[EYJAYJAY]

how should girls pull off a good first impression?

What is with girls and caring so much about first impressions. Act like yourself. If you don't, you are leading that person with false hope. Talk to him and be yourself. If you did give him a bad impression, it can always be changed through new actions.

lol i agree with deafz, stop worrying bout that "first impression". like seriously, just be real thats how we REAL guys like girls. u think things can last long with guys who go for girls with fake images? if you pretend to not be yourself, the dude wouldnt like YOU but someone who you pretend to be. so just be you.

I know this guy who is extremely clingy. In the past I've been really mean because I can't stand how he stares at my chest when he talks (like a FULL stare, as if my face was on my chest or something ) and I've told him I don't like him staring at my chest and he denied it). So I felt bad and I tried to be nice so I asked him to play tennis with me and my friends.

One day he called me on my cellphone.
I never gave him my number before.
So I asked him where he got my number from.
He said he's had it for a while. (...)

So yeah I guess he thinks we're buddy buddy now just because I asked him to play tennis. And when I'm talking to my friends he randomly pops into the conversation, or stares at me in the creepiest way and listens in on the conversation until my friend and I stop talking because we notice him staring.

There are more things that make me dislike him but I think you need to meet this guy to know to a full extent how creepy this guy is (researching on the price of our friends homes, using hacker software to get into our xangas, finding out about parties that had private invitations, trying to start gossip ['hey did you hear' 'i heard that blah blah EHEH EHEH EHEH' 'hey did you know that blah blah likes you'] etc).

My question is, do you know why he's acting like that? Why he likes to poke into peoples private matters? I just want to know if all guys are secretly like this or is it just this guy. If you have any question I will answer

that dude has major problem. i'd just stay away from him, far far away.

Actually if a guy looks at the girl more than once outside, and seems to be interested in the lady. But why doesnt he step forward and ask for her no. or sth? Are guys scared of ladies? What are the other possible reasons?

some guys may be shy or intimidated by the girl even if they are interested. and maybe he's not interested and he's only checking the girl out. just cuz he gives that look doesnt mean he has to come over to get your number. also.. the girl might be just another eye candy, good looking but not date-able (bad personality or unmatching personality) or even do-able material (rumors about how the girl has std or something)

hmm what does it mean when you give a guy your number after just meeting him, then the VERY next MORNING right when he WAKES UP... he calls you?

and then you hang out and that same night he calls you and talks to you on the phone until like 2 in the morning talking about random things..

but he doesnt say that he likes you... and he tells you that he doesnt want anything from you?

that doesnt mean he has to 'like' you. i think he wants to get to know you more first.

[darkangel1992]

What is it about a girl that makes a guy think that she's adorable?

A typical guy might say that the asset make a girl adorable but I say that what on the inside makes them adorable^_^

[twinkle_toe]

If a girl was rejected by a guy when they barely knew each other, but she made the mistake of confessing too early, should she try again or move on?

The girl and the guy are still friends.

[T_I_N_A20]

There's this guy in my school that I've recently met a few weeks ago with a bunch of friends. Ever since then, he always calling me *my bro's name*'s sister and I called him back with *my bro*'s friend. After that, I noticed he was staring at me sometimes when I'm not looking and we have eyes contact sometimes.

Yesterday while I was talking to him friend, he tried kicking me in the butt and I tried kicking him in the middle. I accidently kick him on his left side of his jeans then he acted strange, sorta distance all of a sudden because I asked him if I dirty it. Today, I went to the cafeteria this morning and I was sitting in his table and I slept a little bit. He was calling me *bro*'s sister many times and I asked if anybody has time, he took out his camera and he asked me to ask him the time in a certain dialect so I did. Then, he shows me the time on his cellphone and he said in a dialect : What time? I didn't even ask the time again. At lunch time, I was eating and he said my brother is drinking something gross and he's not dating him anymore (as a joke) and I started hitting him a little bit with a bottle of water because I also drink the same thing. I accidently poke his right eye with it so he got mad at me. After I stopped hitting him, he kept calling me the same nicknames. He also gets angry at me easily.

I know that he likes me but it's so strange when I pay attention to him, he distance away and when I don't, he tried grabbing my attention. What does he want really? Why he act so distance all of a sudden and why does he get angry easily ?

[Pinkychan]

yaay i'm abck wiht abnother question ~

say your the dood
and some girl likes you btu you dont really knwo that ~

and the girl's friend s are yelling " _name_ YOUr boyfirends over there ! got alk to him !"
what impression woudl youge t if you ehar dtaht?

oh also when you enter a room where the girl that liesk you is adn everyone is going "ghasp __adn says the girsl name"

oh and precviously the guy had said thte girlw as cute

thanks youuuz xD

[EYJAYJAY]

A typical guy might say that the asset make a girl adorable but I say that what on the inside makes them adorable^_^

read the topic title, guys respond here, not girls.

There's this guy in my school that I've recently met a few weeks ago with a bunch of friends. Ever since then, he always calling me *my bro's name*'s sister and I called him back with *my bro*'s friend. After that, I noticed he was staring at me sometimes when I'm not looking and we have eyes contact sometimes.

Yesterday while I was talking to him friend, he tried kicking me in the butt and I tried kicking him in the middle. I accidently kick him on his left side of his jeans then he acted strange, sorta distance all of a sudden because I asked him if I dirty it. Today, I went to the cafeteria this morning and I was sitting in his table and I slept a little bit. He was calling me *bro*'s sister many times and I asked if anybody has time, he took out his camera and he asked me to ask him the time in a certain dialect so I did. Then, he shows me the time on his cellphone and he said in a dialect : What time? I didn't even ask the time again. At lunch time, I was eating and he said my brother is drinking something gross and he's not dating him anymore (as a joke) and I started hitting him a little bit with a bottle of water because I also drink the same thing. I accidently poke his right eye with it so he got mad at me. After I stopped hitting him, he kept calling me the same nicknames. He also gets angry at me easily.

I know that he likes me but it's so strange when I pay attention to him, he distance away and when I don't, he tried grabbing my attention. What does he want really? Why he act so distance all of a sudden and why does he get angry easily ?

it just seems to me like he's flirting with you in a way most guys dont do. it's similar to playing hard to catch because he's bugging you, trying to get your attention when you aren't paying attention to him, and once you do that, he distances himself until you give up. then he comes back and bugs you again for attention. kinda stupid and definitely annoying for you

yaay i'm abck wiht abnother question ~

say your the dood
and some girl likes you btu you dont really knwo that ~

and the girl's friend s are yelling " _name_ YOUr boyfirends over there ! got alk to him !"
what impression woudl youge t if you ehar dtaht?

oh also when you enter a room where the girl that liesk you is adn everyone is going "ghasp __adn says the girsl name"

oh and precviously the guy had said thte girlw as cute

thanks youuuz xD

speaking for all the guys here, if you would like an answer to your question, at least make your question readable.

If a girl was rejected by a guy when they barely knew each other, but she made the mistake of confessing too early, should she try again or move on?

The girl and the guy are still friends.

either one is fine, it's really up to you. non of us would know what the guy's preference is. some guys like girls who try again, showing that they want to be with them. while other guys may think "why isnt this girl moving on when i clearly told her i dont like her the same way?"

[Deafz]

A typical guy might say that the asset make a girl adorable but I say that what on the inside makes them adorable^_^

I sorta agree with you. But I think how the person acts makes them adorable.

There's this guy in my school that I've recently met a few weeks ago with a bunch of friends. Ever since then, he always calling me *my bro's name*'s sister and I called him back with *my bro*'s friend. After that, I noticed he was staring at me sometimes when I'm not looking and we have eyes contact sometimes.

Yesterday while I was talking to him friend, he tried kicking me in the butt and I tried kicking him in the middle. I accidently kick him on his left side of his jeans then he acted strange, sorta distance all of a sudden because I asked him if I dirty it. Today, I went to the cafeteria this morning and I was sitting in his table and I slept a little bit. He was calling me *bro*'s sister many times and I asked if anybody has time, he took out his camera and he asked me to ask him the time in a certain dialect so I did. Then, he shows me the time on his cellphone and he said in a dialect : What time? I didn't even ask the time again. At lunch time, I was eating and he said my brother is drinking something gross and he's not dating him anymore (as a joke) and I started hitting him a little bit with a bottle of water because I also drink the same thing. I accidently poke his right eye with it so he got mad at me. After I stopped hitting him, he kept calling me the same nicknames. He also gets angry at me easily.

I know that he likes me but it's so strange when I pay attention to him, he distance away and when I don't, he tried grabbing my attention. What does he want really? Why he act so distance all of a sudden and why does he get angry easily ?

He sounds a little odd. You said he likes you. Maybe, he's shy. Hm... Like, he is scared to act. Like he does something then he worried he did the wrong thing. I'm sorry if my explanation is bad.

yaay i'm abck wiht abnother question ~

say your the dood
and some girl likes you btu you dont really knwo that ~

and the girl's friend s are yelling " _name_ YOUr boyfirends over there ! got alk to him !"
what impression woudl youge t if you ehar dtaht?

oh also when you enter a room where the girl that liesk you is adn everyone is going "ghasp __adn says the girsl name"

oh and precviously the guy had said thte girlw as cute

thanks youuuz xD

EDITED VERSION

Yay. I'm back with another question.

Say you're the dude and some girl likes you but you don't really know that. The girls' friends are yelling " 'your name", your boyfriend is over there. Go talk to him." What impression would you get if you heard that.

Oh also, when you enter a room where the girl that likes you is in. Everyone is going "ghasp __and says the girl's name"?

Oh and previously the guy had said the girl was cute.

Thank you. XD

I tried to fix your thing as best I can. I hope it helps. You really need to fix your spelling. It's hard to read. I think the girl should ask the guy out if she likes him back.

[akira-san]

my cousin kissed my girl bestfriend, though he already has a girlfriend~
do you think he likes her? by the way, she is not a flirt or kinky so i don't think
she just provoked him.

[jooeun___237]

how do you know that a guy is losing interest in you?

and

what signs does a guy show when he likes a girl?


thanku^^

[blatant]

why do you guys just stare and never talk to some of us? it's kind of funny, i guess...

[Jun_Lao]

why do you guys just stare and never talk to some of us? it's kind of funny, i guess...

cuz that boy doesnt have the balls to approach u...or u have something on ur face

[teekay]

why do guys always tend to fall for those club, partying, drinking type of girls more than those with brain&high iq?

[Jun_Lao]

why do guys always tend to fall for those club, partying, drinking type of girls more than those with brain&high iq?

cuz those girls tend to be more physically attractive (most times), but those girls are retarded. guys judge first by appearance, and since those girls party and drink more, guys think those girls are more easier to get with. my friends all like those girls but i think theyre so dumb. i learnt my lesson but ive seen so many guys who dont learn, go through the same bullsh*t drama over and over again with girls they meet from the club. what dumbasses

[moonk379]

my cousin kissed my girl bestfriend, though he already has a girlfriend~
do you think he likes her? by the way, she is not a flirt or kinky so i don't think
she just provoked him.

he could like her or he could be intrigued by her either way a guys a guy. we'll do watever the girls let us do =]

[blatant]

cuz that boy doesnt have the balls to approach u...or u have something on ur face

should i approach him? hahah. or would should i not bother cause guys who have no balls aren't worth it?

[x kisekiboshi]

I think I come to this thread too much... :x But I was wondering if someone could really help me.

This guy's birthday is coming up soon and I have no idea what to buy him. I was thinking like a gift card to Abercrombie or Hollister, but does that seem not "thoughtful" enough? I was thinking about baking him chocolate chip cookies (since his nickname for me is cookie) or baking him brownies. Anyway, I was wondering if somebody could tell me what gifts guys like to receive for their birthdays, especially from a girl who is just more than a friend to them. Also, what do guys think of receiving baked goods from a girl?

[EYJAYJAY]

should i approach him? hahah. or would should i not bother cause guys who have no balls aren't worth it?

guys who arent brave enough to approach you doesnt mean that they arent bf material and they may be far better than some of those guys who are more open. and people can change from the influence of others. but check your face first before approaching him, maybe it was something on your face

I think I come to this thread too much... :x But I was wondering if someone could really help me.

This guy's birthday is coming up soon and I have no idea what to buy him. I was thinking like a gift card to Abercrombie or Hollister, but does that seem not "thoughtful" enough? I was thinking about baking him chocolate chip cookies (since his nickname for me is cookie) or baking him brownies. Anyway, I was wondering if somebody could tell me what gifts guys like to receive for their birthdays, especially from a girl who is just more than a friend to them. Also, what do guys think of receiving baked goods from a girl?

make sure those cookies are hot and chewy instead of cold and dry and if you are more than a friend to him.. a kiss would be nice if you havent gotten that far. or take him out on a date

[darkangel1992]

how do you know that a guy is losing interest in you?

and

what signs does a guy show when he likes a girl?
thanku^^

You know a guy is losing interest in you when
the things that used to seem so dear in the past like smiles and hugs, and compliments
are no more and he doesn't do some of the things he used to with you.
Second Question: It varies for different guys-for example the dudes might smile alot when your around or he might not show any sign at all.....

[underneathHERskin]

This guy and I both feel the same way about each other. We've made that clear. But then we've decided to wait it out a bit first before starting anything. Normally, he is very outgoing and he would be the one to approach his friends and start a conversation with them.

Here's the problem, on msn, he'll talk a storm with me but then in real life, he says/does nothing. Sometimes, I'll even sit alone and wait for him to come and start up a convo but then he just walks by. And there was this one time, I was standing alone and so we looked at each other, and he just stood there. Then I went up to my other friend and THEN, he came up and joined us. So I looked at him hoping he'll say something to me but nopeeee. We just stared at each other so I walked away. Bummed me out.

Why is he like this? The thing is, I don't mind waiting. But then it's just that if he doesn't talk to me, then I don't know if I can do this anymore. I don't wanna be the one to approach him everytime since I was the one who confessed first.

Keep in mind, he is NOT the shy type.

[ur AD0RkABLE]

how can i tell if this guy likes me? he keeps sending me mixed signals. it's soo confusing. he flirts with me sometimes but sometimes he's sooper quiet and shy. When we hang out he's really nice and jokes around with me and stuff but he would ignore me when he's around his friends.