[moonk379]

how do i approach and start a conversation with a shy quite guy?
i mean, there's this guy i've been wanting to talk to, but he's quite, shy and nerdy..
i've been noticing him a lot lately and i feel like i should talk to him because he's so lonely...
how should i do this fellas? even if you're not shy, imagine yourself shy and how would you want a girl to talk to you eh?

it's weird, but i think i might like this guy, he's looks darm hot without his glasses, jacket and hat... ^^

just approach him and say hi and talk about stuff you guys have in common or hes interested in. that always works.

Just wondering...

If a guy went on a like a vacation/trip somewhere
and came back with a gift for you, what does that mean?

it means you're probably on his mind a lot so he probably likes you. becuz i promise girls gifts all the time when goin on vacation n stuff but the one girl who i get the gift for is the one i actually like.

[moonk379]

back in 2004-2005 i liked this guy ( my first crush/ love) a and i told two of my best friends about it and one day me and my friend was walking in the hallways and she saw him and screamed out my name and was like omg there he is! lols and i saw him talking to a guy and while i was walking right past him our hands touched and stuff. at first i didn't know cause i was rushing to get out o school cause i was so tired that day and my friend was like oMG you guys practially hold hands! and she said that he smiled and blushed and was looking at me while i was walking. so the next day i guess he told his friends and stuff and he would look for me and stuff and one day we had a assembly and i saw him and his best friend and i saw him strectching and i happened to look at him and he saw me looking at him so after the assembly it was time to go home and him and his best friend was waiting for me and this time i was by myslef and he knew that i liked him but i didnt do anything cause i was super duper shy to the max plus his friend was practially always with him...so i just walked by and fast fowarding: he would always wait for me outside cause h eknew i always go home that way and everytime he had his group of friends with him which gave me the butterflie and made me even more shy and stuff and everytime i look at him he would alwyas put his head down and act different when hes with his friend. and since i didnt make any moves which i couldnt cause he always ha d his friend with him so one day he looked at me really sad and when i walked right past him he hit a locker with his fist and looked so hurt and i REALLY FELT BAD & FUSTRATED at the same time T^T fast forwarding again : one day i walked hom and just happend to look to the side of me and he was right there walking with his group of friends going home and looked shy and stuff nad it was close to being summer and then that day one of his friend yelled at me sayng he likes you! and i was happy and fustrated at the sametime cause i didnt get to say anything back. so its summer time and schools out and i honestly thought i was never going to see him again, i was swimming in my apartment pool area and one of his friend saw me and called him and my friend told me that they were looking for me but instead saw me my friend lols and at the sametime i was in Co when my friend imed me so i was so freaking angry cause to me i thought that was my last chance of seeing him. and during the summer one of my friends friend told me his xanga,myspace, and aim and stuff so i was happy but he got a gf so i was really upset cause i really liked him and i knew he liked me too but the thought of me not able to not telling him really hurted me but i just imed anywyas and stuff and he even gave me his number so we talked and wanted me to meet him but it was so dark and rainy so i couldnt plus my parents were home and they figure out things easily. so 2-4 months later me and my friend went to his house and we talked and stuff and at the end he told me that his favorite color was red and back in school my picture for picture day i had a red shirt on and i used to wear lots of red and stuff and eventually we said bye and we hugged and stuff and as soon as i steped out the door tears came out my eyes and i was really emotional that day. ( this is a year later) and this was when he was off to hs and stuff and one day he came back and looked for me my friend said. and after that day we met on his mypace he would always have picture of him being sad and one time his headline said " if i could i would start all over again with you" and that really got me. this is still when he had his gf and my friend told me that he went out with her to get over me. and apparently i could of been his first and he could of been my first but he was my first love so it really made a huge impact on my life everytime i go in the hallways i would always think memories of him , his friends and me and at lunch one time i cried. a year later i went out of the country for vacation and when i came back i went staright to the mall with my mom and i saw him with a friend and we both looked at each other and he put his head down like he used to this time in a sad way. he would say that he doesnt remember me and that and stuff a year ago when me and my fiend and him met. NOW the school that i go to all of his friend that were right there with him when he liked me and they all saw me and the one who told me that he liked me looked at me and i felt really stressed. his BEST FRIEND that was alwyas with him goes to my school and he likes me but i dont hitnk he remember s me from back then so maybe thats why im not making the move cause his friend is friends with the guy i liked and stuff so he would found out sooner or later and i really didnt want to hurt him even more by going out with his best friend... so my quetsion is should i go out with his friend? i mean im in a big conflict right now i dont want to regret not going out with him cause i know i could of had a chance with him but at the sametime the guy i used to like is friends with him besty friends so i really dont know what to do TT^TT omg i wrote ALOT! ill be happy if anyone at all read this lols XD

k it was too long so i read first couple sentences and last few sentences. but from wat i read is that you liked a guy, he liked you back but you guys didn't go out and now his best friend from back then likes you and you're not sure if you should go out wit him or not becuz it might not work out becuz he might find out you used to like his best friend. well the question here really is are you gonna just keep livin in the past? cuz thats all your doin right now if you reject him becuz of that "one" guy from the past.

[mnguyen725]

That's perfectly normal. Not all guys are machines in bed like me. Guys need to take a break, one day, one week, one month sometimes...

ok that's good to know cuz everyone tells me that if my guy isn't getting it from me, he's getting it elsewhere... i mean a relationship isn't based on just that... right?

[j'adoreAZNpop]

meet this guy only 3 times or so in person at this club at college...but would sometimes chat on MSN. yesterday, we discussed online about this pool and poker event we just had....
i was like the only freshmen there so i guess that is why he would always pair up with me at each new game.

when i said pool > poker, he said "really? we should play more often then lol".....

i like him as a friend so i asked "when do you have time to play pool again?"
he said after exams (i have exams too so i guess that sounds reasonable?)

but now i doubt if he was serious with his question...
and when he said "WE", he meant just us or other ppl from the club too?

i also asked if he could teach me some tricks...he said of course
i hope he isnt creeped out O __ O

[manlytoe]

just approach him and say hi and talk about stuff you guys have in common or hes interested in. that always works.

ok.. what if i don't know what our common interests are?
i haven't talked with him, so i don't know this kind of stuff...

[allyy]

what does it really mean when a guy cheats on you, admits it and tells you he wants forgiveness?

is he playing with me or is he really serious?

what does it really mean when a guy cheats on you, admits it and tells you he wants forgiveness?

is he playing with me or is he really serious?

[mUsiCisMYlifEy]

i like this guy...and it's his last year in high school..
so at the formal should i ask him to dance? he's single
and it's a complicated story (his) and mine...but he doesn't
know i like him but i figured i could at least try even though
my chances are slim because it's the last time at formal for him...
yes? or no?

[junkers]

how do i approach and start a conversation with a shy quite guy?
i mean, there's this guy i've been wanting to talk to, but he's quite, shy and nerdy..
i've been noticing him a lot lately and i feel like i should talk to him because he's so lonely...
how should i do this fellas? even if you're not shy, imagine yourself shy and how would you want a girl to talk to you eh?

it's weird, but i think i might like this guy, he's looks darm hot without his glasses, jacket and hat... ^^

ok.. what if i don't know what our common interests are?
i haven't talked with him, so i don't know this kind of stuff...

Go Straight up and talk to him (about anything you have in mind) and make him blush. he'll be thinking about it all night and glad that you talk to him. Trust me on this one.

[CK92842]

Go Straight up and talk to him (about anything you have in mind) and make him blush. he'll be thinking about it all night and glad that you talk to him. Trust me on this one.

Another helpful hint is don't come off as too eager cause if he's shy then chances are he's easily startled.

[Judith]

If I start to talk to a guy that doesn't know me at all, what would he think?

[manlytoe]

Go Straight up and talk to him (about anything you have in mind) and make him blush. he'll be thinking about it all night and glad that you talk to him. Trust me on this one.

oh wow! coolness! thanks... hahah!! you make it sound so easy... ^^

Another helpful hint is don't come off as too eager cause if he's shy then chances are he's easily startled.

WOAH! another good hint... thanks.. hahah!!!


thank you all so much... hopefully, when i do talk to him i can rest my heart! hahah!! ^^

[mocofraise&]

Would a guy stop himself from loving a girl because she dresses exentric?
Even if he likes the girl,Even if she still look feminine&neat?

I mean exentric as lolita fashion or such..

[sWtB]

if a an older guy friend mentions twice that he only sees you as a younger sister though you havent said anything... does that mean anything?
like why can't you just be friends or why does he have to keep saying it... its weird. i dont necessarily tell him that i just view him as an older brother...

[Echoe]

He insists we're friends, does EVERYTHING a potential boyfriend would do and more, tells me I'm really special to him personally, sends me an email saying he's only good to me because he likes me, and then when I ask him what he meant by that, he goes, "As a friend."

Help me?

He's not a liar, and I believe him when he says we're just friends, but his actions just scream.

[babiloveyoo]

thnx moonk379 :] ill keep that in mind ^.^

[sockrahtease]

This guy I knew for seven years now suddenly told me last week that he & i should be together. I told him to stop playing around and he's all "I ain't playing. I wasn't playing freshmen year, sophomore year, junior year, and not this year." He's said stuff to me about "me and him" before but I assume it was all jokes. Then he gets his friend to vouch for him by nodding, adding "Yeah D'Arquise digs you." He keeps telling how he misses me (because I just came back from a family vacation) and my friend told me that he was asking for my # from her. Hugging me is pretty much becoming a habitual thing for him and it's not that I don't like him as a friend, I'm just not sure whether I like him more than that... or whether he's just joking or not! Because he enjoys hugging females, period. What y'all think? Long-time friend joking around or for serious?

[junkers]

Another helpful hint is don't come off as too eager cause if he's shy then chances are he's easily startled.

Easily startled in a good way. Its only a matter of time. Talk all you want and eventually he'll become very comfortable talking with you then he'll start a nice conver with you. Shy guys like girls approaching them. Do not worry you're being ridiculous and he shows no interest in you. Hes just shy man!

[moonk379]

Would a guy stop himself from loving a girl because she dresses exentric?
Even if he likes the girl,Even if she still look feminine&neat?

I mean exentric as lolita fashion or such..

umm it would be REALLY weird if a girl suddenly started to dress like lolita watnot. i think honestly i would tell her to stop wearin that and if she doesn't it might have some impact on my feelings.

[THiS ONE LOSER]

Okay I met this guy a few weeks ago.. And every time we hung out.. he's always play with me and make me laugh. A few examples are..

1. He kept stretching his arm into my head, no matter how far I leaned away.
2. He kept attacking me with his head one time.
3. He was playing with my hair while I had my head down.
4. Once, I tried to nap, as I was sitting next to him. I had my hood on and my head was down. Then out of no where, he sleeps right on top of my head.
5. He kept pulling me towards him, so I'm just lying there. Numerous times.
6. I was trying to sleep, then he leans his head by me. And asks what's wrong in Chinese. I told him I'm sleepy. And he replied, "I'll help you sleep then" all in Chinese.
7. We were leaning against each other.. and practically holding each other's hands.

And then.. just the other day, he suddenly said "I think you like me, I like you." And I just froze. Does he really mean that, or is he just joking around? =/

[mojomunkeez]

He's for real, girlfriend.