[ShinAoshi]

hey dudees. help me again. :]okay, theres this guy. hes a sweet guy, really, he is.& today, he asked me out.but this guy, jokes around a lot with other girls, as in "yeah i love ya, etc etc.." because hes just a really NICE person.so, he asked me out today.and he seriously is sweet. and i think hes being serious, because he like, to all my friends "why wont she say yes? i really really like her etc etc"and hes said a BUNCh of stuff to ME, so he might be telling the truth.but, idk if i like him or not. i might...but im still not sure if hes telling the truth. it hasnt been long since we've known each other.okay, so finally, my question: can a really nice guy like that (who jokes a LOT, so youdunno if hes serious or not) actually like someone in a period of 3/4 weeks? & actually like like them? or are those kinds of kids...always joking? -_______-;;

Yes it is possible, but I recommend you just take things slowly. Let him know that you want to get to know him more because you guys still don't know each other well. Another good way to find out what he is like is to see what his female friends say about him.P.S. If he really likes you he'll slow down for ya

hi again~ i have some shorter questions this time.1. do you ask a female classmate personal question because convo's getting boring or other reasons?2. this guy would ignore me but sometimes say "hey __, whatz up". is it because im giving mixed signals? i see him only as a classmate/friend.3. i saw a classmate of mine the other day. he was eating by himself...well actually finished.. so i went over to chat.. it was so hard to find ppl in a class of 1000. anyways, later when i thought he was leaving, i said maybe we can get lunch/coffee sometime. he said sure. not really sure if he means that so should i still ask him after a morning class?

1. Depends on how close you guys are really. I mean if you don't know them that well and ask them he could be trying to find out information about you If you guys are close then its normal.2. I'm not sure about mixed signals. What do you mean? as in sometimes you look at him? 3. If he said sure that means he agreed to it.

[ShinAoshi]

my problem is: I attract "bad boy/player" types. I myself am definetely not a "bad girl/playette" type..OK so I'm not a goody-two-shoes angel either but I would say I'm closer to the good girl end of the spectrum than anything else. Every "good boy that you could take home to mama" guy I've crushed on have had mild interest/attraction to me but it never really develops into anything..one even started having feelings for my best friend and they started dating instead blah.when my friends ask me what kind of guy I would like to date, I always tell them "a nice boy" and they scoff at me. They all tell me the same thing: I make a better match for a guy who has an "edge" much to my disappointment. My ex was the epitome of a bad boy with a ton of rough edges and I just dont think that kind of guy is right for me. Many people (even my own mother) say my sarcasm and independence may be too much to handle for a gentle, sweet, boy. So I try to tone it down but then I think..why do i have to change/suppress myself to land a guy? or is that my only option? Because I see plenty of annoyingly fake (I say fake because this is not how they really are) demure, giggly, damsels in distresses fawning all over guys and they're always in relationships..so maybe that is the key? I don't know. I may have an edgy side to me but deep down I am a nice girl so why is it that I only attract the NOT NICE boys?

Hmm its hard because alot of the nice guys( I'm not trying to generalise its majority) are shy about approaching girls especially if the girl is independent and sarcastic, and I guess the reason why you only attract the other type is because they actually have the guts to talk to you. How are you normally? as in do you smile often or you look serious? I know with some of my friends when I first met them I thought they were pretty intimidating because they never smiled. Also I would say don't change yourself, I mean you want the guy to like you for who you are! I think either be more friendly if your not and maybe perhaps even initiate the conversation between guys who seem to have a interest in you but look shy to act upon it.

When a guy likes a girl, but the girl doesn't like him because she thinks that he's trying to get into her pants, what are things that guys do to make girls NOT think that he's trying to get into her pants and he really does like her? [hehe. I'm bored ]

Well he'll like get to know you. You know a guy REALLY likes you when he asks questions about your family, hobbies and other things about your life. He maintains eye contact and appears interested, always you asking questions.

helloo~haha, well at the risk of sounding extremely stuuupid, i will ask my question basically, i had a summer luvvv at a summer program. ya know the sorts? haha...so we went our separate ways and its been like 2 month or so, and he suddenly leaves me a MESSAGE on facebook, not a wall post, mind you (haha), asking "hey how are you "insert pet name here", hows life?" soooo..(haha i feel so stupid asking this ) what kind of response would be best? short and sweet? (example: im good, how are you? hows school?) kind of affairorr...longer and detailed as in "NAMEE!!!" how have you been? i miss you so much...hows school? i hate school its killing me haha etc etc etc blah blah blah...thanks guys!

Do you still like him? if you still like him give him the detailed response. If not give him the short one lol

i know this can be different from guy to guy etc... but in your opinion what would be AN AWESOME PRESENT?besides, you know, sexual gifts LOL

I think a gift where your bf talked about something that he really wanted awhile go. This shows you remembered it and he'll feel really special and happy because his cool gf remembered something like that If not maybe you can make him something? I'm not sure about the other guys here, but I appreciate the gift more if she made it herself because it shows she went to extra trouble!

[martinee]

if a guy apologizes for a prank he pulled on you a couple days ago; a prank that wasn't even a big deal, it means he was thinking about you, right?

edit:
i don't necessarily mean in like 'ooh she's cute blah blah blah' mindset but just.. thinking about you in any sort of way possible

[DaAzNkIgGa627]

if a guy apologizes for a prank he pulled on you a couple days ago; a prank that wasn't even a big deal, it means he was thinking about you, right?

edit:
i don't necessarily mean in like 'ooh she's cute blah blah blah' mindset but just.. thinking about you in any sort of way possible

Yeah... he generally wants you to think of him in a good light. Like there's this kid I was debating in a class (in a Lincoln Douglas debate so we were actually debating) and I said something that I felt iffy about later (even though it was not meant at him and he didn't really catch it or was offended to him) but I apologized just so I could keep good relations with him..

[random azn]

okay i have this question, and i need to have it be confirm whether its true or not.
there's this boy in my robotics club and he used to go out with a good friend friend of mines, but the broke up like a week or so ago, and well even before their break up he was kinda flirting with me but not like hardcore flirting just teasing me and such, but I just knew the broke up like a day ago, and so a few days before i knew they broke up he started the hardcore flirting. Ex: picking me up, tickling me, teasing, helping me with things, walking me to class, only let himself bully me but anyone else he will kick their a**, gave me his number for no reason, and i have this field trip tomorrow at the science center and i was supposed to go with my mini-me but she backed out of me so i didnt want to be there alone and had post his facebook wall asking him to come cause i didnt want to be alone and he said he will make sure he's up there. <------ super nice? or totally crushing on me?

are those like signs that he likes me? or is he bored? does he see me as a rebound? My mini-me said that he totally likes me, but for some reason i still kinda doubt that, and i "heard" our soompi fellas are some of the best fellas out there, so i'm here for help.

[ur AD0RkABLE]

do guys prefer the brainy preppy girls? or the average sexy girl?

[ms honeyxxx_mr honey]

hey, just wanted to ask again...

1. what are some things that guys will do to get a girls attention to notice them?

2. do most guys NOT say bye sometimes when they leave for something? Like they just walk away once you turned around to talk to your friend for a SHORT time...

3. Does it mean anything if a guy offers his jacket to you when you're cold? (and he does this to another girl as well..)

[moonk379]

okay i have this question, and i need to have it be confirm whether its true or not.there's this boy in my robotics club and he used to go out with a good friend friend of mines, but the broke up like a week or so ago, and well even before their break up he was kinda flirting with me but not like hardcore flirting just teasing me and such, but I just knew the broke up like a day ago, and so a few days before i knew they broke up he started the hardcore flirting. Ex: picking me up, tickling me, teasing, helping me with things, walking me to class, only let himself bully me but anyone else he will kick their a**, gave me his number for no reason, and i have this field trip tomorrow at the science center and i was supposed to go with my mini-me but she backed out of me so i didnt want to be there alone and had post his facebook wall asking him to come cause i didnt want to be alone and he said he will make sure he's up there. <------ super nice? or totally crushing on me?are those like signs that he likes me? or is he bored? does he see me as a rebound? My mini-me said that he totally likes me, but for some reason i still kinda doubt that, and i "heard" our soompi fellas are some of the best fellas out there, so i'm here for help.

i think he likes you but i would suggest lettin some time pass by just to make sure its not a case of rebound. and just curious how close were you to your friend becuz in my book my friends ex's are off limit and vice versa.

hey, just wanted to ask again...1. what are some things that guys will do to get a girls attention to notice them?2. do most guys NOT say bye sometimes when they leave for something? Like they just walk away once you turned around to talk to your friend for a SHORT time... 3. Does it mean anything if a guy offers his jacket to you when you're cold? (and he does this to another girl as well..)

1. umm i think he would probably try to talk to you or try showin off at somethin2. i dont say bye a lot and im impatient so i tend to leave if someone talked to me and turned around to talk to someone else for short time.3. hes a gentlemen

[Deafz]

hey, just wanted to ask again...

1. what are some things that guys will do to get a girls attention to notice them?

2. do most guys NOT say bye sometimes when they leave for something? Like they just walk away once you turned around to talk to your friend for a SHORT time...

3. Does it mean anything if a guy offers his jacket to you when you're cold? (and he does this to another girl as well..)

Keep in mind that I am only speaking for myself.

1. I get the ladies' attention my talking to them or by doing something stupid. >.>
2. I think sometimes guys forget to say bye. I sometimes forget because I'm lazy. Sorry ladies.
3. I lend my jacket to anyone who needed it. It's just a way of cudosty.

[EYJAYJAY]

okay i have this question, and i need to have it be confirm whether its true or not.
there's this boy in my robotics club and he used to go out with a good friend friend of mines, but the broke up like a week or so ago, and well even before their break up he was kinda flirting with me but not like hardcore flirting just teasing me and such, but I just knew the broke up like a day ago, and so a few days before i knew they broke up he started the hardcore flirting. Ex: picking me up, tickling me, teasing, helping me with things, walking me to class, only let himself bully me but anyone else he will kick their a**, gave me his number for no reason, and i have this field trip tomorrow at the science center and i was supposed to go with my mini-me but she backed out of me so i didnt want to be there alone and had post his facebook wall asking him to come cause i didnt want to be alone and he said he will make sure he's up there. <------ super nice? or totally crushing on me?

are those like signs that he likes me? or is he bored? does he see me as a rebound? My mini-me said that he totally likes me, but for some reason i still kinda doubt that, and i "heard" our soompi fellas are some of the best fellas out there, so i'm here for help.

no need for the suck up here haha. soompi guys are just like all other dudes out there. i guess you like him? cuz you've been pretty much giving an OK sign to him for him to continue with the flirting and teasing. and yeah, i'd take that as signs that he's interested in you.

hey, just wanted to ask again...

1. what are some things that guys will do to get a girls attention to notice them?

2. do most guys NOT say bye sometimes when they leave for something? Like they just walk away once you turned around to talk to your friend for a SHORT time...

3. Does it mean anything if a guy offers his jacket to you when you're cold? (and he does this to another girl as well..)

1) either do something incredibly amazing or something incredibly stupid where you make a fool out of yourself. or if they are bad at this, they may just be shouting across the room at their friends hoping to get your attention while they do that.
2) it's really hard to say exactly how many guys do this. and even if a guy did this, that doesnt mean he does this everytime either. get what im saying?
3) i wouldnt think too much about this. usually it's just showing that he's looking out for you just like how he would towards his other friends.

[random azn]

i think he likes you but i would suggest lettin some time pass by just to make sure its not a case of rebound. and just curious how close were you to your friend becuz in my book my friends ex's are off limit and vice versa.

well me and her are anime/manga friends, not really close, you can say.

[beinspired]

A guy that my friend likes...... is one of those types who are not very friendly to girls. Not very "approachable" to girls.

What I mean is.. He has many guy friends around him..

But with girls.. he doesnt have many.. because he finds it uncomftable having girls as "friends"
And i've NEVER seen him flirt with a girl or give her wrong signs.. which i see as a good sign.. compared to those guys who flirt with many around them..


He's not the typical shy/nerdy/quiet type.. hes actually quite confident.. and sometimes arrogant..


Because of his "traditional" attitude.. he doesnt have many girls around him..

Also he admitted that when he likes a girl= she would never know because he completley ignores her

Any way that my friend could get him to like her? And it's hard for her because he never ever gives her signs. or gives anyone signs..

[DaAzNkIgGa627]

A guy that my friend likes...... is one of those types who are not very friendly to girls. Not very "approachable" to girls.

What I mean is.. He has many guy friends around him..

But with girls.. he doesnt have many.. because he finds it uncomftable having girls as "friends"
And i've NEVER seen him flirt with a girl or give her wrong signs.. which i see as a good sign.. compared to those guys who flirt with many around them..
He's not the typical shy/nerdy/quiet type.. hes actually quite confident.. and sometimes arrogant..
Because of his "traditional" attitude.. he doesnt have many girls around him..

Also he admitted that when he likes a girl= she would never know because he completley ignores her

Any way that my friend could get him to like her? And it's hard for her because he never ever gives her signs. or gives anyone signs..

I think that the only way feelings can develop is if he starts talking to her (or vise versa)... that's not something that can necessarily be externally pushed. I mean you could throw like a party and invite both of them and have them talk.... although this may turn really awkward between the two.

[se7enslove]

if a man is constantly comparing a girl to his girlfriend saying things like 'i always do that to my girlfriend' or saying 'i had a girlfriend like you blah blah blah she was really sweet' and teasing her and stuff.. what does that mean?

does it mean that there's attraction, or does it mean that he's just an a hole?

[icky]

i have a few questions..

How do you know when a guy is just being friendly or he's interested?

This boy I kind of like is a VERY nice person and he's popular with girls.. We started talking a few days ago, and last night at the football game I walked past him because he was talking to a girl and he yelled at me "That's a nice way to say hello!". I was surprised he noticed me (and the girl he was talking to gave me a mean look =_=).. and it was weird that he yelled out since we weren't even that close.
Later on, I went back to him and said a "proper hello". He said to be "You know you're my favorite person right?" and I rolled my eyes because..geeze, I'm sure he says that to all his girl friends. Then he says "Really, I love you!" (I know he was kidding)
During the game, he was always surrounded by girls. I'm not surprised because he's so popular.. But he didn't approach the girls, they came to him.
After the game, I ran into him. (Not on purpose, it really was a coinscidence) I said goodbye to him & he gave me a hug.

Does it mean anything when a guy is friendly to you so quickly?

Ahh Im so confused x_x.. I don't want to like him but he's just rubbing it in..

[miss_kizuna]

in general, how do you cheer up a guy?

[underneathHERskin]

i have a few questions..

How do you know when a guy is just being friendly or he's interested?

This boy I kind of like is a VERY nice person and he's popular with girls.. We started talking a few days ago, and last night at the football game I walked past him because he was talking to a girl and he yelled at me "That's a nice way to say hello!". I was surprised he noticed me (and the girl he was talking to gave me a mean look =_=).. and it was weird that he yelled out since we weren't even that close.
Later on, I went back to him and said a "proper hello". He said to be "You know you're my favorite person right?" and I rolled my eyes because..geeze, I'm sure he says that to all his girl friends. Then he says "Really, I love you!" (I know he was kidding)
During the game, he was always surrounded by girls. I'm not surprised because he's so popular.. But he didn't approach the girls, they came to him.
After the game, I ran into him. (Not on purpose, it really was a coinscidence) I said goodbye to him & he gave me a hug.

Does it mean anything when a guy is friendly to you so quickly?

Ahh Im so confused x_x.. I don't want to like him but he's just rubbing it in..

I'm a girl, but I sense that he is interested in you... I mean, he called out to you DURING his conversation with another girl. Seems to me he's looking through all the other girls to look FOR you!

[CIRee]

A guy that my friend likes...... is one of those types who are not very friendly to girls. Not very "approachable" to girls.

What I mean is.. He has many guy friends around him..

But with girls.. he doesnt have many.. because he finds it uncomftable having girls as "friends"
And i've NEVER seen him flirt with a girl or give her wrong signs.. which i see as a good sign.. compared to those guys who flirt with many around them..
He's not the typical shy/nerdy/quiet type.. hes actually quite confident.. and sometimes arrogant..
Because of his "traditional" attitude.. he doesnt have many girls around him..

Also he admitted that when he likes a girl= she would never know because he completley ignores her

Any way that my friend could get him to like her? And it's hard for her because he never ever gives her signs. or gives anyone signs..

Well a guy like that has some issues talking to girls. The only way to get through to him is slowly talking to him and build up the connection.

if a man is constantly comparing a girl to his girlfriend saying things like 'i always do that to my girlfriend' or saying 'i had a girlfriend like you blah blah blah she was really sweet' and teasing her and stuff.. what does that mean?

does it mean that there's attraction, or does it mean that he's just an a hole?

He basically need to compare every girls with his past relationship. I bet he's the type that like comparing thing with the past; a guy that sucked in the past. It just the way he is. Just do the same to him and see how does he feel.

i have a few questions..

How do you know when a guy is just being friendly or he's interested?

This boy I kind of like is a VERY nice person and he's popular with girls.. We started talking a few days ago, and last night at the football game I walked past him because he was talking to a girl and he yelled at me "That's a nice way to say hello!". I was surprised he noticed me (and the girl he was talking to gave me a mean look =_=).. and it was weird that he yelled out since we weren't even that close.
Later on, I went back to him and said a "proper hello". He said to be "You know you're my favorite person right?" and I rolled my eyes because..geeze, I'm sure he says that to all his girl friends. Then he says "Really, I love you!" (I know he was kidding)
During the game, he was always surrounded by girls. I'm not surprised because he's so popular.. But he didn't approach the girls, they came to him.
After the game, I ran into him. (Not on purpose, it really was a coinscidence) I said goodbye to him & he gave me a hug.

Does it mean anything when a guy is friendly to you so quickly?

Ahh Im so confused x_x.. I don't want to like him but he's just rubbing it in..

It's his personality. He most likely being friendly.

in general, how do you cheer up a guy?

In general you can't, it something he has to deal with himself.

[DaAzNkIgGa627]

if a man is constantly comparing a girl to his girlfriend saying things like 'i always do that to my girlfriend' or saying 'i had a girlfriend like you blah blah blah she was really sweet' and teasing her and stuff.. what does that mean?

does it mean that there's attraction, or does it mean that he's just an a hole?

If he's a guy in a relationship he's happy to see there are girls like his girlfriend. Makes him happy for him to think of her.
If he's a guy that's out of a relationship, he's reminiscing in the past....

i have a few questions..

How do you know when a guy is just being friendly or he's interested?

This boy I kind of like is a VERY nice person and he's popular with girls.. We started talking a few days ago, and last night at the football game I walked past him because he was talking to a girl and he yelled at me "That's a nice way to say hello!". I was surprised he noticed me (and the girl he was talking to gave me a mean look =_=).. and it was weird that he yelled out since we weren't even that close.
Later on, I went back to him and said a "proper hello". He said to be "You know you're my favorite person right?" and I rolled my eyes because..geeze, I'm sure he says that to all his girl friends. Then he says "Really, I love you!" (I know he was kidding)
During the game, he was always surrounded by girls. I'm not surprised because he's so popular.. But he didn't approach the girls, they came to him.
After the game, I ran into him. (Not on purpose, it really was a coincidence) I said goodbye to him & he gave me a hug.

Does it mean anything when a guy is friendly to you so quickly?

Ahh Im so confused x_x.. I don't want to like him but he's just rubbing it in..

Lol, well it just sounds like he's either a nice guy or a player.
Well if you guys know each other than it's perfectly normal for him to call you out and hug you, but if you guys aren't so familiar with each other (I can't really tell which... he might think that you guys are closer friends than you are) he might find it more normal to do what he did than how you felt awkward.

Really there are a lot of possibilities to this. You say the girls gave you a bad look, he could be trying to make them (or even you) jealous. He could actually like you, which is also a likely possibility since he did call you out and hugged you (when he hugged you, did anyone else see?) or he could just be a coincited player that thinks he can pick up any girl....

Here's what I think

If he hugged you when other people were around, he's not necessarily interested (although he could be) and it's more likely he's trying to make someone jealous or is just being a nice guy.

If he hugged you kind of away from people or just in a mob where no one really could see or recgonize each other, then it's more likely he's interested in you.

in general, how do you cheer up a guy?

Make him smile... whichever way you can ^.^

[toxic-apple]

how would you feel if an average girl come up and ask you to go for lunch? Would you say yes or no?
for your preference: you have the same class with this girl and talk to her only once. It's a Sat. class. You are smart, active, an ideal guy. She is the opposite. semi-ok comparing to you.

Thanks