[xCandeex]

do guys consider major teasing a way of flirting? it's driving me insane

[snoopy]

so it has been confirmed that the guy likes me.
he's a junior and i'm a freshman at college.
i don't want to date freshman year, and i already told him that.
but he's still waiting.
we both want long term.
but i'm afraid that it won't be long term once he graduates.
should i just not even bother to start this relationship?

[M.Chang]

do guys consider major teasing a way of flirting? it's driving me insane

well depends if he is trying to flirt with you or just teasing you. you should be able to tell eventually

so it has been confirmed that the guy likes me.
he's a junior and i'm a freshman at college.
i don't want to date freshman year, and i already told him that.
but he's still waiting.
we both want long term.
but i'm afraid that it won't be long term once he graduates.
should i just not even bother to start this relationship?

hmm I think that if you really like the guy then go for it but if you like someone else that is at the same college as you or the same age as you then do that instead or just don't bother with a relationship till you are ready for it =] good luck

[deeism]

when you reject someone do you normally hug them after? and act completely normal? and keeps asking if youre okay?
is that too nice? i dont understand : (
lets say... you met not even a month ago.

[seafood]

its cuz its in the book of men rules

i believe its rule # 581 dont seem desperate. call few days after gettin the fone number

theres such thing as "the book of men rules"?

[EYJAYJAY]

theres such thing as "the book of men rules"?

yes. it's genetically coded in our testicles. but it takes a real man to discover it.

when you reject someone do you normally hug them after? and act completely normal? and keeps asking if youre okay?
is that too nice? i dont understand : (
lets say... you met not even a month ago.

if the guy who rejected you hugged you and keep on asking if you are ok.. then i'll say that he's not the type of guy who can handle rejecting others well. he's probably feeling guilty and is worrying a lot.

so it has been confirmed that the guy likes me.
he's a junior and i'm a freshman at college.
i don't want to date freshman year, and i already told him that.
but he's still waiting.
we both want long term.
but i'm afraid that it won't be long term once he graduates.
should i just not even bother to start this relationship?

this is coming from a guy who's senior in college. date when you are comfortable. if you have your mind set, or know that you prefer not to date during freshmen year, then go with it. dont overthink things, plenty of chances will come.. and it's best not to jump into relationships when you or the other person isnt completely ready or comfortable about it. hope that helps

[Xiaoba1tu]

as for the teddy bear.. and yes, it is girly. we wont ever use it or show it off to any friends lol

haha..><

[stevenn go rawrr]

do guys consider major teasing a way of flirting? it's driving me insane

it really depends. my girlfriend teases with everyone (guys and girls), so i don't really mind. i just find that being friendly towards others. but if she only tease towards a specific guy, i would be jealous and consider that flirting. :3

[j'adoreAZNpop]

hey guys,

i have two questions.

1. when is a girl considered too flirty? and would just annoy you?

2. also, i have sent this guy a simple xmas message on facebook but didnt get a reply. :S could he just be busy? someone did wished him a good vacation in NY...so i guess?

hope i didnt scare him away or anything XD
btw, we first met at a college club...and he was super sweet since day one

thanks and have a great 2008!!!

[ms honeyxxx_mr honey]

1) personally i would talk about it before making it official, though I can imagine someguys would skip this step
2) i like IM more than the phone. sometimes
3) he cares for you a lot
4) if another comes by and takes him away
5) i don't think so
6) maybe he doens't feel comfortable being lovey dovey in front of others? PDA is bad in my opinion. you two should have privacy

thanks for replying. :]
so then how can you tell if you guys are actually official or not? And when you ask him, he tells you to take a guess or what do you think and stuff like that. :/ Would the guy think you're annoying or something if you ask too much about it, because you're still not getting it?

[time_out]

guys, how would u feel if ur gf kan't make eye contact wit u, but she can do it wit everyone else???

[hiimjunebug]

i just recently had to cancel on my boyfriend. we were gonna hang out around his place/the park, but i suddenly can't go anymore and really felt sorry about it. when i told him and apologized, though, he was like "oh. well. that's okay. whatever"

what are guys thinking when they say that? they just don't care.. or they don't wanna deal with it.. or what?

[moonk379]

i just recently had to cancel on my boyfriend. we were gonna hang out around his place/the park, but i suddenly can't go anymore and really felt sorry about it. when i told him and apologized, though, he was like "oh. well. that's okay. whatever"

what are guys thinking when they say that? they just don't care.. or they don't wanna deal with it.. or what?

hmmm he probably cares but doesn't want to deal wit it.

[Apple.Mint]

Guys!
i have a question!
I know teenage guys' hormones are like..raging o.o
hahaha okay so my question is, every time me and my boyfriend makes out...he tends to pop one
and like i dont blame him, i mean our make-out session are pretty wild
and usually he would asks me to give him a hj or bj and i gave in two times
this time when he asked me for a bj i constantly said no
and he didnt forced me or anything, hahah so in the end he walked home with it still..up o.o [i'm not sure if we're allowed to say sexual terms in here]
so um..i guess what i'm asking is, do you think it's okay for me to yah know..satisfied him?
we've only been going out for a month
and i dont want to let things go to fast
afraid he'll get bored and our relationship will just die
thanks guys!

[duykato]

Guys!
i have a question!
I know teenage guys' hormones are like..raging o.o
hahaha okay so my question is, every time me and my boyfriend makes out...he tends to pop one
and like i dont blame him, i mean our make-out session are pretty wild
and usually he would asks me to give him a hj or bj and i gave in two times
this time when he asked me for a bj i constantly said no
and he didnt forced me or anything, hahah so in the end he walked home with it still..up o.o [i'm not sure if we're allowed to say sexual terms in here]
so um..i guess what i'm asking is, do you think it's okay for me to yah know..satisfied him?
we've only been going out for a month
and i dont want to let things go to fast
afraid he'll get bored and our relationship will just die
thanks guys!

Do what YOU are comfortable with. If he can't respect your decision to pace yourself then he ain't the one. Just cause you were generous before doesn't mean you have to be now. Don't let him turn your relationship of love into one of sex.

[evilrobots]

how important is sex in a relationship?
I've only been with my boyfriend for 2 months, but things are progressing fast sexually.
we've been on third base, and he tells me there's no rush into have sex.
but i don't know. i just feel rushed even though he never pushes it on me.
so i'm just wondering... have you ever been in a relationship without sex for a long time? Was it unsatisfying?

[lhaena]

guys.. my question..

how long do you wait to call a girl after getting her number?


hehehe

[pinkxlilies]

let's say a girl you know is very clumsy, a klutz, lacking common sense, kind of slow/dumb lol - but in a cute way (and she doesn't do it on purpose!). like a "damsel in distress" sort of
but she's really smart academically, knows how to have deep meaningful conversations and can tease/joke around, make smart comebacks, etc.

would you still consider her stupid...as in "omg i would never date someone that slow/lacking common sense!"? or would you find that slowness/clumsiness/etc. endearing and you would want to help/protect her?

thanks!

[Apple.Mint]

Thanks for the advice =]
i appreciate it alot <3

[Xyeun]

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