[kimseo]

uhm, in my english class, this really shy and quiet guy sat next to my friend out of alllll the empty seats in our class (he couldve sat by himself or with his friends), which are also pretty spread out. then all of a sudden he started to initiate conversation but it always ended up dying because they've only known eachother for a couple days or so...but he tries to bring something up to talk about again a couple of minutes after its been silent (i sat next to them o_o). does it mean he has a slight interest in her? she isn't sure haha >_<


and a question i have ^^
if you were your girlfriend's first boyfriend and pretty much her first kiss, how would you feel when she told you? would you treat her differently? >_<
she isn't your first girlfriend but your her first boyfriend.

[-K-]

^
1) i think he's interested
2)why would i treat her differently, lol? infact, i'd be flattered.

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misspiggy,
I think he wants more than just a friend, by being or try to be close to you. And what happened to his gf?

agiri,
Im not so sure, it could be either one of them. Why dont you wait a lil longer and see how it goes, and do you guys flirt alot? and if you're seeing him the next weekend, just be yourself (its gonna get awkward if things doesnt go your way) good luck =)

[ANJEE<3]

what does it mean when a guy saids that "she's just hard to describe" ? i know usually when it comes to guys.. its best to just take it litterally.. but.. how do you take that litterally? O_o" what does hard to describe mean? T___T"!

[-K-]

^ is it because the things that you do are confusing him?

[ishanx]

Why does guys start to treat me differently after rejecting them.. Ultimately its my choice

[ultaeja]

What does it mean when a guy says that you look nice today? O_O

[ANJEE<3]

^ is it because the things that you do are confusing him?

no?? O_o"

it started out like this

i was planning an event a month earlier and he and another coworker were talking about how early it was.. and he just said "well it's TINGITNG<3, she's you know".. my coworker assumed that he was calling me weird or something not nice but he replied to that with "i'm not saying she's weird or not, just hard to describe, that's all"

so yeah... just curious as to what he meant by me being hard to discribe if what happened earlier will help..

[cloudydaze]

Fellas

so you like a guy.
he has girlfriend.
shes sweet and reallly really likes him
you guys are good friends
and chat/ talk often
he teases you alot
and sometimes you swear hes staring at you
but when its comes down to it
you really dont know how he feels
sometimes you swear he likes you
sometimes you swear he doesnt
hes the type thats really nice/ weaksauce
he would never have the heart/ balls to go for you/ break up even if he did like you.
What do you think? what do you do? push him away? Be more forward?
love sucks.

[sle3pyguii]

Why does guys start to treat me differently after rejecting them.. Ultimately its my choice

A guy likes you and therefore starts to be nice. Once he knows he has no chance with you, there is no point in trying to be nice. Being a friend with the girl you like is worse because once you cross the friend territory, you can never go back.

What does it mean when a guy says that you look nice today? O_O

It means you look nice.

Fellas

so you like a guy.
he has girlfriend.
shes sweet and reallly really likes him
you guys are good friends
and chat/ talk often
he teases you alot
and sometimes you swear hes staring at you
but when its comes down to it
you really dont know how he feels
sometimes you swear he likes you
sometimes you swear he doesnt
hes the type thats really nice/ weaksauce
he would never have the heart/ balls to go for you/ break up even if he did like you.
What do you think? what do you do? push him away? Be more forward?
love sucks.

You just be his friend, nothing more nothing less. You push him away, and he'll feel bad.

[mrunwanted]

uhm, in my english class, this really shy and quiet guy sat next to my friend out of alllll the empty seats in our class (he couldve sat by himself or with his friends), which are also pretty spread out. then all of a sudden he started to initiate conversation but it always ended up dying because they've only known eachother for a couple days or so...but he tries to bring something up to talk about again a couple of minutes after its been silent (i sat next to them o_o). does it mean he has a slight interest in her? she isn't sure haha >_<

yeah he's probably interested in her. tell yr friend to give him a chance ok? it takes courage (esp. if he's the shy type) to engage in conversation especially when everyone can see whats going on.

Why does guys start to treat me differently after rejecting them.. Ultimately its my choice

yeah it's yr choice but it still hurts u know? and the only way i can forget someone i liked before is to cut off all and any type of communication i had before with her. i dont have to worry about girls contacting me because they dont.

What does it mean when a guy says that you look nice today? O_O

u look nice. dont think too much.

[VindictusDame]

recently W knows that I like him 'cause some busybodies told him so... And during our graduation day, my friends asked him to have a picture taken with me. Needless to say, I was so embarassed ( more like... shy)... but he was ok about it. So we took a few pics and he was standing really close to me. i could actually feel myself leaning on him. LOL. OK, so I asked his friend who also happens to be my friend, "who does W likes..?" and she replied, "he is still thinking bout his ex..."

ok. so i thought, "fine, i'll just forget bout him then..." but just when i wanted to do so, Rev ( another friend) told me that W asked for my pictures and videos of me singing from a friend. So, does that mean he likes me too?? But the weird thing is, whenever i look at him, he would look away or just wouldn't look at me. I have a feeling like he's avoiding me... maybe he knows i like him and he doesn't like me back, so he wants to avoid me... if that's the case, i can understand. but then, why is he asking for my pictures from my friends? this, i cannot understand. can someone help me out?

plus, when we're at tuition classes, i noticed that he would wait till i walk past his desk before he would leave the class. these happened for as long as i remembered, but it kinda stopped when he knows i like him. and during our exams, by sheer luck, i sat beside him ( we chatted happily during those times). but after the exam and when we're back in our own class ( we're not in the same class) we kinda stopped chatting. like, we don't even say hi o whatsoever. the other day when i was going to the toilet, i saw him walking towards me at the opposite direction. i looked at him , hoping he would look back and i would gladly say "helo"...... but NO, he just walked past beside me, without any eye contact as if i'm invisible. what's wrong with him?

[EYJAYJAY]

recently W knows that I like him 'cause some busybodies told him so... And during our graduation day, my friends asked him to have a picture taken with me. Needless to say, I was so embarassed ( more like... shy)... but he was ok about it. So we took a few pics and he was standing really close to me. i could actually feel myself leaning on him. LOL. OK, so I asked his friend who also happens to be my friend, "who does W likes..?" and she replied, "he is still thinking bout his ex..."

ok. so i thought, "fine, i'll just forget bout him then..." but just when i wanted to do so, Rev ( another friend) told me that W asked for my pictures and videos of me singing from a friend. So, does that mean he likes me too?? But the weird thing is, whenever i look at him, he would look away or just wouldn't look at me. I have a feeling like he's avoiding me... maybe he knows i like him and he doesn't like me back, so he wants to avoid me... if that's the case, i can understand. but then, why is he asking for my pictures from my friends? this, i cannot understand. can someone help me out?

plus, when we're at tuition classes, i noticed that he would wait till i walk past his desk before he would leave the class. these happened for as long as i remembered, but it kinda stopped when he knows i like him. and during our exams, by sheer luck, i sat beside him ( we chatted happily during those times). but after the exam and when we're back in our own class ( we're not in the same class) we kinda stopped chatting. like, we don't even say hi o whatsoever. the other day when i was going to the toilet, i saw him walking towards me at the opposite direction. i looked at him , hoping he would look back and i would gladly say "helo"...... but NO, he just walked past beside me, without any eye contact as if i'm invisible. what's wrong with him?

seems like he went through a phase and is moving onto the next phase. first phase is when he was unsure of his feelings. it seems to me that he was interested in you while trying to get over his ex (but i may be wrong on that), so basically he had feelings for both of you at the same time. and im guessing that he solved it and moved onto the next phase where he decided to either focus on getting over his ex or try to get back with her. his current action kinda tells me that he's trying to not lead you on.

[xRAWR muffins]

Hmm.
QUESTION :

I heard one of my guy best friends likes me but, he always complements other girls and says they look pretty and when it comes to me he calls me manly and makes fun of me.

D:< But when I don't give him a hug he gets mad.

Whats going on in his lil fluffy head?

[-K-]

^guys tease you when they like you? =DDD

[babybluesxo]

how can you tell when a guy likes you?

[EYJAYJAY]

how can you tell when a guy likes you?

there are like a gazillion answers to that AND this question has been asked a gazillion times.

[mrunwanted]

how can you tell when a guy likes you?

i'll focus all my attention on her and pratically ignore all other girls around lol i'll talk to her whenever possible and of course ask her for a date

[addickshun]

can a guy still like a girl even though he doesn't talk to her 24/7?

[EYJAYJAY]

can a guy still like a girl even though he doesn't talk to her 24/7?

why not?

[vietbabi]

i have a question. my bf is really shy and we just recently started dating. i have to make all of the moves b/c he's too shy to do anything. so the question is, how do i get him to make the first move for anything. i'm always the one to hug him first, and kiss him (fyi. we have not made out yet). also when we're walking, we do not hold hands. i tried to hold his hand the other day and he was like "i dont know why you like to hold hands." i have no idea if he was joking or not, but do guys not like to hold hands and how do i get him to start making the move? help!