[xx_smilez]

Bu that wasn't what I was going for. I thought that by saying that he wasn't in the friendzone, I was hinting that he and I could start something. If you were the guy, would you interpret my words the same way he did?

actually, I interpreted the words the same way you did lol. I think when your friend said about him being in the borderline, and then him being in the bottom... he wanted you to correct him by saying that it's not true etc. therefore, the long pause. but since you didn't say anything, that kind of hurt him, thinking that he really is at the bottom. btw, i'm a girl =]

[rache114]

I'll ask this one just for you...
Why, oh why?!

actually i do the same thing...like at night if i'm at a really exciting spot in a game, i don't wanna stop! it sounds so weird coming from a girl, but yeah i like playing video games^^


i have a question! do guys like slutty girls or do they prefer conservative? (not sure if i spelled that right)

[moblastin]

actually i do the same thing...like at night if i'm at a really exciting spot in a game, i don't wanna stop! it sounds so weird coming from a girl, but yeah i like playing video games^^
i have a question! do guys like slutty girls or do they prefer conservative? (not sure if i spelled that right)

depends on the guy, if the guy just wants pu s s y he will go for slutty easy ones, but if u get a guy who wants a real gf he will prob go for the conservative one. myself i like conservative because i dont like to stick it in somthin thats been used already or so many times =D

[miyavaki]

what if the guy's the one saying "ilikeyou" then avoided you till about 2 or more months comes back saying "hey" ???

[rache114]

depends on the guy, if the guy just wants pu s s y he will go for slutty easy ones, but if u get a guy who wants a real gf he will prob go for the conservative one. myself i like conservative because i dont like to stick it in somthin thats been used already or so many times =D

oooh k^^..well that's something that i never heard before..but sure now i know, thanks for the tip...and i have another question..do guys mind girls with sweaty hands or do you guys just think it's repulsive?

[moblastin]

oooh k^^..well that's something that i never heard before..but sure now i know, thanks for the tip...and i have another question..do guys mind girls with sweaty hands or do you guys just think it's repulsive?

lol why r u nervous all the time? well have u ever shaken hands wit someone who had sweaty hands........... its not a comfortable feeling so no i dont think guys like that hahah unless u find a weird guy who like wet hands pretty weird fetish lol but no i wouldnt recommend sweaty hands

[ohsonice]

well there is this guy that has been my bestfriend since the fourth grade. Last year in the eighth grade we got together and after 4 months we decided to take a break, but still stay bestfriends. At the beginning of this school year we started to sort of start dating again. But then all of a sudden, like within a day, he just stopped calling and talking to me. We were even partners for biology for every lab but now he doesnt even look at me when we are picking partners. I really want to know what went wrong and what was he thinking about...

[moblastin]

what if the guy's the one saying "ilikeyou" then avoided you till about 2 or more months comes back saying "hey" ???

he prob lost interest, or he still likes u and dsnt know how he should come up to you.............. if it was me he prob lost interest

well there is this guy that has been my bestfriend since the fourth grade. Last year in the eighth grade we got together and after 4 months we decided to take a break, but still stay bestfriends. At the beginning of this school year we started to sort of start dating again. But then all of a sudden, like within a day, he just stopped calling and talking to me. We were even partners for biology for every lab but now he doesnt even look at me when we are picking partners. I really want to know what went wrong and what was he thinking about...

lol i think he lost interest .;...... ive done that one time lol he prob saw a flaw in you and it was a big turn off ............ or he is just embarrassed to talk to u again

[ohsonice]

I know that he doesnt like me anymore and I too have moved on but I still want him as a best friend is there anything i can do about it?

[rache114]

lol why r u nervous all the time? well have u ever shaken hands wit someone who had sweaty hands........... its not a comfortable feeling so no i dont think guys like that hahah unless u find a weird guy who like wet hands pretty weird fetish lol but no i wouldnt recommend sweaty hands

it's not that i'm nervous all the time..it's just that my hands sweat just almost everytime..the only times they don't sweat is when it's a cold day or when i'm not thinking about it/ or i'm not really paying attention to me hands...so that just means i'm screwed doesn't it? lol

[SEaCrET_WisH]

Is having a "cute" personality a good thing? I mean, many guys have said this to me, but I'm not quite sure what they mean by this? Can someone expand on this? Thanks!

Ofcourse! it's a compliment....unless u don't like being "cute" and rather be "boring" or somethin. But either way it's a compliment....haha
i think it means ur nice, funny, fun to be with, makes them laugh. Ur personality is unique from others...a bit dorky..
It may be the way u laugh, giggle, stumble and fall in a cute and clumsy way <<if that makes n e sense..haha, the way u react to something, or the way u talk

someone correct me if i'm wrong...

[meringue]

actually, I interpreted the words the same way you did lol. I think when your friend said about him being in the borderline, and then him being in the bottom... he wanted you to correct him by saying that it's not true etc. therefore, the long pause. but since you didn't say anything, that kind of hurt him, thinking that he really is at the bottom. btw, i'm a girl =]

I see, I see. Thank you so much for providing insight into the problem! It's good to have another perspective.

[bhebie9]

chose... a hot/pretty gurl that gives u no sex vs. average girl that does give u sex.....

That's a good question.. I wanna knoe..

why would a guy avoid you & stop talking to you after you told him "i like you"??

My guy bestfriend told me that they're afraid to hurt your feelings cuz they don't feel the same..

Whatever! I told my bestfriend that I used to think he's hott and he's like "Yeah... I'm so fly eh?" =_=; what a conceited ass!

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I have a question

Do guys have man crushes?

You knoe.. like girls sometimes have a crush on another girl.. but not sexually.. like.. you just adore that girl because she has a nice body, personality.. blah blah blah..

I just wanna knoe if guys have that too..

[Stevent]

when a guy keeps looking at you does that mean he likes u?

more in depth, when u sort of were talkin to a guy and u too were really close and stuff, and then he screws it up without knowing it and u ignor him and thats how he acts.

what does that mean. does it mean he still likes u?

this question has been answered countless times, if he llooks at you periodically, yes that means he likes you.
You ignored his mistake so he took it as a sign that you accepted that kind of behavior.

what if the guy's the one saying "ilikeyou" then avoided you till about 2 or more months comes back saying "hey" ???

well it kinda depends on how the situation took place after he said that.

I know that he doesnt like me anymore and I too have moved on but I still want him as a best friend is there anything i can do about it?

It will be hard, but not impossible

I have a question

Do guys have man crushes?

You knoe.. like girls sometimes have a crush on another girl.. but not sexually.. like.. you just adore that girl because she has a nice body, personality.. blah blah blah..

I just wanna knoe if guys have that too..

Guys do not check out other guys.

[A-I-Z-A]

Whatever! I told my bestfriend that I used to think he's hott and he's like "Yeah... I'm so fly eh?" =_=; what a conceited ass!

lol... at least he's being cool about it

This reminds me of the song "this is why I'm hot"

[kylie91]

Yes, I have a question: WARNING. SORRY KINDA LONG


!!!!!!!!OPINION DESPERATELY NEEDED ON THIS!!!!!!!!!!

Hello everyone. I am junior in high school and I recently wrote to a guy I've had feelings for for 2 years. You see, we never went out, but we sure went through a lot. He had already established that I was too young for him ??? (He's 17, and I'm 15, I don't see the big difference.) For the past 2 years, he's been playing mind games. For example, this year I decided to try to move on and I ended up liking someone else. Then earlier in the year, he comes out of nowhere talking about it to his friend for 20 minutes (literally) about why I would like this guy, he's not my type, etc.... I thought he was over the whole thing so it really confused me. Recently, (2 weeks ago) in my moment of anger and confusion, I wrote him a letter explaining how he's really upset me and that he needs to stop being like this. My friend who is also friends with him gave him the letter when he was at a dinner with her and some of her other friends. Well, she says he took the letter and secluded himself from everyone and read it. Then, he left, comes back 1 hour later and starts asking questions about it to my friend. He finally said, "Fine! You know what?!! If she writes me a letter, I'm going to write her one too!!" *And storms off* Apparently, my friend saw him writing me a letter and he said I was supposed to get by the end of the week. Well, I never got the letter. It upsets me that I never got one back after expressing my feelings. He had said, why hadn't I talked to him about it? The whole point why I wrote it was to avoid any awkward/nervousness. And now, my friend says she was at his house and saw my note in one of his open drawers. She asked, "Is that Kylie's note?" and he was like, "Yes."

So, I am wondering why he never wrote back and yet has kept my note in his drawer without responding to it? What does this mean?

[bhebie9]

lol... at least he's being cool about it

This reminds me of the song "this is why I'm hot"

=_=; I'm used to my bestfriend being like that... but he said that WAYYY back before that song came out! LOL!

But yeah.. My bestfriend really is hott but he's a player. T_T

I just don't know why some guys treat girls like they're some kind of trophy.

And he keeps showing off to me how many girls he's "done" =_=; I dun need to knoe...

[Mui]

That's really annoying.

stop with the msn thing. i would think you were a stalker or something.
start by saying hi and work your way up from there. all you need to do is break the ice. regardless of if he's shy or not.

i spoke to him before in person a couple of times and he already does know who i am and my name.
sorry i didn't mention that earlier
im not approaching him on msn out of no where as a stranger, cause thats kinda scary.
im just wondering if it would be better if i took initiative to talk to him more.
cause i heard some guys don't like girls approaching them first.
thanks.

[Stevent]

Yes, I have a question: WARNING. SORRY KINDA LONG
!!!!!!!!OPINION DESPERATELY NEEDED ON THIS!!!!!!!!!!

Hello everyone. I am junior in high school and I recently wrote to a guy I've had feelings for for 2 years. You see, we never went out, but we sure went through a lot. He had already established that I was too young for him ??? (He's 17, and I'm 15, I don't see the big difference.) For the past 2 years, he's been playing mind games. For example, this year I decided to try to move on and I ended up liking someone else. Then earlier in the year, he comes out of nowhere talking about it to his friend for 20 minutes (literally) about why I would like this guy, he's not my type, etc.... I thought he was over the whole thing so it really confused me. Recently, (2 weeks ago) in my moment of anger and confusion, I wrote him a letter explaining how he's really upset me and that he needs to stop being like this. My friend who is also friends with him gave him the letter when he was at a dinner with her and some of her other friends. Well, she says he took the letter and secluded himself from everyone and read it. Then, he left, comes back 1 hour later and starts asking questions about it to my friend. He finally said, "Fine! You know what?!! If she writes me a letter, I'm going to write her one too!!" *And storms off* Apparently, my friend saw him writing me a letter and he said I was supposed to get by the end of the week. Well, I never got the letter. It upsets me that I never got one back after expressing my feelings. He had said, why hadn't I talked to him about it? The whole point why I wrote it was to avoid any awkward/nervousness. And now, my friend says she was at his house and saw my note in one of his open drawers. She asked, "Is that Kylie's note?" and he was like, "Yes."

So, I am wondering why he never wrote back and yet has kept my note in his drawer without responding to it? What does this mean?

He did write the letter but never sent it out to you. The reason why he didnt was because he didnt want to hurt you with something that he might have wrote. It means that he still wants to be your friend but you took his convo with his friend the different way. He said as a friend that the guy that you were interested in was not your type. Sometimes friends know more aobut you then you think. He wasnt playing any mind games, if he did, you guys wouldve been together by now.

[sweetl0ve]

han., moonk379, CookSux thank you so much~~ ^____________^