[Pogichinoy]

I'm just merely curious, but... is it normal for a guy to use chapstick?

Yes it's quite normal. I've been using a chapstick or lip balm since elementary.

[EYJAYJAY]

what does a guy mean when he calls a girl gorgeous? is he just trying to sweet talk or does he really mean it?

depends on the person and age group. but overall, it should be more toward the compliment side, as in he really means it.

how do guys feel about girls who ask them out? do you guys think it's weird or desprete? or brave? what about girls who r flirty and come on strong?

if a girl asks me out, i wouldnt think she's weird at all. i dont mind =) but if the girl is flirty and comes on strong and asks me out.. that might give a different impression like the girl is easy to get and easy to lose.

[SweetBee]

.: if a guy have a gf and he saw a girl tah prettier than his gf inside the guy mind do he wish tah pretty girl was his gf or just keep staring at her?.:

[DarkWaltz]

Wow, you girls are like cannonballs that keep coming, lol.

What are some ways a guy would treat a girl as just a friend? different from someone he likes....

Being obviously more goofy, funnier, sometimes silly. Basically, like I'd treat my guy friends. It's all about having fun.

what does a guy mean when he calls a girl gorgeous? is he just trying to sweet talk or does he really mean it?

Gorgeous for me is a stronger word, so I'd use it if I think the girl is really pretty. If she wasn't and i had to lie (due to some "x" circumstances), I'd say that she "looks good" or "look pretty good". But of course, that could be the truth as well for someone else. But, again, some guys mean it, others just don't. Hard to answer.

how do guys feel about girls who ask them out? do you guys think it's weird or desprete? or brave? what about girls who r flirty and come on strong?

It's NOT weird nor desperate, I think they have lot of guts and have courage to go for what they want. My ex asked me out first. Flirty and come out strong, it's fun to play around, but for me I wouldn't see them as long lasting partners, just a feeling.

so i met this guy in the summer... and that time i didnt know he had a gf so i fell for him..

anyways my friend is pretty close with him so she tells me that they probably wont last... but still... i dont wana be waiting around..

he tells my friend a lot about his relationship with his gf... and he's those guys that would do/buy anything for his gf and treat her like a princess... but the problem is.. him and his gf speak different languages.. like he's chinese but she's korean.. so they only communicate in english... he told my frd that he wants a gf that can speak chinese though... cus when he tries to bring his gf out to his friends... who are all chinese so when they talk.. she doesnt understand and just sits there quiet... and so he feels bad cus he knows shes upset...

anyways he's also those really outgoing guys that likes to go out and play.. but he's loyal.. but of course any girls would worry that her bf might meet someone better and dump her... so this gf of his doesnt let him go out... liKE ACTUALLY tell him NOT to go out and stay with her... now that's pretty over protective...

which results in him dumping her TWICE... but he still loved her.. he just wanted freedom.. but each time she cried... and he's a SOFTY.. so he got back with her again... and she STILL doesnt change... i think shes spoiled by him =/

in conclusion... WHY is he like that?? i mean just cus a girl cried.. he goes back with her.. what does that say about him?? do you think their relationship would actually last? i really wana understand what guys think...

If he already dumped her twice, I don't personally think it's gonna last, it's already a bad sign. Plus he even said he wants a girlfriend that speaks chinese, which I find weird, but anyway. Sometimes it's hard for outsiders to understand the complexity of a relationship, that's why you shouldn't bother trying to understand why he's like that, coming back with her all the time. Everything you see is only the tip of the iceberg. I say don't put your hopes on that, but if ever one day an opportunity arises, you could go for it. We never know.

If you considered a girl a really good friend only, and nothing more, to what extent do you call her and talk to her on the phone?
(ie. is calling her every day and talking for at least an hour each time in the friend zone?)
Thanks in advance!

Well, there was this girl, she saw me as a friend only, but I was hoping I could get closer to her to maybe try something in the future, so we used to talk everyday on the phone, but since she was really friendly, she had nothing else in her mind. However, if it would be a pure platonic friend, I'd call her once in a while, maybe once every week or month to see what she's doing or up to. If it becomes daily, then something is probably going to happen between the 2... because if a guy and a girl talk daily for an hour, as in your example, and eventually become best friend, they're, most of the time, going to get attracted to each other.

-do guys get turned off if girls come on strong?

-how can you tell if a guy likes you/?

-do guys consider hugs as "flirting?"

Coming on strong, but not in a flirty way, is ok. If it's too flirty, as I mentioned above, it's fun, but not my cup of tea for a serious relationship, if she's trying something. If it's just for fun though, I won't mind.

Well, many many factors, it depends on each guy. I don't know how many times I answered to this question, lol, too lazy to retype it.

Nope. Hugs aren't flirting for me, it just expresses a closer feeling, maybe a bit more than friends, but definitely not flirting.

[Fropit]

ok..im here again....


do guys fall easy
when u share
your food w/ them???


and...


for guys also...


who would you choose:
a.) the girl crushing on u for 4 long years
b.)the girl you met just this june and
flirting w/ u

[chung]

honestly, what does it mean when a guy cannot look a girl straight in the eye?

[misturrho]

(usin my friends account)

here's my situation and i want to know if you guys think the same he does... or do the opposite.

2 weeks ago i met this guy at my friend's house, they're roomates. 2 days after we met we had interaction, after the interaction we talked about it and obviously we're attracted to each other, otherwise i wouldn't have done anything with him. he's gonna go back to san diego for school and so we were trynna work things out to see whether we should see each other (so we can get to know each other before actual dating), or stay at friends. (fyi, ever since he came back from taiwan after vacation, he stayed home for a whole month just so he doesn't meet a girl he will be attracted to so there will be no "drama" before he goes back to san diego.) a week later (last week), i asked him for his decision and he thinks we should stay as friends cus im not his typical girlfriend, but im better then a fling. which that's the same way i thought of him, but since we barely know each other, i want the chance to get to know him before my final judge. over the weekend when i was drivin home after drinkin with some friends, i called him (this is like 3 am and i wasn't drunk), i wanted to ask why he doesn't give it a shot to atleast get to know each other first, before judgin im not his typical girl (yes i want this guy bad, though hes outta my requirements like, im 19 i would date up till 21 but hes 24. same with him i'm the "odds" of age. so i asked him and he said its just that feelin, i barely know you. i want to get to know you but i perfer hangin out with you and cuddle with you to get to know you rather then on the stupid phone.

i mean.. i respect that and understand that, but in a way i felt he was "misjudgin" me from the 1 week we met. i want to ask the fellas here, will you make the same decision, or will you get to know the girl on phone then see wsup when you're back home. im not givin up just yet, i want this man!! lol

[EYJAYJAY]

ok..im here again....
do guys fall easy
when u share
your food w/ them???
and...
for guys also...
who would you choose:
a.) the girl crushing on u for 4 long years
b.)the girl you met just this june and
flirting w/ u

1) how in the world do you fall for some chick who shares food with you?

2) the choice is easy, it'll be whoever we click with and have feelings with. how long i've known a girl wont matter nor will it matter if the girl flirts with me but i just dont feel it.

[SailorBoy62]

i mean.. i respect that and understand that, but in a way i felt he was "misjudgin" me from the 1 week we met. i want to ask the fellas here, will you make the same decision, or will you get to know the girl on phone then see wsup when you're back home. im not givin up just yet, i want this man!! lol

I'd make the same decision. I'm sorry, but it's too much to ask for this guy to invest that much time to get to know you when he's not going to be seeing you all that often and you're both going to be going off to school very soon. He's going to be surrounded by temptation and you're not going to be there, and he's still in his prime, so he's probably thinking, "Why should I have to settle down with someone I barely know?" Quite frankly, you trying to insist that he gets to know you will probably just push him away, he'll see it as a red flag like you're too clingy or something.

[moonk379]

honestly, what does it mean when a guy cannot look a girl straight in the eye?

hes probably shy

(usin my friends account)here's my situation and i want to know if you guys think the same he does... or do the opposite.2 weeks ago i met this guy at my friend's house, they're roomates. 2 days after we met we had interaction, after the interaction we talked about it and obviously we're attracted to each other, otherwise i wouldn't have done anything with him. he's gonna go back to san diego for school and so we were trynna work things out to see whether we should see each other (so we can get to know each other before actual dating), or stay at friends. (fyi, ever since he came back from taiwan after vacation, he stayed home for a whole month just so he doesn't meet a girl he will be attracted to so there will be no "drama" before he goes back to san diego.) a week later (last week), i asked him for his decision and he thinks we should stay as friends cus im not his typical girlfriend, but im better then a fling. which that's the same way i thought of him, but since we barely know each other, i want the chance to get to know him before my final judge. over the weekend when i was drivin home after drinkin with some friends, i called him (this is like 3 am and i wasn't drunk), i wanted to ask why he doesn't give it a shot to atleast get to know each other first, before judgin im not his typical girl (yes i want this guy bad, though hes outta my requirements like, im 19 i would date up till 21 but hes 24. same with him i'm the "odds" of age. so i asked him and he said its just that feelin, i barely know you. i want to get to know you but i perfer hangin out with you and cuddle with you to get to know you rather then on the stupid phone.i mean.. i respect that and understand that, but in a way i felt he was "misjudgin" me from the 1 week we met. i want to ask the fellas here, will you make the same decision, or will you get to know the girl on phone then see wsup when you're back home. im not givin up just yet, i want this man!! lol

i agree wit wat the guy above me had commented.

[reborn princess]

is it fine to let the guy pay for everything ..cuz he offers... should i treat him once in a while too.. its so hard.. doesn't really let me..

would it b better if i cooked something for him?

[hked]

is it fine to let the guy pay for everything ..cuz he offers... should i treat him once in a while too.. its so hard.. doesn't really let me..

would it b better if i cooked something for him?

cook ! .. guys love it when the girl cooks for them hahaha at least i do when they cook for me =]

[EYJAYJAY]

is it fine to let the guy pay for everything ..cuz he offers... should i treat him once in a while too.. its so hard.. doesn't really let me..

would it b better if i cooked something for him?

oh yeah, cooking would be great, any guy would love that

[GOOMBA]

Never thought I'd set hands on this thread.

We went out yesterday, and everything seemed so perfect. Beach, movie & a dinner, + shopping. I don't know why, but he kept on staring at me, smiling and then turning away. I didn't look at him, but I could catch it at the side of my eyes. He would always try and grab my hand, hold me and stuff, lay his head on my shoulder and try to kiss me, but... then what's this? Normally, whenever we went out he'd tell me he missed me, liked/loved me, cares about me, etc. All that mushy stuff that I absolutely love! But he didn't at all yesterday.

Okay ...and normally, he texts me at night before he goes to bed, and he texts me right when he wakes up before he has his first class, and we usually talk throughout the day. But after yesterday, when he called me at night, and we were about to hang up - he didn't state the usual. He didn't tell me he missed me. He just said, "Ok, bye" and hung up. Usually I'M the first to hang up. He wasn't busy or anything. And I texted him today to tell him good morning, and he didn't reply me. Apparently my friend called him and he picked up.

I'd like to make the excuse for him that he's busy and I'm overreacting/horribly cling, but...

Any of you fellas did this to a girl before?

[candiicraze]

what does a guy [friend] mean when you're outside with him and he randomly says, " i wanna pin you down"
and keeps insisting the two of you roll around in the grass?

[SailorBoy62]

Never thought I'd set hands on this thread.

We went out yesterday, and everything seemed so perfect. Beach, movie & a dinner, + shopping. I don't know why, but he kept on staring at me, smiling and then turning away. I didn't look at him, but I could catch it at the side of my eyes. He would always try and grab my hand, hold me and stuff, lay his head on my shoulder and try to kiss me, but... then what's this? Normally, whenever we went out he'd tell me he missed me, liked/loved me, cares about me, etc. All that mushy stuff that I absolutely love! But he didn't at all yesterday.

Okay ...and normally, he texts me at night before he goes to bed, and he texts me right when he wakes up before he has his first class, and we usually talk throughout the day. But after yesterday, when he called me at night, and we were about to hang up - he didn't state the usual. He didn't tell me he missed me. He just said, "Ok, bye" and hung up. Usually I'M the first to hang up. He wasn't busy or anything. And I texted him today to tell him good morning, and he didn't reply me. Apparently my friend called him and he picked up.

I'd like to make the excuse for him that he's busy and I'm overreacting/horribly cling, but...

Any of you fellas did this to a girl before?

Changes like that don't take place overnight unless something's happened to him or something's wrong. You should ask him if everything's alright and try to find out what the problem is. It could be that he's mad at you, or it could be that something very personal happened and he just doesn't want to tell you about it.

[EYJAYJAY]

Never thought I'd set hands on this thread.

We went out yesterday, and everything seemed so perfect. Beach, movie & a dinner, + shopping. I don't know why, but he kept on staring at me, smiling and then turning away. I didn't look at him, but I could catch it at the side of my eyes. He would always try and grab my hand, hold me and stuff, lay his head on my shoulder and try to kiss me, but... then what's this? Normally, whenever we went out he'd tell me he missed me, liked/loved me, cares about me, etc. All that mushy stuff that I absolutely love! But he didn't at all yesterday.

Okay ...and normally, he texts me at night before he goes to bed, and he texts me right when he wakes up before he has his first class, and we usually talk throughout the day. But after yesterday, when he called me at night, and we were about to hang up - he didn't state the usual. He didn't tell me he missed me. He just said, "Ok, bye" and hung up. Usually I'M the first to hang up. He wasn't busy or anything. And I texted him today to tell him good morning, and he didn't reply me. Apparently my friend called him and he picked up.

I'd like to make the excuse for him that he's busy and I'm overreacting/horribly cling, but...

Any of you fellas did this to a girl before?

smiling as in the good kind of smiling or the bad kind of smiling? knowing how kids are in your area.. maybe someone was spreading some bad rumors bout u and somehow your boy believed it u know? but if its nothing negative.. maybe he's planning a surprise. either one can happen really, i wouldnt know what he's up to. dont u love mind games?

what does a guy [friend] mean when you're outside with him and he randomly says, " i wanna pin you down"
and keeps insisting the two of you roll around in the grass?

sounds like some kid with raging hormones and has a weird way of expressing it. dont know about you but if i was a girl and a dude said that to me and INSISTS on doing it, i'd run like hell.

[ms honeyxxx_mr honey]

1. Does a guy like you if he does these or what?

-he carries you (up the stairs a so)
-always tickling you out of no where.
-hugs you from behind (once or twice)
-before class he stands outside the room, but once you get there he's where you are.
-always covers your eyes and holds you close to him.
-pinching your cheeks and doing small things.
-always taking your hands and saying to see whose hands are bigger even though he asked you SEVERAL times before.
etc. things like that.

BUT he has a lot of girls as friends. He hangs out with them a lot. How do you know he if he likes YOU or if he's just bored and wants someone to mess with?? How do you know you're not just another one of the girls he likes to flirt with?

2. Do guys tend to PRETEND they don't care about the girl they like? Like they walk away after you finished talking to him and he seems like he's in a rush (but he's not). He acts all cool sometimes but sometimes he's sooooo sweet. What's up with that??

PLEASE HELP. thanks.

[mojomunkeez]

1. Does a guy like you if he does these or what?

-he carries you (up the stairs a so)
-always tickling you out of no where.
-hugs you from behind (once or twice)
-before class he stands outside the room, but once you get there he's where you are.
-always covers your eyes and holds you close to him.
-pinching your cheeks and doing small things.
-always taking your hands and saying to see whose hands are bigger even though he asked you SEVERAL times before.
etc. things like that.

BUT he has a lot of girls as friends. He hangs out with them a lot. How do you know he if he likes YOU or if he's just bored and wants someone to mess with?? How do you know you're not just another one of the girls he likes to flirt with?

2. Do guys tend to PRETEND they don't care about the girl they like? Like they walk away after you finished talking to him and he seems like he's in a rush (but he's not). He acts all cool sometimes but sometimes he's sooooo sweet. What's up with that??

PLEASE HELP. thanks.

1. Woman, are you thick? Those are major love signals right there. He's done everything short of hitting you over the head with a ring or something.

2. He's fishing for you, seeing if you'll take the bait.

[ms honeyxxx_mr honey]

1. Woman, are you thick? Those are major love signals right there. He's done everything short of hitting you over the head with a ring or something.

2. He's fishing for you, seeing if you'll take the bait.

but what if he does some of those things to other girls as well? he's know for his flirting...