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#3901 JENNUINE

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Posted 06 November 2007 - 05:54 PM

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Posted 06 November 2007 - 06:29 PM

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#3903 martinee

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Posted 08 November 2007 - 02:31 PM

what on EARTH does it mean when a man calls you 'trouble'? i've gotten that like 5x yesterday and no one will tell me why. it's srsly annoying me! fyi, i haven't played any pranks on people or caused any sort of mischief or chaos. at least not that i know of.

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Posted 08 November 2007 - 05:51 PM

WHAT DOES IT MEAN IF a guy always notices your absences and always asks your whereabouts? IF a guy watches you enough that he's actually memorized your laugh? When you say you'll be there for him, he looks at you sincerely in the eyes and replies "Thank you. Really" as if he put his whole life into those words? IF a guy is willing to summer school a course he loathes and is willing to go to a school really FAR away from his house just to stop you from crying? He holds on tight when you hug? IF he gets mad at other guys for you? And when he has problems, he wants you there but when it's just the two of you he can't seem to tell you what's up?

WHAT DOES IT MEAN IF that guy's your ex?

AND what does it mean if that guy has a girlfriend of half a year whom he really is in love with?

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#3905 j'adoreAZNpop

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Posted 08 November 2007 - 08:00 PM

nevermind ^^
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#3906 addickshun

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Posted 08 November 2007 - 10:47 PM

what does it mean if my crush is close to me but he's also close my best friend?
does it mean he's to like us, he likes us both?

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Posted 08 November 2007 - 11:05 PM

Nevermind, i'll ask elsewhere (=

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#3908 moonk379

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Posted 09 November 2007 - 12:26 AM

QUOTE(j'adoreAZNpop @ Nov 8 2007, 08:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

last month, i asked this guy friend from my program if he wants to get lunch and study together for midterm. that day he was more like a tutor lol ... and i bought him ice cap as a way to thank him. i also found out he has gf... which i have met. we are all working on this contest together.this week, after a class, he went up to me and asked me if i have time for lunch. i agreed and he told me to pick place after i asked for recommendations. at that sushi place, he began talking about ideas, etc for the contest... and we later babbled other stuff. when the bill came, i quickly took out money first...thought we should play dutch.as for walking back to campus, we didnt talk too much... it was damn cold and he was developing the flu. was this "date" overall successful or weird?ok to ask him next time for lunch and to play pool?

are you tryin to steal him from his girlfriend?

QUOTE(addickshun @ Nov 8 2007, 10:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

what does it mean if my crush is close to me but he's also close my best friend?does it mean he's to like us, he likes us both?

he could either like you or your best friend or maybe both but usually guys get close to girls to get wit them.. so if he has a crush on your best friend of course hes gonna try to get points by gettin close to you and vice versa.

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#3909 greymoose

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Posted 09 November 2007 - 12:43 AM

what does it mean when guys ask you about what you like in a guy and what my past relaionships were like? well basically hes asked me all of these kind of gf/bf romance questions. haha.is he just curious or intrested?

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#3910 AnglLttlGr

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Posted 09 November 2007 - 11:34 AM

What does it mean when a guy leaves you hanging? Is it really embarrassing to express your feelings? Why can't guys just say what's on their mind when they're with a girl?

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#3911 j'adoreAZNpop

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Posted 09 November 2007 - 01:46 PM

QUOTE(moonk379 @ Nov 9 2007, 03:26 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

are you tryin to steal him from his girlfriend?

hey moonk379~

NOOOOO O_O i never had that intention... when i asked him out to study last month, i had NO CLUE he has a gf (they met recently anyway too LOL).
i met his gf and him days after that lunch/study day... we were working on this contest.
i assume the reason he asked me this time was just a "friends only" lunch "date"?

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#3912 soulclaimingice

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Posted 09 November 2007 - 08:17 PM

QUOTE(AnglLttlGr @ Nov 9 2007, 02:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

It's not embarassing to express our feelings - well for me at least. It's just that if we do so and get shut out, we lose the girl forever, and we don't like to take the risk - a lot of guys just prefer to keep the flirt going.

#3913 y_yuen12

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Posted 10 November 2007 - 01:01 AM

if a guy likes a girl, is it possible for him to forget her birthday?
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#3914 JENNUINE

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Posted 10 November 2007 - 05:54 AM

I recently broke up with my boyfriend of two years because we're both at different points in life: him being a freshman in college, me being a senior in high school.. yet we both still have feelings for eachother. After we broke up, I realized that I can't take us being apart, and I love him. I talked to him and he said the breakup emotionally drained him completely and he doesn't want to be in a relationship right now.. He told me theres hope for the future.. is that bull or what? Help me out guys, should I move on? or stick it through..

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Posted 10 November 2007 - 05:58 AM

QUOTE(y_yuen12 @ Nov 10 2007, 04:01 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

if a guy likes a girl, is it possible for him to forget her birthday?
thanks

not to forget, but we might just ignore because we don't really want to show it or seem stalkerish.

#3916 ricegod

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Posted 10 November 2007 - 06:03 AM

There's this guy whose behavior confuses me. Although he reciprocates & elaborates on his part of the convo, I always have to be the one who initiate it. Is he more likely to be shy or just not interested?

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Posted 10 November 2007 - 08:13 AM

QUOTE(y_yuen12 @ Nov 10 2007, 01:01 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

if a guy likes a girl, is it possible for him to forget her birthday?
thanks

yes, i forgot my girlfriend's birthday once... she wans't happy

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#3918 tritiahan

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Posted 10 November 2007 - 11:22 AM

lets say youre friends with a girl. and you two somewhat/sort of have a "thing"
but all you two really talk about is like..nonsense. like you dont really TALK about things
such as relationships&stufff. you know, like the stuff that is important in having a good relationship.

are you expecting the girl to bring up the topic anytime soon?
or would it be completely awkward if she does bring it up at some point?

#3919 soulclaimingice

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Posted 10 November 2007 - 11:34 AM

QUOTE(tritiahan @ Nov 10 2007, 02:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

The girl will almost never, if ever, make the first step. You do it.

#3920 mango-iee

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Posted 10 November 2007 - 07:33 PM

Why do most guy like to judge different girls on differents looks.
Every girl is the same. We have 2 eyes, 2 ears, 1 nose, 1 mouth, 2 arms, 2 legs and a body.
What is the difference between each girls? Theres a quote that said "Don't judge a book by it's cover." but why
are you gentlemen likes to judge us? Is being fat and liking a guy a crime? Is being picky for boyfriends to fairytale-ish?
Is liking a guy but getting rejected by them, we deserve to get hurt?