[CookSux]

What would possess a guy to suddenly call a girl up after no contact for a few years (say 3) and asking that girl out for coffee/lunch/dinner? Extreme lonliness?? Boredom???

Also, they were never close friends.

I've had this happen to me a few times and it's weird because it's really random but I always turn them down since I can't remember who the heck they are!! Edit: I remember their names but not their face.

One of my friends had this happen to her a few months ago. The guy suddenly sent her an IM after he broke up with his girlfriend and wanted to meet up. Let me tell you, that guy is a total asshat, and horny prick. Sorry to say, but you're probably just rebound meat. But after reading your edit, it may be because they are just desperate.

for me, the more i talk to this best friend, the more i get confused about myself. i have a boyfriend who i love and
cherish... and yet i'm always eager to chat with the best friend. its been eating me up inside. are my feelings caused
by the fact that he is giving me more attention than my boyfriend?

Yes. Not only is this 'best friend" is way out of line. He pulled something I would have done when I was younger, but it's not right to be best friends with your best friend's girlfriend. In fact, it's better to not get too close, cause something's bound to happen. 2nd your BF sounds like what I would do if I didn't like my girlfriend... actually that's exactly what I did when I wanted to get out of my relationship. I just spent time doing jack nothing, and talking less. Man, two asshats in one shot, good job.

@Kevy: Your last two posts are retarded. Just shut up now, since your point is irrelevant.

[han.]

Getting back on topic, I believe this thread is about asking for opinions. I apologize for straying too far off tangent, but I merely did it as a retort. Anyways, Soompi girls, regardless of what people post on this thread, be wary. We're all jackals out to satisfy our carnal pleasures. Some wolves just don't look or sound so dangerous. I myself am one of those hounds, and that's why I'm laying down my two cents. Maybe I'm the only one who isn't so much the nice guy around here.

least we all know this guy doesn't lie. cus there's truth in what he's stated right here.

[*smilez_for_me]

ranie yang or boa?? if u had a choice ofc.............

[Teddy]

ranie yang or boa?? if u had a choice ofc.............

Boa

[lovinrainydays]

can you restate your question because it's unclear.

my question was, if your boyfriend cried for you, it could be just what you said/did touched him at that particdular moment, dont really mean he loves you, is that true?

can guy cry for a girl even if she isnt that important for him?

[Overclocked]

my question was, if your boyfriend cried for you, it could be just what you said/did touched him at that particdular moment, dont really mean he loves you, is that true?

can guy cry for a girl even if she isnt that important for him?

can a girl cry, because some actor on a drama series is going through a tragic event when in reality she is ultra rich with 10 ferraris and a 3 penthouses?

it's a moment thing, guys have a exception to the rule "men don't cry" SOMETIMES.

[moonk379]

my question was, if your boyfriend cried for you, it could be just what you said/did touched him at that particdular moment, dont really mean he loves you, is that true?

can guy cry for a girl even if she isnt that important for him?

well... to me ill never cry for a girl unless she meant A LOT to me so basically she has to be pretty damn important for me to cry for her.

[gurly-yang]

Ok guys, so lets say your ex-girlfriend, who you REALLY liked and you two were together for a while and your whole family knew about her and everything. But she ends up cheating on you and basically screwed you over. But you guys break up and later on you go out with a new girl. And this new girl knows about your ex and your relationship with your ex. But she still worrys that you might be using her to get back at your ex or just using her to try and get your ex jealous. What would you do? Sorry if this is not making any sense. LOL

[MoiraElla]

WHAT DO GUYS MEAN WHEN THEY SAY THEY WANT THE FULL PACKAGE???? O.o

[Blu_Velvet_Sea]

random question:

do you and your friends make bets on girl? Like you know if they can get laid with them!? Do lots of guys do this? I know a few who do this, but just seeing if a lot of guys do this.

[ashes to ashes.]

question-- i have a guy friend. we're pretty close and he's nice. but he always compliments how i look and says how i'm his gf/wife when we bring up topics that aren't even related. i don't like him at all, but i'm just curious if this means anything.
maybe i'm giving off the wrong impression?
thing is-- he does this to all my friends too, because i hear about it from them.

so what's the deal? is he a person whose comments should be ignored? or should those comments be taken seriously?

[Chiisu]

random question:

do you and your friends make bets on girl? Like you know if they can get laid with them!? Do lots of guys do this? I know a few who do this, but just seeing if a lot of guys do this.

Well my friends and I don't do this, although sometimes we joke around about this stuff though but we don't actually do it

question-- i have a guy friend. we're pretty close and he's nice. but he always compliments how i look and says how i'm his gf/wife when we bring up topics that aren't even related. i don't like him at all, but i'm just curious if this means anything.
maybe i'm giving off the wrong impression?
thing is-- he does this to all my friends too, because i hear about it from them.

so what's the deal? is he a person whose comments should be ignored? or should those comments be taken seriously?

I have a friend who does this too except for the fact that he doesn't like any of the girls he does this too but, the girl that he does like he doesn't call her these names. Although i could be wrong im just saying what I've seen

[sillyHO]

what is the best way to initiate a conversation and let a guy know that ur interested? (the guy is VERY shy)

[Stevent]

What I'm saying is that I'm tired of people posting the obvious answer when in reality there are many factors involved in the situation. In this case, you and some other boy said something along the lines of "just brush it off" when there's also the instance of what I mentioned. I never said that what I said was fact, but merely an alternative so the inquirer should be aware. BTW your response is rubbish, as it has nothing to do with anything. No offense, but it's just BS written down and is completely unnecessary.

So what part do you not understand? Since you say that my response is "rubbish" and "has nothing to do with anything". Because of what you experienced in your life time what you thought was to be true, but turned out to be false for may not even exist anymore. But as I said before, you are generalizing, which is a fallacy. The only reason I told her to brush it off was the fact that there are people who tell another person that they love them jokingly. Just because you are tired of people posting obvious answers does not give you the right to say that another person's opinion is wrong. Did I say that your opinion was wrong? No, cause I respect it as I respect everyone else's opinion. What has BS written down on it? The BS I see is your response to the guys on here who give their point of view. The only think I see that was completely unnecessary was to say to the other girl to not listen to our response. If there are alternative motives to the situation, then why say that we were wrong? Clearly you contradicted yourself by saying that.

what is the best way to initiate a conversation and let a guy know that ur interested? (the guy is VERY shy)

First off, say hi to him and then try to get to know him better by asking questions about him. Remember to smile periodically throughout the convo since smiling is contagious.

[xreminisce]

ranie yang or boa?? if u had a choice ofc.............

hahaha

how about hyori or jolin tsai?

[Stevent]

my question was, if your boyfriend cried for you, it could be just what you said/did touched him at that particdular moment, dont really mean he loves you, is that true?

can guy cry for a girl even if she isnt that important for him?

1) There are many instances where a guy can cry whether it is a particular moment or what someone said, guys are capable of crying just as females.

2) I doubt it, there has to be a connection with the girl ie friend, gf, etc....

[khris]

What does it mean when a guy ask you out on a date, and through out the date he been nothing but caring, and stuft. Like saying he like you. His action is bassically want to be close with you. the next day he act like nothing had happen, kind of avoiding you.
does it mean he not interesting anymore, or he take you as in second choice and what not.

[Stevent]

What does it mean when a guy ask you out on a date, and through out the date he been nothing but caring, and stuft. Like saying he like you. His action is bassically want to be close with you. the next day he act like nothing had happen, kind of avoiding you.
does it mean he not interesting anymore, or he take you as in second choice and what not.

He likes you, but he is just letting the situation that had happened the night before sink in before he makes his next move.

[krngirlie89]

1) do guys not like it when girls are obvious about liking them?
cuz i was talking about a guy i liked to my friends and it turned out that he was sitting right behind me...
and my friend said that he had cocked his head when he heard me mention his name
is that not attractive? is it more annoying?

2) would u not like girls who are really expressive about guys?
like girls who always say "omg hes so hot" and being told "gosh who do you like NOW? u like everyone"


3) when a guy gave me a letter saying he liked me, i was really shocked but happy about it
but would guys not like it if a girl wrote them a letter saying that she liked him?

[Stevent]

1) do guys not like it when girls are obvious about liking them?
cuz i was talking about a guy i liked to my friends and it turned out that he was sitting right behind me...
and my friend said that he had cocked his head when he heard me mention his name
is that not attractive? is it more annoying?

2) would u not like girls who are really expressive about guys?
like girls who always say "omg hes so hot" and being told "gosh who do you like NOW? u like everyone"
3) when a guy gave me a letter saying he liked me, i was really shocked but happy about it
but would guys not like it if a girl wrote them a letter saying that she liked him?

1) if the guy likes her back, then it would be a stress reliever for him since then he can go in for the kill. But I rather have a girl tell me she likes me then have her play games.

2) if guys can do it, then girls can too

3) it doesnt matter, as long as you tell him