[EYJAYJAY]

do you think that he'll respond back to me when things get better for him?

i dont know your place in his heart, know what i mean? if you mean something for him and IF our assumption on why he hasnt been in contact with you is correct, then he wont forget you and will contact you sooner or later. it may be soon.. and it may be months or years later. it's tough, but keep your heads up -hugs- but u have to realize that this is our assumption, merely a guess.. and we may be completely wrong. keep me updated on it though, i'd like to know how it goes!

do you guys ever do things to get back at your gf's? if you're gf went to a party without you, would you go to one without her or something?

i dont, i find it as something that shows the immaturity of a person. even if my girl did me wrong, i wouldnt do something to intentionally get back at her. but for your situation, please dont assume that he's doing it to get back at you. having that mindset will cause a lot of turmoil in the relationship

how would you feel if your exgf was avoiding you?
and lets say u broke up in bad terms but still care about each other but dont talk anymore.

im the type of guy who dont really talk to his ex after a breakup unless its on good terms. so for me, in that case, i wouldnt be all bothered by it especially if im over it.

Hmmm first time posting here O_O; i hope i dont confuse you guys ^^;~

Alright-- so I asked this guy to the Sadies dance at my school on MONDAY
and he told me he'd "think about it" =/ and "get back to me tomorrow"
Tuesday rolled around and he said "i'll talk to you later"
yesterday it was "I'll see you after school"

But he never saw me =/ utnil today he was like
"i'm sorry i can't go with you because there's this other girl i have that i want to go with"

What I dont get is that-- a lot of people say he doesnt like going to dances
anyeone want to help me try to explain WHY he gave me a reason? TwT;;
And -- oh yeah xD Do guys check out girls for... no reason?
b/c -____- on friday he was scanning me from top to bottom w/ his friend
when my back was turned & my friend who saw told me =/

... do i make sense? >_< sorry if i dont

if you think of it this way, just because a guy doesnt like going to dances doesnt mean he wouldnt go to one. while mojomukeez's reply could be right.. the guy you've asked could be telling the truth too. even for guy's it is NOT easy to reject a girl sometime. he probably spent those days weighing his options or thinking about how he can bring it up to you and finally decided to just tell you that he already has this other chick in mind (that could be true instead of an excuse). and since when should there be a reason for checking out girls? if she's hot, we'll notice.

How should I tell/hint to a guy that I'm simply not interested.
He keeps texting/calling/messaging me alot, offering me rides everyday, and now that i know he wants more than a friendship, I'm feeling a bit annoyed and scared.
I also don't want to tell him straight up, not because I'm scared to, I just dont want to wreck a friendship.

My friend told me to just hint it, tell him I'm interested in this other guy and whatnot.
Help~ I feel like I'm suffocating from this clingyness.

you should just be straight up. if the guy cant understand and a mere rejection ruins this so called 'friendship', then it's not a true friendship in the first place.

[misspiggy]

ok fellas, plz help me out b/c i'm so confused! I had an earlier post but things have been really falling apart. I had been reunited with an old classmate and after a year and ever since we bumped into eachother he would text me almost everyday for the past 3 weeks about everything...even when he's drunk, eating, just to check up on me, etc. he was there for me when i was sick, wanted to spend time with me, go on trips, intro me to his bro and best buddies, etc but he broke up with his gf right before he met me again so i find he talking about his ex a lot so i told him to either 1)move on or 2)talk to his ex and if he wants than to get back with her. We had the "talk before" to avoid drama later on and said that we're either casual friends or on the dating route but don't know if we're both ready for dating now so we chose the friendship. Than it surprised me that he chose the later, called hi ex, but his ex seems to not get back to him. I called him for the 1st time mon, we talked, he sounded quite happy, than said that he'll call me, but its been a whole week and he hasn't. I texted him twice and thats only when he text me...i feel that he doesn't really care anymore. What was i to him than? I think i wanted to have the "talk" with him b/c i didn't want to be his rebound...but was i? he rejected all the activites we were suppose to do together and not even once contacted me for the last week. Was he playing games? Did he not like me or was interested in me than? Plz help! Also, wut should i do?

[AnglLttlGr]

1. What does it mean when a guy asks you for your number? Yes , we've known each other for a little over a year already and he just ask for my number the other day?

2. How can you tell if a guy really like you?

3. What does it mean when a guy teases you?

4. I was walking down the hall when a guy came up to me and put both his arms on my shoulder( one hand on each shoulder) , and he looked like he wanted to tell me something. But then a few seconds later, he didn't even say anything and took his arms off and just walked away? ;O
And yes I know him. It's the same guy from the first question.

5. What does a guy looks for in a girl?


I would like more than one guy giving their points of view please since it varies from guy to guys? Well, Thank you very much in advance (:

[kimseo]

Honestly, on anniversaries or special days, do guys really like it when they get the "better" gift?
I know that gifts and its price value arn't supposed to matter, but do you feel at least a little bad if your g/f got the "better" gift? o_o

[EYJAYJAY]

Honestly, on anniversaries or special days, do guys really like it when they get the "better" gift?
I know that gifts and its price value arn't supposed to matter, but do you feel at least a little bad if your g/f got the "better" gift? o_o

if you are materialistic then yeah u would feel bad.

[soo_bak3]

I have a question. Its been bothering me a lot.

There's this guy, that's a grade older than me, and my mom and his mom were friends from this Korean church that my mom used to got to when I was really young. I only knew him from elementary, because we were in the same daycare. He didn't talk to me a lot, but in his last year in my old school, he said ti to me like a few times.

Now, since its been like 5-6 weeks since I've started middle school, I accidentally bumped into him yesterday. And I was like "sorry." He gave me a weird look and then said "Aren't you ______(my name)?" And I was yeah. And then he gave me a weird look and kept walking with this girl since I think he's well known will girls in his grade. Then, today, I was waiting for the bell to ring with my friend, and he came out of nowhere with his friend and said hi like 5 times. What does this mean? o.0

[ChromeHearts]

I have a question. Its been bothering me a lot.

There's this guy, that's a grade older than me, and my mom and his mom were friends from this Korean church that my mom used to got to when I was really young. I only knew him from elementary, because we were in the same daycare. He didn't talk to me a lot, but in his last year in my old school, he said ti to me like a few times.

Now, since its been like 5-6 weeks since I've started middle school, I accidentally bumped into him yesterday. And I was like "sorry." He gave me a weird look and then said "Aren't you ______(my name)?" And I was yeah. And then he gave me a weird look and kept walking with this girl since I think he's well known will girls in his grade. Then, today, I was waiting for the bell to ring with my friend, and he came out of nowhere with his friend and said hi like 5 times. What does this mean? o.0

just being friendly after have confirmed about who you were

1. What does it mean when a guy asks you for your number? Yes , we've known each other for a little over a year already and he just ask for my number the other day?

if he already talks to you a lot then probably he just wants to talk more or fill up his address book

2. How can you tell if a guy really like you?

he will tell you... we don't play mind games
or he will act like he likes you whenever he's around you

3. What does it mean when a guy teases you?

play around with you
make fun of you
but not in a insulting way
just for fun way

4. I was walking down the hall when a guy came up to me and put both his arms on my shoulder( one hand on each shoulder) , and he looked like he wanted to tell me something. But then a few seconds later, he didn't even say anything and took his arms off and just walked away? ;O
And yes I know him. It's the same guy from the first question.

he probably likes you

5. What does a guy looks for in a girl?
I would like more than one guy giving their points of view please since it varies from guy to guys? Well, Thank you very much in advance (:

i like independent girls with long hair

[lilcookiex3]

Hii, I was wondering how do should I aprroach my ex? We started to talk a bit after our breakup through texting, but I couldn't text anymore. He seems to only like to talk to me through text. We don't seem to speak to each other in person. /=

[mojomunkeez]

Hii, I was wondering how do should I aprroach my ex? We started to talk a bit after our breakup through texting, but I couldn't text anymore. He seems to only like to talk to me through text. We don't seem to speak to each other in person. /=

How about progressing to online conversations before actual in person ones, first? Plus IM is free, unlike text. Guys are normally really bored online, so chances are, you'll get a response.

[x kisekiboshi]

Alright, I have another question for this thread. Haha. It's kinda the same as my previous questions :x

So there's this guy I'm talking to (he's a friend of the guy I like). We've known each other for a little bit but never really talked. Well I got his screenname today and we've been talking so much. But the thing is, he keeps saying these nice things to me even though we like barely know each other. He keeps calling me modest everytime I deny something I'm not skilled at. He wants me to join marching band so when our schools go against each other in football, we can see each other. He saw my picture I posted up and said I looked cute. I mean, do you guys say that to girls you don't really know? Is he flirting with me or is he just being a nice guy?

[ChromeHearts]

Alright, I have another question for this thread. Haha. It's kinda the same as my previous questions :x

So there's this guy I'm talking to (he's a friend of the guy I like). We've known each other for a little bit but never really talked. Well I got his screenname today and we've been talking so much. But the thing is, he keeps saying these nice things to me even though we like barely know each other. He keeps calling me modest everytime I deny something I'm not skilled at. He wants me to join marching band so when our schools go against each other in football, we can see each other. He saw my picture I posted up and said I looked cute. I mean, do you guys say that to girls you don't really know? Is he flirting with me or is he just being a nice guy?

he's flirting with you

[sinfulxbeats]

1. What does it mean when a guy asks you for your number? Yes , we've known each other for a little over a year already and he just ask for my number the other day?

Chances are that he likes you or has interest in you. I think it is highly unlikely he wants your number for classes in case he doesn't understand something. Or entertaining the slight chance that he just wants your number and show it off.


2. How can you tell if a guy really like you?

He will keep talking with you more than usual. Text you or even call for a simple reason.

3. What does it mean when a guy teases you?

he likes you. He will tease you a little, but if he teases you too much and too harsh. Kick him good

4. I was walking down the hall when a guy came up to me and put both his arms on my shoulder( one hand on each shoulder) , and he looked like he wanted to tell me something. But then a few seconds later, he didn't even say anything and took his arms off and just walked away? ;O
And yes I know him. It's the same guy from the first question.

go talk with him. Find out what he wanted to say to you, the longer you wait....the more distorted the truth will become.

5. What does a guy looks for in a girl?

That really depends. You can get numerous of perspectives. Me personally, I like fashionable girls who dresses a certain way. Short and cute. To me...hottness is overrated. A girl a with a sense of humor and a smile that can light up my life. I want her to stare at me and make me get lost in her eyes. That's the girl i look for.

but others may look at the size of her boobs or self esteem. Confidence.


I would like more than one guy giving their points of view please since it varies from guy to guys? Well, Thank you very much in advance (:

[chineseduckling]

i dont, i find it as something that shows the immaturity of a person. even if my girl did me wrong, i wouldnt do something to intentionally get back at her. but for your situation, please dont assume that he's doing it to get back at you. having that mindset will cause a lot of turmoil in the relationship

oh, dont get me wrong. lol. i dont even have a bf, but i see it here and there occurring with my friends and just wondering.

[bubble]

i think my friends like each other (well, its not only me, all my other friends can see it too since its so obvious) but the girl is in denial that that guy might like her... and the guy... he's just so mellow.. he doesnt talk about his feelings to anyone. but when the guy isnt with the girl.. he looks around for her and isnt happy when he doesnt see her...

how can we get the guy to confess that he likes her cause the girl wont confess cause she likes him to HIM (she's told me that she cant stop liking him after two months of me saying that she likes him....) haha!

what do you guys reckon? my 'guy' friends have been trying to sqeeze it outta him but he's not budging... and he plays dumb everytime my other friend (who's more direct than me) talks about their 'late night' chats, which they have every night...until 2 am every morning...

[jihaku]

i'm just curious.

how do guys feel about girls being attached to them.. not needy.. but attached?
i'm sure some guys find it annoying but let's say you like/interested in the girl?

[EYJAYJAY]

i think my friends like each other (well, its not only me, all my other friends can see it too since its so obvious) but the girl is in denial that that guy might like her... and the guy... he's just so mellow.. he doesnt talk about his feelings to anyone. but when the guy isnt with the girl.. he looks around for her and isnt happy when he doesnt see her...

how can we get the guy to confess that he likes her cause the girl wont confess cause she likes him to HIM (she's told me that she cant stop liking him after two months of me saying that she likes him....) haha!

what do you guys reckon? my 'guy' friends have been trying to sqeeze it outta him but he's not budging... and he plays dumb everytime my other friend (who's more direct than me) talks about their 'late night' chats, which they have every night...until 2 am every morning...

buy a pair of rubber balls, attach them to a string and tape it to his pants cuz he needs a pair.

on a more serious note, it seems like you guys have tried hard enough. i think that it's time for u and your friends to leave them be and let whatever happen, happen. if the guy loses her cuz he cant bring it up, that's how it'll be and hopefully he can learn from that. that is what's important, the learning process. you cant learn and improve if your friends are always there looking out for you and doing your work for you right?

i'm just curious.

how do guys feel about girls being attached to them.. not needy.. but attached?
i'm sure some guys find it annoying but let's say you like/interested in the girl?

please, give us fellas some breathing room

[MoiraElla]

i dont know your place in his heart, know what i mean? if you mean something for him and IF our assumption on why he hasnt been in contact with you is correct, then he wont forget you and will contact you sooner or later. it may be soon.. and it may be months or years later. it's tough, but keep your heads up -hugs- but u have to realize that this is our assumption, merely a guess.. and we may be completely wrong. keep me updated on it though, i'd like to know how it goes!

awwww, thanks! it's really is tough, it has been months but I think I'm doing kind of good. most of my days is where i am thinking of him but i try to distract that with other things. it makes me think of that quote, "If you want something very, very badly, let it go free. If it comes back to you, it's yours forever. If it doesn't, it was never yours to begin with." and that's what Im doing. I'm gonna let go of it. and if he comes back, then great! if he doesnt, i'm not gnna let him kill me emotionally which has happened to me a lot because of him haha. & i totally can relate to that quote because we weren't really an "item" so he wanst really mine in the first place. but i realized a lot these past months he's been gone. thanks soooooo much jayjay <33333

[Jnn]

so theres this guy in my classes and we kind of know each other through a mutual friend. he's been talking to me online almost every night...but in school we dont get much time to talk because our classes are hectic. and whenever i turn around in class he's always staring at me, but im trying not to jump into any conclusions.

then yesterday we had a test (which i've been really anxious over and he knows because i've been telling him how i cant talk to much on msn because of i dont understand the materials), and before the test started i was sniffling because i was cold..and my contact was irritating me so i kept on rubbing my eye...i guess he saw. and at night he asked me if i was ok and i was like "haha yea...i was just cold/had eye irritation" but he wouldnt believe me and kept on trying to get me to...spill my 'problems' to him =.=''

sooooo, im not sure if he's just being a good friend or more. even my closest friends dont talk to me so much online or watch me so closely, but maybe i've just been influenced by watching too many dramas. ><''

[o1hunny]

my bf smokes pot every day...
i've tried stopping him but he just ends up doing it behind my back...
and it really hurts me because i don't want him to become stupid..or crash his car while he's baked =_= and i don't want this relationship to fall apart because he's into something that i'm so against.

is there any way that your gf could convince you to STOP doing something you enjoy?

or is it all up to your own selves to stop or whatever

[b18c1]

my bf smokes pot every day...i've tried stopping him but he just ends up doing it behind my back...and it really hurts me because i don't want him to become stupid..or crash his car while he's baked =_= and i don't want this relationship to fall apart because he's into something that i'm so against.is there any way that your gf could convince you to STOP doing something you enjoy? or is it all up to your own selves to stop or whatever

tell him its either you or pot. if you really dont like it then just leave him. its not really worth staying in a relationship unless you accept him smoking pot, or if he stops. i wouldnt ever think about getting a gf that did any drugs... thats just me

so theres this guy in my classes and we kind of know each other through a mutual friend. he's been talking to me online almost every night...but in school we dont get much time to talk because our classes are hectic. and whenever i turn around in class he's always staring at me, but im trying not to jump into any conclusions.then yesterday we had a test (which i've been really anxious over and he knows because i've been telling him how i cant talk to much on msn because of i dont understand the materials), and before the test started i was sniffling because i was cold..and my contact was irritating me so i kept on rubbing my eye...i guess he saw. and at night he asked me if i was ok and i was like "haha yea...i was just cold/had eye irritation" but he wouldnt believe me and kept on trying to get me to...spill my 'problems' to him =.=''sooooo, im not sure if he's just being a good friend or more. even my closest friends dont talk to me so much online or watch me so closely, but maybe i've just been influenced by watching too many dramas. ><''

if i was a shy guy and I was him, thats waht id do if i liked you. back then when i was kinda shy talking to girls i talked to them online just cuz its easier and doesnt involve werid silence on the phone or anything awkward in person. do you like him? im sure you can make some time before class or after class to talk to him a little bit or maybe ask him to hang out. if he likes you, hell say yes. if he doesn't like you, but talks to you so much online he will porbably say yes too. then from there you will have some time to talk to him and figure more out about it!

i'm just curious.how do guys feel about girls being attached to them.. not needy.. but attached? i'm sure some guys find it annoying but let's say you like/interested in the girl?

attached to the point that they are not constantly talking about our future together and everything. attached so that i know that they wont cheat on me and trust is there is good. even if im really interested in that girl, i still dont want her clinging on me; i like my own time to my firneds too.