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#3401 User is offline   onesh0t 

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Posted 13 September 2007 - 01:40 PM

QUOTE(Classy Beaut @ Sep 12 2007, 10:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
READ THIS PLEASE

So I've seen this guy once in a while for the last two years in school. There were no particular feelings but for some strange reason I've always been curious about him. This year though, it's totally different. He's in one of my classes and on the first day of school when he walked into the room I was feelin this strange vibe. I felt this strong attraction. I can feel him lookin at me once in a while in class, his head is towards my direction at times and I could see that at the corner of my eye. I'm just like "Is this guy lookin at me?" because I wanna look at him but I'm afraid I'm going to get caught so I just sit still lookin straight. However today I looked at him and our eyes met for a second which seemed like a real long minute. It was the longest second of my life. I don't know...I'm just feeling this really really strange vibe from him right now but the thing is I don't even know him and I never talked to him. I don't even think he knows how my voice sounds like honestly. I think I'm just makin a huge deal out of something that isn't even there. My head is tellin me I'm overthinking things but my feelings are totally different. Have you experienced this? What should I do? How do I know if he's interested?


give him a wink next time! That will definitely give him a big hint! =D
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#3402 User is offline   inexplicableromance 

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Posted 13 September 2007 - 01:49 PM

QUOTE(ONe.ShoT @ Sep 13 2007, 02:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
um... good? huh.gif


LOL, I know, right? My bad. Stupid question.

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#3403 User is offline   ur AD0RkABLE 

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Posted 13 September 2007 - 03:40 PM

will sooper dooper atheltic guys get with a girl who isn`t ? do guys care about a girl`s looks/? how about the way she dresses?
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#3404 User is offline   rawrjensherex3 

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Posted 13 September 2007 - 05:19 PM


i don't understand guys sometimes.
have you guys ever done this to a girl?

me and this guy have been talking like ALOT everyday. and like on the phone for a few hours before we go to sleep.
and he would im me everytime i sign on to aim.
we even went to the movies with a coupled friend of ours.
and he started to hold my hand. -_-;;

but one day...
he just stopped talking to me.
if i do im him, the conversation goes for like 3 minutes and ends in the middle of no where.

is it just me thats not understanding? or am i supposed to be understanding to this situation..

if you guys did do this. what would be your reason of this.

btw, i don't like him anymore. but it just still gets on my nerve cause we were really good friends too.

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#3405 User is offline   EYJAYJAY 

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Posted 13 September 2007 - 05:31 PM

QUOTE(inexplicableromance @ Sep 13 2007, 04:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

LOL, I know, right? My bad. Stupid question.

haha its aite. biggrin.gif

QUOTE(ur AD0RkABLE @ Sep 13 2007, 06:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
will sooper dooper atheltic guys get with a girl who isn`t ? do guys care about a girl`s looks/? how about the way she dresses?

well.. your question is also sooper dooper vague. looks vary to a certain degree and so does the style of clothing. an athletic guy may also get with a girl who isnt and may not.

QUOTE(rawrjensherex3 @ Sep 13 2007, 08:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

i don't understand guys sometimes.
have you guys ever done this to a girl?

me and this guy have been talking like ALOT everyday. and like on the phone for a few hours before we go to sleep.
and he would im me everytime i sign on to aim.
we even went to the movies with a coupled friend of ours.
and he started to hold my hand. sleep.gif;;

but one day...
he just stopped talking to me.
if i do im him, the conversation goes for like 3 minutes and ends in the middle of no where.

is it just me thats not understanding? or am i supposed to be understanding to this situation..

if you guys did do this. what would be your reason of this.

the reason could be anything. whether there were some bad rumors bout u that he found out, or he found a diff girl... etc. but keep in mind those are just really negative possibilities, it might not be that bad. he may just be having stomach problems and constantly running to bathroom pooping. why dont u just ask him straight up when u talk to him next time?
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#3406 User is offline   rawrjensherex3 

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Posted 13 September 2007 - 05:36 PM

QUOTE(ONe.ShoT @ Sep 13 2007, 09:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
the reason could be anything. whether there were some bad rumors bout u that he found out, or he found a diff girl... etc. but keep in mind those are just really negative possibilities, it might not be that bad. he may just be having stomach problems and constantly running to bathroom pooping. why dont u just ask him straight up when u talk to him next time?


haha stomach problems ;D
i find it so awkward to talk to him now.

but there is a story wayyyyyyyyyy beyond from what i just said.
so i'm assuming i was played .

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#3407 User is offline   sarahack 

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Post icon  Posted 13 September 2007 - 09:17 PM

soo...
im just wondering.
what does it mean when a guy has to see and talk to you everyday then flirts too but when he flirts he flirts with different girls but he never does it infront of you and when you're talking to a guy then he suddenly comes close to you and kinda flirts and trys to figure what you're saying at the same time but he says he likes a different girl


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#3408 User is offline   EYJAYJAY 

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Posted 13 September 2007 - 09:46 PM

QUOTE(rawrjensherex3 @ Sep 13 2007, 08:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>


haha stomach problems ;D
i find it so awkward to talk to him now.

but there is a story wayyyyyyyyyy beyond from what i just said.
so i'm assuming i was played .


i dont know the story.. but that wouldnt be surprising. look into it, hope everything goes ok.

QUOTE(sarahack @ Sep 14 2007, 12:17 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
soo...
im just wondering.
what does it mean when a guy has to see and talk to you everyday then flirts too but when he flirts he flirts with different girls but he never does it infront of you and when you're talking to a guy then he suddenly comes close to you and kinda flirts and trys to figure what you're saying at the same time but he says he likes a different girl

to me, it means that he's a jealous, flirty and possessive kid who doesnt know what he wants.
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#3409 User is offline   jiaOx2 

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Posted 13 September 2007 - 10:34 PM

do generally out going guys show off around the girl they like? but they become like mute when they have to speak to them once they've attracted their attention?
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#3410 User is offline   sarahack 

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Posted 13 September 2007 - 10:34 PM

thanks ONe.SHoT

so what do suggest i do?

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#3411 User is offline   EYJAYJAY 

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Posted 13 September 2007 - 10:53 PM

QUOTE(sarahack @ Sep 14 2007, 01:34 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
thanks ONe.SHoT

so what do suggest i do?


let him go find the other girls, unless u want to be a part of his "gallery". sorry, mario vasquez's song playin on my playlist right now.
basically, dont flirt back, go chill with your friends or find some other guy to talk to, someone who respects girls a bit more.
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#3412 User is offline   piinkcess 

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Posted 14 September 2007 - 07:25 AM

i'm not sure if this has been asked before.. but
how do guys feel about the girl that rejected them?
do they think she's a b*tch, or are they ok with going about how they were before (just normal friends)?


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#3413 User is offline   internetwarfare 

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Posted 14 September 2007 - 07:30 AM

QUOTE(takki_fanatic @ Aug 4 2007, 08:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
if you have a girlfriend already, would you consider other girls?


If the girl is really treating me like crap and I meet this awesome new girl i would consider dumping the Zero for the hero.
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#3414 User is offline   ticatee 

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Posted 14 September 2007 - 07:48 AM

if you're in a relationship, it's still human nature to check out the opposite sex right? so what do some of you guys would feel if your girl was checking out some guy in front of you?

why is it that a guy tend to push away the girl he adores when he learns that she has no feelings for him in that kind of way? yet they were great friends, and she loves their friendship, doesn't he realized that by pushing her away he had hurt her!? O.O

vague question, but why do some guys turn into jerks?

and why do some try so hard? laugh.gif
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#3415 User is offline   j'adoreAZNpop 

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Posted 14 September 2007 - 10:15 AM

I have some questions that im pondering about lol...the questions have no relation to each other though.

1. how to detect whether a guy has a girlfriend or not?

2. i had this display pic of a cute korean artist and one of my guy friends asked me who that was and if i like cute guys. he's not gay btw. was it just a random question?

3. is it normal when a guy, who has a cute/bubbly personality in person, becomes the opposite on web (messenger)? he types very simple and boring.
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Posted 14 September 2007 - 10:19 AM

If you have a girlfriend that you love so much and has even mention to her that you want to spend the rest of your life with her....why do you (the guy) still flirt around with other girls? Yeah yeah, it's human nature. But there has got to be another reasoning behind that than just that one. If you love her as much as you say you do, why haven't you tame down on your flirty ways?
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#3417 User is offline   ainsleyx33 

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Posted 14 September 2007 - 01:40 PM

QUOTE(ainsleyx33 @ Sep 13 2007, 02:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Okay so.. I have a question.

Well, last school year (around may-june), I was in class with this one guy.. I'd catch him looking at me a lot.
Then one day in class, my friend (who happens to be friends with the guy too) started asking me what I thought of him and that I should go out with him.
Then she called him over and told him to ask me out.
But it was so weird and awkward for me that I just ignored it all and left..
I'd see them talking and looking at me every once in a while. And he'd always come by my desk and walk by for no reason.
Sometimes, my friend and the guy would link arms and walk out of the class together, joking around that they were together. Then they would always look back to see if I was still looking, and whisper something.
He would sit next to me and try to talk to me too.

Does this mean he liked me then at the time?
Cause I started liking him after that (recently) and I have no idea what to do..
And there's a good chance that even if he did like me, then he's not interested anymore, right?


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can someone answer my question please? hahaa
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#3418 User is offline   *smilez* 

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Posted 14 September 2007 - 02:20 PM

why are guys two - faced? they are so different wen with a gurl then with the guys. which one is thier true self, with the guys or with the gurls?
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Posted 14 September 2007 - 02:23 PM

How can you tell when your boyfriend's getting tired of you?
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Posted 14 September 2007 - 02:35 PM

Thank you Crisco,ONe.ShoT, and Classy Beaut for answering my question. ^^

The thing is, I don't know really know if he is a nice guy because we've only talked maybe about five times. I feel that he's not opening up to me so I feel we don't really know each other that well. I try to make small chit-chat about sports he plays, music, etc, but nothing really works. I guess it's me who sucks at communicating, haha. But we'll see how this'll go. Thank you again! <3
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