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#51 User is offline   xcindyloooo 

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Posted 16 May 2007 - 06:43 PM

[1] When your good friend hurts your s/o real bad [emotionally], what do you do?

[2] What teases a guy and makes him want a girl more?
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Posted 16 May 2007 - 06:44 PM

QUOTE(xreminisce @ May 16 2007, 10:36 PM) View Post
hahaha i have a few questions
[1] are you guys aware that yur girl tells everything (yeah.. EVERYTHING) to her best friend?

[3] do outgoing, kinda loud, confident girls appeal to you more than shy, quiet girls?


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Posted 16 May 2007 - 06:53 PM

when guys tell girls that "they should hang out sometime", does it usually translate into "date"? mellow.gif
if it's true, i wasn't aware of this rule, and i'm afraid i may have unintentionally led one of my guy friends on..
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Posted 16 May 2007 - 06:55 PM

QUOTE(BLUBitty @ May 16 2007, 09:26 PM) View Post
1.) why do guys suddenly start to ignore their ex in the halls, when they are cool and everything? and they didn't used to do that , even after the break up


there is an awkward tension.

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2.) why do guys always jump to conclusions? like...when you're just hanging out with a good, kinda close friend..and he shows up at your lunch. your friend just touches your backpack for a while and stuff..why does he get soooo mad?!?

because we can, just like you girls can.

QUOTE(xreminisce @ May 16 2007, 09:36 PM) View Post
hahaha i have a few questions
[1] are you guys aware that yur girl tells everything (yeah.. EVERYTHING) to her best friend?
(gosh... i hope my besties BF isnt reading this- erck!)

we dont care

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[2] what would you do if her best friend hated you... with a freaking passion?

wouldn't care. If she hates me, then that's her deal. I carry no ill will towards anyone I barely know.

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[3] do outgoing, kinda loud, confident girls appeal to you more than shy, quiet girls?

a blend of both. a girl who knows how to speak her mind, but knows when to shut her mouth.

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[4] how does one (girl/guy) stay out of the friends zone?

be acquaintances

QUOTE(xcindyloooo @ May 16 2007, 09:43 PM) View Post
[1] When your good friend hurts your s/o real bad [emotionally], what do you do?

tell them to apologize, if they dont readily agree...rely on physical force.

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[2] What teases a guy and makes him want a girl more?

differs from guy to guy
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Posted 16 May 2007 - 06:58 PM

Do guys like it when girls talk dirty to them?
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Posted 16 May 2007 - 07:02 PM

ooh i have one!

so there's this guy i really like, but im really confused about the way he acts towards me. in classes and in the hallways he always glances/stares at me and face brightens up and he smiles. when i walk by his friends, they always poke him and he blushes. and he's really shy and fixes his hair/ apearrance alot when im near. his friend even asked me how i felt about him :/

i noticed that he act this way before i had liked him. and i guess that's how i started to like him, you know like when you think someone is attracted to you, you start feeling the same? lol

so i don't understand if i should just give up since it's been a pretty long time and he still hasn't made a move.
thanks for the advice!! smile.gif

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Posted 16 May 2007 - 07:13 PM

Could you give me tips on how to start a conversation with a guy I barely talk to? If it's possible. biggrin.gif

Oh. And do guys find it awkward when a girl that is moderate looking going up to them and
confronting their feelings? hehhehehe...

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Posted 16 May 2007 - 07:25 PM

QUOTE(sus @ May 16 2007, 02:50 AM) View Post
why cant guys make up their minds when it comes to girls~?!? O.o

they are picky, they find one thing wrong with her and decide shes not good enough, and will find someone who is better =D i dont no if anyone else does that but yeah i do that...........

QUOTE(alicee @ May 16 2007, 10:13 PM) View Post
Could you give me tips on how to start a conversation with a guy I barely talk to? If it's possible. biggrin.gif

Oh. And do guys find it awkward when a girl that is moderate looking going up to them and
confronting their feelings? hehhehehe...

girls can talk about anything if they just go up to them, just nothing weird or they will think ur weird. but if u just say hi, how u doing thats pretty simple and if the guy is smart and notice ur trying to talk to them they will carry on with the convo. but just going up to a guy and talking about ur feelings i think would be weird......... if u no them alrdy then i guess u can
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Posted 16 May 2007 - 07:26 PM

QUOTE(blindboi @ May 16 2007, 06:01 PM) View Post
Because his friends influence him with his choice in women. You can do anything about this, most guys care what his friend think about the girl he is dating.


well dat sux doesnt it~~

Another question: just say u got 2 gals after u, u like both.... what do guys do??
IMO the guy wont choose cos he can have the best of both worlds, am i right?
and what does he realli mean when he wants to be friends with everyone?
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Posted 16 May 2007 - 07:27 PM

QUOTE(chiluvskk @ May 16 2007, 10:02 PM) View Post
ooh i have one!

so there's this guy i really like, but im really confused about the way he acts towards me. in classes and in the hallways he always glances/stares at me and face brightens up and he smiles. when i walk by his friends, they always poke him and he blushes. and he's really shy and fixes his hair/ apearrance alot when im near. his friend even asked me how i felt about him :/

i noticed that he act this way before i had liked him. and i guess that's how i started to like him, you know like when you think someone is attracted to you, you start feeling the same? lol

so i don't understand if i should just give up since it's been a pretty long time and he still hasn't made a move.
thanks for the advice!! smile.gif

naw u should go approach him he sound to shy to go up to u, so u go start a convo with him =D if u do that he will prob talk to u its obvious he likes u......... hes just a really shy guy
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Posted 16 May 2007 - 07:29 PM

QUOTE(jaeners @ May 16 2007, 07:58 PM) View Post
Do guys like it when girls talk dirty to them?

we freaking love it.
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Posted 16 May 2007 - 07:29 PM

QUOTE(jaeners @ May 16 2007, 09:58 PM) View Post
Do guys like it when girls talk dirty to them?

lol if the guy wants to have sex then hell yeah lol but i dont suggest that cuz he will prob tell his friends and u will get a bad reputation =( but if u guys r going out then thats always fun
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Posted 16 May 2007 - 07:29 PM

QUOTE(moblastin @ May 16 2007, 08:25 PM) View Post
but just going up to a guy and talking about ur feelings i think would be weird......... if u no them alrdy then i guess u can

I meant like telling the guy that you like-like him, lol. Not like going up to them and talking about
the problems in their life. That would be weird.. Sorry if I misunderstood you too o.O But what would
you do if you were in that situation and a lower than average looking girl said that she liked you (but she
seems like she has a nice personality)?

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Posted 16 May 2007 - 07:30 PM

QUOTE(chiluvskk @ May 16 2007, 08:02 PM) View Post
ooh i have one!

so there's this guy i really like, but im really confused about the way he acts towards me. in classes and in the hallways he always glances/stares at me and face brightens up and he smiles. when i walk by his friends, they always poke him and he blushes. and he's really shy and fixes his hair/ apearrance alot when im near. his friend even asked me how i felt about him :/

i noticed that he act this way before i had liked him. and i guess that's how i started to like him, you know like when you think someone is attracted to you, you start feeling the same? lol

so i don't understand if i should just give up since it's been a pretty long time and he still hasn't made a move.
thanks for the advice!! smile.gif

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Posted 16 May 2007 - 07:30 PM

QUOTE(M0NiCAxBO0 @ May 16 2007, 08:15 PM) View Post
Do guys need the attention that they give us?



QUOTE(Stevent @ May 16 2007, 08:25 PM) View Post
no



Than is it just my guy who is seems to need a lot atttention sometime more than me?

Other question:

It may just be my guy again but do other guys just like to stay on the phone with their gf even when they are not talking and just go off playing video games but than get offensive when his girl wants to get off the phone? If so why would they do that?
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Posted 16 May 2007 - 07:31 PM

QUOTE(geruhjima @ May 16 2007, 09:53 PM) View Post
when guys tell girls that "they should hang out sometime", does it usually translate into "date"? mellow.gif
if it's true, i wasn't aware of this rule, and i'm afraid i may have unintentionally led one of my guy friends on..

when a girl says that to me they usually wanna start talking to me but alot of times we are just of that friendship level where u can hang out for fun........ but we never just "hang out" at the end usually ends up with touchy hands and lips if u get wat i mean
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Posted 16 May 2007 - 07:32 PM

QUOTE(sus @ May 16 2007, 08:26 PM) View Post
well dat sux doesnt it~~

Another question: just say u got 2 gals after u, u like both.... what do guys do??
IMO the guy wont choose cos he can have the best of both worlds, am i right?
and what does he realli mean when he wants to be friends with everyone?

yah sucks i know ;D

well "most" guys would ask there friends opinion on who looks hotter. then most likely he will pick her.
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Posted 16 May 2007 - 07:32 PM

I want to know...what's with guys and having a one night stand? i don't get it. Do they have commitment issues or is it just all fun and games?

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Posted 16 May 2007 - 07:33 PM

QUOTE(MoonlightChunsa @ May 16 2007, 08:30 PM) View Post
It may just be my guy again but do other guys just like to stay on the phone with their gf even when they are not talking and just go off playing video games but than get offensive when his girl wants to get off the phone? If so why would they do that?

he too clingy, dump him now .
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Posted 16 May 2007 - 07:35 PM

QUOTE(MoonlightChunsa @ May 16 2007, 10:30 PM) View Post
Than is it just my guy who is seems to need a lot atttention sometime more than me?

yes. seems like he wants everyone to notice him.

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Other question:

It may just be my guy again but do other guys just like to stay on the phone with their gf even when they are not talking and just go off playing video games but than get offensive when his girl wants to get off the phone? If so why would they do that?

wtf. your bf is weird.
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exactly STEVEN YOU ARE MY HERO prince charming or w.e he was omg STEVEN IS MY HERO my brain is failure O_O

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