[minji]

what should i do about this one guy? there's this guy who's friends with a few of my friends. he came up to me and we started talking and soon after, he asked for my number. after i gave it to him and we went our separate ways, he began texting me all day and night. then the next day, we talked on the phone and he asked what i would be doing tonight and the next night. then, everything stopped the following day. no more texts, calls, whatever. but now, i'm interested in him and he doesn't respond to my texts. i'm just wondering why the sudden loss of interest and should i drop everything?

[ohh melissa]

Why do guys get turned on by anything their girlfriends does? o_O

[ainsleyx33]

Do guys ever start liking a girl they've already once liked before?

[Hienee]

i dont know if this is possible (I have doubts that it is but i sincerely wish it is); so i thought i would ask for your opinions:

is there a way a girl can turn down a guy friend who likes her still remain friends?

From personal experience, i find this doesnt seem to work bcus once he makes a move and the girl turns him down (as nice as possible - but maybe there's a method i dont know about) the friendship cant seem to go back to the way it was.

your thoughts? ^^

[martinee]

ok i have another question.. i normally don't have to ask but this guy is just really difficult to understand. thanks in advance to any who answer. but anyway..

if he's always complimenting you and saying nice things to you, is that any indication of attraction? even if he has a girlfriend.. and a child? and he's pretty much stuck in his relationship? what if he always gives you weird glances that you can't read.. that sounds really vague.. sorry if this post is stupid and unanswerable.

[wifey.]

Nevermind resolved my problem

[mrunwanted]

what should i do about this one guy? there's this guy who's friends with a few of my friends. he came up to me and we started talking and soon after, he asked for my number. after i gave it to him and we went our separate ways, he began texting me all day and night. then the next day, we talked on the phone and he asked what i would be doing tonight and the next night. then, everything stopped the following day. no more texts, calls, whatever. but now, i'm interested in him and he doesn't respond to my texts. i'm just wondering why the sudden loss of interest and should i drop everything?

1) he found another one
2) maybe u said something to him (without noticing it) that made him think that he has no chance with you

Do guys ever start liking a girl they've already once liked before?

hmm not for me since all of them rejected me =(

i dont know if this is possible (I have doubts that it is but i sincerely wish it is); so i thought i would ask for your opinions:is there a way a girl can turn down a guy friend who likes her still remain friends? From personal experience, i find this doesnt seem to work bcus once he makes a move and the girl turns him down (as nice as possible - but maybe there's a method i dont know about) the friendship cant seem to go back to the way it was.your thoughts? ^^

depends on the guy, but yeah i think its possible. dont think its possible though if right from the start, he saw u as a potential gf and not a female friend

I need help! :(He says that he'd NEVER give me another chance because of how much I hurt him that time we broke up before (when I got a new man).

thats harsh. but if he said that, i advise u to give up. sorry.

[repeat_on_echo]

i don't know if this question was asked yet, but there's like 100 pages id' have to look through, haha, so i'll ask.

if a guy flirts with you A LOT, and he calls you baby and stuff, and hugs you everyday and holds your hand, does that mean he likes you? i mean.. probably, right? but then he acts like a jerk on other days.
i don't know if i make sense at all.

[loveof]

do guys think it's weird when they're eating with their friends and a girl just goes up and tap him on the shoulder to say hi? a girl out of no where.

[xyummy]

I need help
I have a few questions: Would you lie to your gf and say that you love her even when you don't?
Under what circumstances would you lie to her? White lies? And to what extent would you define a lie as "white lies"?... err I don't know if that even makes sense at all...

[CIRee]

what should i do about this one guy? there's this guy who's friends with a few of my friends. he came up to me and we started talking and soon after, he asked for my number. after i gave it to him and we went our separate ways, he began texting me all day and night. then the next day, we talked on the phone and he asked what i would be doing tonight and the next night. then, everything stopped the following day. no more texts, calls, whatever. but now, i'm interested in him and he doesn't respond to my texts. i'm just wondering why the sudden loss of interest and should i drop everything?

yeah just let it go, he might have found you not interesting.

Why do guys get turned on by anything their girlfriends does? o_O

Your boyfriend must be one horny guy, give him some because he is craving it.

Do guys ever start liking a girl they've already once liked before?

a guy never truly get over a girl once he likes her.

i dont know if this is possible (I have doubts that it is but i sincerely wish it is); so i thought i would ask for your opinions:

is there a way a girl can turn down a guy friend who likes her still remain friends?

From personal experience, i find this doesnt seem to work bcus once he makes a move and the girl turns him down (as nice as possible - but maybe there's a method i dont know about) the friendship cant seem to go back to the way it was.

your thoughts? ^^

Well there is that social awkwardness lingering. Why must girl alway try to keep the friendship.

ok i have another question.. i normally don't have to ask but this guy is just really difficult to understand. thanks in advance to any who answer. but anyway..

if he's always complimenting you and saying nice things to you, is that any indication of attraction? even if he has a girlfriend.. and a child? and he's pretty much stuck in his relationship? what if he always gives you weird glances that you can't read.. that sounds really vague.. sorry if this post is stupid and unanswerable.

Maybe he is just be nice.

I need help!
My now ex boyfriend & I were together for over two years. During those two years I wasn't the greatest girlfriend. Basically, throughout the whole relationship, his feelings for me were always stronger than mine for him. We broke up once before & during that time I got a new boyfriend for a really short amount of time, and then my ex & I got back together. A few weeks ago he broke up with me, saying he just sees me as a friend, and I felt the same so I was glad to break it off. Before that, everytime I tried to break up with him, he wouldn't let me go. Okay so then after a few weeks I started to miss him alot & regreted letting him go, and I threw away my pride & went back crying, only to get rejected. He says that he'd NEVER give me another chance because of how much I hurt him that time we broke up before (when I got a new man). & Now he's with this other girl, they're seeing eachother. He tells me he likes her, I don't know how much though. And she obviously likes him alot because she broke up with her man of 3 years for my ex, and she's also two years older my ex. Now, is there ANYTHING I can do to get him back? Would not calling him make him miss me, or is that just a girl thing? I really need help, from a guy's point of view. Please please please someone help! Thanks! <333

He found a new love. There's very little chance that you can get him back because he like another girl.

i don't know if this question was asked yet, but there's like 100 pages id' have to look through, haha, so i'll ask.

if a guy flirts with you A LOT, and he calls you baby and stuff, and hugs you everyday and holds your hand, does that mean he likes you? i mean.. probably, right? but then he acts like a jerk on other days.
i don't know if i make sense at all.

YES he like you but dont want to make it obvious.

do guys think it's weird when they're eating with their friends and a girl just goes up and tap him on the shoulder to say hi? a girl out of no where.

The guy would be very flatter but if your ugly then thats another story; he would be the laugh stock of the group.

I need help
I have a few questions: Would you lie to your gf and say that you love her even when you don't?
Under what circumstances would you lie to her? White lies? And to what extent would you define a lie as "white lies"?... err I don't know if that even makes sense at all...

are you forcing him to say "i love you" because if you are then your only forcing him to commit a white lie. A guy wont say "i love you" unless he honestly means it.

[taebins_luver]

do you prefer a shy girl, or one that is more open with herself?

say your current girlfriend isn't as conservative as your ex girlfriend was:
EX: (open girl)
she farts, but only in privet with you around
spits on the ground and hocks(?) green noogies out the window
burps and laughs about it (or can burp the ABC'S)
not afraid to order a double quater pounder with cheese and a large fry and coke
(?) picks her booger?
VERY honest, VERY blunt about EVERYTHING

EX: (shy girl)
excuses herself when she needs to let one slip
covers her mouth and spits into a napkin
tries supa hard not the burp, at least not in front of anyone
orders a salad in an expensive restaurant, even when she's starving hungry
refuses to stick her finger up her nose cause it's disgusting
keeps everything to herself and doesn't say anything

so which do you prefer, and why?
if i were a guy, i'd prefer a girl who's more open about herself
at least i know she's expressing what she feels, even if it's disgusting
she's being who she is and ain't faking it
and she's honest about herself and her feelings too...

[shim shim hae]

i don't think ANYONE wants a girl who spits, so you should probably remove the spitting thing LOL.

i would choose the open one though i guess. the shy one sounds annoying.

[mrunwanted]

the shy girl is also being herself by been shy; thats her personality. shes not faking to be an outspoken person for her bf. isnt that being honest about herself too? i mean, thats what she is.

[sWtB]

ok this is hard to explain....

what if some guy liked me and was upset that i was leaving for college.... (like super upset)
and when i see him he barely talks to me. he seems to be trying to act calm but i can still catch him stealing glances at me.
i wonder what's going on inside his head.... sigh.
haha sorry, i dont even have a real question. just wondering if you have ever felt this way... or if you think you might sorta know what's going on inside his head.

also, if you like someone and you're not quite sure if they like you... would u try to find out?

[lovexiah]

My crush and I went out to have lunch the other day (just us two and we're not close friends - we barely know anything about each other). It was my invite since he gave me a lift home from uni before. We talked when we were on our way there, which is something different coz he's a VERY quiet guy. He told me once that he's very quiet and I told him that he should talk more so i guess he has 'improved' this time? Anyway, we talked and he told me about what he wants to do in the future, briefly on his family and say some jokes as well. He then ask a few questions like how I was in high school and that. (we went to the same high school but he was a year above me). Overall, it was a nice lunch.

That went well right?....

The problem is, we dont talk after that, not even on msn. I asked him why before and he said that he doesnt talk much on msn. but i thought things would be different after the lunch thing. I don't see him at uni often either so it's even harder for us to talk.

I'm confused, does this guy have anything for me or does he only simply see me as friend?

[DaAzNkIgGa627]

do you prefer a shy girl, or one that is more open with herself?

say your current girlfriend isn't as conservative as your ex girlfriend was:
EX: (open girl)
she farts, but only in privet with you around
spits on the ground and hocks(?) green noogies out the window
burps and laughs about it (or can burp the ABC'S)
not afraid to order a double quater pounder with cheese and a large fry and coke
(?) picks her booger?
VERY honest, VERY blunt about EVERYTHING

EX: (shy girl)
excuses herself when she needs to let one slip
covers her mouth and spits into a napkin
tries supa hard not the burp, at least not in front of anyone
orders a salad in an expensive restaurant, even when she's starving hungry
refuses to stick her finger up her nose cause it's disgusting
keeps everything to herself and doesn't say anything

so which do you prefer, and why?
if i were a guy, i'd prefer a girl who's more open about herself
at least i know she's expressing what she feels, even if it's disgusting
she's being who she is and ain't faking it
and she's honest about herself and her feelings too...

Well you have to be careful, the shy girl is also being herself, that's just the way she expresses herself. I'd choose the shy girl, I mean I'm one of those "shy" guys under your example. I am very polite and gentlemen-esque when it comes to public image.

I'd choose the shy girl.... The open girl kinda sounds disgusting... If that girl is more "open" than most of my male friends who keep no attention to their image etc.... well then =P

ok this is hard to explain....

what if some guy liked me and was upset that i was leaving for college.... (like super upset)
and when i see him he barely talks to me. he seems to be trying to act calm but i can still catch him stealing glances at me.
i wonder what's going on inside his head.... sigh.
haha sorry, i dont even have a real question. just wondering if you have ever felt this way... or if you think you might sorta know what's going on inside his head.

also, if you like someone and you're not quite sure if they like you... would u try to find out?

I do that sort of. I sometimes glance while seeming in tuned to my surroundings when I'm really not. There's really nothing to it actually.

And if I liked someone but I'm not sure if they liked me, I probably would pursue it subtly. As in I'd fish around.

My crush and I went out to have lunch the other day (just us two and we're not close friends - we barely know anything about each other). It was my invite since he gave me a lift home from uni before. We talked when we were on our way there, which is something different coz he's a VERY quiet guy. He told me once that he's very quiet and I told him that he should talk more so i guess he has 'improved' this time? Anyway, we talked and he told me about what he wants to do in the future, briefly on his family and say some jokes as well. He then ask a few questions like how I was in high school and that. (we went to the same high school but he was a year above me). Overall, it was a nice lunch.

That went well right?....

The problem is, we dont talk after that, not even on msn. I asked him why before and he said that he doesnt talk much on msn. but i thought things would be different after the lunch thing. I don't see him at uni often either so it's even harder for us to talk.

I'm confused, does this guy have anything for me or does he only simply see me as friend?

Personally I think he only views you as a friend because he doesn't really go out of his way to see you. He was probably being a nice polite dude that because of your invite was a little talkative.

Just try to hang out with some more, and then tease him that he should get on MSN or something like that. Then maybe something will start ^.~

[lovexiah]

He was probably being a nice polite dude that because of your invite was a little talkative.

sorry, i'm a bit confuse of what you wrote here. If you were referring to how we talked during our way there and that he talked a lot, that was after i've invited him. I actually meant we were on our way to the restaurant. I invited him on msn. Sorry for not making it clear.

Also, was just curious about another thing. His brothers and my sister are friends and one night at the pary they were at, one of them went up to her and asked if I have a boyfriend, am I still living at home and if I liked anyone. This was 2 days before me and him went out to lunch.

p.s.I don't think the little brother has anything for me since he likes my sister. lol.

[random azn]

is it normal for a guy to keep their status as "single" when in a relationship? like my boyfriend still keeps his status like that, even though we been going out for like two days now.

[yanshimkim]

Let's say you've known this girl for 7 years, you've been friends (but not like, best friends) and then she confessed to you through a letter yesterday.

How would you react if
a.) you didn't like the girl or
b.) liked her back? :x

Would you let her know of your feelings (whether you liked her or not) or just let it be?