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#4201 User is offline   xyoojchick 

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Posted 06 December 2007 - 09:42 PM

okies i need some help

so my bf and i
-we have absolutly nothing in common but we really like each other crazy.gif
i dont know why i like him so much but i just do! yea im weired lol
but yea im his like real "first girlfriend" and all the other girls, he was just fooling around with so yea. (thats what he siad)
and so its kinda hard for him to talk to me cuz he says i keep him "on track"
and so he doesnt want to say anything stupid,
and if he's afriad to say something he makes me feel like i dont wanna say anything either.
i mean come on! saying stupid stuff strikes up the awsomenes conversations right? lol
sorry if i make no sense >.<! but main thing is

any topics i talk to him about when we're talking?

cuz when we talk on the phone we're soooo quiet we're kinda just hearing each other breath wacko.gif
and in the last 5 days he used like 1050+ minutes on the phone with me just saying "yeah" "yea" "yeh" to each other. blink.gif


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do guys like lovey-dovey girls? cuz i wanna show him i like him but in a not so anoyying way, ya know? cuz my bffl(a dude and his cuz) told me he told him he's afriad im going to leave him for another guy(which i would never do to him!)

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#4202 User is offline   yuwing 

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Posted 06 December 2007 - 09:46 PM

QUOTE (Aesthetic_Chinese @ Dec 6 2007, 05:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Okay so in class, I was having a this kidd help me with my schedule for next year.
Hes two years older then me && im a Sophmore so hes a senior T.T
Anyway, he was helping, and i looked at his thing && saw astronomy.
I asked "you can take that? i thought they weren't doing it this year"
&& he told me that they were && he said yeah you should take it!

&& like when i talk to him i look in his eyes. like i usually i'll look at their teeth or something
but i kept constant eye contact with him. im usually the one to break it but he keeps good eye contact.
&& like after we he told me to take that class, we just kinda look at each other's eyes. then i broke it to
right down astronomy XD but i could tell he still was lookin at me.

but then the bell rang for class to be over && we weren't finished but i was practically done expect for like putting the numbers down && like our teacher was going to give us a late slip. i wanted to wait for him but didn't know if i should so i just left to my next class.

so heres my TWO questions.
did he tell me to take astronomy like friendly wise?
&& what do you think he thinks about me leaving? we're good enough friends to walk
but i got to nervous


1) i generally tell my friends to take courses that are easy so we get the benefit of getting high GPAs. friendly.
2) he might think you're not interested in him. if you're really interested then say that youre sorry for leaving him. just tell him the truth.

QUOTE (sidney @ Dec 6 2007, 06:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
if you're a guy who have many gfs in the past and is outgoing - what do you think of a girl who is 19 and never have a bf before? like, wow this girl is so precious, or, what is wrong with her?? =)


Show him that you're confident and value yourself. I personally love girls who are strong. You don't want him to think you're inexperienced because no one likes you. You want to give him the impression that you are just very choosey, you value yourself a lot, and there's a line of boys waiting for to ask you out (even its a lie wink.gif)

QUOTE (baoi @ Dec 6 2007, 09:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I want to know....

FOR YOU, what is something you like a girl to say to you. Anything at all.


"you're so nice! you're an angel XD"

QUOTE (MissBoAngel @ Dec 6 2007, 09:29 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Does a guy prefer being told straight up by a girl that she likes him or Does a guy like girls giving them hints first?


For an inexperienced guy, prefer to be told straight up. if he had gfs before, give him a few hints. he should be able to pick up those hints

QUOTE (speaker1004 @ Dec 6 2007, 09:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So this guy and I have been getting to know each other for about two weeks. We text back and forth constantly, kind of flirting. And he tells me that hes "staring to fall for" me. But the next day he doesnt text or anything. Does this mean hes not interested anymore? huh.gif


did you text him after his sudden confession? if not, i suggest you do. if you ignore him, he might think you're not interested in him.


QUOTE (*nie_nie* @ Dec 6 2007, 10:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Okay..So this guy that I've known for a few weeks now was playing the guitar and I was telling my friend, "I'm gonna learn to play that one day." Talking about the guitar.
And he jumps in, and says that he's offering to teach me guitar. And then he asked me if I wanted his number. But later on, when I asked him he wanted my number, he just told me to call him.

So are these signs or is he just being nice or whatever?

-nie


I think he see some interest and his using this as a way to get to know u better

QUOTE (BUHNEE213 @ Dec 6 2007, 11:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
If this has been posted,sorry xD I just don't feel like going through 210 pages.

1] Do guys like tomboys as more than " just friends" ?
2] Do guys like "girly girls" better?


My situation is I am a tomboy. I don't dress like one. I dress like a " girly girl ." [ I think thats the right term] I guess you can say, I do have my girly side too.I put on make up [ even though it looks like I don't have any]. I love to cuddle/kiss/hold hands/bake goodies/cook/make star jars [ ahha I know. Its so childish] for that "special* someone.

But I also love to do what the guys do.
- Play games for hours&hours
- Work on cars xD [ I love cars. I like learning about cars xD I actually took auto 1&2 classes when I was in H.S]
- Play sports. [ I prefer bball,football, snowboarding,&& skateboarding]
- I'm not afraid to get dirty with mud or dirt. [ unless its on my shoes xD]
- I can joke about mostly anything.
- Dirty jokes don't offend me. [ hence* I have brothers and more guyfriends than girlfriends. I'm used to it]


1) I'd love to have a gf who has same interests as me 8D
2) not really. generally depends on the guy. just ask yourself the same question - do girls like feminine guys better??

QUOTE (xyoojchick @ Dec 7 2007, 12:42 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
okies i need some help

so my bf and i
-we have absolutly nothing in common but we really like each other crazy.gif
i dont know why i like him so much but i just do! yea im weired lol
but yea im his like real "first girlfriend" and all the other girls, he was just fooling around with so yea. (thats what he siad)
and so its kinda hard for him to talk to me cuz he says i keep him "on track"
and so he doesnt want to say anything stupid,
and if he's afriad to say something he makes me feel like i dont wanna say anything either.
i mean come on! saying stupid stuff strikes up the awsomenes conversations right? lol
sorry if i make no sense >.<! but main thing is

any topics i talk to him about when we're talking?

cuz when we talk on the phone we're soooo quiet we're kinda just hearing each other breath wacko.gif
and in the last 5 days he used like 1050+ minutes on the phone with me just saying "yeah" "yea" "yeh" to each other. blink.gif


1) all i can say is when that infatuation is gone, you two will split up.
2) talk about what you'll do to him if he was beside you (phone sex)
3) talk on msn instead. show him links of what you think and start from there.

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Posted 06 December 2007 - 11:17 PM

QUOTE (yuwing @ Dec 6 2007, 11:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
1) all i can say is when that infatuation is gone, you two will split up.
2) talk about what you'll do to him if he was beside you (phone sex)
3) talk on msn instead. show him links of what you think and start from there.


what? phone sex? im only 15! ewww lol but yea it always been like this. i dont why but we're always like this on the phone,
we just dont talk sleep.gif
any other suggestions?

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#4204 User is offline   BUHNEE213 

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Posted 06 December 2007 - 11:31 PM

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1) I'd love to have a gf who has same interests as me 8D
2) not really. generally depends on the guy. just ask yourself the same question - do girls like feminine guys better??


Feminine guys.. err no thank you xD
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Posted 07 December 2007 - 12:46 AM

How do guys like to kiss ?

Or be kissed? My friends say they like a lot of tongue...is that true?

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Posted 07 December 2007 - 01:21 AM

QUOTE (Big_Bang @ Dec 7 2007, 03:46 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
How do guys like to kiss ?

Or be kissed? My friends say they like a lot of tongue...is that true?


I was always a simple kisser. I don't kiss often that's why when I do it's special. Tongue.. I'm not big on it. It is nice though.. I think it's more of personal pref. In my opinion, timing is what it's all about. Spontaneous, catch me when I'm not looking kinda kisses are the greatest.

My gf will sneak into my room while I'm studying and pounce and kiss, haha it's great.
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Posted 07 December 2007 - 03:27 AM

QUOTE (BUHNEE213 @ Dec 7 2007, 01:31 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Feminine guys.. err no thank you xD



But wouldent that be different with guys?

I'm sure guys prefer feminine women.. dont they?

Of course girls dont like feminine guys but they want "manly" men.. men that make the women feel that the women is a WOMEN.

So wouldent men want women that are feminine and womanly and makes the man feel like a man??

I'm convinced of this.
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Posted 07 December 2007 - 05:42 AM

how do i stop my bf from feeling insecure?
cos most of my close friends are guys & he gets jealous & insecure when i hang out with them... what should i do?
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Posted 07 December 2007 - 06:01 AM

Ummmm...well I was shopping and hanging out with two of my guy friends today.
We were sitting down at a cafeteria and like...one of them said he was gonna ask me a couple of questions.
He wrote it down on his fone..and didn't let the other guy see.
They were questions like "Am I boring?" "Am I shy?"
And I was like...okaayyyy.
I answered it.
But like...he didn't really needed to hide it from the other guy O_o
But yeahh...
And then when we were on IM I asked him why he asked those questions.
And he just said "becauseeeeeee...don't worry"

Ummm, I was asking..what can he possibly be thinking?
I'm not implying anything..I just wanna know what's going through his head, lol.
He's got a gf and alll...so yeahhhhssss.

thank yeews ^__^



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Posted 07 December 2007 - 10:35 PM

QUOTE (viviians @ Dec 7 2007, 05:42 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
how do i stop my bf from feeling insecure?
cos most of my close friends are guys & he gets jealous & insecure when i hang out with them... what should i do?


let your bf hang wit them as well. maybe once he gets to know them he probably would think theres nothin to worry about. or you could just stop hangin wit your close friends =]

QUOTE (angel_b3k @ Dec 7 2007, 06:01 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Ummmm...well I was shopping and hanging out with two of my guy friends today.
We were sitting down at a cafeteria and like...one of them said he was gonna ask me a couple of questions.
He wrote it down on his fone..and didn't let the other guy see.
They were questions like "Am I boring?" "Am I shy?"
And I was like...okaayyyy.
I answered it.
But like...he didn't really needed to hide it from the other guy O_o
But yeahh...
And then when we were on IM I asked him why he asked those questions.
And he just said "becauseeeeeee...don't worry"

Ummm, I was asking..what can he possibly be thinking?
I'm not implying anything..I just wanna know what's going through his head, lol.
He's got a gf and alll...so yeahhhhssss.

thank yeews ^__^


maybe he thinks hes gf thought that so he was askin you as a girls point of view.
....cuz the music left wit you.
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Posted 07 December 2007 - 11:02 PM

would u guys date a short girl if your very tall? @@;;
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Posted 07 December 2007 - 11:13 PM

QUOTE (Big_Bang @ Dec 7 2007, 06:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
How do guys like to kiss ?

Or be kissed? My friends say they like a lot of tongue...is that true?


not always the case. it depends on the situation. but for most casual instances, soft kisses are nice. a little tongue gradually increasing with more with time. little peck kisses are way cool too. lol.
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Posted 08 December 2007 - 12:00 AM

If a guy stares at you for a long time, but does nothing, is it because he's scared to get rejected by the girl or what...lol.

And um, guy A keeps telling girl B that she's really pretty, and she's getting prettier everyday, and he's in Korea and misses her but... they're just good friends. Is he saying it because he likes the girl romantically or do guys just do that to their friends who are girls?

And lets say guy B tells his Korean friends in Korean that girl A is his girlfriend right in front of her face thinking she doesn't know Korean...does guy B like girl A? Or do guys just do that for fun? (Girl A doesn't really know Guy B's friends. She just bumped into guy B and his friends at a bar.)
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Posted 08 December 2007 - 08:19 AM

QUOTE (eugene @ Dec 8 2007, 02:00 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
If a guy stares at you for a long time, but does nothing, is it because he's scared to get rejected by the girl or what...lol.

And um, guy A keeps telling girl B that she's really pretty, and she's getting prettier everyday, and he's in Korea and misses her but... they're just good friends. Is he saying it because he likes the girl romantically or do guys just do that to their friends who are girls?

And lets say guy B tells his Korean friends in Korean that girl A is his girlfriend right in front of her face thinking she doesn't know Korean...does guy B like girl A? Or do guys just do that for fun? (Girl A doesn't really know Guy B's friends. She just bumped into guy B and his friends at a bar.)


In every case the guy is interested. Guys just don't say girls are getting prettier, so Guy A is probably is interested

Guy B may be kidding because some of my guy friends do that, but when you know the girl doesn't understand (or think she doesn't understand) he is either showing off to his friends, trying to be cool, or actually have interest. Actually I think that guy B was just playing cool and boost his ego in front of his friends...

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Posted 08 December 2007 - 08:24 AM

Umm question >_<
Guys say they like "girls who are confident, but not smart. Girl's who can speak for themselves, but not talkative. Girls who have a sense of humour.. but isn't funny?"

I don't understand them T-T;;;
So what do these mean?

Also, a guy who is really quiet, and not used to girls... how do you approach them?? Do they like confident talkative girls? or quiet ladylike girls?
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Posted 08 December 2007 - 10:12 AM

QUOTE (xangie @ Dec 8 2007, 11:24 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Umm question >_<
Guys say they like "girls who are confident, but not smart. Girl's who can speak for themselves, but not talkative. Girls who have a sense of humour.. but isn't funny?"

I don't understand them T-T;;;
So what do these mean?


i don't know where you got that from, but I'd say just forget it!

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#4217 User is offline   SunnykiM 

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Posted 08 December 2007 - 01:45 PM

so what does it mean when a guy tells you stuff about:
-his ex's, like "i had a white girlfriend befor ebut my mom didn't like her"
- he talks about how hes really picky about who he dates, and he talks about what kind of babies he wants in the future( like full korean baby (btw we're both Korean))
- and he also asks you questions about your friends ,like are they hot, etc
- and then he asks for you phone number?

does that mean hes just confortable with me and wants to be good friends or does he have any intrest in me?
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Posted 08 December 2007 - 06:00 PM


this is kinda similar to eugene's question;
but what is the guy thinking when he stares at you for four second intervals during an hour?
like, *stares for 4 seconds* *looks away* *stares for 4 seconds* *looks away*?
the guy did that on friday; right before there was the dance.
like ... is he interested; or is he just being like every other guy who likes staring at girls?
it's not the first day he's done that [it's been around a week]

but then during the dance; at first the guy is looking for someone.
he sees the girl [who sees him] and she's with her friends [one of her friends publicly told him that she likes him but he doesn't return the feelings]; but he continues to look like he's searching for someone.
and he does that over and over again until the girl B [girl who told everyone she liked him] leaves with some other friends for the washroom.

& then the guy comes back again when girl B is gone [all the grade 9's stick together @ the dance]
and stands a meter away from girl A who's dancing with her friends & talks to his friend, glances at her, talks again, etc
& when girl B comes back, he moves away.

i mean like, if he was interested, he would have asked girl A when girl B was gone, right?
but then he didn't ...
so he's just staring at her for ... erm ... eye candy or something? right?

& after the dance was over [10-ish because we got kicked out, lol]
girl A was at her locker without girl B [they're friends] and then the guy walks along ...
he stares at girl A twice, & then he just continues walking on.

so is he "interested" or pretending she's "eye-candy"?
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Posted 08 December 2007 - 06:33 PM

QUOTE (SunnykiM @ Dec 8 2007, 03:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
so what does it mean when a guy tells you stuff about:
-his ex's, like "i had a white girlfriend befor ebut my mom didn't like her"
- he talks about how hes really picky about who he dates, and he talks about what kind of babies he wants in the future( like full korean baby (btw we're both Korean))
- and he also asks you questions about your friends ,like are they hot, etc
- and then he asks for you phone number?

does that mean hes just confortable with me and wants to be good friends or does he have any intrest in me?
thanksssss biggrin.gif


Hmmm well I have some close Korean female friends whom I talk about somethings similar to the first three, but to a lesser scale. It sounds like you don't even know him that well, but with the friends whom I've talked to I knew well so yeah...

I think he's somewhat interested and he's leaving little hints like that.


QUOTE (boo`--NiCOLE @ Dec 8 2007, 08:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

this is kinda similar to eugene's question;
but what is the guy thinking when he stares at you for four second intervals during an hour?
like, *stares for 4 seconds* *looks away* *stares for 4 seconds* *looks away*?
the guy did that on friday; right before there was the dance.
like ... is he interested; or is he just being like every other guy who likes staring at girls?
it's not the first day he's done that [it's been around a week]

but then during the dance; at first the guy is looking for someone.
he sees the girl [who sees him] and she's with her friends [one of her friends publicly told him that she likes him but he doesn't return the feelings]; but he continues to look like he's searching for someone.
and he does that over and over again until the girl B [girl who told everyone she liked him] leaves with some other friends for the washroom.

& then the guy comes back again when girl B is gone [all the grade 9's stick together @ the dance]
and stands a meter away from girl A who's dancing with her friends & talks to his friend, glances at her, talks again, etc
& when girl B comes back, he moves away.

i mean like, if he was interested, he would have asked girl A when girl B was gone, right?
but then he didn't ...
so he's just staring at her for ... erm ... eye candy or something? right?

& after the dance was over [10-ish because we got kicked out, lol]
girl A was at her locker without girl B [they're friends] and then the guy walks along ...
he stares at girl A twice, & then he just continues walking on.

so is he "interested" or pretending she's "eye-candy"?
(:
thanks!



He's interested and he's just a little shy. I've never really been a good talker atleast with girls when I was young, and that's what I did. He wants to talk to you, so talk to him.
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Posted 08 December 2007 - 06:39 PM

QUOTE (DaAzNkIgGa627 @ Dec 8 2007, 09:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
He's interested and he's just a little shy. I've never really been a good talker atleast with girls when I was young, and that's what I did. He wants to talk to you, so talk to him.


thanks for your help. (:
erm.
i'm /kind of/ interested too; but ... how do i approach him?

question to the guys;
would you feel awkward if you were somewhat shy & a girl approaches you & tells you that she's interested in you?

would you act wierd around her?

haha lame question, lol.


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