[강유미]

how much confidence does it take for a guy to ask a girl out online through myspace, facebook, xanga etc, where all his friends and my friends and other people can know? Do you think this is sincere or a little suspicious...? or am i just being paranoid..? lol and thank you guys for answering our questions!!!

He's being a wussy. It's not sincere and weird.
I understand you being paranoid, because that's all I can see from this.

[Stevent]

a lot of these questions require common sense......

there are a lot of different types of girls. guys often go for the cute lovable type....but i dont think im really that. are guys attracted to independent females...ones who have class, sass, and a lil bit of bada$$.. it seems obvious they would, becuz if i was a dude, helll, i'd be goin for those.. but i see a majority of guys going for the cute type. im guessin' its the invisible caution tape around those girls that prevent guys from trying, but uh...any other explanation that a chick might not have thought of that a dude would care to explain? ..and my bad if this question was already asked. i'm not going to sit and read all 20 pages if u know what i mean....thankz.

so is your question why dont guys go after the independent females that have class, sass, and a lil bit of badass?
If it is then there are guys that do. Maybe it is just in your area, but I find an independent female kinda sexy since they dont have to be the needy type of girl and knows how to take care of herself. Guys tend to stray away from the independent females because they kinda get intimidated, but not me, I find it sexy

[강유미]

so is your question why dont guys go after the...

She has no question at all. She's saying boys are all common sense and girls shouldn't learn from the boys typing in this Soompi thread.

[Teddy]

whoa whoa calm down, everyone is entitled to their opinion. Dont judge another's opinion because it doesnt exactly match our own. That is why we give multiple answers to any one of the questions the girls ask.

Thats right. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion just like ieatpowder is entitled to his so relax

[Stevent]

She has no question at all. She's saying boys are all common sense and girls shouldn't learn from the boys typing in this Soompi thread.

are you sure? cause I swear I notice that there are questions in there *scratches head*

[강유미]

What does it mean if a guy tells his girlfriend where he puts his condoms at and that he has porn on his laptop?

He's saying, "Lets have sex." In a confusing way.

are you sure? cause I swear I notice that there are questions in there *scratches head*

Yeah, just read it. All you see is that she's a bad donkey.

If a guys teases/jokes around with a girl a lot, but doesn't give a lot of other girls that kind of attention, does it necessarily mean that he thinks she's cute or pretty?

Yes, and he secretly wants her.

[meringue]

Okay, I got two questions, one of which wasn't answered earlier. So.

1. Guys, if you were real good friends with a girl and you liked her. What would you do to show her you want to be more than friends?
2. Do you think of the girl you like before you go to sleep?

[Stevent]

Okay, I got two questions, one of which wasn't answered earlier. So.

1. Guys, if you were real good friends with a girl and you liked her. What would you do to show her you want to be more than friends?
2. Do you think of the girl you like before you go to sleep?

1) Do something with her more often.
2) If I really like her, then yes.

[AnglLttlGr]

1.What does it mean when you guys joke around with girls? Is it just for fun? Or do you really like that girl? o.o

2.Also, What do you guys prefer? Do you guys like it better when you get to be thee man and ask the girl out first or do you like it better if the girl asked you out?

3.What do you guys like most about girls?

4.What does it mean when you guys make fun of girls? Kind of like the first one..

[han.]

a lot of these questions require common sense......

there are a lot of different types of girls. guys often go for the cute lovable type....but i dont think im really that. are guys attracted to independent females...ones who have class, sass, and a lil bit of bada$$.. it seems obvious they would, becuz if i was a dude, helll, i'd be goin for those.. but i see a majority of guys going for the cute type. im guessin' its the invisible caution tape around those girls that prevent guys from trying, but uh...any other explanation that a chick might not have thought of that a dude would care to explain? ..and my bad if this question was already asked. i'm not going to sit and read all 20 pages if u know what i mean....thankz.

cute and lovable are linked to physical appearances.
independence, class, and sass are linked to a persons' characteristics.

i think it's safe to say that physical attraction plays a significant role. so when a guy approaches a girl, he's obviously going to approach one who he finds attractive. then he can go on and find out more things about her, like her personality.
there's no invisible caution tape around any types of girls, unless the guy makes one for himself.

1.What does it mean when you guys joke around with girls? Is it just for fun? Or do you really like that girl? o.o

2.Also, What do you guys prefer? Do you guys like it better when you get to be thee man and ask the girl out first or do you like it better if the girl asked you out?

3.What do you guys like most about girls?

4.What does it mean when you guys make fun of girls? Kind of like the first one..

1. i joke around with people to have a good time. so it'd be just for fun.

2. doesn't matter to me. whatever happens happens.

3. i'm not gonna lie. girls look so much better than guys.

4. don't see a difference between the first one and this one. when i joke around, it usually involves a bit of teasing.

[graciixpoo]

what does it mean if a guy has a gf but flirts with you ?
does it mean that he likes you and his gf ?
or does it mean that he gets no action with his gf so he gets it from someone else ?

[Stevent]

1.What does it mean when you guys joke around with girls? Is it just for fun? Or do you really like that girl? o.o

2.Also, What do you guys prefer? Do you guys like it better when you get to be thee man and ask the girl out first or do you like it better if the girl asked you out?

3.What do you guys like most about girls?

4.What does it mean when you guys make fun of girls? Kind of like the first one..

1) Both fun and flirting if there is an interest in the girl
2) Doesnt matter
3) The way that sometimes they act clueless haha
4) refer to answer 1

what does it mean if a guy has a gf but flirts with you ?
does it mean that he likes you and his gf ?
or does it mean that he gets no action with his gf so he gets it from someone else ?

1) He has an interest in you
2) Most likely
3) Maybe, that is why people cheat in a relationship

[han.]

had to say something, to those asking these types of questions.
"if a guy does blah blah blah, does that mean he likes me?"

WE DON'T KNOW!

that's for you to find out.

[y_yuen12]

what does it mean when a guy kinda complains about his hair to you? (or other physical aspects)
and then saying, for example, that they want flat hair not spikey etc etc.. then asking for your opinion?
thanks =)

[peachesncre4ms]

its cuz its in the book of men rules

i believe its rule # 581 dont seem desperate. call few days after gettin the fone number

where do u get this book of men rules at??? =P

[RiderKamen]

what does it mean when a guy kinda complains about his hair to you? (or other physical aspects)
and then saying, for example, that they want flat hair not spikey etc etc.. then asking for your opinion?
thanks =)

that's what he prefers lol

if this dude goes to far and only likes you for your hair (like on some prince stuff), you know what to do.

[peachesncre4ms]

how long does it take for a guy to get over a girl he fell deeply in love w/

[RiderKamen]

how long does it take for a guy to get over a girl he fell deeply in love w/

depends on the guy. Everybody is different.

[Stevent]

where do u get this book of men rules at??? =P

at the library...

[RiderKamen]

at the library...

LOL