[pooface]

if u like someone would u text/sms her alot .. or would u find a reason to text.. coz ur shy?

[faye2thesky]

Before he was busy but still made time to talk to me, phone msn or whatever. but lately he hasn't; he apologised for being too busy, but if u really loved someone, wouldn't u still give them a minute of ur time just to say 'hello, i missed u'. Is there such thing as being too busy to call? it's been almost two weeks since he stopped calling and we don't see each other.

I broke up with him last night, but he kept telling me to hold on and that I don't have to leave him; but I feel like he's changed so much from the guy I fell for.

hehe, in ur situation, my gf would always complain then ask me to make it up somehow. Believe me, give ur guy some time and u'll find out just how much he's willing to do to make it up to you =]

[Sapphire852]

So this guy and I have been getting to know each other over the past few weeks and about two weeks ago, he told me that he likes me. (I was just getting out of a serious relationship and he was just getting over a crush.) But then his crush told him that she liked him too, so he told me that he didnt want to "lead me on" anymore. But he continues to act flirty and stuff. Recently he even came to visit me in the middle of the night (he lives 30 min away) and he ended up kissing me. He said he was sorry and that it shouldnt have happened and now hes basically ignoring me. What does this mean...? He says things like "You make things hard for me..." "I love when I'm with you" etc. but after this happens he completely ignores me.

he cant decide between the two of you, and i would recommend that you stay away from him too, since he seems like the type to take forever to make a decision, if you decide to wait for him, or go out with him, you may end up with a triangle relationship that'll take a long time to resolve.

When you ask a girl out and she answers...

"yes"
means she's too easy?
or good because it means she really likes you, and knows the answer immediately

"can i have some time to think about it?"
turn off because she's indecisive/not sure about her feelings
or is it ok, meaning that she's not easy or that she is taking your confession seriously and will think it over

"sure"
she agreed but seems nonchalant. not really interested? or just trying not to act too eager?

which is better/worse?

just say whatever comes to mind, whether or not a guy deems you as "easy", is based on how fast he can get you in bed, not on a date.

hm...
so the story goes like this: girl gets into trouble, guy comes and help, get gets caught by police, guy goes to court.

and the only way the guy(you) can get out of trouble is to say that he liked or likes this girl, would you say it?

and do you guys say "i love you" really easily, like would you say it even if you didn't mean it?
the situation is the same as the above, the guy told the girl that he's going to tell the court people that he "effing" loves her, and when the girl asked him if he really meant it, he said that he didn't exactly say it like that.


i hope this is not too confusing.. i didnt know how to word it right AHAHHAHAHA

wow, that situation is really... weird, but assuming when that type of situation comes along, of course a guy would say he loves a girl... there's no way to prove it, he's always free to change his mind afterwards....

would you tease the girl you like about her liking someone else?

thanks guys ; ]

only the inexperienced or desperate guys who dont really know what else to say...

ok cuties! this one is for you!
long story short, we were class pals 2 yrs ago, fell out, than coincidentally met up again this year. When we started hanging out as "FRIENDS", he was already broken up with his gf and we hung out more little by little and i noticed that he was texting me everyday and even at nite when he's drunk for 2 months. He wanted me to meet his siblings, best friends, drink and party with them, we talked about everything and anything but i didn't like how the ex was in the picture so i kept it cool b/c he 1) said he was over her and wanted to be friends and 2) i figured that if he really wants to be with me, he'll say something.

To cut to the chase, the girl never left the picture and she asked him to get back together and he did. I told him that out of respect for the gf i was not going to be in this situation so i asked him to not call or text me. When i confronted him he couldn't deny when i said that our "friendship" was never genuine and that i was never his best friend. (seriously, if i was, wouldn't i be one of the first he tells me instead of finding out a week later and it was forced out of his mouth?) Anyway, its been about 3 months and in the beginning, he called me and when we did talk he NEVER mentioned his gf or even her name. He invited me to go to Rome with him to visit his friends studying abroad. Since he got back with the ex, i have not called him or texted him even once but every holiday, he text me greetings and if i give him a thank you reply, he seems to call me. (BTW, when we were better friends 2 yrs ago, he never did this)

GUys, what do you think this is?

i think he really enjoys spending time with you, and probably likes you to a certain degree, him senting you that text was probably a) a automated text that was sent to everyone on his cell phone list, or b ) he sent it to see if you guys can still be friends and end things in a nicer way.

Before he was busy but still made time to talk to me, phone msn or whatever. but lately he hasn't; he apologised for being too busy, but if u really loved someone, wouldn't u still give them a minute of ur time just to say 'hello, i missed u'. Is there such thing as being too busy to call? it's been almost two weeks since he stopped calling and we don't see each other.

I broke up with him last night, but he kept telling me to hold on and that I don't have to leave him; but I feel like he's changed so much from the guy I fell for.

well, if he is in college, when he uses the word "busy", i'm pretty sure he means it. You being his gf(or ex) should probably give him a little space so he can concentrate in his work, (this is all assuming that his busy isnt = "partying"), that doesnt mean not care about him, but guys like that would probably appreciate you just sending him a small text saying somethign like, "keep up the good work", as opposed to "why havent you called me?". guys tend to get a little rebellious when they're "ordered" to call.

it typical for people to change, and if you no longer harbor feelings for this new person, then you should probably let him know that, then see what happens.

[sockrahtease]

My guy friend of four years gave me a Christmas present this year. It was expensive and unexpected. Am I obligated to give him anything, and if anything, what?

I was thinking of something along the lines of a card.

[~jayjay]

So tell me why do this guy fall for every girl he think is cute?
I mean come on.. he takes it SERIOUS every time and goes emo about it.

If it was just once then okay but HE FALLS for a "cute" girl at least once a month.
And tells people that he is serious.......

So do guys fall for cute girls like that EVERY TiME?
Doubt it but most guys do? I've met 5 guys who i'm friends with that are like that..

it's very.. djshdkasda.

[CIRee]

My guy friend of four years gave me a Christmas present this year. It was expensive and unexpected. Am I obligated to give him anything, and if anything, what?

I was thinking of something along the lines of a card.

you're not obligated to get him a gift unless you feel bad about it.

So tell me why do this guy fall for every girl he think is cute?
I mean come on.. he takes it SERIOUS every time and goes emo about it.

If it was just once then okay but HE FALLS for a "cute" girl at least once a month.
And tells people that he is serious.......

So do guys fall for cute girls like that EVERY TiME?
Doubt it but most guys do? I've met 5 guys who i'm friends with that are like that..

it's very.. djshdkasda.

Never happen to me, too many cute girls to fall for. Those guys are just dreamers.

[babiloveyoo]

what does it mean when a guy gives you a present 2-4 times over the cost limit?

[knickstorm]

what does it mean when a guy gives you a present 2-4 times over the cost limit?

is he loaded?

[babiloveyoo]

lols i guess? the thing is hes outgoing and talkative to others but when it comes to me hes quiet.

[j'adoreAZNpop]

what does it mean if a guy wear a ring on his pinky?
not single? : ((

[Sapphire852]

My guy friend of four years gave me a Christmas present this year. It was expensive and unexpected. Am I obligated to give him anything, and if anything, what?

I was thinking of something along the lines of a card.

it would be nice if you get him something too, but no, you are not obligated. but he would VERY much appreciate it, if you show your appreciation of his gift...like if he got you a scarf, then wear it in front of him, if he got you a display piece, say something like, "that thing you gave me looks so nice in my bed room, everyone's commenting on it!"....something like that.

So tell me why do this guy fall for every girl he think is cute?
I mean come on.. he takes it SERIOUS every time and goes emo about it.

If it was just once then okay but HE FALLS for a "cute" girl at least once a month.
And tells people that he is serious.......

So do guys fall for cute girls like that EVERY TiME?
Doubt it but most guys do? I've met 5 guys who i'm friends with that are like that..

it's very.. djshdkasda.

1) he has too much time on his hands
2) he has not yet experience real "strong" feelings for a girl yet, and he's getting impatient, so he acts like he's in love with every single girl

what does it mean when a guy gives you a present 2-4 times over the cost limit?

1) he's rich
2) he thinks that the present is something you would really like and is well worth the money, high chance he likes you (although in my opinion not the best way to express it)

what does it mean if a guy wear a ring on his pinky?
not single? : ((

most likely single, or his gf bought him a ring too small, it's kinda weird for it to be placed on the pinky if it's from a relationship...

[Michelleys]

There's this guy that's in my math class and we talk everyday and during class we tease each other, but then I tease my other friends the same way too. So he would always call me mean or evil and say "I hate you." I think I've only known him for about 2 months..3 months MAX! And online we would talk once in awhile.

But then when winter break started he IMed me one day and was like "Let's go watch a movie." And I was like okay since he probably just wants to hang out because I never expected HIM to ask me out. So during the day of the "hang out", it was really cold outside, so he put his arms around me. During the movie I said something and he called me "his best friend".

After the movie, we went back to his house (I didn't know that we were going back to his house until he took a turn.) Then I was like "It's going to be awkward." But he was like "No one's home." So I went in. Then we watched TV and at first he just laid his head on my shoulder like once or twice. Then he playfully pushed me, but I just lied on the couch. Then he also lied down on top of me. And yeahhh we got cozy and we tickled each other and stuff like that. Then he asked me if he could kiss me..twice. But I just shook my head because I was still in shock on what was happening. Then during this whole thing he called me his "girlfriend". And then after awhile I said something along the lines of I should go now, but he was like "No, stay longer." So I did. And eventually he drove me home and we had a goodbye hug. Now he IMs me everyday and he suggested that we go out again.

In one of the IMs where he said that we should go out again, he also said "I want to make your winter break funner."

So my question is..."Is he interested in me or is this just like a fling thing for winter break?"

(SORRY that this was so long & I probably don't have enough info?)

[dotty]

what does it mean when a guy drove all the way from the eastern part to the western part where im staying to drive me back to school?

[Kiribati]

From a guy's perspective (I'm a guy) - How does one get out of her "taking you for granted" zone?

[Laxntiga]

what does it mean when a guy gives you a present 2-4 times over the cost limit?

He is trying to show how manly he is by maxing his or his parents credit card. Ask him if he paid for it himself and what he had to do to get it. Tell him it means more to him if you know how hard he worked.

what does it mean when a guy drove all the way from the eastern part to the western part where im staying to drive me back to school?

He wants to spend time with you in his car.

From a guy's perspective (I'm a guy) - How does one get out of her "taking you for granted" zone?

To start off do things she doesn't expect. Then don't do some of the things she expects you to do. Then thirdly, divert your attention to other things... like your other friends, hobbies, etc. If she is getting all fussy about it (sooner or later you are going to have to confront her about it) just tell her how you felt and that you didn't like it. If you are in a relationship already, tell her things got to change, if not that you guys are only hurting each other *stare her in the eyes, stare her a$$ DOWN! ...... then, RIGHT before she opens her mouth again, tell her..... "...more .....you.... are .......hurting .........me". Longer the dramatic silences, the better.

If this dont work, bail. Find a new girl, you are the prize man, if she isn't treating you right then she doesn't deserve you're attention, affection, emotion, blah blah blah.

[guineapigdi]

Around October of this year, I got a random phone call from my friend saying that her guy friend likes me and was in my class but he was too shy to talk to me. Well, I tried talking to him afterwards but it seemed as if he didn't put any effort. He would pass by where me and my friends hang out during lunch and I would say hi but nothing really happened. Then all of a sudden he came by and asked me where my friend was and it seemed as if he was interested in one of my friends. I asked him that if he wanted to get to know her, I could try hooking them up, but he said he just wanted to be friends with her. A week passed and then one day, him and his friends asked me to go chill with them so I did, and I got soooo bored. When I was at his house, he didn't even talk to me. All he did was myspace. o_O Nothing happened after but he just started hanging around me and my friends during lunch almost everyday. I just assumed that he lost interest in me.

Well, we hung out like a few more times... (It was a total cockfest. 3 guys and 1 girl) One of his guy friends told me that the guy wanted to invite me to go hot pot, but I was busy on that day. When I told him, he was like," Why? Why? Tomorrow then!" In the end, we all just went to a buffet and had a good time. We hung out the day after and on Christmas Eve, he asked me if I wanted to hang out on Christmas, but I was busy. Christmas night though, we went out to eat (cockfest, 3 guys 1 girl) and just chilled at some dessert place. Two days later, we went ice skating with a bunch of friends and since it was my first time, I had trouble. He helped me and stuff but I wanted to learn by myself so he left me alone. Afterwards we went to go eat and my girl friend told me to feed her and so I did, and he was like, "Feed me too!" All of the people at the table was like... "OOOOOH". He was quiet after that.

I don't ask his guy friends about him because I don't trust them. They talk crap about him and try to make him look bad. Two of them like me but I told them I wanted to stay friends. Everything is hush hush, even the guy I like doesn't know that his guy friends like me. The thing is... I don't act ladylike. Him and his guy friends ALWAYS call me a pig and say that I don't act like a girl. I burp a LOT, talk about random stuff, cuss... just being myself. Him and his guy friends asked me to teach them how to drive like me too.

Is he still interested? Or have I entered the friend zone? I hang out with him but it's usually me and his 3-4 guy friends.

[Sapphire852]

There's this guy that's in my math class and we talk everyday and during class we tease each other, but then I tease my other friends the same way too. So he would always call me mean or evil and say "I hate you." I think I've only known him for about 2 months..3 months MAX! And online we would talk once in awhile.

But then when winter break started he IMed me one day and was like "Let's go watch a movie." And I was like okay since he probably just wants to hang out because I never expected HIM to ask me out. So during the day of the "hang out", it was really cold outside, so he put his arms around me. During the movie I said something and he called me "his best friend".

After the movie, we went back to his house (I didn't know that we were going back to his house until he took a turn.) Then I was like "It's going to be awkward." But he was like "No one's home." So I went in. Then we watched TV and at first he just laid his head on my shoulder like once or twice. Then he playfully pushed me, but I just lied on the couch. Then he also lied down on top of me. And yeahhh we got cozy and we tickled each other and stuff like that. Then he asked me if he could kiss me..twice. But I just shook my head because I was still in shock on what was happening. Then during this whole thing he called me his "girlfriend". And then after awhile I said something along the lines of I should go now, but he was like "No, stay longer." So I did. And eventually he drove me home and we had a goodbye hug. Now he IMs me everyday and he suggested that we go out again.

In one of the IMs where he said that we should go out again, he also said "I want to make your winter break funner."

So my question is..."Is he interested in me or is this just like a fling thing for winter break?"

(SORRY that this was so long & I probably don't have enough info?)

you wont be able to tell if it's a fling until it's actually over(unless you ask directly). I would say go out with him, but dont give him anything (physically), just hang out as friends and see if you guys like spending time with each other first, doing this will clear up the situation for you, and probably him too since there is a high chance that the guy doesnt know what he wants either.

what does it mean when a guy drove all the way from the eastern part to the western part where im staying to drive me back to school?

he cares for you, if he's single --> he probably likes you, if he's not single ---> watch out for his gf

From a guy's perspective (I'm a guy) - How does one get out of her "taking you for granted" zone?

dont be at her constant beck and call... it's sad, but i'm sure many people will agree with me that people dont appreciate things until they no longer have it.

Around October of this year, I got a random phone call from my friend saying that her guy friend likes me and was in my class but he was too shy to talk to me. Well, I tried talking to him afterwards but it seemed as if he didn't put any effort. He would pass by where me and my friends hang out during lunch and I would say hi but nothing really happened. Then all of a sudden he came by and asked me where my friend was and it seemed as if he was interested in one of my friends. I asked him that if he wanted to get to know her, I could try hooking them up, but he said he just wanted to be friends with her. A week passed and then one day, him and his friends asked me to go chill with them so I did, and I got soooo bored. When I was at his house, he didn't even talk to me. All he did was myspace. o_O Nothing happened after but he just started hanging around me and my friends during lunch almost everyday. I just assumed that he lost interest in me.

Well, we hung out like a few more times... (It was a total cockfest. 3 guys and 1 girl) One of his guy friends told me that the guy wanted to invite me to go hot pot, but I was busy on that day. When I told him, he was like," Why? Why? Tomorrow then!" In the end, we all just went to a buffet and had a good time. We hung out the day after and on Christmas Eve, he asked me if I wanted to hang out on Christmas, but I was busy. Christmas night though, we went out to eat (cockfest, 3 guys 1 girl) and just chilled at some dessert place. Two days later, we went ice skating with a bunch of friends and since it was my first time, I had trouble. He helped me and stuff but I wanted to learn by myself so he left me alone. Afterwards we went to go eat and my girl friend told me to feed her and so I did, and he was like, "Feed me too!" All of the people at the table was like... "OOOOOH". He was quiet after that.

I don't ask his guy friends about him because I don't trust them. They talk crap about him and try to make him look bad. Two of them like me but I told them I wanted to stay friends. Everything is hush hush, even the guy I like doesn't know that his guy friends like me. The thing is... I don't act ladylike. Him and his guy friends ALWAYS call me a pig and say that I don't act like a girl. I burp a LOT, talk about random stuff, cuss... just being myself. Him and his guy friends asked me to teach them how to drive like me too.

Is he still interested? Or have I entered the friend zone? I hang out with him but it's usually me and his 3-4 guy friends.

the things you mentioned about yourself in the last paragraph is a BIG turn on for some guys, which makes it understandable why the other two guys like you. you would need to confirm whether or not this guy you like, knows about his friends liking you, if the guys are close enough, he would not date you for the sake of his friends.

[j'adoreAZNpop]

^ thanks for answering!

i have another question for you guys,

would you give a girl a chance if she's asian too but just different nationality?

[blink-]

^ thanks for answering!

i have another question for you guys,

would you give a girl a chance if she's asian too but just different nationality?

Of course.

Be on alert though. Some guys just date whatever they could get.

[duykato]

would you give a girl a chance if she's asian too but just different nationality?

Of course! I don't discriminate or limit myself to any race. If she's awesome, I'd get at her.