[j'adoreAZNpop]

thanks again moonk379!

[yuwing]

if i ask a friend/acquaintance out,
and he says no,
what should i say/do so
he will not feel weird and keep on being friends?

out on a date? or just regular hang out

there's this guy i met in the party last saturday
his friends has been telling me he got a girlfriend overseas
when i asked him myself, he said he doesn't have one
BUT i saw a girl on his hi5 with *HIS NAME* LOVE *HER NAME* on the background
and i saw some individual pictures of him in her albums.
AND i saw a picture on the beach with their name written
so i got my friend to talk to him online a few nights ago
my friend asked if he's interested in me, he said yes he is.

does it mean anything? does it mean he is really interested in me?
do you think he is serious or just playing around?

ps- he talks and flirts a bit online.
thanks in advance. help me? (:

When was the last time he updated his Hi5? Perhaps he's too lazy to change it.

Can a guy like a girl just because he likes the feeling of being wanted and liked?

If she's unattractive, liking and wanting me won't make me like her.
Besides, I look at personality, looks and compatibility first before going into anything.

[j'adoreAZNpop]

out on a date? or just regular hang out

could you please answer for both? thanks

and would movies be a good alternative instead of golfing and bowling?

[bokcheelo]

Can a guy like a girl just because he likes the feeling of being wanted and liked?

yes

[creamice2311]

i am just wondering if its possible for someone to still like a person even after almost a year of not really talking at all...... as in i m pretty sure this guy had (has?) interest in me and we used to talk almost everyday and r very comfortable with each other.... but due to some reasons we just drifted aparted gradually but no its not anything negative or what its mostly becoz last year was a very hectic year for me so i needed to study so hard that i dun have time to talk to anyone else lol (ya cuz i made some sort of 'pact' with my parents) so i just chatted with him just now n everything still sounds like the past n everything...... still comfortable with each other but of course u cant deny that theres still some weird feeling i mean afterall its been so long right? but that weird feeling is so little that its negligible..... cuz even during the period we didnt talk i tink i saw him wanting to approach me and talk just like before but then he kind of backed off against that idea. so i m just asking if its possible if he still likes me lol


anyone reading this n knows whos yuki yes thats my sis and this is my account just that i dun usually use soompi so i gave this account to her since she lost her account password n will be using my account till she regains hers.... just to clarify shes not cheating on her boyfriend by asking this or if severin is readin this no shes not cheating on u. i m cheryl lol

[vintage_love]

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[internetwarfare]

Yup, same thing happened with my gf and me. If you do it keep in mind you wont see him that much and the first few months you'll have that huge excitement about having a bf...and not being able to see him will be killer.

[dotori]

sorry if this gets kind of long >< its about my friend (i asked her before i posted, so no worries)
my friend = K, the guy = B

so B added K as a friend on facebook although they've never met. B said he wanted to be friends with her and they had 2 friends in common. So K and B kept talking on facebook and texting each other CONSTANTLY. He writes really mushy stuff like "K my love" and calls her nicknames like "cubby" and even mentioned that they were almost in a relationship because they texted each other so much. Now, K likes B and is wondering if B likes her? (they have NOT met so far but they have talked over the phone once on his birthday...

thank you<3

[`Nivek]

how long does it take for a guy to move on?
Depends. Every guy is different. Some take a day or two and ranges to maybe a week or two. And there are some that hold on and never let go.
how do they move on?
Alcohol, talking to other girls, gym, hating the girl, stop talking to the girl


if i ask a friend/acquaintance out,
and he says no,
what should i say/do so
he will not feel weird and keep on being friends? Act like nothing happened

[aironeousB]

Hey guys, so here’s my problem:

Before my boyfriend and I have been dating, we talked a lot..
like our conversations were always interesting and there would always be things to talk about.
Now we’re dating, for some reason there’s not much to talk about anymore
and there would be a lot of silences on the phone >___<;
So I was wondering what’s going on?
And what could I say to break the silence?

Heheh thanks so much in advance

ah ha ha ha That was him avoiding the nervous situation of kissing/making out/ sex etc..
Now he's not nervous about anything with you anymore so he's not spurting out other things to focus on.
Maybe there are other factors but that is what comes to mind.
If I'm right you can find something else to make him nervous and see if he starts up interesting conversations again.
Ask him in all seriousness about what he thinks about marriage or meeting your parents for dinner.
ha ha ha
You haven't really given a lot of info for us to answer you so maybe I'm wrong.

[moonk379]

i am just wondering if its possible for someone to still like a person even after almost a year of not really talking at all...... as in i m pretty sure this guy had (has?) interest in me and we used to talk almost everyday and r very comfortable with each other.... but due to some reasons we just drifted aparted gradually but no its not anything negative or what its mostly becoz last year was a very hectic year for me so i needed to study so hard that i dun have time to talk to anyone else lol (ya cuz i made some sort of 'pact' with my parents) so i just chatted with him just now n everything still sounds like the past n everything...... still comfortable with each other but of course u cant deny that theres still some weird feeling i mean afterall its been so long right? but that weird feeling is so little that its negligible..... cuz even during the period we didnt talk i tink i saw him wanting to approach me and talk just like before but then he kind of backed off against that idea. so i m just asking if its possible if he still likes me lol


anyone reading this n knows whos yuki yes thats my sis and this is my account just that i dun usually use soompi so i gave this account to her since she lost her account password n will be using my account till she regains hers.... just to clarify shes not cheating on her boyfriend by asking this or if severin is readin this no shes not cheating on u. i m cheryl lol

depends on how strong the feelin he had for you before. if it was strong its still gonna be there but its been a year so he might still like you who knows lol

i have a guy best friend of approx. 3 years now
we always talk on msn because we live 1 hour away from each other
and the only time i can see him is at church,
and because of family problems,
i can't go to church regularly so I go like once every month.
but we talk on msn every single day for about 5 hours.
I fell in love with him the day I started talking to him,
and people at church think we are going out..
they're always like making fun of us that we are couples ;
he always says that I'm his confidant and that i'm the one he talks the most.
he always says that he loves me and we talk about everything.
I wish we were real couples, but I'm afraid that he doesn't like me back
and that I would ruin the friendship we have right now
if I told him that I love him as a guy not as a best friend...
we both never had a bf/gf too.

edit: and he always listens to my problems too, unlike other guys who just nods and says it's ok, he actually listens and tries to help me out.
edit2: I've tried so hard to forget about him by meeting other guys, but i loose interest in them because i'm in love with my best friend =( one guy from my school asked me out to prom but I declined, and another guy ask me out but I turned him down as well.. and the funny thing is both the guys resemble my best friend.

just hint it out or just confess. its better to confess than to never tell him how you feel and regret about it later.

[soulclaimingice]

in our youth group a guest speaker came and stuff and right when he said when your in love or when you like that someone the guy the same guy that got me a gift 2-4 times over the cost limit looked at me. Does that mean hes giving me a huge dead giveway that he likes me or something? >.<

Well obviously you were looking in the guy's direction, too.

[Aesthetic_Chinese]

so this guy keeps saying im really cute.
&& im adorable && just overall really cute && innocent.

he even teases me about it. like non stop
what does that suppose to mean?

[nonamebrand]

1) if a guy knew that a girl liked him, and he still continue to flirt with her when he sees her (but doesnt talk to her at all when he doesnt see her) and stare at her intensely, does it mean he's interested??
and
2) if a guy knew he hurt a girl emotionally really badly, he doesn't have any feelings for her and they're barely friends, would he try to talk to her to apologize?

thanks guys!

[giraffe]

my ex and i have dated only three months before he decided to dump me. he's liked me basically for about 5 years even when he had girlfriends (serious relationships). i never really gave him a chance though. he first admitted he liked me on the phone about two years ago but i sort of immediately dropped him for another guy. then he asked me out this summer at night on the beach and i had rejected him pretty harshly, telling him to never like me because i will never like him. well later on something changed, i started to have feelings for him and randomly told him that one day. a week later, we started going out.

i was new to relationships, well more "serious" ones anyway since i've had crushes here and there but nothing ever went beyond that. i'm bitchy, needy, difficult and i guess i had brought up breaking up a lot everytime we fought which was wrong of me to do so. i guess a little before new years eve, a fight on the phone led to him breaking up with me. i talked to him a couple days later in person to explain myself and basically ask for another chance.

he goes "well i'm liking everything i hear but when i broke up with you, it didn't mean there wasn't a chance for us but right now isn't a good time. i need to get my life together first. i want to work out one tihng instead of having the chance to fail both or one."

is that just an excuse...? hes willing to be friends with me still but it's hard on me, especially when he sent me an IM last night saying he wished i was online so he could talk to me?

edit: when i asked him if he still liked me, he said yeah. is that my happy poopoo too?

[Sam Sik]

so this guy keeps saying im really cute.
&& im adorable && just overall really cute && innocent.

he even teases me about it. like non stop
what does that suppose to mean?

He thinks you're cute. Unless he does other things that makes you like him or you do things that make him like you, it's just a little infatuation thing. I would assume if you guys do ever go out, he's doing it purely on looks. We lack information! Give him a chance though.

1) if a guy knew that a girl liked him, and he still continue to flirt with her when he sees her (but doesnt talk to her at all when he doesnt see her) and stare at her intensely, does it mean he's interested??
and
2) if a guy knew he hurt a girl emotionally really badly, he doesn't have any feelings for her and they're barely friends, would he try to talk to her to apologize?

thanks guys! smile.gif

1)Yeah he is interested. Because if he knew a girl liked him, and he didn't like her back, then he would most likely try to avoid her at all costs or keep his distance away from her. Most guys should know what they are dealing with.
2)He should, regardless of the relationship status. Even if I hurt some random girl on the street and she was crying about it, I would stop and try to deal with the problem. If he doesn't, then he's pretty heartless.

Giraffe: I think you should give it time. He's confused of what to do right now, his feelings are mixed. It could be an excuse. He still likes you, but he doesn't want to patch things up that quickly. My advice would be to take things more slowly and let time do the healing. But of course, you guys seem stable don't ignore each other. Continue trying to be friends. I know it's hard. It's happening with me recently, except my partner does not want to be friends. Fighting!

[<3 Kim]

Ok, I've had this problem for about a week now. I really want to know from a guy's P.O.V what i should do.

So me and my bf have been dating for about... say almost 16 months now. However, things are changing so much. I believe that now we're not close as we used to be. whenever we hang out now he has to leave early. When he calls me at night we talk for about 5 minutes then he says that he has to go sleep. When we went out at the start, we would talk every night for hours, but now its just 5 minutes and he wants to leave. The thing is, his family owns a restaurant. It does get really busy at times, and so his mum calls him in to work. I don't mind that, but the thing that really annoys me, is that sometimes he would ask me to go on outings the day before, and then on the day of the outing he cancels it and says he can't make it. It's happened many times before. So I thought I'd forgive him cos it really isn't his fault.

I want to talk to him tomorrow about this. I want to tell him how our relationship is changing so much. I hate it. I told him last night and he said that he will try sort something out.

Am I wanting too much?

[Takedo]

@ <3 Kim
I've seen this situation before (just recently, ended up with them breaking apart). It really does seem that your relationship has lost some of it's "new experience passion". But I'm not gonna start speculating this anymore, I suggest you to talk with your bf about this matter, just to find out what's the situation & what's goin' on between you and him nowadays... But anyways don't stress out too much and take on a positive attitude for tomorrow

[hello^(=^_^=)^maomao]

hi, i really want to know a guy's view on this, please answer..
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basically, there is this guy who i like .. we talk to each other like really normal, i hinted to him that i like him.. i never confess to him! hints i gave were subtile, like when i sms him, i added x at the end! .. so i havent seen him for 4 weeks, today was the first day back at college, when he saw me, he blushed like really red like a tomato. he then walked towards & smiled n asked me hows my holiday, then my friend next to me saw him and decided to talk to him, so he turned and talked to her, he didnt know she was there, three of us were standing there .. but i was listening the most.. his face was still red .. he talked to her more than me, he looked speechless when i ask him something, and he would think about it.. and then he left really quickly! .. i just thought i mention, he was more smily when he saw her .. she is a tomboy.. i doubt he likes her, plus she s lesbo! .. but point was he was more happier when he saw her!

so the fact he blushed .. does that mean he likes me? ..

if a girl confess to u, or hinted to u they like u.. would u blush if u didnt like them back? .. or u would blush because ur just flattered? ..

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really appreciate whoever answers!

[kuuchuu]

why do guys not tell their gf's how they actually feel? instead they'll tell the gf's friend the truth...