[TrueColorS]

nvmmmmmmm. thank you though :]

[Achromatic]

If a guy doesnt bother messaging you back on facebook, then that means there's no interest right?
*sigh*
He's a friend of a friend of mine.
He goes to my school; we've never talked before, but he knows who i am.

I msged him regarding a pair of jeans he's selling and he replied back with the standard info plus a little comment at the end that made me think he wanted to carry the convo.

And then I replied back basically saying that I had changed my mind, but also adding a side comment outside the topic of jeans.

He's been on, but no reply.

God, I sound so stalkerish, but it's facebook.

I think it's obvious he's not interested, but I just wanted to make sure.

[haneul]

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[sle3pyguii]

okay.. i'm kindda confused about my situation. i met this guy.. exactly 2 months ago.. and we've been friends ever since. it seems like i've known him longer than 2 months. ever since i met him.. i've been hanging out with him and our friends in a group like almost every weekend. the thing is.. i'm not sure if he likes me. he did several things for me like:
-he asked me to go to lunch with him. alone. just the two of us.
-he asked me to go shopping. then bought me a heart necklace. yes, he chose that necklace.
-he once stayed on the phone with me till i fell asleep because i was scared (i watched a scary movie. =x lol) actually, he didn't hang up when i fell asleep either. he just stayed on the phone till stupid t-mobile disconnected us. hahah
-when he saw my status on facebook (which was i'm hungry and bored at work).. he called and asked if i wanted something to eat.. and that he'd get it and bring it to me.
-he asked me to go to a haunted house with him and his friends. i said no of course.. because i'm a chicken.
-and he usually i/ms me whenever i'm online. but he won't sing to me when i asked him to =[ lol.

most of my friends think that he likes me. however, recently, one of my closest friends asked him if something was going on between us. he clearly explained to her that we're just friends. but the thing is.. my friend is not good friends with him.. they just.. know each other through me. and he knows my friend and i are good friends. plus, he is not an open guy... so in a way i'm not surprised that he didn't tell her anything..? and also, he is right.. we ARE just friends... but the way he told her.. he sounded so sure that we're plainly just friends. so i'm confused. what do you guys think? does he like me?.. from all those things he did to me? oh btw, he's a really nice and friendly guy.

I'm going to say that he likes you. There must be a reason why be bought you a necklace for no random reason.

If a guy doesnt bother messaging you back on facebook, then that means there's no interest right?
*sigh*
He's a friend of a friend of mine.
He goes to my school; we've never talked before, but he knows who i am.

I msged him regarding a pair of jeans he's selling and he replied back with the standard info plus a little comment at the end that made me think he wanted to carry the convo.

And then I replied back basically saying that I had changed my mind, but also adding a side comment outside the topic of jeans.

He's been on, but no reply.

God, I sound so stalkerish, but it's facebook.

I think it's obvious he's not interested, but I just wanted to make sure.

You're jumping to conclusions. Facebook messages don't mean anything. I don't feel like answering messages sometimes, so I don't. Simple, no?

[megaSTEPxo]

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[amyjeehye]

GUYS: WHY ARE YOU GUYS SO CONFUSING.

[malicious_]

when guys dance with girls at clubs. does it actually mean anything to them at all? or are they just messing around, having a good time? *sighs*

[BlissfulSimplicity]

I have questions too!
Raises hand like a loser!

Okay... So when you guys ask a girl to dance, it usually means that you think they're pretty right?
So if the girl in turn, asks for your number. Would that be weird? I mean if it was just one dance, and she thought you were really cute?
Is that too bold a move on her part?

[blatant]

question question, just read this in the INSECURITY thread:

if guys see a pretty girl, do they immediately fantasize about bending her over and screwing her? D:

[MoonlightChunsa]

If you started chatting with this one girl who you come to like more and more everytime you talk to her and she tells you she may be going back to her exbf. Would you never speak to her again? I mean, it's not like she was sending signals that she like you more than just a friend...so why should you get mad at her, right? I only ask cuz i've been chatting with this one guy alot and it seems like were hitting it of a bit...but, i kind of just wanna be his friend and i think he might want more than that. Then, my exbf has been trying hard to win me back into his life and i find it very sweet so i might go back with him but at the same time i don't wanna end up telling the other guy and than have him hate me for it. So how do most guys react in this type of stich?

[nightz]

question question, just read this in the INSECURITY thread:

if guys see a pretty girl, do they immediately fantasize about bending her over and screwing her? D:

i'd have to say depending on how attractive the girl is and the situation also depends on which guys you're talking about. i'll assume its near 70/30(most guys i meet immediately talk about how hot the girl is, translation: i want to fcuk her, i don't like being crude but i'm pretty certain of this).

If you started chatting with this one girl who you come to like more and more everytime you talk to her and she tells you she may be going back to her exbf. Would you never speak to her again? I mean, it's not like she was sending signals that she like you more than just a friend...so why should you get mad at her, right? I only ask cuz i've been chatting with this one guy alot and it seems like were hitting it of a bit...but, i kind of just wanna be his friend and i think he might want more than that. Then, my exbf has been trying hard to win me back into his life and i find it very sweet so i might go back with him but at the same time i don't wanna end up telling the other guy and than have him hate me for it. So how do most guys react in this type of stich?

this situation happened to me twice but i actually just found out the girl has a boyfriend or was in the middle of getting a boyfriend. i never really found myself looking at her as anything but a friend because i thought she was too attractive for someone like me. later on i felt like she was getting more comfortable talking to me and i was kind of taken by her. later on i found out she had a boyfriend and i was crushed because i thought that she was really sweet and maybe, just maybe she'd give me a chance. i try to distance myself from girls that i'm attracted to who have boyfriends because i know nothing is going to happen.now its kind of awkward because i still want to talk to her but its not the same as before.

I have questions too!
Raises hand like a loser!

Okay... So when you guys ask a girl to dance, it usually means that you think they're pretty right?
So if the girl in turn, asks for your number. Would that be weird? I mean if it was just one dance, and she thought you were really cute?
Is that too bold a move on her part?

generally speaking, yes if a guy asks you to dance it means you're attractive. i mean lets think about this, if you were ugly would he want to be seen dancing with you? i don't mean to sound callous it's just how i think. and no i don't think its weird at all that you're being forward. i think its actually great, i wish i had girls asking for my phone number ...lol.

when guys dance with girls at clubs. does it actually mean anything to them at all? or are they just messing around, having a good time? *sighs*

i don't like lying. more than often guys at clubs are just messing around looking for a quick screw.

[nightz]

GUYS: WHY ARE YOU GUYS SO CONFUSING.

trust me, we're not. we actually say what we think. women i think are completely opposite. and that's why i think girls and guys will never 100% understand each other. eventually we get to the point of hiding stuff from you all if we know it'll just get you angry or upset with us. on the other hand i think girls hide a lot of what they're really feeling, making a delicate situation even more complicated.

[pooglypoogs]

I've been going out with my bf for more than 2 years. I've always felt that I usually take the initiate to start sex, which gets a bit tiring, you know? I've told him that I wish he was more pro-active, but the boy just doesn't learn. Any ideas?

[hibari]

Haha, i never get advice b/c I'm usually pretty good at reading guys. I'm pretty sure I know the answer to this but I just want another opinion. So there was this kid that i knew n mid school. We were always playing around around, everyone thought we were dating and we were even valentines (i asked him about two yrs later if he liked me then and he said no). Round the last mths of mid school he completely ignored me and we never spoke again. My freshman year of college i facebooked him. He messaged me then I ,him and we went back n forth for a while until I wrote the last message and he never responded.
I understand that maybe he was tired of it and I sumtimes take weeks to respond back. Then, some months passed and I thought maybe he didn't write back because i had cursed at him and he maybe thought I was serious. However, he most likely didn't know this so my way of making amends i wrote sumthin funny n our details part and he approved it. i've told him happy birthday b4 and my friend messaged him to try to get a response. He never wrote back and its been almost 4 yrs now. Basically, I'm being ignored all over again. i thought he was a nice kid,is he really a jerk? I'd like for us to be really good friends.

[miika]

this guy i kind of like
says he likes me
but he likes other girls too.

would it not be wise to go out with him?
he says that
if one of the girls he likes likes him back
then he'll forget the other ones.
but i don't really know how thats possible.......
or are most guys like this?

[sle3pyguii]

GUYS: WHY ARE YOU GUYS SO CONFUSING.

Guys are confusing to girls because girls are complex, relative to guys. Our thought processes are very simple, and therefore, cannot be fully understood by someone who thinks very complexly (girls). For example, when girls give gifts, they want it to be full of meaning and all that emotional stuff. When guys give gifts, we get people what they've hinted they want or what we think they want.

question question, just read this in the INSECURITY thread:

if guys see a pretty girl, do they immediately fantasize about bending her over and screwing her? D:

HAHAHAHAHA. Sometimes yes, sometimes no. It depends on the girl. If she is under the category of hot, then the fantasy that you mentioned starts. Any other categories, like cute, beautiful, gorgeous, not so much.

If you started chatting with this one girl who you come to like more and more everytime you talk to her and she tells you she may be going back to her exbf. Would you never speak to her again? I mean, it's not like she was sending signals that she like you more than just a friend...so why should you get mad at her, right? I only ask cuz i've been chatting with this one guy alot and it seems like were hitting it of a bit...but, i kind of just wanna be his friend and i think he might want more than that. Then, my exbf has been trying hard to win me back into his life and i find it very sweet so i might go back with him but at the same time i don't wanna end up telling the other guy and than have him hate me for it. So how do most guys react in this type of stich?

1st step: annoyance with girl.
2nd step: annoyance with self.
3rd step: frustration.
4th step: a small release of anger.
5th step: indifference.
6th step: back to normal.

[moonk379]

I've been going out with my bf for more than 2 years. I've always felt that I usually take the initiate to start sex, which gets a bit tiring, you know? I've told him that I wish he was more pro-active, but the boy just doesn't learn. Any ideas?

just dont put out until he makes the move first and trust me he'll make the move first within first 3 days lol

Haha, i never get advice b/c I'm usually pretty good at reading guys. I'm pretty sure I know the answer to this but I just want another opinion. So there was this kid that i knew n mid school. We were always playing around around, everyone thought we were dating and we were even valentines (i asked him about two yrs later if he liked me then and he said no). Round the last mths of mid school he completely ignored me and we never spoke again. My freshman year of college i facebooked him. He messaged me then I ,him and we went back n forth for a while until I wrote the last message and he never responded. I understand that maybe he was tired of it and I sumtimes take weeks to respond back. Then, some months passed and I thought maybe he didn't write back because i had cursed at him and he maybe thought I was serious. However, he most likely didn't know this so my way of making amends i wrote sumthin funny n our details part and he approved it. i've told him happy birthday b4 and my friend messaged him to try to get a response. He never wrote back and its been almost 4 yrs now. Basically, I'm being ignored all over again. i thought he was a nice kid,is he really a jerk? I'd like for us to be really good friends.

yeah he probably was tired of it becuz no one likes messaging that sometimes take over few weeks to reply back. personally someone i msg did that to me and i just dont bother replyin back either becuz its pointless.

i just started dating this guyhe says he likes me a lotbut he doesnt show it much at alland our conversations are really weird and boring. and in the beginning he used to text me a loot.........but now when i text him he replies back in like at least 30 - 40 min =.=??i asked him what qualities he doesnt like abt girlsand he said nothing =///I have no idea what hes thinking -_____________-or am i just thinking toooo much?!i just started dating this guyhe says he likes me a lotbut he doesnt show it much at alland our conversations are really weird and boring. and in the beginning he used to text me a loot.........but now when i text him he replies back in like at least 30 - 40 min =.=??i asked him what qualities he doesnt like abt girlsand he said nothing =///I have no idea what hes thinking -_____________-or am i just thinking toooo much?!

lol i thought my eyes were goin nuts cuz i keep seeein the same sentences lol but yeah seems like you guys lack chemistry... dunno why you guys are still together ><

[T_I_N_A20]

There's this guy that I talk about in page 186. Well he has a girlfriend now and that girl is also my friend. Anyways, I was sitting at their table looking bored and I was kinda uncomfortable because I don't like sitting in a table where there's a couple who's hugging each other. Well, that guy keeps staring at me when I'm not looking but he has a girlfriend already. I know that he likes me in some way, but we never really talk and he just keeps looking at me while hugging his girlfriend. Does it mean that he still likes me or something? I know for sure that he got over me because he stops bothering me and he stops calling me : my "brother's" sister but I don't know why he's looking at me.

Does it mean anything to you guys when you have a girlfriend but you keep staring at another girl.

[Deafz]

I have questions too!
Raises hand like a loser!

Okay... So when you guys ask a girl to dance, it usually means that you think they're pretty right?
So if the girl in turn, asks for your number. Would that be weird? I mean if it was just one dance, and she thought you were really cute?
Is that too bold a move on her part?

Just do it. It can't hurt. If he is interested he will give it up. If he can't or doesn't want to then yeah he won't.

question question, just read this in the INSECURITY thread:

if guys see a pretty girl, do they immediately fantasize about bending her over and screwing her? D:

Some guys do it. Some don't. Some do sometimes. So do it always. So many factors play in this situation.
Do girls do that? Just wondering.

I've been going out with my bf for more than 2 years. I've always felt that I usually take the initiate to start sex, which gets a bit tiring, you know? I've told him that I wish he was more pro-active, but the boy just doesn't learn. Any ideas?

Talk to him, face to face, about it. I'm not much help. Sorry.

[miika]

okay, i fixed the question^ LOL
i don't know why the sentences all merged together. i was using the school mac-_-