QUOTE(팥빙수<3 @ May 26 2007, 10:53 PM)
this thread is helpful lol (: me like!
anyways, my question:
theres this dude. we work together by teaching kids. hes 25 and i`m 18. we talk from time to time. hes so friendly and nice and the more i see him working so well with kids and stuff made me interested in him. time passed by, and i started liking him. we have convos everytime theres a break and stuff. i realized one day that i reallllllllllllllly liked him and i really wanna get close to him. but if i say anything about it, i think it`ll be weird iono im new at these things
do guys go for 18 year olds??? iono what to do, i like him a lot seriously. what can i do to get him to "notice" me?
i'm a girl, but i can relate, because i'm "dating" a 24 year old(started a month ago, and I was 17 then), and I just turned 18 two days ago, so I guess we're going to take it seriously.
It really depends on how he sees you honestly. If you act mature enough, he'll most likely see you as a girlfriend material, and not a sister-like. I act too old for my age, so he doesn't see me as a little kid.
QUOTE(Brusky @ May 26 2007, 08:31 PM)
I don't think most guys who go clubbing go to dance.
Hence the reason few of them'll take you up on your offer. Either that or most of them are just too shy/embarrassed to get on the dance floor. True story.
As for those creepy fellas, that's why you need to go with a group of friends; be each others' bail buddies. When some creepy dude starts making his way in, have your buddies just close in and block him out. Worked for me when I used to go with friends.
Haha, why do they go clubbing then? Well, I guess the bar makes up for it. My guy friends hang around the bar, I drag them to the dance floor, but they don't budge. WTH. Dancing with girls are fun and all, but with guys.. it's much more fun? I don't feel like a lesbian that way.
Yeah, I did have a group of friends, but they were in other areas(one group in the 80's room, while I was in the hiphop room with one of my girlfriends, and the guys were at the bar)
As for the creepy guy, I walked to the other side of the floor, and he followed me, like.. how many times? I was wondering if guys were like this? This was my first time after all, and after his fourth attempt, I finally made my way to the bar and told my guy friends.. and pretty much hung around them for the rest of the night, which sucked, 'cause i wanted to dance. I was so tempted to ask one of the strangers that hung around the sides, looking as "cocky".. but i was extremely intimidated, and didn't know what to do, and I didn't want to ask my guy friends how I'm suppose to do this, you know what I mean? yah.
i feel like a newb when it comes to club. wow.
