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#351 User is offline   beepbeep 

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Posted 21 May 2007 - 12:27 PM

if you break up with your ex but you still have feelings for her, time passes, would u prefer to have her as a friend or do you prefer to keep the memories only and not be friends with ur ex?
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#352 User is offline   annabeelee 

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Posted 21 May 2007 - 12:45 PM

once youve dubbed a girl 'best friend' or 'good friend' what are the chances of seeing them as a 'girl'


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#353 User is offline   RiderKamen 

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Posted 21 May 2007 - 01:39 PM

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QUOTE(annabeelee @ May 21 2007, 01:45 PM) View Post
once youve dubbed a girl 'best friend' or 'good friend' what are the chances of seeing them as a 'girl'

Very slim (not saying it can't happen). Nobody wants to be put in a box (I've been there).

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why does this guy treats me so nicely when we're together..like he makes me feel that he wants to spend all his time with me..then since break started and we're now in different country..he doesnt seem to give a d--- anymore.
He doesnt say hi when he sees me online at all....why is he doing this?


probably because he moved on or he got new priorities.
You need to check with him though (ask him that).

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if you break up with your ex but you still have feelings for her, time passes, would u prefer to have her as a friend or do you prefer to keep the memories only and not be friends with ur ex?


all depends on the situation. Its better to move on that to hold on to what is not there IMO
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#354 User is offline   aznxrawr 

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Posted 21 May 2007 - 01:42 PM

At what point in a relationship is a good time to ask your bf to meet your parents?
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#355 User is offline   RiderKamen 

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Posted 21 May 2007 - 01:49 PM

QUOTE(aznxrawr @ May 21 2007, 02:42 PM) View Post
At what point in a relationship is a good time to ask your bf to meet your parents?

That all depends on him (your bf). Everybody is different.
For me, a couple of months lol



Ladies, if you got questions on why guys scratch their crotch, don't like to be touch in the butt, can't be bothered whiled watching sports, and etc. Just ask. This thread is for everything and above.


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#356 User is offline   lily-chan 

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Posted 21 May 2007 - 02:02 PM

QUOTE(RiderKamen @ May 21 2007, 05:49 PM) View Post
Ladies, if you got questions on why guys scratch their crotch, don't like to be touch in the butt, can't be bothered whiled watching sports, and etc. Just ask. This thread is for everything and above.


Haha, my teacher explained to me why guys don't seem to be paying attention to the other things (ie what their gf is saying) happening around them while they are watching sports. He says that it goes back to prehistorical time when males had to go hunting. Since it's sometimes a dangerous job, they have to focus on their prey and not get distracted by anything else that is around them.

So in other words, when guys are watching sports, they are "hunting" laugh.gif Is it true? Maybe haha. This could also explain why they can't multi-task as well as girls since prehistorical women had to do many things at the same time (watch out for predators, look after children, prepare food, watch for small preys they can kill to add to the meal, etc.)
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#357 User is offline   touche` 

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Posted 21 May 2007 - 02:21 PM

This Q is to those who answer this Q: Can YOU multitask really well, or no?

Like: multitask by studying, chatting, baby sitting and watching tv at the same time.


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Posted 21 May 2007 - 02:28 PM

QUOTE(impulsive* @ May 21 2007, 11:21 PM) View Post
This Q is to those who answer this Q: Can YOU multitask really well, or no?

Like: multitask by studying, chatting, baby sitting and watching tv at the same time.


guys r single minded. we focus on one thing and put near all effort into that. therefore it is hard to find a guy who multi-tasks as well as woman but some guys may be v.feminine i.e. some guys can.

i however cannot do so. e.g. hate it when people talk to me when i am driving lol.
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#359 User is offline   MoiraElla 

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Posted 21 May 2007 - 02:39 PM

what does it mean when they say

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#360 User is offline   dancesakura 

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Posted 21 May 2007 - 03:00 PM

what does it mean if a guy starts feelin his girlfriend in places and constantly asks her if she wants to have sex??
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Posted 21 May 2007 - 03:01 PM

QUOTE(dancesakura @ May 21 2007, 06:00 PM) View Post
what does it mean if a guy starts feelin his girlfriend in places and constantly asks her if she wants to have sex??

lol it means he wants to have sex, and if u think hes worth it then go ahead and do it, its feels really good if the guy knows wat hes doing make sure he inserts it slow or u mite get hurt =D plus ur in high school so take advantage of being young!!
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#362 User is offline   mistertony 

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Posted 21 May 2007 - 03:02 PM

^^ i think you answered your own question.
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#363 User is offline   dancesakura 

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Posted 21 May 2007 - 03:09 PM

QUOTE(moblastin @ May 21 2007, 07:01 PM) View Post
lol it means he wants to have sex, and if u think hes worth it then go ahead and do it, its feels really good if the guy knows wat hes doing make sure he inserts it slow or u mite get hurt =D plus ur in high school so take advantage of being young!!

QUOTE(mistertony @ May 21 2007, 07:02 PM) View Post
^^ i think you answered your own question.

i wasnt sure if he was just teasin me or not..to see if i wanted to wait or just do it right away or sumthin.. ^^;;
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#364 User is offline   han. 

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Posted 21 May 2007 - 04:31 PM

QUOTE(impulsive* @ May 21 2007, 03:21 PM) View Post
This Q is to those who answer this Q: Can YOU multitask really well, or no?

Like: multitask by studying, chatting, baby sitting and watching tv at the same time.

nope! i can't multitask at all. vicx.gif
this probably applies to alot of guys.
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#365 User is offline   pencil_geeks* 

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Posted 21 May 2007 - 04:41 PM

okay guys..

say you met someone when theres people around. he doesnt really talk to you. just looks at you. but when theres like one or two people around he'll come and talk to you. i dont even think that makes any sense. but what does that mean? ashamed much or no?
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Posted 21 May 2007 - 04:46 PM

QUOTE(blindboi @ May 21 2007, 01:22 PM) View Post
@ iEatPowder its cool you dont agree with some of my answers, but what is the ultimate goal for humans? to survive and replicate right? We need our genes to survive. So we have sex. You cant argue with that now could you ;D


I don't just disagree with your answers, they kinda piss me off because of how you use extreme absolutes and there is no inbetween with many of your replies, and then you have the gall to make it sound like your answer is for certain. You assume so much when you know so little about these people's situation, and then you can sum up an answer in one sentence or a phrase. What's the point of giving half-@ssed advice and answers to people who need help?

And what the heck is that "ultimate goal for humans" stuff? We don't live in prehistoric times anymore where we must have sex and replicate so our genes to survive. It might be news to you but not everyone's ultimate goal in life is to have sex and make babies, but over-generalizing seems to be a habit of yours. People can also consider en-vitro babies where no sex is required. And people can simply adopt a child for various reasons. So I believe I can argue with that. dry.gif


QUOTE(pencil_geeks* @ May 21 2007, 05:41 PM) View Post
okay guys..

say you met someone when theres people around. he doesnt really talk to you. just looks at you. but when theres like one or two people around he'll come and talk to you. i dont even think that makes any sense. but what does that mean? ashamed much or no?


The guys probaby shy and embarassed to be seen approaching a girl around people (especially ones he knows?) Perhaps its a safeguard against mockery and the butt of jokes later if he fails and gets rejected. It's amazing how the fear of rejection drives many a guy to do some weird things.
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Posted 21 May 2007 - 04:51 PM

QUOTE(smrt girl @ May 21 2007, 03:39 AM) View Post
Anyway, I think I have the deepest question yet: Do guys shave their balls? Are guys even concious about shaving their balls? Does it tickle or hurt if you do?

ohhh, finally a fun question. laugh.gif
i personally don't shave anything down there, don't wanna risk getting ingrown hairs. ph34r.gif
that doesn't mean it's like a jungle either, i like it nice and neat.
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Posted 21 May 2007 - 04:52 PM

^ LOL! That's a nice honest answer. cool.gif I like that. Thank YOU and Psionic for answering my question. x]

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Posted 21 May 2007 - 04:52 PM

QUOTE(iEatPowder @ May 21 2007, 08:46 PM) View Post
The guys probaby shy and embarassed to be seen approaching a girl around people (especially ones he knows?) Perhaps its a safeguard against mockery and the butt of jokes later if he fails and gets rejected. It's amazing how the fear of rejection drives many a guy to do some weird things.


:i i think i'm approachable. i mean everyone at work talks to me. so why not be one of those who do when everyone else is around?
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Posted 21 May 2007 - 04:55 PM

short and simple thats how i give my answer, if you dont like it too bad ;D
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