[o1hunny]

if i get into a big fight with my bf, which escalades into a break up
and he tells me "i dont like you anymore, i dont want you, i dont want to even try anymore"
is it most likely true? or anger-talk

just a few days ago when we went out, everything was fine..and he seemed pretty happy
so i don't know if i should believe him )=..

[Laxntiga]

for my friend:

why would a guy break up with a girl without telling her why?

I dont want to say it, but maybe he found someone better.

how do you approach a guy w/o it been weird/awkward?

I don't know if it's been asked but it probably has been. I dont feel like searching thru 200 pages though.

You walk normally, as you regularly would, look at him. When he looks at you, say "Hi".

if a girl was teasing you playfully and says "hi" to you when she bumps into you, and borrows notes from you (and she's smart enough to not need them), would you think that she is flirting with you? because i thought that he was gay. and i did NOT mean to hit on him.

furthermore, if you just got out of the shower and was in a towel, would you still say hi to a girl you know that just happens to be walking in the same hallway? or be quiet and shy?

Part 1. No, it's not flirting. But to the average male chump he would see it as flirting.
Part 2. Yes, I would say "Hi".... then I would tell her.... "why u looking at me like that for? Is my towel see through?"

is it that hard for you guys to break up with a girl?
-and-
when you are on a one-on-one date with a girl, you think about sex basically the whole time?

haha just some random questions ive been pondering in my mind....haha

It is hard to break up with a girl if 1. We dont have another girl, 2. If we really like them.

The average chump, he would probably think about getting laid 90% of the time. The other 10% he is probably trying think of something witty/funny/smart to say when you ask them "what do you think?" and they have to think of some words to put a sentence or two together.

if i get into a big fight with my bf, which escalades into a break up
and he tells me "i dont like you anymore, i dont want you, i dont want to even try anymore"
is it most likely true? or anger-talk

just a few days ago when we went out, everything was fine..and he seemed pretty happy
so i don't know if i should believe him )=..

Why dont you ask him yourself you keyboard jockey~

[Limerence;]

Alright.

Guys,
What`s the best way to tell a guy to quit messing around with a girl?

StupidFlirty keeps messing around with my bestfriend when he got together with this girl.
The chick he just got with, she`s adorable, cute, and the sweetest girl EVER.
And day after day my bestfriend keeps telling me what StupidBirdy does to her.
The Bestfriend likes him see, well "used to". According to her.
Damn I don`t wanna be rude to them or anything, but enough is enough.
Before anybody gets hurt, yannoe? Sheesh.

So fellas, I want opinion from a guys` perspective.
StupidBirdy is my childhood friend, BTW. Known him since 4th grade.
WTH should I do?

[woaini715]

why do guys love flirting shamlessly around girls? (especially the ones that have alotta female friends)

[chinese tears <3]

1) My friend's in this situation and I'm not sure what to make of it. But basically, she and this guy like each other.. but the guy said that he's fine with whatever she wants (relationship-wise). Does that mean that he doesn't like her enough to care that they're together or not or is it because he likes her enough to respect that she might not want to be in a relationship?

2) I really like this guy, but we've never talked before. I have one class with him and he's my friend's friend and we three walk to lunch together after class but he kind of just ignores me and they always talk in Vietnamese together (I'm Taiwanese so I don't understand)... so, is it random to say hi or talk to him one day?

3) Is it a turn off when girls offer to help guys with school work?

[Shekkiibecky]

Do guys like girls who give them space and play like kind of hard to get even when theyre dating? Also is it really difficult for a guy to commit and be loyal and faithful till the end if he knows deeep down that he's attractive and coul dhave a lot of girls

[j'adoreAZNpop]

blahhhh
problem solved

[lilsh0rtnancy]

Ahaha... that's funny. I'd feel bad though.

Facebook Question: Does it mean anything if a guy (total stranger) requests to be friends on facebook twice? (I rejected the first time). Just curious because the guy is kinda cute

Hi! I'm back with another question.

Continuing on from the facebook question:
The guy got my aim sn from facebook and IMed me. Since it's the internet, I didn't mind chatting w/ him. We've been chatting for a week now and he sent me a message asking me about my Thanksgiving and telling me about his. He also gave me his phone number saying perhaps we can hangout once school starts (we go to the same school btw). My question is, how can I avoid the whole situation without being mean. Like, if he IMs me asking to hangout, how can I reject nicely?

Thanks.

[mrunwanted]

is it that hard for you guys to break up with a girl?
-and-
when you are on a one-on-one date with a girl, you think about sex basically the whole time?

haha just some random questions ive been pondering in my mind....haha

if i like the girl of course its hard. and no i think more about the stuff that i'm doing presently and if they are giving any wrong impressions. hmm and i dream about the things we could do together if we're together lol

3) Is it a turn off when girls offer to help guys with school work?

not to me

[o1hunny]

for my friend:

why would a guy break up with a girl without telling her why?

1. what could other possibilities be..if its for sure not another girl??


2. is there any way to change a guy's mind if he's really stubborn + has his mind set about something?

3. if a guy's friends all hate his gf..will it really affect how he thinks of his gf?


sorry..so many Q

[I_broke_a_nail!]

There's this guy that's like 24 that used to work at my tutoring center. (I'm 18)
And back then when he used to work at the tutoring center, he got paid less than me and he kept hanging around me.
He always waits for me at the train station if I decide to stay late at work back then.
And he had this new camera and I saw a picture of me AND my university in that picture.
WHAT THE HECK.
So... I'm pretty sure he likes me.


BUT I DON'T LIKE HIM
I'm trying so hard to get rid of him. I was nice to him in the beginning but that was over!
He's so... stalkerish.
1) back then when he worked with me, I walk really fast to the station so I don't have to take the train with him.
2) I ignore him and his STUPID questions.
3) And he ask me to get dinner with him and asked for my phone number and I made up a lie saying my phone doesn't work. He believes me!
4) I even had one of my guy friends to hang around me so I could pretend I have someone!
5) I told him I don't like him and that he's weird.

OKAY I understand that I was REALLY REALLY nice to him.
But come on MAN!

Yet he still waits at the train station.
He goes to my other job and the pharmacy and gets his drugs done there EVEN THOUGH he lives on the other side of the borough!!!
QPO#$#)(#()($!!!!
He hated the tutoring job and he got this full time job in a small cubicle office job.
He was willing to give up that job so he could tutor at the place.
Is he stupid?

What a creepy stalker.
He's always at the train station.
And he hangs around my neighborhood on the weekends EVEN THOUGh he doesn't live here.!!

QUESTION: HOW DO I GET RID OF THIS GUY?!?!?!
He's SO creepy and I'm getting wigged out. =(

[Antz]

Poooo. My questions before weren't really answered, but it's okay, I just want this answered now, pleaseee. (:

So yesterday, my boyfriend was telling me what he liked about me. Then he got up to "You are so... *MMM!*" :/ I was like, "huh? *MM!*?" and he goes "Yeah. Figure that out."

So later, he goes to me "you're so cute from here.. *MMM!*" I was like "so *MMM!* means I'm cute?" and he goes, "hmm.. yeah.. "

O_O

So in your guys POV, what does it mean, to you? If you say that about a girl? It's been on my mind and I want to know what it really could mean.
I can't really describe what it really sounds like, but his face was like >o< and when he made that sound.
If you need more description, then ask away. ^^ Thanks so much~~

[xCandeex]

Trying to gage something...

How would you react to a female friend giving hints that she likes you:
a) if you didn't like her back, but wanted to keep the friendship ~ would you give signs showing disinterest?
if you did like her back ~ would you be forward and pursue her at the risk of the friendship?
c) neutral ~ could go either way...currently don't have a crush on the friend or anything, but mayy see it being a possibility

And what do you think is a best way for a girl to test which scenario it is--a) vs. vs. c) besides straight-out asking the friend out? Is there a way to do it so that he won't know you like him, but you'll find out how he feels about you? (is that even possible)

MY EXACT QUESTION AS WELL ahahah

[moonk379]

There's this guy that's like 24 that used to work at my tutoring center. (I'm 18)
And back then when he used to work at the tutoring center, he got paid less than me and he kept hanging around me.
He always waits for me at the train station if I decide to stay late at work back then.
And he had this new camera and I saw a picture of me AND my university in that picture.
WHAT THE HECK.
So... I'm pretty sure he likes me.


BUT I DON'T LIKE HIM
I'm trying so hard to get rid of him. I was nice to him in the beginning but that was over!
He's so... stalkerish.
1) back then when he worked with me, I walk really fast to the station so I don't have to take the train with him.
2) I ignore him and his STUPID questions.
3) And he ask me to get dinner with him and asked for my phone number and I made up a lie saying my phone doesn't work. He believes me!
4) I even had one of my guy friends to hang around me so I could pretend I have someone!
5) I told him I don't like him and that he's weird.

OKAY I understand that I was REALLY REALLY nice to him.
But come on MAN!

Yet he still waits at the train station.
He goes to my other job and the pharmacy and gets his drugs done there EVEN THOUGH he lives on the other side of the borough!!!
QPO#$#)(#()($!!!!
He hated the tutoring job and he got this full time job in a small cubicle office job.
He was willing to give up that job so he could tutor at the place.
Is he stupid?

What a creepy stalker.
He's always at the train station.
And he hangs around my neighborhood on the weekends EVEN THOUGh he doesn't live here.!!

QUESTION: HOW DO I GET RID OF THIS GUY?!?!?!
He's SO creepy and I'm getting wigged out. =(

restraining order lol or just tell him straight up you have a boyfriend or somethin lie lie lie

Poooo. My questions before weren't really answered, but it's okay, I just want this answered now, pleaseee. (:

So yesterday, my boyfriend was telling me what he liked about me. Then he got up to "You are so... *MMM!*" :/ I was like, "huh? *MM!*?" and he goes "Yeah. Figure that out."

So later, he goes to me "you're so cute from here.. *MMM!*" I was like "so *MMM!* means I'm cute?" and he goes, "hmm.. yeah.. "

O_O

So in your guys POV, what does it mean, to you? If you say that about a girl? It's been on my mind and I want to know what it really could mean.
I can't really describe what it really sounds like, but his face was like >o< and when he made that sound.
If you need more description, then ask away. ^^ Thanks so much~~

i think it does mean cute cuz i think i do make that kind of face when a cute girl askes me what i think of her and i think cute.

[j'adoreAZNpop]

question for guys~

ok so i made another action im regretting now

so i added a guy on facebook from this college club that i joined (we are both part of staff)...
today, on campus, i was actually thinking of hoping to meet someone from the club so i was like O_O when he appeared... lol
when he said hey, i kind of look at him, then look away a little before facing him again and said "heyyy" back and "good" when he asked how's it going.
i think i had a weird expression on my face : (((( ...but im just really shy then because he was with some guy friends

could he think im bitchy and that i dislike him now?
or will he not even think twice?

[mojomunkeez]

question for guys~

ok so i made another action im regretting now

so i added a guy on facebook from this college club that i joined (we are both part of staff)...
today, on campus, i was actually thinking of hoping to meet someone from the club so i was like O_O when he appeared... lol
when he said hey, i kind of look at him, then look away a little before facing him again and said "heyyy" back and "good" when he asked how's it going.
i think i had a weird expression on my face : (((( ...but im just really shy then because he was with some guy friends

could he think im bitchy and that i dislike him now?
or will he not even think twice?

Don't worry about it.
Next time you see him, be nice and open to him. And explain your earlier behavior. Guys like it when girls tell it like it is.

[kimseo]

it'd be nice if i got more than one answer ^^ thank you guys...

my ex and i broke up almost a week ago BUT he keeps talking to me, IMing me, leaving me comments, around every other day. he tells me things like, "I never really liked you", "I dated many other girls while dating you", "I threw away your letter and sold your gift", stuff like this, trying to get through the point that he "never liked me." and he laughs (he tells me in korean so its kind of different, but its like a small laughter, the ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ stuff). i dont know if he really means this and is that heartless enough to tell me about it, or if its something else. i cant tell if he really is "laughing" because this is on the computer and i dont see his face...
when he talks to me i just read it and either ignore it or give him a very very short one word answer..but he still keeps reminding me or attempt to.
we went out for 5 months and he broke up once not to long before this and HE was the one who wanted to get back together and apologized very, very sincerily and i could tell he really meant it. but then a couple days later, he just said we should stop without even telling me why...i asked him right after and he said "그냥 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ (just because? with the small laughing thing)" and i told him to tell me for real and he just didnt say anything.
...i'm confused..sorry if its confusing, and i'll explain more if you want.

my question,
why does he keep doing this? (telling me and talking to me). are guys really that heartless..?

i really, really liked him...and we were perfectly fine until this one week. i don't know if he was telling the truth or not because he really did seem to like me too..that apology he did was the sweetest thing ever and he wrote me a lot of letters throughout the relationship...
my friends keep saying to forget him, but its hard. they tell me to cuss out an a-hole like that but i dont think it'd be the right thing to do..

thanks T_T

[:: ShaDoW ::]

kimseo

u should listen to ur friends. he isnt doing the right thing to you so we do the right thing by him?...
he broke up with you. not the other way around so i dont know why his doing all that stuff to you.

listen to your friends!

[moonk379]

sounds more like hes toying wit ya.

[mrunwanted]

DUMP THAT BASTARD

"I never really liked you", "I dated many other girls while dating you", "I threw away your letter and sold your gift"

which guy will say this to the girl he likes?!?!?!? there are lots of guys out there better than him, u just nd to give them a chance