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#4401 User is offline   yensta 

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Posted 22 December 2007 - 10:15 PM

okay, question: how can we break the awkwardnes in a convo? (besides saying absurd and revealing things)
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#4402 User is offline   bokcheelo 

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Posted 23 December 2007 - 01:08 AM

QUOTE (Aesthetic_Chinese @ Dec 19 2007, 09:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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thanks to the both of you.
so then...should i keep the eye contact with him?
see if he'll talk to me?

yes most definitely =]
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#4403 User is offline   HikaruStlye 

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Posted 23 December 2007 - 02:20 PM

Hey guys i was just wondering...
What does a guy mean when he asks you what your plans are for the weekend? He's a guy friend of mine and i'm not sure if he likes me or not.

ty!
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#4404 User is offline   babiloveyoo 

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Posted 23 December 2007 - 04:32 PM

we had sceret santa for our youth group and the cost for gfits was $20-40 dollars but everyone knew who their " secret santa" was. so the guy that was my secret santa told me that he was gonna get a borders gift card and then asked me if i wanted anything special/ in particular but i didn't respond cause i wanted to see what he would give me. And when i opened the gift that he gave me it was a $85 Marc Jacobs perfume! No, i didnt look up how much it cost or ask him i knew cause i wanted that perfume anyways. So my question is does this mean anything?
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#4405 User is offline   DaAzNkIgGa627 

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Posted 23 December 2007 - 05:35 PM

QUOTE (HikaruStlye @ Dec 23 2007, 04:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey guys i was just wondering...
What does a guy mean when he asks you what your plans are for the weekend? He's a guy friend of mine and i'm not sure if he likes me or not.

ty!


It means nothing. I always ask my friends what there plans are. Now maybe if he hints you guys should hang out there is something there, but a lot of guys ask what their female friends' plans for the weekend are.


QUOTE (babiloveyoo @ Dec 23 2007, 06:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
we had sceret santa for our youth group and the cost for gfits was $20-40 dollars but everyone knew who their " secret santa" was. so the guy that was my secret santa told me that he was gonna get a borders gift card and then asked me if i wanted anything special/ in particular but i didn't respond cause i wanted to see what he would give me. And when i opened the gift that he gave me it was a $85 Marc Jacobs perfume! No, i didnt look up how much it cost or ask him i knew cause i wanted that perfume anyways. So my question is does this mean anything?


Whoa..... well just the fact he'd spend 2-4 times over the limit means something. The fact that he kind of asked you what you wanted is something, the fact he figured out what you wanted is something. I think he's into you.

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#4406 User is offline   babiloveyoo 

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Posted 23 December 2007 - 06:38 PM

i was so speechless but i did tell him thank you and gave him a smile . hes outgoing to everyone else but hes really quiet ans shy around me but he did say bye when i left and over these past years he barely ever say anything to me but be quiet lols. yeah i think he likes me, what should i do or say more like physically do to show him i really liked his gift and that it was really sweet of him without making it look obvious when other people are around? if that made any sense XD
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Posted 23 December 2007 - 06:42 PM

QUOTE (NuEy_* @ Dec 22 2007, 09:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
A guy gives a card with candy to the girl he likes, but not his own girl-friend.
The girl he likes is currently in a relationship.
Why didn't he give his own girl-friend a card? :[

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#4408 User is offline   j'adoreAZNpop 

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Posted 23 December 2007 - 07:08 PM

what do guys think of girls that doesnt drink because of the taste and not legal age yet?
too innocent to talk to?
or can it be a good thing?
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#4409 User is offline   Laxntiga 

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Posted 23 December 2007 - 07:27 PM

QUOTE (NuEy_* @ Dec 23 2007, 09:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
A guy gives a card with candy to the girl he likes, but not his own girl-friend.
The girl he likes is currently in a relationship.
Why didn't he give his own girl-friend a card? :[

~Nuey

Someone please answer. Thanks ^^


uhhhhhhhhh ok. I am going to assume 'girl-friend' means his significant other. If it is, the guy is playing his current 'girl-friend' he likes another girl! He gave candy and a card to another girl and his current girlfriend is still with him? Oh man.... move on.

QUOTE (j'adoreAZNpop @ Dec 23 2007, 10:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
what do guys think of girls that doesnt drink because of the taste and not legal age yet?
too innocent to talk to?
or can it be a good thing?


uhhhh I got confused. This means a girl is under 21 and doesn't drink. I think this is the way girls should be. If you are under 21 and drinking you are doing something illegal. Alcohol leads people to think differently, and/or eventually leads to bad decisions. If a girl is under 21 and not drinking she is a good girl. If she is under 21 and drinking, she is doing something illegal, and in my book a bad girl.

Now, its up to the guy, which you think is cute, if he likes bad or good girls.

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Posted 23 December 2007 - 10:14 PM

QUOTE (j'adoreAZNpop @ Dec 23 2007, 10:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
what do guys think of girls that doesnt drink because of the taste and not legal age yet?
too innocent to talk to?
or can it be a good thing?


put it this way........i'd say the majority of guys would rather go for the girl who doesnt drink, than the ones who always OD and end up passing out on the couch and needs her friends to hold her while she vomits into the nearest trash bin.
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Posted 24 December 2007 - 12:35 AM

QUOTE (j'adoreAZNpop @ Dec 23 2007, 07:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
what do guys think of girls that doesnt drink because of the taste and not legal age yet?
too innocent to talk to?
or can it be a good thing?


i dont think too much of it but i prefer the girl to drink always makes things funner =] but not to the point of OD just a lil buzz or somethin. and i dont get by too innocent to talk to oo;;
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Posted 24 December 2007 - 07:10 PM


hey! (:
would it be awkward if a girl goes & posts 'merry christmas! (:' on yourfacebook wall; if you're the only guy who she said that to?
like; would you think wierd or anything?
thanks!

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Posted 24 December 2007 - 07:25 PM

hey guys, what would you LIKE to talk about with your girlfriend? let's say you two have a hard time talking to each other on AIM since you've been going out with each other for like..almost a year and a half now. i know you might say "oh you both know a lot abt each other blahblahblah!" but what would YOU like for your girlfriend to start talking about? like a real conversation, kinda fun, funny, enjoyable, that kinda stuff ph34r.gif
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Posted 24 December 2007 - 10:42 PM

Hey (: I have a couple questions:
Why do guys talk about what they would do to a girl in bed right in front of the girl? I ask this because it happens to me a lot and I've always wondered why. Also, why do they always say it's because they like me? Is that the only way they can get my attention or is it because they don't really like me and they're just saying it because they think it's flattering towards the girl?
And why can you never get a girl's age right? I noticed most guys tend to think a girl is older than she really is. And why do you always seem to be dissappointed with the answer? Haha, most guys think I am older than I really am (Which isn't old at all) and it is really annoying. D:

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#4415 User is offline   CIRee 

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Posted 24 December 2007 - 11:04 PM

QUOTE (boo`--NiCOLE @ Dec 24 2007, 07:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

hey! (:
would it be awkward if a girl goes & posts 'merry christmas! (:' on yourfacebook wall; if you're the only guy who she said that to?
like; would you think wierd or anything?
thanks!

no its not; stop over rationalizing everything.

QUOTE (RawrDesu @ Dec 24 2007, 07:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hey guys, what would you LIKE to talk about with your girlfriend? let's say you two have a hard time talking to each other on AIM since you've been going out with each other for like..almost a year and a half now. i know you might say "oh you both know a lot abt each other blahblahblah!" but what would YOU like for your girlfriend to start talking about? like a real conversation, kinda fun, funny, enjoyable, that kinda stuff ph34r.gif

anything that doesnt bored the hell out of me.

QUOTE (dearFRATELLI @ Dec 24 2007, 10:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey (: I have a couple questions:
Why do guys talk about what they would do to a girl in bed right in front of the girl? I ask this because it happens to me a lot and I've always wondered why. Also, why do they always say it's because they like me? Is that the only way they can get my attention or is it because they don't really like me and they're just saying it because they think it's flattering towards the girl?
And why can you never get a girl's age right? I noticed most guys tend to think a girl is older than she really is. And why do you always seem to be dissappointed with the answer? Haha, most guys think I am older than I really am (Which isn't old at all) and it is really annoying. D:

first question: they simple want to sex you up; end of story.
second question: age shouldn't matter as long it's legal.
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Posted 24 December 2007 - 11:27 PM

when it comes to an attractive girl, what does it take for that girl to establish herself as home-bound right off the break?
by home-bound I mean someone that makes a guy say " wow, she's the girl that's decent and attractive, I want to take her home to mom"
instead of " Dayum, she is fine, I'm gonna show her to my home-boys and make them jealous"
what does it take for a guy to look past physical lines and see a girl for who she is, and her character?
and physically, what do guys like?
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Posted 25 December 2007 - 09:10 PM

QUOTE (boo`--NiCOLE @ Dec 24 2007, 07:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

hey! (:
would it be awkward if a girl goes & posts 'merry christmas! (:' on yourfacebook wall; if you're the only guy who she said that to?
like; would you think wierd or anything?
thanks!


nope and plus the guy probably wont even know you only wrote that to him.

QUOTE (Belleluvly @ Dec 24 2007, 11:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
when it comes to an attractive girl, what does it take for that girl to establish herself as home-bound right off the break?
by home-bound I mean someone that makes a guy say " wow, she's the girl that's decent and attractive, I want to take her home to mom"
instead of " Dayum, she is fine, I'm gonna show her to my home-boys and make them jealous"
what does it take for a guy to look past physical lines and see a girl for who she is, and her character?
and physically, what do guys like?


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Posted 26 December 2007 - 03:13 AM

How would a guy react if he recieved a teddy bear saying "LOVE YOU" on it ?
Do guys like these sort of presents ? Are they considered too...girly or anything like that?

And if guys don't like the present they received....how would they take it?

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Posted 26 December 2007 - 04:39 AM

forgive me, this is really random. LOL.

how would guys react if a girl (that he likes), or his gf, just randomly mentions stuff about being naked?
or teasing on the phone about the weather being so hot that she wants to take her clothes off?

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Posted 26 December 2007 - 05:22 AM

QUOTE (Antz @ Dec 26 2007, 06:39 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
forgive me, this is really random. LOL.

how would guys react if a girl (that he likes), or his gf, just randomly mentions stuff about being naked?
or teasing on the phone about the weather being so hot that she wants to take her clothes off?

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thanks a bunch, guys. biggrin.gif



not that im an expert by any means but..
well it really depends on your relationship with him.
Generally i would think to most guys it would mean you 1)want to have s__ or s____ encounter with him 2)you are teasing him (depending on context) [or a bit of both]
For a person you just met, it might give the wrong impression (depending on his personality), but if u have had a steady relationship it would probably be more on the teasing (or seductive) side

Or it could mean you are a teasing/funny person. in other words it depends on your perosnality, his, and the situation.

i dont think this helped much lol
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