[ms. rachellica]

define your definition of flirting? the way you may interpret something as flirting may be something very different from what he intended to do.

thank you for ur advice, gud sir.

[Pink_guava]

I once read that guys have problems in noticing people emotion
maybe thats what make man different from woman
(means that woman is more complicated and man is more simple minded)
Is it true?hrmm,just curious.
If u think this question kinda weird,no need to answer.Hehehe

[강유미]

I once read that guys have problems in noticing people emotion
maybe thats what make man different from woman
(means that woman is more complicated and man is more simple minded)
Is it true?hrmm,just curious.
If u think this question kinda weird,no need to answer.Hehehe

Yes, we have problems reading emotions.
That's the biggest problem we have.

[beckii]

rofl miss Emotions has had a very similar situation to my previous one...i told a guy [who iv always considered to be close - practically my best friend] that i liked him [abt 2 mths ago] on msn cuz i didnt have time to see him alone in person.....and he said he didnt know what to do about me likeing him because hes leaving for overseas soon.....

he also mentioned something abt him nd me both knowing hes a pretty bad bf [ major flirt], so he didnt want to risk hurting me, or sth like that.....however he wasnt exactly clear if hes ever liked me, jut that hes thought abt dating me before [whilst he was with his exs]...

now iv always enjoyed being close to him as a FRIEND, and i said to him even though i needed to get over liking him, i wanted us to talk normally, and for him not to freak out - he said he wouldnt, but after that talking just wasnt as easy anymore....and now we practically are not talking at ALL now - sans general crap when i see him sometimes with other ppl.....why is he doin that? cant be bothered with me anymore? doesnt want to be close anymore[because it could develop into sth else?]? he said he wouldnt ignore me again....>.<[happened in a slightly diff situation 2 years ago]...



p.s i have a thread about this floating somewhere - click my profile if u cbb. hahaha...

[someday4_2]

Hmm, do guys want their girlfriends to take care of them when they're sick?? Or do they usually want to see some concern and then be left alone???

And thanks a lot guys for answering our questions

[강유미]

Hmm, do guys want their girlfriends to take care of them when they're sick?? Or do they usually want to see some concern and then be left alone???

And thanks a lot guys for answering our questions

I'd have to marry her, because I love being taken care of when I'm sick.
That's true love right there.

[Zantedeschia]

Hmm, do guys want their girlfriends to take care of them when they're sick?? Or do they usually want to see some concern and then be left alone???

And thanks a lot guys for answering our questions

I think it depends on the guy. Most guys would love any girl to take care of them when they get sick. Others might not want to be seen in their weak state.

Personally, I love it. I wish I got sick more sometimes.
This is not really being sick or being taken care of, but I just remembered one time when I drank some sake and was red and tired. The cutest girl in the world just sat with me in the library in the same couch, while I was all nasty and sweaty. Just sitting with me for two or three hours and letting me kiss her and hold her when I woke up. I was chubby then, so I looked like a plump tomato. She still loved me and who I was, even all disgusting. How awesome is that?

Just thinking about times like this makes me love her more and more.
She really puts up a lot for me...

-H

[Pink_guava]

Yes, we have problems reading emotions.
That's the biggest problem we have.

It's true afterall so maybe I should be less sensitive than.
(to my brother actually, I'm such a freak)
thanx..

[loveof]

my friend likes this guy who is everything. (charming, goodlooking, etc, etc)
this one time she asked him something.. similar to
"Why are you drinking so fast?"
and he took real long to answer.
is this a sign he likes her or something because he cares about what he says in front of her?
she told me he stares at her a lot too LIKE a lot.
i asked him if he liked her and he said maybe.
IMO someone wanna answer please?

[happy sun]

yes happns all the time

sorry for bugging you, but i was wondering if you could clarify, what happens all the time?
thanks~

[strawberryfusion]

what do guys like to talk w/ girls a lot about?

[aaandy]

my friend likes this guy who is everything. (charming, goodlooking, etc, etc)
this one time she asked him something.. similar to
"Why are you drinking so fast?"
and he took real long to answer.
is this a sign he likes her or something because he cares about what he says in front of her?
she told me he stares at her a lot too LIKE a lot.
i asked him if he liked her and he said maybe.
IMO someone wanna answer please?

He probably does like her assuming besides staring he actually does flirt with your friend. As for the "why are you drinking so fast" he probably didn't know what to say? What kind of question is that anyways? we drink because we are thirsty? i probably would've said some smart ass remark so yeah..

what do guys like to talk w/ girls a lot about?

varies person to person (i know its obvious but its true)

[Stevent]

my friend likes this guy who is everything. (charming, goodlooking, etc, etc)
this one time she asked him something.. similar to
"Why are you drinking so fast?"
and he took real long to answer.
is this a sign he likes her or something because he cares about what he says in front of her?
she told me he stares at her a lot too LIKE a lot.
i asked him if he liked her and he said maybe.
IMO someone wanna answer please?

it's hard to say whether he likes her or not because we usually watch what we say around girls because we dont wanna piss them off and then have them scream at us

[Xyeun]

1) When a guy teases & stares continuously is that a sign that he likes you?
2) When a guy stutters a lot while talking to you until it gets to the point where your conversation is silent, is he uncomfortable?

[han.]

rofl miss Emotions has had a very similar situation to my previous one...i told a guy [who iv always considered to be close - practically my best friend] that i liked him [abt 2 mths ago] on msn cuz i didnt have time to see him alone in person.....and he said he didnt know what to do about me likeing him because hes leaving for overseas soon.....

he also mentioned something abt him nd me both knowing hes a pretty bad bf [ major flirt], so he didnt want to risk hurting me, or sth like that.....however he wasnt exactly clear if hes ever liked me, jut that hes thought abt dating me before [whilst he was with his exs]...

now iv always enjoyed being close to him as a FRIEND, and i said to him even though i needed to get over liking him, i wanted us to talk normally, and for him not to freak out - he said he wouldnt, but after that talking just wasnt as easy anymore....and now we practically are not talking at ALL now - sans general crap when i see him sometimes with other ppl.....why is he doin that? cant be bothered with me anymore? doesnt want to be close anymore[because it could develop into sth else?]? he said he wouldnt ignore me again....>.<[happened in a slightly diff situation 2 years ago]...
p.s i have a thread about this floating somewhere - click my profile if u cbb. hahaha...

it's obvious he's uncomfortable. you said it yourself, after the incident, talking to him wasn't the same. simply because it's really not the same anymore.
once feelings are brought into a platonic relationship, it's gonna go one of two ways. it's either become a couple or watch the friendship sort of wither away if you will. and i'm almost convinced that feelings will be brought into a platonic relationship.
it's tough for both sides, he has to constantly watch out for what he's saying, wonder about whether or not you still like him, and think about what's gonna happen next. you're probably not comfortable talking to him anymore, only because you laid your feelings out on the table. i don't know what you were expecting when you confessed, but it's true that you're the vulnerable one.
basically, it probably won't be the same again. unless the two of you make it crystal clear that all feelings are set aside and will never come up again. even then, i doubt you guys will be as close. ever.

and that, is my opinion based on my personal experience.

[loveof]

He probably does like her assuming besides staring he actually does flirt with your friend. As for the "why are you drinking so fast" he probably didn't know what to say? What kind of question is that anyways? we drink because we are thirsty? i probably would've said some smart ass remark so yeah..
varies person to person (i know its obvious but its true)

he was drinking alcohol.. lol.

[guineapigdi]

I have a male acquaintance who's already in a relationship with a girl but he flirts with me a lot. I normally brush it off because he's known as a flirt. What I've noticed though is that whenever I walk with my guy friends, he stares at them like he hates them. There was this one time where I was depressed about this guy (who's his friend) I liked for not liking me back, he told me that I should find someone else because we don't go together and all of his guy friends told him that he was crazy for not liking me. He also said if he broke up with his gf right now, he'd get with me but I told him that it's not right, because his gf is my friend also. When we first knew each other, he asked me to go hang out with him several times but I always declined since I barely knew him (Plus, he had a gf). My friend told me that he checks me out a lot. Today, when I was walking with my guy friend and I said hi to him, he just ignored me. It's so weird. Sometimes he would seem really happy to greet me but sometimes he would ignore me (Even when he does I act like I don't care). Does he think I'm his little toy for him to practice his flirting with or does he like me?

[Stevent]

I have a male acquaintance who's already in a relationship with a girl but he flirts with me a lot. I normally brush it off because he's known as a flirt. What I've noticed though is that whenever I walk with my guy friends, he stares at them like he hates them. There was this one time where I was depressed about this guy (who's his friend) I liked for not liking me back, he told me that I should find someone else because we don't go together and all of his guy friends told him that he was crazy for not liking me. He also said if he broke up with his gf right now, he'd get with me but I told him that it's not right, because his gf is my friend also. When we first knew each other, he asked me to go hang out with him several times but I always declined since I barely knew him (Plus, he had a gf). My friend told me that he checks me out a lot. Today, when I was walking with my guy friend and I said hi to him, he just ignored me. It's so weird. Sometimes he would seem really happy to greet me but sometimes he would ignore me (Even when he does I act like I don't care). Does he think I'm his little toy for him to practice his flirting with or does he like me?

he likes you, but guys already in a relationship and checking out and flirting with other girls is not worth your time or effort.

[lovinrainydays]

if your boyfriend who dun usually show any emotion cried for you, does that mean he REALLY LOVE you a lot or at least used to love you a lot?

[Stevent]

if your boyfriend who dun usually show any emotion cried for you, does that mean he REALLY LOVE you a lot or at least used to love you a lot?

i would believe so.