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#501 User is offline   han. 

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Posted 23 May 2007 - 11:40 AM

QUOTE(Rinrinn @ May 23 2007, 12:14 PM) View Post
hahahah laugh.gif

Anyways, thx for answering all our questions guys ^^ .. it keeps this thread going~

I have another question to bring up.
What does it mean when you are sitting beside this guy (and u don't really know him) and he keeps kicking the leg of your chair? Does it mean he's being annoying by distracting the person beside him (like a habit) or something else?

during class im assuming?
it means he just really wants to get out of class. and can't sit still so he has to keep his legs moving.
i'm almost convinced all guys suffer from minor a.d.d or something because none of my friends can sit still during anything really boring.
i constantly shake my legs during class, without even me knowing it.
단 한 번도, 마음을 털어놓지 못했어.
어렸을 때는 용기가 없었고...다 자라서는 왠지 머슥해서...
아니, 그건 아니겠군. 지금 이 순간 에도 그녀를 생각하면 심장이 날뛰니까.
솔직히 이젠 모르겠어. 어떻게 해야 그녀를 위한 길이 될는지...
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#502 User is offline   Rinrinn 

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Posted 23 May 2007 - 12:16 PM

QUOTE(han. @ May 23 2007, 12:40 PM) View Post
during class im assuming?
it means he just really wants to get out of class. and can't sit still so he has to keep his legs moving.
i'm almost convinced all guys suffer from minor a.d.d or something because none of my friends can sit still during anything really boring.
i constantly shake my legs during class, without even me knowing it.


ummm no. This was at work. We were sitting in front of computers and then while we were waiting for some people to pass things to us from across the table... I guess he was bored? And started kicking my chair. I looked at him, then he stopped. Then later it happened again. mellow.gif From your post above, u say all guys suffer from a.d.d ? lol. laugh.gif
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Posted 23 May 2007 - 12:21 PM

QUOTE(Rinrinn @ May 23 2007, 03:16 PM) View Post
ummm no. This was at work. We were sitting in front of computers and then while we were waiting for some people to pass things to us from across the table... I guess he was bored? And started kicking my chair. I looked at him, then he stopped. Then later it happened again. mellow.gif From your post above, u say all guys suffer from a.d.d ? lol. laugh.gif


Nah, not true, not all guys suffer from A.D.D., but rather we all suffer from "JackAssIsm"
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Posted 23 May 2007 - 01:25 PM

QUOTE(beepbeep @ May 22 2007, 02:20 PM) View Post
why do you guys scratch your crotch?

Because those boys are rude.
Boys with manner wouldn't do such a thing.
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Posted 23 May 2007 - 01:29 PM

what part of the body will make you guys go crazy when girls touch it
other than the obvious of course

shoulder?
hands?
arms?
toes????!?!?
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Posted 23 May 2007 - 01:33 PM

QUOTE(sugarjeong @ May 23 2007, 05:29 PM) View Post
what part of the body will make you guys go crazy when girls touch it
other than the obvious of course

shoulder?
hands?
arms?
toes????!?!?

Collar bones.
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Posted 23 May 2007 - 01:33 PM

QUOTE(sugarjeong @ May 23 2007, 05:29 PM) View Post
what part of the body will make you guys go crazy when girls touch it
other than the obvious of course

shoulder?
hands?
arms?
toes????!?!?


When she comes up from behind and wraps her arms around my neck then places her head on my shoulders. Doesn't drive me crazy its more like a nice romantic feeling when she does that. As for part of the body that drives me crazy hmm probably my neck.
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Posted 23 May 2007 - 01:36 PM

QUOTE(강유미 @ May 23 2007, 04:25 PM) View Post
Because those boys are rude.
Boys with manner wouldn't do such a thing.


I'll tell you why we scratch our crouch. Ok, a little intro to human sexualality 101. We have something called testicles, our testicles is a housing place for our sperm, our sperm has to be kept at a certain temperature or else it would DIE! Our testicles, shrinks and pull up close when it gets cold, but it drops and stretches when it gets too hot, why? it has to do this to keep our sperm at a certian temperature. Now, why we scratch our balls, well when it gets hot and it strechtes, it gets very uncomfortable(ask any guy!), that's why we scratch, it's natural, kinda like why dogs lick their balls, because of the same reason.

So the next time when you see a guy scratching down there, just know that he's very uncomfortable down there because his balls are hot and they are stretching.

I hope this broaden your horizon wink.gif
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Posted 23 May 2007 - 01:59 PM

A guy I used to work with is interested in me. He has asked me to call him. I initiated the call to play tennis. Tennis didn't happen for wind reason. The first time we went "out" is to the mall. He met some break dancing friends. They talked for a bit but I stayed behind not too far when he goes to greet them. He didn't stay long and comes back to check on me but didn't introduce his friends and me. This happened the second time we went out too. I wasn' so far that he couldn't introduce me. Why is that?

He doesn't look directly at me those times either, not into my face/eyes. I noticed he darts his eyes rather than just staring off into space. I asked him later on the phone. He said if he looked at me he would want me. I highly doubt he is that much into me since he hasn't called me back in 3 wks. Again why?
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Posted 23 May 2007 - 01:59 PM

QUOTE([-KeN-] @ May 23 2007, 03:36 PM) View Post

I'll tell you why we scratch our crouch. Ok, a little intro to human sexualality 101. We have something called testicles, our testicles is a housing place for our sperm, our sperm has to be kept at a certain temperature or else it would DIE! Our testicles, shrinks and pull up close when it gets cold, but it drops and stretches when it gets too hot, why? it has to do this to keep our sperm at a certian temperature. Now, why we scratch our balls, well when it gets hot and it strechtes, it gets very uncomfortable(ask any guy!), that's why we scratch, it's natural, kinda like why dogs lick their balls, because of the same reason.

So the next time when you see a guy scratching down there, just know that he's very uncomfortable down there because his balls are hot and they are stretching.

I hope this broaden your horizon wink.gif

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Posted 23 May 2007 - 02:04 PM

QUOTE(강유미 @ May 23 2007, 02:33 PM) View Post
Collar bones.


Definitely im realyl sensitive there haha.

I also like the occasional Hug around the neck from behind thing
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Posted 23 May 2007 - 02:13 PM

QUOTE([-KeN-] @ May 23 2007, 02:36 PM) View Post

I'll tell you why we scratch our crouch. Ok, a little intro to human sexualality 101. We have something called testicles, our testicles is a housing place for our sperm, our sperm has to be kept at a certain temperature or else it would DIE! Our testicles, shrinks and pull up close when it gets cold, but it drops and stretches when it gets too hot, why? it has to do this to keep our sperm at a certian temperature. Now, why we scratch our balls, well when it gets hot and it strechtes, it gets very uncomfortable(ask any guy!), that's why we scratch, it's natural, kinda like why dogs lick their balls, because of the same reason.

So the next time when you see a guy scratching down there, just know that he's very uncomfortable down there because his balls are hot and they are stretching.

I hope this broaden your horizon wink.gif


lmao.. i agree to a certain point. i wouldn't know why a dog licks their balls though.
I don't like you! >_<
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Posted 23 May 2007 - 02:24 PM

Guys who try to make their gfs jealous are insecure, correct? If not, what are their reasons for saying, "oh, that girl is hott." even though she's not.

What do you think of guys who talk about their ex's to their current gfs?
Moreover, if a guy told you that the feelings he has with you aren't like the ones he experienced with his first gf, does that mean you're not living up to his expectations?

And I remember when...
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Posted 23 May 2007 - 02:27 PM

OMGosh.... I feel stupid for saying this but gonna go for it! Anyways there's this guy I know. We've been good friends for almost two years now. Whenever we're at school together [around his friends] he ignores me and walk pass me like I'm a stranger, but we say hi sometimes. But when his friends aren't there he's very cool and talks to me alot. Like he shows me affection like he likes me... But I'm trying to tell myself that I'm just thinking things... Are guys usually this way? I mean I know it might depend on the guy. But I'm getting annoyed and I feel like telling him to just leave me alone because I'm getting sick of it. I don't know what he's thinking, I'm confused.

By the way, awesome thread! It helps us girls alot... Hahaha...
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Posted 23 May 2007 - 02:35 PM

QUOTE(embol @ May 23 2007, 06:24 PM) View Post
Guys who try to make their gfs jealous are insecure, correct? If not, what are their reasons for saying, "oh, that girl is hott." even though she's not.

What do you think of guys who talk about their ex's to their current gfs?
Moreover, if a guy told you that the feelings he has with you aren't like the ones he experienced with his first gf, does that mean you're not living up to his expectations?



Some guys who play the jealousy game are insecure but then there are guys that aren't doing it intentionally to make their girlfriend jealous. They probably just think that their girlfriends won't mind so they blurt it out sometimes or he might feel comfortable with you to a certain level that if you were to compliment another guy he wouldn't mind so he probably expects you not to as well.

Some guys might talk about their ex's to their current girlfriend because he could just be opening up to you about his past. But if all he talks about are his ex's good points then he probably is trying to make you jealous. If your boyfriend tells you that he isn't experiencing the same feelings for you like he did for his ex it doesn't necessarily mean that you are not living up to his expectations. What it could also mean is that maybe the feelings he has with you are more real and positive.



QUOTE(Tic-Tac-Toe @ May 23 2007, 06:27 PM) View Post
OMGosh.... I feel stupid for saying this but gonna go for it! Anyways there's this guy I know. We've been good friends for almost two years now. Whenever we're at school together [around his friends] he ignores me and walk pass me like I'm a stranger, but we say hi sometimes. But when his friends aren't there he's very cool and talks to me alot. Like he shows me affection like he likes me... But I'm trying to tell myself that I'm just thinking things... Are guys usually this way? I mean I know it might depend on the guy. But I'm getting annoyed and I feel like telling him to just leave me alone because I'm getting sick of it. I don't know what he's thinking, I'm confused.

By the way, awesome thread! It helps us girls alot... Hahaha...



Maybe his friends give him a hard time or if not maybe he just doesn't want to reveal his softer side in front of his friends.
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Posted 23 May 2007 - 02:36 PM

okeii i have a question too^^
whenever i have class breaks
i always see this guy...and we
ugh ALWAYS make eye contact
and he always look away 1st..=_=
was i suppose to be intimidated?

my friends said whenever we
pass by him and his friends always
look my way..sleep.gif;; and i don't know
what they are thinking..oh ugh his
friend use to like me...and i didnt
like him though but however someone
spread a secret that i like his other
friend..=_= which is not truee~~

ugh i mean the guy who looks at
me is cute and all but ugh im
starting to get freaked out but then
yeahh!! but my friend said i might
have lead some people on because
i always tend to look at people...but
the thing is HE looked at ME first..> <

if u guys can answer me..THNX a lot^-^

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Posted 23 May 2007 - 02:36 PM

QUOTE(Teddy @ May 22 2007, 08:18 PM) View Post
He will eventually lose interest. Unlike being in a relationship it won't be too hard to move on from this. Things will be fine

Since you two will be at the same school again next year there is a possibility that his feelings could come back but that is something he has to get over on his own.


QUOTE(Stevent @ May 22 2007, 08:22 PM) View Post
he will eventually, but it cannot happen when you guys are still friends.


QUOTE(han. @ May 23 2007, 01:42 AM) View Post
i went through a similar situation, but in my case, it ended kind of ugly. anyway, to answer your question, just know this.
out of sight, out of mind.


Thanks for the answers (: <3

Uhm, here's something my friend wants to know o_o;
Do guys like it when girls act tomboy-ish? Like, do things they do whether it be sports, games, etc.
Or does it turn you guys off?
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Posted 23 May 2007 - 02:44 PM

What do you GUYS think when a girl gives you a present and let's say she is just a good friend nothing more... Would you think she likes you?

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Posted 23 May 2007 - 02:53 PM

QUOTE(JungYunho<3 @ May 23 2007, 06:44 PM) View Post
What do you GUYS think when a girl gives you a present and let's say she is just a good friend nothing more... Would you think she likes you?



Not at all unless she really goes out of her way to do something extra nice for you. Its normal for a girl to give a gift to her close guy friends

Unless the guy is the type to crush easily.


QUOTE(320929 @ May 23 2007, 06:36 PM) View Post
okeii i have a question too^^
whenever i have class breaks
i always see this guy...and we
ugh ALWAYS make eye contact
and he always look away 1st..=_=
was i suppose to be intimidated?

my friends said whenever we
pass by him and his friends always
look my way..sleep.gif;; and i don't know
what they are thinking..oh ugh his
friend use to like me...and i didnt
like him though but however someone
spread a secret that i like his other
friend..=_= which is not truee~~

ugh i mean the guy who looks at
me is cute and all but ugh im
starting to get freaked out but then
yeahh!! but my friend said i might
have lead some people on because
i always tend to look at people...but
the thing is HE looked at ME first..> <

if u guys can answer me..THNX a lot^-^




When you look at him and he looks away he might not be trying to intimidate you in fact it might be because he is shy. Don't worry too much about what they are thinking when you walk by them because their behaviour sounds typical when a bunch of guys group together. Also keep in mind that the secret you mentioned was spread among them so that plus you making eye contact with them could have lead some of them on.




QUOTE(kimseo @ May 23 2007, 06:36 PM) View Post
Thanks for the answers (: <3

Uhm, here's something my friend wants to know o_o;
Do guys like it when girls act tomboy-ish? Like, do things they do whether it be sports, games, etc.
Or does it turn you guys off?



It really depends on the type of guy he is. Some guys like the tomboy girls and some don't.
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Posted 23 May 2007 - 03:03 PM

QUOTE(Teddy @ May 23 2007, 05:53 PM) View Post
Not at all unless she really goes out of her way to do something extra nice for you. Its normal for a girl to give a gift to her close guy friends

Unless the guy is the type to crush easily.


ALRIGHT... Hahahaha... I always give presents to my close guy friends when it's like their birthdays will not ALWAYS but yeah.. and I don't want them to think wrong.... ^^

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