[:: ShaDoW ::]

hey soompi guys,

how should I hint to a guy that I like him? i've asked him to get dinner with me, study together, go karaoking, go partying etcetc. But he still has no idea. =.=

thanks much. =]

yeh u should just tell him and be direct to him because he doesnt seem to get the idea. so hinting to him would be great too like flirting with him and that.

When a guy asks you to "hang out" what are his intentions? Is he asking you on a "date"? or does he just actually want to hang out with you?

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when a guy asks to hang out, it just means he wants to get to know you. so u could say it is a 'casual' date...he just wants to know ur personality and see if there is any chemistry for something more than just friends.

[Limerence;]

A couple of weeks ago, I made a huge mistake. Made him cry (felt incredibly terrible, yeah i`m awful).
But we had a really huge, long talk. And everything went fine again, in a way.
Our 26th months was yesterday, but we were both busy.
He works at the mall (parttime, yet rushhour), and my little brother`s birthday was today.
So we didn`t have any time together.

The thing is,
For me, the guilt is still there, yannoe?
I want to let him know that he`s still special to me. No matter what.
So, the question becomes:
What do guys look for when your girl makes a mistake?
Do you guys really forgive & forget that fast?
I have this feeling that he`s still worried, yannoe.

Am I thinking too much?
See, I don`t want to be too lovey, nor do I want to come as ignorant.
Argh, so confused.
What do you say, guys?

[Sophi.e*]

So at school there's this guy that likes me & he's in gr.11.

I recently found out that he likes me & he knows I know, so he would come by to my locker every now and then, walk me to class, be flirtly with me & I guess I did flirt back 'cus of I have a tiny bit of like towards him.

Point of this is. .. . the other day he asked what he thinks of the situation we're in, & what he thinks of me & him right now.

I told him that I think we're good the way we are.. like as in not gf & bf, but as friends that like each other.. So i was just wondering is that a good idea? How would a guy feel if a girl said that to him? He told me that he's not "about to rush into things" and I don't know if he's just saying that or not....

btw, my reason for not dating him is 'cus I don't have time to have a bf.

Thanks to whoever answers this and reads it !

[xloverr]

how mad would you get if your gf said someone was hot when you guys were at the mall together

[deadytwo]

how mad would you get if your gf said someone was hot when you guys were at the mall together

i would probably comment on him too 'o hey he is hot' i mean i do it when i see hot girls... lol

[dreaded_destiny_]

Um…this kinda lingered on the back of my mind for a while but:
Does it mean anything when you ask a guy to take a picture with you (it was prom) and he does like a sign of victory to his friends?

[x_shinae]

my friend told me that when a guy and a girl are watching a movie alone together and a kiss scene comes up, the guy always thinks of kissing the girl next to him.... is this true?

[moonk379]

A couple of weeks ago, I made a huge mistake. Made him cry (felt incredibly terrible, yeah i`m awful).
But we had a really huge, long talk. And everything went fine again, in a way.
Our 26th months was yesterday, but we were both busy.
He works at the mall (parttime, yet rushhour), and my little brother`s birthday was today.
So we didn`t have any time together.

The thing is,
For me, the guilt is still there, yannoe?
I want to let him know that he`s still special to me. No matter what.
So, the question becomes:
What do guys look for when your girl makes a mistake?
Do you guys really forgive & forget that fast?
I have this feeling that he`s still worried, yannoe.

Am I thinking too much?
See, I don`t want to be too lovey, nor do I want to come as ignorant.
Argh, so confused.
What do you say, guys?

if its a huge mistake its not that easy to forgive and forget. he might say he forgotten about it and maybe he thinks he has but its always gonna be there in the back of his mind.

So at school there's this guy that likes me & he's in gr.11.

I recently found out that he likes me & he knows I know, so he would come by to my locker every now and then, walk me to class, be flirtly with me & I guess I did flirt back 'cus of I have a tiny bit of like towards him.

Point of this is. .. . the other day he asked what he thinks of the situation we're in, & what he thinks of me & him right now.

I told him that I think we're good the way we are.. like as in not gf & bf, but as friends that like each other.. So i was just wondering is that a good idea? How would a guy feel if a girl said that to him? He told me that he's not "about to rush into things" and I don't know if he's just saying that or not....

btw, my reason for not dating him is 'cus I don't have time to have a bf.

Thanks to whoever answers this and reads it !

he probably feels like you dont like him more than a friend. so depends on wat kind of guy he is, he might either stay friends the way you guys are now or just ignore you and go after different girls.

my friend told me that when a guy and a girl are watching a movie alone together and a kiss scene comes up, the guy always thinks of kissing the girl next to him.... is this true?

if the guy likes the girl then yes.

[unwritingyou]

I like this guy. How do I find out whether he likes me, without asking? He's a good liar esp. considering half the time anyone I know can talk to him is on I.M. so I can't really ask someone else to ask for me. Already tried. he just laughed and avoided the subject so I told my friend not to press it.

[teaispink]

- What does it mean when a guy suddenly touches a girl's face at the side while he talks to her and asks "are you ok? why do u luk so sad?". What does it mean??? Does he like the girl or no?

- What does it mean when a girl just taps his shoulder to ask him sth and he holds on to her hand and pulls it to his chest and answers the girl's question? Is the guy just being touchy or does the guy like her?

- What does it mean when a guy says out loud to a girl in front of his friends "Hey, i miss you alot!!"????? IMO i think that's just being friendly... but IDK, it weird, specially his luks how it's so excited. =_="

- What does it mean when a guy says out loud to a girl in front of his friends that "I think i'm going to go for her?" Is he just being funny?

I know i have alot of questions... and I know, I have the answers to some of them... but i just can't believe it until at least 10 people(or less) COMFIRMS IT.

[chocomocha]

why do guys like to listen to girls conversation, when they not joining in or even friends.. like he just ear drops? ..

[animeluverX]

what're all the things guys like best about having a girlfriend?

[predator]

What does a girl do that makes you think she is intimidated by you?

[RawrDesu]

hey guys,

would you tell your girlfriend that you don't feel the way you felt for her after a year and half of relationship? but your girlfriend loves you very very very much. would you prefer your girlfriend to say something first because you can tell there's something bothering her?

please please please help me on this one! ><'' thanks!

[luvelyasian]

Does it turn a guy off if a girl feels heistant to open up to get close, talking-wise at times? like normally you're fine, but at times you get a little awkward and stop talking, shy away from the topic?

like would guys try to understand that maybe she's shy, self-conscious.. or just be unnerved and give up?

hmm.. i guess thats probably different for every guy.. but any opinions are welcome

[Xyeun]

If a guys asks for your phone # or email and you tell them that you don't really use the phone/email often anymore because you're in a busy stage is that a reject to them?

[babiikaiiz]

woah... there are a lot of questions still unanswered. i guess we're pretty inquisitive haha

i have one which has been buggin me

a lot of my friends have boyfriends who are a bit older than them and already out of uni/college with a job or working parttime
they tend to pay for EVERYTHING the girlfriend needs: food, haircut, clothes, petrol (lol), even things like train, bus tickets, phone bills, and textbooks for university

i asked one of my friends why this is the case and she replied that it makes sense because they're thinking about the future and saving up money together

so my question is, do guys still find it necessary to pay for their gf's stuff even when the relationship is not as serious? (unlikely to get married or too far off to think about)...and if YES, WHY??? shouldn't the girl be responsible and pay for at least SOME stuff herself?

[Clix]

why do guys like to listen to girls conversation, when they not joining in or even friends.. like he just ear drops? ..

Curiosity kills the cat, so to speak. We're curious, like everyone else.

what're all the things guys like best about having a girlfriend?

Every guy is different when it comes to what they like from a girlfriend. For some it's sexual, for some it's love.

hey guys,

would you tell your girlfriend that you don't feel the way you felt for her after a year and half of relationship? but your girlfriend loves you very very very much. would you prefer your girlfriend to say something first because you can tell there's something bothering her?

please please please help me on this one! ><'' thanks!

If my feelings for a girl waned over time, I'd let her know and break it off.

Does it turn a guy off if a girl feels heistant to open up to get close, talking-wise at times? like normally you're fine, but at times you get a little awkward and stop talking, shy away from the topic?

like would guys try to understand that maybe she's shy, self-conscious.. or just be unnerved and give up?

hmm.. i guess thats probably different for every guy.. but any opinions are welcome

Yes, if the girl doesn't try to talk, there's no point in talking.

If a guys asks for your phone # or email and you tell them that you don't really use the phone/email often anymore because you're in a busy stage is that a reject to them?

Yes.

woah... there are a lot of questions still unanswered. i guess we're pretty inquisitive haha

i have one which has been buggin me

a lot of my friends have boyfriends who are a bit older than them and already out of uni/college with a job or working parttime
they tend to pay for EVERYTHING the girlfriend needs: food, haircut, clothes, petrol (lol), even things like train, bus tickets, phone bills, and textbooks for university

i asked one of my friends why this is the case and she replied that it makes sense because they're thinking about the future and saving up money together

so my question is, do guys still find it necessary to pay for their gf's stuff even when the relationship is not as serious? (unlikely to get married or too far off to think about)...and if YES, WHY??? shouldn't the girl be responsible and pay for at least SOME stuff herself?

For me, I believe it would be great if the girl would take care of her own necessities. I ain't yo momma, therefore I'm not paying your bills, groceries, etc. Stuff she needs like food and gas may be one thing, paying her cell phone bill is another.

[Offspring89]

Does it turn a guy off if a girl feels heistant to open up to get close, talking-wise at times? like normally you're fine, but at times you get a little awkward and stop talking, shy away from the topic?

like would guys try to understand that maybe she's shy, self-conscious.. or just be unnerved and give up?

hmm.. i guess thats probably different for every guy.. but any opinions are welcome

Definitely, if it persists, i'd get bored and eventually give up. But, i'd probably wouldn't be bored for long, know what im saying? The next time i see you and you're ready to open up again (talking wise), i'd be happy to talk with you.

What does a girl do that makes you think she is intimidated by you?

Im not the kind of guy to be intimidating other girls, i think im a pretty friendly guy :]. But...i guess if you looked at me from across the room and then quickley looked away again, that would be a dead give away. (I suppose =T)

would you tell your girlfriend that you don't feel the way you felt for her after a year and half of relationship? but your girlfriend loves you very very very much. would you prefer your girlfriend to say something first because you can tell there's something bothering her?

It'll depend on the guy, really. Personally, i'd wait and see if she says anything first, and if she doesn't i guess i'll have to open up eventually myself.

If a guys asks for your phone # or email and you tell them that you don't really use the phone/email often anymore because you're in a busy stage is that a reject to them?

Unless you tell us when its okay to call, then yeah, we feel a little rejected .

a lot of my friends have boyfriends who are a bit older than them and already out of uni/college with a job or working parttime
they tend to pay for EVERYTHING the girlfriend needs: food, haircut, clothes, petrol (lol), even things like train, bus tickets, phone bills, and textbooks for university

i asked one of my friends why this is the case and she replied that it makes sense because they're thinking about the future and saving up money together

so my question is, do guys still find it necessary to pay for their gf's stuff even when the relationship is not as serious? (unlikely to get married or too far off to think about)...and if YES, WHY??? shouldn't the girl be responsible and pay for at least SOME stuff herself?

These guys are out of uni, so i assume they're in their mid-twenties? They're smart enough to know how to handle money...maybe they're ballin' and want to take care of their lady . To each his own.

EDIT: But yeah, i agree. Your girls are too too too dependant on their bf, being a little independant wont kill you >=T.

Alright, i got me a little problem myself =T.
Im a guy : ). And this question wont fit in with the 'ask the ladies' thread. So here we go...

So...how do you tell if a girl is only interested in you for your car / money? I've got both, im really starting to like this girl but i can't shake the feeling she only wants me to be her taxi-driver & to get her gifts and what not, but of course...who wouldnt want to be around a guy who lives near you and can drive you home right? So yeah, i dont know, are there signs? Maybe theres some sort of way to figure out what she really wants?

Thanks Fellas .

[Clix]

Alright, i got me a little problem myself =T.
Im a guy : ). And this question wont fit in with the 'ask the ladies' thread. So here we go...

So...how do you tell if a girl is only interested in you for your car / money? I've got both, im really starting to like this girl but i can't shake the feeling she only wants me to be her taxi-driver & to get her gifts and what not, but of course...who wouldnt want to be around a guy who lives near you and can drive you home right? So yeah, i dont know, are there signs? Maybe theres some sort of way to figure out what she really wants?

Thanks Fellas .

Be a cheapskate for a day and you'll probably notice a difference if they're after your pockets. Or you could tell her you're going bankrupt, stash your nice car somewhere and bum rides for like 2 days and note any changes.