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#701 User is offline   SwtMsT 

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Posted 28 May 2007 - 09:54 PM

How can a guy can be your best friend, want to sleep with you and spend almost everday with you, but not want to go out with you? What's up with that?

I have more questions but this is all I can think of right now..
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Posted 28 May 2007 - 10:07 PM

QUOTE(dazzleanddestroy @ May 29 2007, 12:49 AM) View Post
what "signs" may a guy use to show he's playing hard to get?

avoiding eye contact, brief convo, etc... but i wouldnt know, i dont play hard to get rolleyes.gif

QUOTE(SwtMsT @ May 29 2007, 12:54 AM) View Post
How can a guy can be your best friend, want to sleep with you and spend almost everday with you, but not want to go out with you? What's up with that?

I have more questions but this is all I can think of right now..

uh that's called friends with benefits.
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Posted 28 May 2007 - 10:09 PM

QUOTE(SwtMsT @ May 28 2007, 10:54 PM) View Post
How can a guy can be your best friend, want to sleep with you and spend almost everday with you, but not want to go out with you? What's up with that?

I have more questions but this is all I can think of right now..


something wrong with this dude.

one possibility (don't know cause we don't know the entire story)

he might be embarrassed of people finding out.
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Posted 28 May 2007 - 10:09 PM

wats a pov can anyone tell me i see ppl say it and i see it around htings
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Posted 28 May 2007 - 10:15 PM

pov? Point of view.

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Posted 28 May 2007 - 10:18 PM

QUOTE(moblastin @ May 28 2007, 11:09 PM) View Post
wats a pov can anyone tell me i see ppl say it and i see it around htings

point of view.


QUOTE(Stevent @ May 28 2007, 11:07 PM) View Post
avoiding eye contact, brief convo, etc... but i wouldnt know, i dont play hard to get rolleyes.gif

haha, that sounds logical enough.
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Posted 28 May 2007 - 10:23 PM

QUOTE(SwtMsT @ May 28 2007, 10:54 PM) View Post
How can a guy can be your best friend, want to sleep with you and spend almost everday with you, but not want to go out with you? What's up with that?

I have more questions but this is all I can think of right now..

he doesn't want to commit.
in a guy's eyes, a friend with benefits > girlfriend.
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Posted 29 May 2007 - 07:41 AM

my question is are all guys oblivious when it comes to girls liking them?


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Posted 29 May 2007 - 09:48 AM

I dunno who to quote soo:
well, just to clarify, we haven't done anything and won't because I'm just not into that...
I was just wondering..I guess it's a commitment thing...that's kind of a jerky thing to do to a friend! And if he's embarassed, he's even more of a jerk haha

Do guys like romantic things or do they think it's kinda lame? (like gf doing nice things like baking cakes or something...)
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Posted 29 May 2007 - 11:18 AM

QUOTE(ms. rachellica @ May 29 2007, 08:41 AM) View Post
my question is are all guys oblivious when it comes to girls liking them?

yes. most guys won't take action based on a hunch anyway. hints do not work on guys.

QUOTE(SwtMsT @ May 29 2007, 10:48 AM) View Post
I dunno who to quote soo:
well, just to clarify, we haven't done anything and won't because I'm just not into that...
I was just wondering..I guess it's a commitment thing...that's kind of a jerky thing to do to a friend! And if he's embarassed, he's even more of a jerk haha

Do guys like romantic things or do they think it's kinda lame? (like gf doing nice things like baking cakes or something...)

i don't know about liking romantic things. i know i would appreciate it.
단 한 번도, 마음을 털어놓지 못했어.
어렸을 때는 용기가 없었고...다 자라서는 왠지 머슥해서...
아니, 그건 아니겠군. 지금 이 순간 에도 그녀를 생각하면 심장이 날뛰니까.
솔직히 이젠 모르겠어. 어떻게 해야 그녀를 위한 길이 될는지...
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Posted 29 May 2007 - 11:47 AM

someone made a thread for this but i just wanted to ask it here.

Why is it that my BF is easily able to express his feelings for me when it is online or through texts...IE saying I love you and stuff like that....but not in person?? hes extremely affectionate with me he just never says "I love you"

Just curious......

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Posted 29 May 2007 - 12:01 PM

QUOTE(Osakagrl @ May 29 2007, 03:47 PM) View Post
someone made a thread for this but i just wanted to ask it here.

Why is it that my BF is easily able to express his feelings for me when it is online or through texts...IE saying I love you and stuff like that....but not in person?? hes extremely affectionate with me he just never says "I love you"

Just curious......


that's because he's a girl.
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Posted 29 May 2007 - 12:20 PM

QUOTE(CookSux @ May 29 2007, 03:01 PM) View Post
that's because he's a girl.

um....what?? blink.gif

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Posted 29 May 2007 - 02:11 PM

QUOTE(Osakagrl @ May 29 2007, 01:20 PM) View Post
um....what?? blink.gif

he's a sissy boy is that easier?
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Posted 29 May 2007 - 02:25 PM

LOL if any one of you gents has the time to read my latest thread will you guys give me a heads up/down on whether you think he's attracted to me or not?
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Posted 29 May 2007 - 02:51 PM

Last Saturday, a close guy friend of mine asked me where he stood on my scale. I told him that he wasn't in the friendzone, but he was "borderline, but leaning towards not being in the friendzone". He said, "It's like people who are in borderline start all over. So that means I'm at the bottom. [long pause] I see how it is."

Today, he wasn't acting like himself. It seemed like he was avoiding me. He didn't wait for me after class like he usually did so that we could go home together. Usually he would rest his arm on my shoulder and he'd tease me and we'd share a lot of laughs. But today... something was off. I felt it.

Can you explain his words/actions to me?
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Posted 29 May 2007 - 03:28 PM

QUOTE(Hatsumi @ May 29 2007, 06:51 PM) View Post
Last Saturday, a close guy friend of mine asked me where he stood on my scale. I told him that he wasn't in the friendzone, but he was "borderline, but leaning towards not being in the friendzone". He said, "It's like people who are in borderline start all over. So that means I'm at the bottom. [long pause] I see how it is."

Today, he wasn't acting like himself. It seemed like he was avoiding me. He didn't wait for me after class like he usually did so that we could go home together. Usually he would rest his arm on my shoulder and he'd tease me and we'd share a lot of laughs. But today... something was off. I felt it.

Can you explain his words/actions to me?

That means his game didn't work, so he just gave up. Don't worry, he's just burned after he came to the realization that his antics aren't up to snuff for your puff.
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Posted 29 May 2007 - 05:51 PM

today me and a couple friends were sitting around talking/ listening to music during 7th pd, and my guy friend (who works at the hospital about 2 min away from my house) says, specifically to me, "hey do you wanna do something on thursday after i get off?" and then my friend goes, "what do YOU wanna do hmmm?" and i was like, "do you mean like a movie or something?" and he says "no, just like, hang out."

does that mean anything? we've never hung out just by ourselves before, like outside of school.

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Posted 29 May 2007 - 05:53 PM

QUOTE(CookSux @ May 29 2007, 04:28 PM) View Post
That means his game didn't work, so he just gave up. Don't worry, he's just burned after he came to the realization that his antics aren't up to snuff for your puff.

Bu that wasn't what I was going for. I thought that by saying that he wasn't in the friendzone, I was hinting that he and I could start something. If you were the guy, would you interpret my words the same way he did?
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Posted 29 May 2007 - 06:01 PM


My bf and I have been dating for nearly 5 months. We both like playing video games a lot (but he plays WAY MORE than I do). He ALWAYS tells me he wants to play this or that game with me, and most of the time we play together. However, I'm not sure if he really means it lol... cause I figure he'd have more fun playing with his guy friends... and also I'm not as good as him in most video games.

So, I was wondering do guys really like to play games with their gfs?? = x

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