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#4001 User is offline   moonk379 

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Posted 20 November 2007 - 12:24 AM

QUOTE(lilsh0rtnancy @ Nov 19 2007, 10:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Ahaha... that's funny. I'd feel bad though.

Facebook Question: Does it mean anything if a guy (total stranger) requests to be friends on facebook twice? (I rejected the first time). Just curious because the guy is kinda cute tongue.gif


he probably finds you interestin and wants to see your pics. becuz if your not friends i dont think you can see ppls profiles right?
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#4002 User is offline   ajlee613 

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Posted 20 November 2007 - 12:59 AM

QUOTE(joongielove @ Nov 19 2007, 06:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
there's this guy who used to like me. long story short, I was a complete b*tch to him. we stopped talking for like, 3 months, and we just started talking again this summer. now whenever he sees me, he'll always run to catch up, or, poke me or keep touching me! >_<

he knows i have a bf, but he keeps saying "oh leave him." whenever i`m not happy. and he keeps offering to buy me stuff.EXPENSIVE stuff. like, a zune, which is $250. i think he's trying to be like, a big brother figure or something, but it's irritating.

how do i tell him it's really weird?



being a pinkberry to get him away is a immature weak minded move.

a girl should have a mind like an ocean if u want to get respect.

tell him str8 up, why r u getting me all these things?

i have a boyfriend and i really like him, im not going to leave him.

tell it to him str8 in a mature gentle manner, then he will simply accept it instead of keep going and get his ass beat and humiliated later.


if u have power., always give the weak a fair warning with a show of power, let them keep their dignity but show them that u have the power to make them loose it.


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#4003 User is offline   chocomocha 

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Posted 20 November 2007 - 06:45 AM

hi, i have a question .. please answer

if a guy has a crush on a girl, would he think about the things she says to him, like the things that made him smile? ..
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Posted 20 November 2007 - 03:42 PM

QUOTE (moonk379 @ Nov 19 2007, 11:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
get the zune first lol then just completely ignore him =]



xD that's horrible! but a good idea...
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#4005 User is offline   DaAzNkIgGa627 

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Posted 20 November 2007 - 03:46 PM

QUOTE (chocomocha @ Nov 20 2007, 08:45 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hi, i have a question .. please answer

if a guy has a crush on a girl, would he think about the things she says to him, like the things that made him smile? ..


YES! Yes! YES! yes! YES YES YES YES YES

No guys thinks about EVERYTHING
What went wrong?
What made me smile from what she said?
What went well?
Who was that other guy she was flirting with?

All these questions and more XD

Lol well yeah, guys do think about it.
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Posted 20 November 2007 - 04:23 PM

Do you guys ever stay friends with your ex's?
If so, do you still call them regularly, and talk to them like a good friend etc?
and what do you guys really mean when you call someone 'beautiful' do you mean it?
haha, just curious. tongue.gif

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#4007 User is offline   walabi_112 

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Posted 20 November 2007 - 05:20 PM

1. What kinds of signs would guys give to show that they DONT like a girl? would he call her names like stupid or nerd?
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Posted 20 November 2007 - 05:24 PM

QUOTE (walabi_112 @ Nov 20 2007, 05:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
1. What kinds of signs would guys give to show that they DONT like a girl? would he call her names like stupid or nerd?

I'd say it to a girl even if I liked her...
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#4009 User is offline   toxic-apple 

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Posted 20 November 2007 - 11:30 PM

i was wondering what would you fellas recommend for a
christmas gift if i want to buy my guy friend a present?
what do guys like girls to get them for christmas?

Jade =)

and i hope this question has not been asked sleep.gif
otherwise i don't want to scroll through all the pages...
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Posted 21 November 2007 - 12:06 AM

I have a girlfriend and she's dated this guy twice, but it hasn't worked out. This year, he wanted to get back with her once more because he still felt that he liked her a lot and everything. She gave him another chance for the last time. How can you tell if a guy is really serious this time? Are there certain signs or will it just not work out? I'm worried for her too.

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Posted 21 November 2007 - 12:32 AM

QUOTE (walabi_112 @ Nov 20 2007, 07:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
1. What kinds of signs would guys give to show that they DONT like a girl? would he call her names like stupid or nerd?


nay i wouldnt even bother talking to her
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#4012 User is offline   jaenii 

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Posted 21 November 2007 - 01:40 AM

hii i have a question an answer would be nice

i just met this guy and he always txt me what are you doing today?
is he interested in me? just want to get to know me more? what?
haha thankss.
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Posted 21 November 2007 - 06:05 AM

ahh noone answered my question on the last page=[

i have another one though....its probably obvious to most people but i would like an answer anyway.....what is so unattractive about girls with no self esteem/confidence?? what if they are still nice/genuine/sweet....these girles dateable or not?
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Posted 21 November 2007 - 06:49 AM

QUOTE (beckii @ Nov 21 2007, 08:05 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ahh noone answered my question on the last page=[

i have another one though....its probably obvious to most people but i would like an answer anyway.....what is so unattractive about girls with no self esteem/confidence?? what if they are still nice/genuine/sweet....these girles dateable or not?


omg there is absolutely nothing unattractive about girls with no self esteem/confidence. i mean completely the opposite, girls like that who are also nice genuine and sweet are the best most dateable girls... well im my opinion anyways. corse guys, we really just want to take care of our gfs and we feel happy when they acknowledges wat we do for them. so girls like these are really the ones that need some1 to really love them for who they are ^^, and im pretty sure they well geniunely give love and care back.

there nothing wrong with confident girls, in fact most will like that but then its just a matter of perference really. but im 100% sure that there plenty of guys out there who would love to find a girl thats really genuine.
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Posted 21 November 2007 - 09:44 PM

if someone rejects you.. and you make it obvious you're hurt, would you want her to say something to you? if so, what?

what if she just keeps talking to you like a friend and avoids the subject of how you like her.. when she obviously knows you're suffering but wishes to just keep you as a friend.

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Posted 21 November 2007 - 10:00 PM

i'm crazy about this guy.
i met him a month ago, and we started to date.

--the past weekend we went clubbing together. it was nice and all...until he started to talk to this girl. it didn't look like they were flirting, but my friend kept going like "wtf is that bull. get your man in check." it honestly didn't bother me much, but i guess cos i was acting weird about it so he pulled me aside to talk. he told me they were just friends and it's no big deal. i told him, if he's going to hurt me don't waste my time. then he said, what kind of person do you meet at a frat party and then takes you out, tutor you and calls you, etc. etc. so i was like fine. good point.

later on the evening we went outside to talk. at that point i was extremely tired and i had my eyes closed. then he started talking. he told me i should date a guy who's good to me. even though he's not the best looking as long as he treats me right. someone who's career orientated, and someone i'm willing to bring home after the first month of dating. then he told me to never date anyone i meet at a club or a party. no, he made me promise him. but i met him at a halloween party.

so what is he implying?
i believe he just wants to be friends.
but my girlfriends believe other wise.
if he just wants to be friends, then why does he still ask to hangout. why does he call to check on me. why does he leave me random texts?
i'm confused. and i'm so effing vulnerable.
i hate being this way. arghh.


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Posted 21 November 2007 - 10:59 PM

What do guys think about girls who are like.. smart and overachievers?
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#4018 User is offline   sparkling 

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Posted 21 November 2007 - 11:44 PM

i moved the question to another thread
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Posted 21 November 2007 - 11:51 PM

I don't know if this has been asked yet.
Do guys talk about their 'crushes' with their friends.
Like most girls talk about theirs?
Please reply and thank you (:





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Posted 22 November 2007 - 12:31 AM

QUOTE (predator @ Nov 22 2007, 12:59 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
What do guys think about girls who are like.. smart and overachievers?


nothing. i care and think more about what she does when shes with me.

QUOTE (x_sarah @ Nov 22 2007, 01:51 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I don't know if this has been asked yet.
Do guys talk about their 'crushes' with their friends.
Like most girls talk about theirs?
Please reply and thank you (:


yeah i used to do so in secondary school lol
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