if i had known u for 7 years. meet him in person.. easiest way to find out. well good luck =)

[ling_ling]

this thread is so usefulL!
ok i got a question....why is it in clubs tht ugly guys always come upto you like rly minging weird ones and ask to dance but the goodlookin cuter ones never ask you to dance and wait for you to ask them [is it cos ther more shy and feel they hv more to loose??]

AND why cant guys dance right in clubs when ther with friends seriously but once they'e behind a girl ther all "dryhumping"

[stonerboi27]

what are the signs of a guy liking a girl =/?

he'll ask for contact info(number, aim, etc), smile alot around you, and most importantly invite you to places or set up events for you guys to meet up. for me i usually dont like one on one dates with someone i just met, so i invite them to hang out with my friends, parties, or group dates. but yea, any form of invitation.

[bongrayx]

Hey guys, please answer this one. would appreciate it if multiple guys answer this.

1) Ok, so I've been hanging out with this guy a couple times now (with other friends as in a group). the last time we hung out, we had a lot of 1 on 1 time. we talked and danced together, having a good time. He wanted to take a pic with me so we took the pic. I told him I had a fun time and he said he did too and said "we should do this again." He always has this lil smirk on his face and he can never look at me in the eyes. does he like me or is he a playa?

2) If a girl gives out her number to a guy and the guy didn't ask for it, does it make the girl seem easy/cheap??

[stonerboi27]

this thread is so usefulL!
ok i got a question....why is it in clubs tht ugly guys always come upto you like rly minging weird ones and ask to dance but the goodlookin cuter ones never ask you to dance and wait for you to ask them [is it cos ther more shy and feel they hv more to loose??]

AND why cant guys dance right in clubs when ther with friends seriously but once they'e behind a girl ther all "dryhumping"

lol its cuz the ugly guys see their better looking friends hook up or smooth talk to girls, so they give it a try.. esp when youre all drunk... cuz u just dont give a sh!t lol same thing with the the dryhumping... youre simply drunk and horny. you also have to have stories about who u dance with/got numbers from/had sex with/etc with your boys the next morning.. its quite a subject lol thats basically all there is to it.

[yanshimkim]

hmm im actually kinda in this situation. my friends ex keeps IMing me and calling me sweetie and whatnot... and always trying to get me to see her... and in my case its kinda weirding me out. of course, being me, i play along but in no case do i want to go out with her.

but if it was someone i liked, i'd def enjoy answering back. point is, you cant tell much from just sending IMs or text messeges. best way to find out is to ask him to hang out with you or invite him somewhere. if hes interested in you he'l def be there.

and no, i wouldnt think you're cheap or easy.. esp if i had known u for 7 years. meet him in person.. easiest way to find out. well good luck =)

Whoa, she calls you "sweetie"? o_O Ehehe. I've never done that before. :x That's...ehh. o_O And I don't really get him to see me... I do hang out where his classes are and pretend to "bump into" him. Haha. But that's all. :)

I tried inviting him to lunch with some of our friends from high school (a group lunch, so it wouldn't be awkward) and he said he'd love to, but he had a class (which was true :x). Should I invite him somewhere again? ._. I don't want him to think I'm easy by doing the asking out here... >_<;; But I'm tired of waiting for him to make the first move because it has been 7 years already... -.-

It would've been easier if I knew where he hangs out, but the problem is that he never hangs out anywhere... He studies in his car or in the library during his free time, he only replies to my messages when he's not busy studying for an exam, and he goes straight home after his classes (after picking his brothers up from their school). Gah. He's totally devoted to studying. :( It isn't a bad thing in itself, but it makes it harder for me to approach him because I don't want to disturb him while he's studying.. -.-;;

And yes, I'm totally sure he studies that much. I used to follow him around so I know his schedule. ._.;; But I don't think he ever found out. And I stopped doing that ever since we started talking. ^^;; I haven't seen him in 2 weeks, though. We both have exams... -.-;; But he just sent me a text message yesterday morning. :)

[perzbenz]

this thread is so usefulL!ok i got a question....why is it in clubs tht ugly guys always come upto you like rly minging weird ones and ask to dance but the goodlookin cuter ones never ask you to dance and wait for you to ask them [is it cos ther more shy and feel they hv more to loose??]AND why cant guys dance right in clubs when ther with friends seriously but once they'e behind a girl ther all "dryhumping"

One word. Alcohol! xD Ugly guys probably are drinking more and cant handle themselves yet on otherhand the more attractive handle themselves better. And its always more of a turn on when the girl approches first. & IMO freaking aka 'dryhumping' is retarded.

I have a crush on a guy at my school, so when I found his msn I added him. We talked for a while and he asked me if I could put the webcam on So I did and then he suddenly asked me where my name came from. I told him it was Persian and a couple of seconds later he asked me if it meant princess in Persian. I was quite surprised. He even told me he liked my name. When I asked him how he knew, he told me he had looked it up, because he supposedly knew Persian names had a lot of definitions. Why the hell would a guy google the definition of your name? I don't understand , some friends told me he might be interested, but I'm not sure. And he's very nice to me. So what do you guys think?I hope it's not too silly to ask.

I think hes interested in you since he was curious enough to look up what your name means. Ask him out to goto lunch or get some icecream. I would put my money that he is interested in you

[soompiaddict]

fellas in soompi....!!! Can u please help me interpret this text...!!

i like this guy who work together with me for about ONE month... we have some really great chemistry from the begining... but now he has to go bak to skool out of state... so to make long story short... i texted him good bye.. and take kare and drive safe and that kind of stuff.. nothing much more... he text me back like this " ...i'm so happy we got to work together...i hope i will run into you later this year"...

Does this mean he has a crush on me? Does that mean when hewould see me when he's back? wat do u think..? if you said something like that.. wat u really means?

i really hope to see him again.. ^.^

thanksssssssssssssss a bunch....

[perzbenz]

fellas in soompi....!!! Can u please help me interpret this text...!!i like this guy who work together with me for about ONE month... we have some really great chemistry from the begining... but now he has to go bak to skool out of state... so to make long story short... i texted him good bye.. and take kare and drive safe and that kind of stuff.. nothing much more... he text me back like this " ...i'm so happy we got to work together...i hope i will run into you later this year"... Does this mean he has a crush on me? Does that mean when hewould see me when he's back? wat do u think..? if you said something like that.. wat u really means?i really hope to see him again.. ^.^thanksssssssssssssss a bunch....

I think hes interested from saying ill see you later this year. HMmm. He could just be indicating that he wants to stay friends with you. Cant really determine from just that, sorry. But i would say hes interested in you.

Alright it seems my curiosity questions have been answered. Most of them.One I gotta ask.... about my ex. which I never figured out.Why he says we're together when he left the state for a girl, never heard from him for 2 months, tried to move on but then he returns expecting me to welcome him back with open arms. When he hurt me emotionally for leaving. He says he left to become a man. So him becoming a man and he cheated with another girl he stayed with still considers us together? That I don't get.

Once a cheater. Always a cheater. People always say they change; they don't.

okie dooks yoo`` ! ! AMi hereee ! ! : D well . . . i met this guy thru one of my freinds &we online talk online tho. i've known him for about..a yr? yeah something around that&we've became really good freinds n__n;well anywho, a few days ago (since he moved out of the country to uk),he asked me to invite "AWESOME PPL" in our convo so i invited my bff in it. it was nice&they became friends too.now, he hardly talks to me&only if my bff signs off. and she says that in her convos with him, he always say he loves me lotsa times&also he talks to her, even if im online too he ignores me o__o;in our (he&me) convos before he met my bff we'd say ilu~ too&YOURE AWESOMEbut imo, we were just joking around. &nowadays whenever he ims, he stops talking to me just randomly.hmm, then a few days ago when i put "ZOMG ME&*HiM (my crush) EVA!!11!!1!!!!!!! <33 XDDDD;;" in my display message, he imed me "WHO'S HIM?!" i was lyke im not telling you XP (i was too happi that day... forgive me u_u) and then he stopped talking.. ? again .. ? i thought he was just playing around .. ehh im so lost .. what is UP with this dude?! srsly o___o '' awesomeness ppl, please fill in your opinions about what's up with this guy's behavior ~~ thankies ! ! ! :3 :3

Ask him out. Maybe he stops talking because hes playing games or doing something else? I find myself in conversations and I just stop talking for awhile because im doing something else. Then I come back to the conversation and the other people is like WTF!!! WHERED YOU GOOOO YOU ASS!!! ahha

[y_yuen12]

he'll ask for contact info(number, aim, etc), smile alot around you, and most importantly invite you to places or set up events for you guys to meet up. for me i usually dont like one on one dates with someone i just met, so i invite them to hang out with my friends, parties, or group dates. but yea, any form of invitation.

would a guy do these things just because he wants to be your friend and nothing more?

also..
if a guy likes a girl and the girl asks him to hang out one day, he says he'll see and let her know but then he cant make it.. would he definitely try and arrange another day?

[moonk379]

fellas in soompi....!!! Can u please help me interpret this text...!!i like this guy who work together with me for about ONE month... we have some really great chemistry from the begining... but now he has to go bak to skool out of state... so to make long story short... i texted him good bye.. and take kare and drive safe and that kind of stuff.. nothing much more... he text me back like this " ...i'm so happy we got to work together...i hope i will run into you later this year"... Does this mean he has a crush on me? Does that mean when hewould see me when he's back? wat do u think..? if you said something like that.. wat u really means?i really hope to see him again.. ^.^thanksssssssssssssss a bunch....

sounds like he likes you.. unless hes a player then its more likely its been used more than once

would a guy do these things just because he wants to be your friend and nothing more? also..if a guy likes a girl and the girl asks him to hang out one day, he says he'll see and let her know but then he cant make it.. would he definitely try and arrange another day?

for first question. most likely not. guys dont invite girls they have no attraction to. and for second, if he likes her then defintely would try to arrange for another day.

[Pinkychan]

hiiii any more oppinions???>< thanks for th previous xD

[ling_ling]

LOL dry humping is alrite....its a easy way to dance with a guy =P

OMG if a guy dances with you allll nite but doesnt make the first move AGAIN? like why do you expect the girl to make the first mve??? *sigh* how do guys find girls who make the first move attractive? how would they want to be approached???

[EYJAYJAY]

LOL dry humping is alrite....its a easy way to dance with a guy =P

OMG if a guy dances with you allll nite but doesnt make the first move AGAIN? like why do you expect the girl to make the first mve??? *sigh* how do guys find girls who make the first move attractive? how would they want to be approached???

can u reword your question.....?

[perzbenz]

LOL dry humping is alrite....its a easy way to dance with a guy =P

OMG if a guy dances with you allll nite but doesnt make the first move AGAIN? like why do you expect the girl to make the first mve??? *sigh* how do guys find girls who make the first move attractive? how would they want to be approached???

I dont have an answer to the first question...but the rest of it. Social standards say that guys should make the first move. Some guys just want the girl to do it. They don't expect it but they want it. Also some guys may not necessarily expect it, but prefer it so they don't have to guess when to make the first move and look like a moron if they make a move too soon. Girls making the first move is a sign of aggression which translates into interest for the guy.

[ling_ling]

can u reword your question.....?

Lol sorry
i was jus wondering:
1) Why when a guy dances with you all night, like rly dancing feeling up and everything dancing, but doesnt make a move
2) why do guys prefer a girl to make the first move
3) how does a guy want to be approached???

LOL sorry i jus type rly fast and ramble so it comes out rly badly =P aha

[maharu.]

I just wondered about this.

so i know this guy for a while. we fight occasionally and we insult each other for fun and most of the time when he sees me, he yells out to say hi*well calls my nickname*
and im like okay what??
He also comments on every small thing I do, like once..I was eating two sandwiches and hes like "you eat too much" and im like "no i do not" while eating.
And he insults me on other things also. It's like a brother sister bickering.

But the thing is, when i say hi to him normally when i see him, hes all like "what??" or his guy friends stare at me and almost laughed at me once. I'm like wth is up with that?

can anyone tell me...why he acts that way when i say hi to him, while hes usually the one saying hi? And the guys laughing at me...i don't get it