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#4251 User is offline   moonk379 

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Posted 12 December 2007 - 09:50 PM

QUOTE (angelxglo @ Dec 12 2007, 07:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
what the hell does a tinyyy barely audible "hi" follow by him looking down toward the floor mean?

and pleaseee do not tell me that he's shy!


since i can't tell you that imma go wit a guess of maybe he had a sore throat and saw a penny on the floor? =]

QUOTE (rooss @ Dec 12 2007, 09:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
If a guy acts flirty with you through texts and IMs (I know it sounds sketchy, but during the weekdays when I dont see him) and then one day tells you that hes "falling for you", but the next day his ex-crush tells him that shes starting to like him and he tells you that he likes her again, what does that mean? Does he not like you anymore?



it doesn't mean he doesn't like you ne more but rather he likes the ex-crush more than you.
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#4252 User is offline   angelxglo 

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Posted 12 December 2007 - 10:06 PM

QUOTE (moonk379 @ Dec 13 2007, 12:50 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
since i can't tell you that imma go wit a guess of maybe he had a sore throat and saw a penny on the floor? =]


i mean common, its not the first time we talked and seriously, i think we're both old enough to outgrow that stage!
on top of that, today was the last day of classes. if he only said something else, yu noe, then i can say something else.

ugggg!!!
he's giving me a headache.


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#4253 User is offline   x3sarah 

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Posted 12 December 2007 - 10:15 PM

Why do some guys play games such as flirting with a girl one minute and not paying attention to her the next? Is just for the whole 'chase' thing, mess with her mind, or to see her reaction? [I'm sorry if this has been asked before, but I don't want to flip through 213 pages.]

Thanks in advance for the response.

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Posted 12 December 2007 - 10:23 PM

can you guys really fake acting "happy" being around with a girl who you have no more feelings for whatsoever??

to what extent can you fake it to??

cos my bf dump me for gooood yesterday..he said he has NO MORE FEELINGS FOR ME at all but like when he was with me for the past week..he seemed pretty happy and stuff ..so just wondering !~~~
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Posted 12 December 2007 - 11:50 PM

hey guys, i have one question... if a girl was right for you.. but the only problem is that she's taller than you... Hmm.. if you like her, or maybe sense that she likes you too, but she's unsure, would you still go after her, or drop hints that it's okay with you? Or maybe.. you guys don't date a girl taller than you in the first place?
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Posted 13 December 2007 - 12:46 AM

i need to noe if this is normal for a guy to do...and if so...why do u guys do it?

well... my best guyfriend ended up liking me
but while we were jst friends...he told me he liked this other girl in our grade
but now that he likes me and all..i asked if he still likes her..
and he said yes
so basically..we're kinda going out but he still likes the other girl
does that make sense?
he's confusing the crap out of me with wat he wants...

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Posted 13 December 2007 - 12:48 AM

QUOTE (NuEy_* @ Dec 11 2007, 04:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Random question.
Would you be mad if your gf called you by some other guys name on accident?
If so, what would you do?

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Depends. Every guy is different. For me, if I fall in love with a girl, I fall in love with her. And for her to make a mistake like that, oh mannn. I'll go crazy.

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Posted 13 December 2007 - 01:06 AM

QUOTE (angelxglo @ Dec 12 2007, 10:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i mean common, its not the first time we talked and seriously, i think we're both old enough to outgrow that stage!
on top of that, today was the last day of classes. if he only said something else, yu noe, then i can say something else.

ugggg!!!
he's giving me a headache.


sounds like you like the guy. why dont you try to initiate the conversation first and see his reaction. and judgin from the reaction you can tell why hes bein like that.

QUOTE (fwnc_b! @ Dec 12 2007, 11:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hey guys, i have one question... if a girl was right for you.. but the only problem is that she's taller than you... Hmm.. if you like her, or maybe sense that she likes you too, but she's unsure, would you still go after her, or drop hints that it's okay with you? Or maybe.. you guys don't date a girl taller than you in the first place?


personally i prefer girls who are shorter than me BUT if it did turned out i liked the girl who happens to be taller i dont think i would mind, i probably would end up goin after her.
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Posted 13 December 2007 - 03:17 AM

QUOTE (angelxglo @ Dec 12 2007, 09:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
what the hell does a tinyyy barely audible "hi" follow by him looking down toward the floor mean?

and pleaseee do not tell me that he's shy!


did u say or do anything that might have hurt him?

QUOTE (x3sarah @ Dec 13 2007, 12:15 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Why do some guys play games such as flirting with a girl one minute and not paying attention to her the next? Is just for the whole 'chase' thing, mess with her mind, or to see her reaction? [I'm sorry if this has been asked before, but I don't want to flip through 213 pages.]

Thanks in advance for the response.


because this is the only thing that gets the girl's attention? girls dont pay attention to the guys that are with them the whole time and care for them a lot. the girl will end up treating the guy as a normal friend instead of seeing him as a potential bf. i would really like to see and believe that not all girls are like that though.
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Posted 13 December 2007 - 03:30 AM

If you like the girl, whats so hard with being friends with her first and escalate that later... my answer would be because he wants sex and obviously he can't wait... am i correct?

Also, why do guys give up so easily, they whine that they like a girl but some douche bag decides to take her way yet you don't even put any effort in getting her back.. this also goes for while your in a relationship with her too, you don't even fight for her back.. my answer would be, guys think once the girl made up her mind on liking another guy, you can't change her back because thats what she wants, am i correct?
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Posted 13 December 2007 - 07:32 AM

QUOTE (moonk379 @ Dec 13 2007, 05:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
personally i prefer girls who are shorter than me BUT if it did turned out i liked the girl who happens to be taller i dont think i would mind, i probably would end up goin after her.


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Posted 13 December 2007 - 07:40 AM

hey guys, one question:
why do some guys (i only know of one, and i dont mean to generalize) hit on you and then tell you theyre joking after? like, why would they do that and what do they mean?
thanks in advance for answering.

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Posted 13 December 2007 - 11:45 AM

I have a lot of questions because I'm kind of in a bungaloo with a dude. I don't want to explain my situation because it'll be a five page essay.

Do guys generally like loud or quiet girls?
Are guys somewhat intimidated by loud girls?
Do they prefer girls with a radical sense of humor or someone who's all cutsey and stuff?
Is it a turn-off if a girl cusses (no F word but just like Damn/Sh*t) every now and then?
If a guy is generally talkative, what does it mean when he's usually quiet around a girl all throughout the semester-- but starts talking more in front of that very girl at the end of the semester (like, the day of the final)? (Dang... this question is a run-on :X)...

One last question (and you're in luck! It comes with a scenario!):
So he's sitting in front of me in class and a teacher calls on a student to answer a question. Well, I turn my head to see the speaker but in the middle of the student's monologue, I get bored and as I turn my head back to face the front, in the corner of my eye, I see him turn his head back forward simultaneously. Was he checking me out? Or is it a coinkidink? Like, his head snapped back forward SOOO fast. In the corner of my mind, it felt like he was looking at me and didn't want me to know. I might be wrong though. I usually am xP haha.

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Posted 13 December 2007 - 11:46 AM

QUOTE (soyabeangirl16 @ Dec 13 2007, 10:40 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hey guys, one question:
why do some guys (i only know of one, and i dont mean to generalize) hit on you and then tell you theyre joking after? like, why would they do that and what do they mean?
thanks in advance for answering.


Well some guys don't realize that what they're doing could be really messing with your emotions and causing girls confusion. I think we do it because we're more comfortable with you guys, that's why we pull it off. I don't think it really means anything.
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Posted 13 December 2007 - 12:11 PM

so like why would some guy say that we need to "hang out at some point, not sure when, but i know we should" tho we've already hung out in groups before?
could it just be a friend thing? cant u hang out together with other ppl?
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Posted 13 December 2007 - 12:13 PM

QUOTE (sWtB @ Dec 13 2007, 03:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
so like why would some guy say that we need to "hang out at some point, not sure when, but i know we should" tho we've already hung out in groups before?
could it just be a friend thing? cant u hang out together with other ppl?


Cause wants to get to know you on a one on one basis. People show their another piece of their character when they're by themselves rather then a group.

Or.. if he's super sleezy, he'll try and get in them guts on a first date. I dunno anything about the guy. But I'd say he's interested. Maybe he's got a busy schedule?
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Posted 13 December 2007 - 12:24 PM

so this guys likes me but i haven't made a move yet.. and now he doesn't go to the say way and stuff cause I think he thinks i dont like him.. is it too late to tell him that i like him back?
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Posted 13 December 2007 - 12:27 PM

QUOTE (babiloveyoo @ Dec 13 2007, 03:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
so this guys likes me but i haven't made a move yet.. and now he doesn't go to the say way and stuff cause I think he thinks i dont like him.. is it too late to tell him that i like him back?


It's never too late. I'd recommend instead of jumping to the whole "I like you." part.. You ask him to hang out a few times to see if you guys got chemistry for each other. Since you said like, I'm assuming your still in High School or lower. Start off with food. It's a good common ground. =)
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Posted 13 December 2007 - 12:50 PM

QUOTE (duykato @ Dec 13 2007, 03:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Cause wants to get to know you on a one on one basis. People show their another piece of their character when they're by themselves rather then a group.

Or.. if he's super sleezy, he'll try and get in them guts on a first date. I dunno anything about the guy. But I'd say he's interested. Maybe he's got a busy schedule?


yah i was thinking itd have to do with wanting to know me for reals since i get quieter when in groups.
its just i dont rly hang out with guys much and a 1 on 1 thing would make me a little awkward....
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Posted 13 December 2007 - 01:25 PM



thanks for the tip ^.^ HS , i just dont want to regret not telling him ;]
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