[yuwing]

So my cousin's having problems with this one guy.
Everyone [who knows them both] think they can be the cutest couple and they think that they like each other.
My cousin won't tell anyone that she likes him until she's sure that he likes her but she says that she can't really tell.
It seems as if she has to initiate everything. Like he doesn't im her but when she does im him, their conversations last foreverr and he asks personal questions that make it seem like he likes her or wants to get to know her.
She initiates asking him to go out with her (well as friends i guess)
but he's the shy type (what she says) but they click.

Does he like her? or is he just another friend?

my opinion: I don't think he likes her or else he would im her bc he WANTS that much to talk to her. but i don't knoww.
p.s. I don't know the guy so yeaa haha
thanks!

He doesn't like her. If they really click, then the guy would most likely initiate conversations too. I have a friend who I really click with also, but i never initiate conversations. She's just fun to talk to.

Will you still make a move on a girl even though you know one of your friends is interested in her?

no one is stopping you but yourself. rid yourself of your conscience. pretend you didn't know. friends don't last forever.
(this advice is one day gonna catch up to me and bite me in the ass LOL)

[angela~]

Two quesions!
1. I posted it here regarding my friend's one: http://www.soompi.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=183387
I apologise for not having paragraphs because i tend to write everything in a chunk and i'm a sucker when it comes to penning my thoughts bit my bits -.- lol.

2. Okie this is regarding myself. How do you stop guys from approaching and talking to you? I dont know, every now and then there's someone who confesses to me and i feel awkard.. frankly, i would rather all of them to hate me or something because even though i've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and he's my first boyfriend but i think he's still insecure with all these. And i don't wanna make him feel anything like that=( i just want him to be happy.

Thanks for reading.=) Sorry if this is too many questions and i'm paragraphing. hoho.

[ShinAoshi]

Two quesions!
1. I posted it here regarding my friend's one: http://www.soompi.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=183387
I apologise for not having paragraphs because i tend to write everything in a chunk and i'm a sucker when it comes to penning my thoughts bit my bits -.- lol.

2. Okie this is regarding myself. How do you stop guys from approaching and talking to you? I dont know, every now and then there's someone who confesses to me and i feel awkard.. frankly, i would rather all of them to hate me or something because even though i've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and he's my first boyfriend but i think he's still insecure with all these. And i don't wanna make him feel anything like that=( i just want him to be happy.

Thanks for reading.=) Sorry if this is too many questions and i'm paragraphing. hoho.

1) Personally I think the guy likes the girl. Since you said he doesn't do that to other girls except him. Either that or shes really pretty?

2) If you want to stop guys from approaching and talking to you put on a mean face and act really bitchy towards them.

[lazibratt]

thankss :] Do you think she should stop initiating with him then? like don't im him even though he's fun to talk to as well?

[c_gunawan541]

I wonder how guys think about tomboyish girls?
And also when they find out a quiet/reserved girl being quite loud and happy around her female friends?

---Caroline

[Judith]

what does guys think of girls that are hairier than themselves?

[wish_ona_star]

Hey Soompi fellas,

Sorry for the extra long post. Thank you for reading through it.

So two weeks ago, the guy I've liked for the past semester confronted me about me liking him. Apparently he knew all along, and he could tell that I was really distracted/bothered by it. So he decided to bring it up. He said alot of things that confused me even more. He started off saying that he's not the right type of guy for me, that he's too immature, and that he wants to concentrate on academics. Then, he asked me if I thought it would work between us. He said he cares about me and he acts especially nice to me. Everyone says he's a jerk, but if you were in my shoes, you can tell that he acts differently around me. So, I'm guessing there was some attraction. But he says he didn't like how I didn't talk to him enough or let him know what I'm thinking. He feels like he doesn't know me well. In the summer, we actually talked every night sometimes till like 4am. But, once the school year started, we got busy, and there was less time to hang out and just chat. He said he gave alot of chances to open up to him, e.g. having meals together, studying together, watching tv/movies together.

So, basically by the end of the conversation, I didn't know what to think. He didn't flat out reject me, but he didn't accept me either. What do you think? Should I move on, or keep trying to let him get to know me better?

Btw, after we had that conversation, I kinda avoided him, and finals came up so we didn't really talk/see each other. But, yesterday, we were studying in a library study booth together for our exam, and he basically just sat really really close to me. The booth is actually really spacious, but he sat so close almost to the point that he could like sit on top of me. I tried to shift away, but he kinda just moved closer. Wouldn't a guy that wasn't interested try to keep his distance?

So, can you give me a clue as to what he's thinking? Is he leading me on? or giving me more chances? Gah, what's with guys and mixed messages?

Thank you so much if you read through this boring post. Much appreciated.

-wish_ona_star

[x kisekiboshi]

Do guys normally ask girls how large their chest is?

[xMinax]

Is it possible to like someone that you've never talk to before?

[yuwing]

Do guys normally ask girls how large their chest is?

If they're big, I tend to ask. Just friends and nothing more though. I wouldn't ask a girl I like.

Is it possible to like someone that you've never talk to before?

those are "crushes" facilitated by superficial observations. Get to know one another before "liking" someone.

So, can you give me a clue as to what he's thinking? Is he leading me on? or giving me more chances? Gah, what's with guys and mixed messages?

From the library incident itself, He might be testing if you still like him. He is interested but wants to the test if the water is still warm(?). The problem is whether he really likes you for who you are or if you are just an "opportunity" for him to get experience.

what does guys think of girls that are hairier than themselves?

*irk*

I wonder how guys think about tomboyish girls?
And also when they find out a quiet/reserved girl being quite loud and happy around her female friends?

1) Depends on how she looks. If she grooms like a lady but acts tomboyish, then it's cute. If she's a man, then GTFO!
2) Depends on personality/attitude. maybe she's shy. Or, maybe she's stuck up - doesn't like to associate with anyone other than her group of friends.

[time_out]

guys, wen ur sad and angry, what kan ur gf do to cheer u up???

[mint*ster]

do guys play hard to get too? >__<

like waiting for you to ask him to do things, IM him on AIM/MSN etc. ??

[yuwing]

guys, wen ur sad and angry, what kan ur gf do to cheer u up???

Smile when you see him. Don't give him attitude (as if he has enough problems already). Give him a gentle kiss on the cheek. Ask him what's wrong and listen to him. If you don't have anything constructive to say, then just give him a tight hug and say, "Don't worry. I'll be on your side no matter what happens."

do guys play hard to get too? >__<

like waiting for you to ask him to do things, IM him on AIM/MSN etc. ??

depends on the person. I can't answer you that.

[neon_buildings]

okay. i like this guy and i think he might like me back... but im not sure. at first it started out with just talking on facebook, but he started talking to be me at school more often. it's kinda weird because he'd sorta wait for me inside the classroom and as soon as i got to my seat, he'd talk to me. and another time, he was sitting in my seat before class and started smiling at me. sometimes he would walk to where i sit in class and he'd stand there...look at me... get what he needs... then walk away. o_O then there was this gap of no interaction between us for 2 weeks... which was awkward... but recently, he started talking to me again. he told me that my family was pretty... o_O is that a compliment to me also? i'm just kinda confused right now. and another time, his facebook status was, "-guys name- is thinking about asking someone out... NOT. LOL." oh, but he talks to lots of girls...

wtf?! is he just being friendly with me or does he like me?

[moonk379]

Will you still make a move on a girl even though you know one of your friends is interested in her?

depends on wat kind of friend that person is. if that friend is your best friend answer is always no but if hes just a regular friend friend then no problem there.

[teaparty]

Hello guys. I think I'm starting to like this guy that I never thought I'd (to say the least) be interested in him
Well, he's this guy from work, and we've only worked one shift together so far- and that was just about 2 months back when he was just a trainee. Anyway, first shift together was pretty odd. We didn't introduce/talk to each other whatsoever. We only looked at each other a few times but that was all.
So, we don't really know anything about each other, other than the fact that we work at the same place but different time and shifts. anyway, last month ago I noticed him always coming by the store to simply "visit"(?) during my shift. It happened for about a week or two straight but I cared less back then because I had no interest in him.
But thinking of it now, I noticed he would just walk in, smile and look at me, then leave like 5-10 seconds later?
It's really confusing now since just as he has stopped this whole visiting thing, I'm starting to have interest in him. Has this guy lost interest or is he just... playing hard to get? I don't know, it may not even be that he was even interested in me the first place... but I'm becoming very curious of the situation :/ -Thanks

[*taM.taM]

is it weird that an 18 year old girl has never had a boyfriend?
what would you think of her?

[babiloveyoo]

let's say this guy likes this girl and she knows he likes her but she waiting for him to say something/ apporach her and since shes not doing anything but just stare back at him and now he thinks she doesnt like him but still likes her is he waiting for her to make a move? but her friends say the guy should make the first move after all hes the one who liked her first but is he too shy to make the first so is he expecting her to make the first move? and how should she do that?

[Xyeun]

The girl has avoided a guy for a long time because of a busy schedule.
He thinks she has been ignoring him purposely and is making up excuses, etc.
Would it still possible to start fresh again? D:


~Nuey

[Antz]

Smile when you see him. Don't give him attitude (as if he has enough problems already). Give him a gentle kiss on the cheek. Ask him what's wrong and listen to him. If you don't have anything constructive to say, then just give him a tight hug and say, "Don't worry. I'll be on your side no matter what happens."

Ooh! I think I remember asking a similar question about two weeks ago and no one answered it..
But thanks for the advice. Yayy now I know what to do. ^^