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#451 User is offline   chiluvskk 

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Posted 22 May 2007 - 03:10 PM

QUOTE(강유미 @ May 22 2007, 10:59 AM) View Post
You're welcome. ^^
Yes, he would feel very uncomfortable and ignore her for a very long time.



so if he doesn't ignore you, but rather tries to get friendly/closer with you and cares more about his appearane towards you, then does that mean he has an interest in you?
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Posted 22 May 2007 - 03:11 PM

If you always catch a guy looking at you, does it mean that he might like you?
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Posted 22 May 2007 - 03:13 PM

QUOTE(chiluvskk @ May 22 2007, 06:10 PM) View Post
so if he doesn't ignore you, but rather tries to get friendly/closer with you and cares more about his appearane towards you, then does that mean he has an interest in you?


yes
QUOTE(x_happydimples @ May 22 2007, 06:11 PM) View Post
If you always catch a guy looking at you, does it mean that he might like you?

yes
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exactly STEVEN YOU ARE MY HERO prince charming or w.e he was omg STEVEN IS MY HERO my brain is failure O_O

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#454 User is offline   Teddy 

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Posted 22 May 2007 - 03:16 PM

QUOTE(chiluvskk @ May 22 2007, 07:03 PM) View Post
i absolutely love this thread lol

im really confused about this one guy. he's always staring at me and fixing his appearance when he's around me. his friends laugh and punch him when i walk by, and he's always trying to get close to me. one time his friend told me he liked me. and i guess i like him too since he's cute/ gd personality.

but he hasn't made any move on me yet. like we hardly talk at all. but he's not shy or anything, around other people he's very popular and talkative. so i don't understand if all this is just a lie, or is there something worth it that i shouldn't give up and just wait it out. urgghh....this is soo annoying lol

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The signs he is displaying are obvious signs of l-o-v-e

He may not be shy but you are the one he is crushing on so that could be why its hard for him to talk to you and approach you. Maybe if you tried to strike up a conversation with him first it might get the ball rolling.
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#455 User is offline   aznxrawr 

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Posted 22 May 2007 - 04:10 PM

Do guys get mood swings? xD

Also, would you find it strange if your gf was close friends with all of her exes (less than 5 tongue.gif)?
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#456 User is offline   xosweetie 

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Posted 22 May 2007 - 04:15 PM

Guys what are some signs you show to girls before you are goign to make yoru move?

Why do you treat girls better on their hotter days? Do you mind if a girl isn't so pretty but when she takes care of her looks, she's pretty? Liek i go to school and can't always dress up but when i do, i look pretty good (not to sound conceited at all) so would you find a girl like that attractive?

Why do guys have a greater tolerance for hotter girls?


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Posted 22 May 2007 - 04:24 PM

Why do guys like to watch porn even though they have a girlfriend? ( they are not sexually active together) ..but it seems awkward. o_o
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Posted 22 May 2007 - 04:25 PM

QUOTE(aznxrawr @ May 22 2007, 07:10 PM) View Post
Do guys get mood swings? xD

Also, would you find it strange if your gf was close friends with all of her exes (less than 5 tongue.gif)?

1) we get mood swings at time.
2) yes; I understand if she wants to be friends with them, but if she is really close with them, I would be pissed.

QUOTE(xosweetie @ May 22 2007, 07:15 PM) View Post
Guys what are some signs you show to girls before you are goign to make yoru move?

Why do you treat girls better on their hotter days? Do you mind if a girl isn't so pretty but when she takes care of her looks, she's pretty? Liek i go to school and can't always dress up but when i do, i look pretty good (not to sound conceited at all) so would you find a girl like that attractive?

Why do guys have a greater tolerance for hotter girls?

1) eye contact, smile, "hi/hello"
2) Well most guys treat girls better when they look nice because it shows that they care about their physical appearance, ie she has good hygiene. If the girl looks can look pretty but doesnt have the time to do it as often as time is an issue, it wouldnt matter.
3) Because they are hot. But I dont do it as often because they would get use to the fact that they can get away with everything.
QUOTE (sushiwhore @ May 3 2008, 09:19 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
exactly STEVEN YOU ARE MY HERO prince charming or w.e he was omg STEVEN IS MY HERO my brain is failure O_O

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Posted 22 May 2007 - 04:26 PM

what does it mean if a guy says "heart u"..?? does it mean sumthin or nothin at all?? juss wonderin..
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Posted 22 May 2007 - 04:30 PM

QUOTE(pinkxribbons @ May 22 2007, 07:24 PM) View Post
Why do guys like to watch porn even though they have a girlfriend? ( they are not sexually active together) ..but it seems awkward. o_o

it's readily available

QUOTE(dancesakura @ May 22 2007, 07:26 PM) View Post
what does it mean if a guy says "heart u"..?? does it mean sumthin or nothin at all?? juss wonderin..

a guy would not say "heart u" for no reason
QUOTE (sushiwhore @ May 3 2008, 09:19 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
exactly STEVEN YOU ARE MY HERO prince charming or w.e he was omg STEVEN IS MY HERO my brain is failure O_O

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#461 User is offline   inexplicableromance 

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Posted 22 May 2007 - 04:40 PM

Do guys feel that they have to know a lot about a girl in order to start liking her? (I.e. If he talks to her just a little bit everyday but sees her around a lot, are there any chances for development of a crush?) Thanks in advance!
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Posted 22 May 2007 - 05:09 PM

QUOTE(Stevent @ May 19 2007, 10:44 PM) View Post
anything comforting or something to make us laugh


Define your meaning of comforting, please. Because when the girl just sits there speechless, but wanting to say something comforting, it's hard because she's afraid of saying something wrong or something that is so commonly said...it doesn't make a difference. sad.gif

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Posted 22 May 2007 - 05:12 PM

Oh wow, my heart goes out to all you guys who generously spend your time answering our questions. laugh.gif <3

So my question:
This guy asked me out, but I rejected him nicely. He still likes me though, and he's my friend so I can't ignore him because he's a good friend, and that's all he will be in my eyes. Will he eventually lose interest? (Generally speaking). Because it makes it really awkward knowing he likes me when I don't like him back. (I already told him all this, by the way o_o)
Summer vacation is coming up, too (this Friday), so over time, will he possibly forget? We're still going to the same school next year, so I'm a little unsure that his feelings might come up again...D:
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#464 User is offline   xosweetie 

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Posted 22 May 2007 - 05:18 PM

How would you feel if you have a girlfriend that believes no sex till after marriage and tries to pull away from intimacy except cuddling and stuff?
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Posted 22 May 2007 - 05:18 PM

QUOTE(kimseo @ May 22 2007, 09:12 PM) View Post
Oh wow, my heart goes out to all you guys who generously spend your time answering our questions. laugh.gif <3

So my question:
This guy asked me out, but I rejected him nicely. He still likes me though, and he's my friend so I can't ignore him because he's a good friend, and that's all he will be in my eyes. Will he eventually lose interest? (Generally speaking). Because it makes it really awkward knowing he likes me when I don't like him back. (I already told him all this, by the way o_o)
Summer vacation is coming up, too (this Friday), so over time, will he possibly forget? We're still going to the same school next year, so I'm a little unsure that his feelings might come up again...D:



He will eventually lose interest. Unlike being in a relationship it won't be too hard to move on from this. Things will be fine

Since you two will be at the same school again next year there is a possibility that his feelings could come back but that is something he has to get over on his own.




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QUOTE(xosweetie @ May 22 2007, 09:18 PM) View Post
How would you feel if you have a girlfriend that believes no sex till after marriage and tries to pull away from intimacy except cuddling and stuff?





I wouldn't think any different of her and respect her decision of course. There is nothing wrong with no sex till after marriage

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QUOTE(Illyasviel Von Einzbern @ May 22 2007, 09:18 PM) View Post
I have a boyfriend.
He went to a Halloween parade one day.
Took pictures of ( specifically ) a girls butt ( hella short skirt, butt hangin out ),
and another picture of a girl bending over with a hella short skirt ( showing her panties )
What is he thinking??? Why does a guy do this ???


You should talk to your boyfriend and ask him why he did it. Maybe he was drunk, maybe his friends were egging him on, maybe felt like he had something to prove, or maybe he was having too good a time to worry about the consequences (like you finding out).

Some guys are just pervs

But if he still took those pictures knowing that it would anger you then you definitely need to talk to him.
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#466 User is offline   Illyasviel Von Einzbern 

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Posted 22 May 2007 - 05:18 PM

I have a boyfriend.
He went to a Halloween parade one day.
Took pictures of ( specifically ) a girls butt ( hella short skirt, butt hangin out ),
and another picture of a girl bending over with a hella short skirt ( showing her panties )
What is he thinking??? Why does a guy do this ???
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#467 User is offline   Stevent 

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Posted 22 May 2007 - 05:22 PM

QUOTE(x.scapeIT_ @ May 22 2007, 08:09 PM) View Post
Define your meaning of comforting, please. Because when the girl just sits there speechless, but wanting to say something comforting, it's hard because she's afraid of saying something wrong or something that is so commonly said...it doesn't make a difference. sad.gif

comforting, emotional support, ie "im always here if you need to talk" , "how about a beer?" , etc....

QUOTE(kimseo @ May 22 2007, 08:12 PM) View Post
Oh wow, my heart goes out to all you guys who generously spend your time answering our questions. laugh.gif <3

So my question:
This guy asked me out, but I rejected him nicely. He still likes me though, and he's my friend so I can't ignore him because he's a good friend, and that's all he will be in my eyes. Will he eventually lose interest? (Generally speaking). Because it makes it really awkward knowing he likes me when I don't like him back. (I already told him all this, by the way o_o)
Summer vacation is coming up, too (this Friday), so over time, will he possibly forget? We're still going to the same school next year, so I'm a little unsure that his feelings might come up again...D:

he will eventually, but it cannot happen when you guys are still friends.

QUOTE(xosweetie @ May 22 2007, 08:18 PM) View Post
How would you feel if you have a girlfriend that believes no sex till after marriage and tries to pull away from intimacy except cuddling and stuff?

If that she whant she wants, then it is fine with us guys, we are not gonna force our s/o to do something they do not wish to do.

QUOTE(Illyasviel Von Einzbern @ May 22 2007, 08:18 PM) View Post
I have a boyfriend.
He went to a Halloween parade one day.
Took pictures of ( specifically ) a girls butt ( hella short skirt, butt hangin out ),
and another picture of a girl bending over with a hella short skirt ( showing her panties )
What is he thinking??? Why does a guy do this ???

cause we are guys (this is a very valid answer)
QUOTE (sushiwhore @ May 3 2008, 09:19 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
exactly STEVEN YOU ARE MY HERO prince charming or w.e he was omg STEVEN IS MY HERO my brain is failure O_O

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Posted 22 May 2007 - 07:23 PM

how do you become friends with a guy without giving them mix messages? sweatingbullets.gif

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Posted 22 May 2007 - 07:24 PM

QUOTE(loveof @ May 22 2007, 10:23 PM) View Post
how do you become friends with a guy without giving them mix messages? sweatingbullets.gif

dont be touchy feely or flirt with him
QUOTE (sushiwhore @ May 3 2008, 09:19 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
exactly STEVEN YOU ARE MY HERO prince charming or w.e he was omg STEVEN IS MY HERO my brain is failure O_O

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Posted 22 May 2007 - 07:40 PM

QUOTE(inexplicableromance @ May 22 2007, 07:40 PM) View Post
Do guys feel that they have to know a lot about a girl in order to start liking her? (I.e. If he talks to her just a little bit everyday but sees her around a lot, are there any chances for development of a crush?) Thanks in advance!

umm mature ones like to know there girl first, immature ones prob just go by looks
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