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#3951 User is offline   rong_con88 

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Posted 13 November 2007 - 10:43 PM

1. What does it mean for a guy to keep an orgami heart that a girl made for him in his wallet with him even though he is single right now?
2. And does it mean that a guy is not interested in you when you tried to talk to him and he's still act all cool in front of u like don't really wanna talk even though we have been introduced to each other several times? But he's usually like this, he's not the type of guy that will approach girls, only girls approach him to talk to him?
3. Will a guy think a girl is snotty when she doesn't talk much during a double date, especially if she doesn't talk to him??
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#3952 User is offline   Duey 

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Posted 13 November 2007 - 11:15 PM

QUOTE(BU_RP @ Nov 12 2007, 07:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
LOL at times i feel like theres not enough guys in this thread LOL.

but uhm, just a general question.
Do guys like it when girls are sorta.. well really open?
Cause well me and my boyfriend have been going out for like... not even a month yet.
And im a really open girl smile.gif like i flirt alot, but recently ive been stopping.. except around
GIRLS. And like i've been pretty dirty around him and stuff.. like touching his upper area alot.. LOL uhm..
just saying stuff like "Lets get a room" " Ill seduce you" dadadad and stuff like that.

Do guys really mind if girls are like that?


No we dont mind! we actually love it. but sometimes it can get annoying.
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#3953 User is offline   jshat4 

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Posted 13 November 2007 - 11:21 PM

Trying to gage something...

How would you react to a female friend giving hints that she likes you:
a) if you didn't like her back, but wanted to keep the friendship ~ would you give signs showing disinterest?
cool.gif if you did like her back ~ would you be forward and pursue her at the risk of the friendship?
c) neutral ~ could go either way...currently don't have a crush on the friend or anything, but mayy see it being a possibility

And what do you think is a best way for a girl to test which scenario it is--a) vs. cool.gif vs. c) besides straight-out asking the friend out? Is there a way to do it so that he won't know you like him, but you'll find out how he feels about you? (is that even possible)

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#3954 User is offline   moonk379 

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Posted 13 November 2007 - 11:50 PM

QUOTE(rong_con88 @ Nov 13 2007, 10:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
1. What does it mean for a guy to keep an orgami heart that a girl made for him in his wallet with him even though he is single right now?
2. And does it mean that a guy is not interested in you when you tried to talk to him and he's still act all cool in front of u like don't really wanna talk even though we have been introduced to each other several times? But he's usually like this, he's not the type of guy that will approach girls, only girls approach him to talk to him?
3. Will a guy think a girl is snotty when she doesn't talk much during a double date, especially if she doesn't talk to him??


1. maybe he really likes the origami? cuz i have things girls made for me that i keep somewhere in my room.
2. umm since im not a guy who does that can't really answer.
3. wat would you think if a guy didn't talk to you entire nite?
....cuz the music left wit you.
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#3955 User is offline   chungmonkey629 

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Posted 13 November 2007 - 11:50 PM

ok, here's the deal.
i have a major crush on this white guy in my math class (i'm korean btw). I'm pretty sure he doesnt find me attractive or unattractive...just...there.
He's one of those really popular jocks, but he's super duper nice, good-looking, unarrogant, a frickin genius, but does lots of drugs.
how the HECK do i get him to notice me?
Guys, what gets you to notice girls? He's already known me for a while, but we haven't talked to each other in like a real conversation EVER. So he doesnt really know who i am. What do i do?

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Posted 14 November 2007 - 02:48 AM

if a guy starts being a bit dirty and a cheeky pervert to a girl, would he want to her play along with him?
or is this just another flirting move? rofl.
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#3957 User is offline   babeexlo7 

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Posted 14 November 2007 - 10:34 AM

y dont guys like to cry? i mean like it would be only ONCE ever. than NEVER. y juss hold all dat in?
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Posted 14 November 2007 - 03:37 PM

okayy this is long haha
1. well there was this guy and i told him i liked him like 2 weeks ago. he said he would think about it and i said what do you mean because i waited for my ex before and i didn't really want to wait. he told me that we couldn't really see eachtoer even if we did go out so we ended up not going out. but he was like to me you know that i like you maybe later we can go out. i saw him like 3 days ago and i dont know if he saw me or not but he didn't say anything to me what is this supposed to mean??

2. do guys like girls who are flirty to like everyone??

3. what's the first thing that makes you interested in a girl??

4. do guys like when girls play hard to get?? and if they think the girl isn't interested do they give up completely??

thanks in advancee : )
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Posted 14 November 2007 - 04:03 PM

i wonder if i'll ever get my question answered since there seems to be a shortage of guys. hahahaha.

my girl friends and i are friends with a group of guys. i have a small crush on one of the guys, and out of all of us, him and i are considered reasonably close. i know what type of girls he likes: tall, slender, long hair, and naturally pretty face. i'm quite the opposite-- i'm far from slender and i'm 5'1". recently he told me he thinks short girls are cute too, and you know, offering to walk me back if i do end up having late-night classes next quarter, offering to teach me how to ride a bike/swim, saying that when he hugged his mother he thought of me (i'm only a bit taller than his mom -___-), and just generally saying nice things. i don't know if he's interested...or am i just mistaking gentlemanly acts for something else?

even if his intentions are unclear at this moment, should i just keep my feelings to myself? i heard that things can get awkward if the guy never had thoughts of dating the girl, and i really wouldn't want to lose him as a friend either. he's a "hot item," as in: cute, athletic, tall, tanned, and gentlemanly. i don't know if i should wait for him to come to me or pursue him (which is something i'd rather not do as a girl). :x
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Posted 14 November 2007 - 05:17 PM

QUOTE(joanneee210 @ Nov 14 2007, 05:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
okayy this is long haha
1. well there was this guy and i told him i liked him like 2 weeks ago. he said he would think about it and i said what do you mean because i waited for my ex before and i didn't really want to wait. he told me that we couldn't really see eachtoer even if we did go out so we ended up not going out. but he was like to me you know that i like you maybe later we can go out. i saw him like 3 days ago and i dont know if he saw me or not but he didn't say anything to me what is this supposed to mean??

2. do guys like girls who are flirty to like everyone??

3. what's the first thing that makes you interested in a girl??

4. do guys like when girls play hard to get?? and if they think the girl isn't interested do they give up completely??

thanks in advancee : )


2. for me no

3. considering what made me fall for my current crush, its her voice

4. NO!!! (for me) and yeah of course i'll give up if the girl isnt interested. if u dont like him would u want him trying to get yr attention everytime?
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Posted 14 November 2007 - 05:45 PM

1. How do guys feel when a girl beats them (mercilessly) at something especially when it's something they're good at? e.g. videogames.

2. How important is your pride to you? Would you mind going out with a girl who constantly hurts your pride (without meaning to)? e.g. her opinion is more respected than yours.

3. Would you be attracted to a girl who is "one of the guys"?
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Posted 14 November 2007 - 06:09 PM

hi, i want to know, if a guy is happy to see this girl all the time, but always asking her questions about work.. then does it mean anything? .. i mean hes happy to see her, and to his other friends .. his expression is normal.. but he doesnt know anything about this girl.. apart from work! .. is he just being friendly? .. also when he sees her, he would come and sit next to her even when he was sitting somewhere else.. hes sorta a calm n shy person & is not flirty type of person! .. do u think he likes her? ..



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Posted 14 November 2007 - 06:56 PM

same question, more answers please... thanks... ^^

1. how would you feel if a girl confessed her love to you? what would your reaction be?
2. how would you feel if the girl you liked wanted you to stop smoking? would you stop? why and why not?
3. would you ever confess your love to the girl you like? how would you do it?
4. how would you want a girl to confess their love for you?
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Posted 14 November 2007 - 07:40 PM

do guys find it unattractive when a girl burp out loud?
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Posted 15 November 2007 - 02:56 PM


hiiii. : )
ehm, this probably doesn't belong here, but eh.

1) do guys express their feelings by staring at girls?
- guy A in music class always stares at girl A.
- he stares so often that half the time, when the conductor starts conducting, he hasn't even put his instrument up yet.. which makes the whole band wait for him.
- guy A and girl B stare at each other until one of them notices. and then the girl does a "o_O" face and the guy automatically looks away. and then stares again at the corner of his eye. for the whole freaking *** music class which is 1.5 hours, i'm guessing? iunno, i'm not in their music class.

2) do guys have 'crush'-changes? like. do they like this girl one day & not the other? or are they just trying to 'conceal' feelings?
- guy A in math class constantly glances at the girl even though he's at the front of the class for "bad behavior" xD and she's at the back. (or that's what she told me)
- guy A in gym class [period after math] does not look at girl A at all. which is probably when he is around a lot of guy friends.



thank youu!
me and my friend will love you for life if you answer this. : )
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Posted 15 November 2007 - 03:19 PM

QUOTE(babeexlo7 @ Nov 14 2007, 10:34 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
y dont guys like to cry? i mean like it would be only ONCE ever. than NEVER. y juss hold all dat in?
guys are human too... we cry... but not as much as girls
QUOTE(pooface @ Nov 14 2007, 06:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hi, i want to know, if a guy is happy to see this girl all the time, but always asking her questions about work.. then does it mean anything? .. i mean hes happy to see her, and to his other friends .. his expression is normal.. but he doesnt know anything about this girl.. apart from work! .. is he just being friendly? .. also when he sees her, he would come and sit next to her even when he was sitting somewhere else.. hes sorta a calm n shy person & is not flirty type of person! .. do u think he likes her? ..
hmm from your descriptions... my guess would be he likes you becuz first of all hes sorta shy and he doesn't know much about the girl so how else to start a convo wit a girl he likes? by askin her only thing he knows about her which consequently is in her interest as well since shes involved in it so thats like 2 birds wit one stone.
QUOTE(Greene @ Nov 14 2007, 05:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
1. How do guys feel when a girl beats them (mercilessly) at something especially when it's something they're good at? e.g. videogames.2. How important is your pride to you? Would you mind going out with a girl who constantly hurts your pride (without meaning to)? e.g. her opinion is more respected than yours. 3. Would you be attracted to a girl who is "one of the guys"?
1. most guys hate losing espeically to girls.2. to me pride is everything. u try to hurt it youll get hurt back.3. if you mean one of the guys as in interested in things such as sports drinking beer and etc. then yes.
....cuz the music left wit you.
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Posted 15 November 2007 - 05:08 PM

I have a question for the guys please:

Ok so if you ask a girl to go to the movies with you but you bring some friends along...what does it mean/what were your intentions?

ty for replies.

I was just curious because this guy asked me to the movies with him...and then on the day of the movie he called me to tell me that some of his friends were coming too. I didn't mind, but i was just wondering what it meant...i thought the guy liked me...and that he wanted to go alone with me...
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Posted 15 November 2007 - 06:33 PM

oh, another question.
do guys like getting texts from girls, be it random messages or asking them things like, how did their last exam go?
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Posted 15 November 2007 - 06:42 PM

QUOTE(Greene @ Nov 14 2007, 07:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
1. How do guys feel when a girl beats them (mercilessly) at something especially when it's something they're good at? e.g. videogames.

2. How important is your pride to you? Would you mind going out with a girl who constantly hurts your pride (without meaning to)? e.g. her opinion is more respected than yours.

3. Would you be attracted to a girl who is "one of the guys"?



1. i get beat so many times by everyone i feel nothing already lol
2. not impt lol
3. yeah i guess so y not

QUOTE(pooface @ Nov 14 2007, 08:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hi, i want to know, if a guy is happy to see this girl all the time, but always asking her questions about work.. then does it mean anything? .. i mean hes happy to see her, and to his other friends .. his expression is normal.. but he doesnt know anything about this girl.. apart from work! .. is he just being friendly? .. also when he sees her, he would come and sit next to her even when he was sitting somewhere else.. hes sorta a calm n shy person & is not flirty type of person! .. do u think he likes her? ..


yes he likes her or at the very least is interested in her. he sounds like me hahaha. i think he probably cant find a topic to talk about which is why he just keeps asking questions about work.

QUOTE(Antz @ Nov 15 2007, 08:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
oh, another question.
do guys like getting texts from girls, be it random messages or asking them things like, how did their last exam go?
thank you =)


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Posted 15 November 2007 - 10:42 PM

Basically, do guys ever want to know whether someone asked their girl out or not?
Do they ever want to know who?

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