[Contour]

^ o well wat if he looks at me and just smiles.

If he's been doing this constantly, then yes I presume he finds you physically attractive. When you look at him, and he smiles; it's a sign that he either wants to talk to you or is gathering up the courage to do so, but for now he's sitting there hoping you make the first move most likely. He seems rather shy, and sometimes girls do have to take the initiative with these types of guys, because if you don't they'll never find a strong enough reason to just come up to you and talk to you. If you do find this guy attractive, either go talk to him or make yourself available to talk to. He could just be nervous about what he wants to say to you when he first engages you in a conversation.

[SUPERGURRL]

^lol thankss

[fashion_love']

okay, i just saaw this thread and i want to ask this question, but to lazy to go through every page to see if this question was asked..

what do guys like/love (in general;gifts) and what is important to them?? .. (exapmles: family? education? their future?)

[dancesakura]

i was wonderin.. do you guys still want to spend time wit ur gfs (just for a lil bit..) even if u were workin 7 days a week, get home late n have to get ready for bed once u get home..or so..?? i think i kno wat ur answers will be..but i just wanted to ask anyways...

[CookSux]

i was wonderin.. do you guys still want to spend time wit ur gfs (just for a lil bit..) even if u were workin 7 days a week, get home late n have to get ready for bed once u get home..or so..?? i think i kno wat ur answers will be..but i just wanted to ask anyways...

It depends on how much I like the girl. If I want her to break up with me, I'd be more dedicated to my own life and tell her that I don't have time for her. But also, when I am in that situation, I do really want my own rest time and want to be left alone. Girls are too selfish sometimes.

[Contour]

i was wonderin.. do you guys still want to spend time wit ur gfs (just for a lil bit..) even if u were workin 7 days a week, get home late n have to get ready for bed once u get home..or so..?? i think i kno wat ur answers will be..but i just wanted to ask anyways...

Well, like you described, the guy is getting up, going to work, then going to bed. If this poses a problem for you because he's not giving you the attention you desire, then you should promptly voice your feelings to him and tell him that you would like it if he made some time in his day to at least call you or come over even for an hour. If he feels that this is too much of a task for him then maybe he's not ready to have a serious relationship with someone at this time. In a serious relationship you must commit time into your partner to keep that bond between you two, in order to let each other know that you guys can talk to each other about your problems. However you have to find the balance between being too needy, and him having no time for you.

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okay, i just saaw this thread and i want to ask this question, but to lazy to go through every page to see if this question was asked..

what do guys like/love (in general;gifts) and what is important to them?? .. (exapmles: family? education? their future?)

That's a real broad question to just ask one guy, but to best answer it in a response from my perspective: Most guys love it when you buy them clothes, but not just what you think would look good on him, but something that matches the trend of clothes that he wears, key here is to be observant in what his quirks are.

As for what's most important to him. Well that's an even broader question, many guys are different in their own way. Again, be observant; if you're dating the guy learn what he puts before alot of things. Some guys grew up in a very close knit family and to them family is priority over school, education, etc. Some guys however were born into a family full of problems, i.e: divorces, trust issues, etc., and to them, most likely a significant other, or friends play a key role in their life. Then there are those guys that set their mind on education for many reasons, however one of them being " girls are a dime a dozen, i'll find one when i get into my career. " Or they come from a very strict family where having a girlfriend isn't allowed or very frowned upon. These are all the possibilities and then some.

[CookSux]

Well, like you described, the guy is getting up, going to work, then going to bed. If this poses a problem for you because he's not giving you the attention you desire, then you should promptly voice your feelings to him and tell him that you would like it if he made some time in his day to at least call you or come over even for an hour. If he feels that this is too much of a task for him then maybe he's not ready to have a serious relationship with someone at this time. In a serious relationship you must commit time into your partner to keep that bond between you two, in order to let each other know that you guys can talk to each other about your problems. However you have to find the balance between being too needy, and him having no time for you.

How old are you guys btw?

[bhebie9]

One thing girls can do that fits the general answer to a guys insecurity, would probably be when another guy is around your girlfriend, or when you're on a date with your boyfriend and another guy that is decent/ goodlooking+ walks by. The best way to diffuse this situation with most boyfriends is, give him a kiss on the cheeks or hug him given the situation. It's one of the quickest and easiest ways to reassure him that even a hot guy isn't enough to divert your attention.

Awwww.... I'd keep that in mind! It's that easy eh? well that happens to girls too..

[o1_b4by]

i have two questions... if its been answered already just say so

1) What do guys think about girls who had a lot of boyfriends? Do they lose interest in her because of that and think shes a hoe?
2) Would guys really get to know a girl in order to meet the girls best friend? And if so, how do you know they are using you like that?

thanks

[moonk379]

i have two questions... if its been answered already just say so

1) What do guys think about girls who had a lot of boyfriends? Do they lose interest in her because of that and think shes a hoe?
2) Would guys really get to know a girl in order to meet the girls best friend? And if so, how do you know they are using you like that?

thanks

1) i really dont care if she had a lot of bf's as long as she dont bring them up.
2) yeah some guys would do that. and i think you should be able to tell when your best friend is around when you and him is hangin around. just keep a watch on him.

[Contour]

Awwww.... I'd keep that in mind! It's that easy eh? well that happens to girls too..

Most girls tend to overthink a guys feelings most of the time, making it hard for them to comprehend what's going through a guys mind, thus frustrating them in the process. However you'd be surprised at how easy it is to reassure a guy. A simple motion such as a kiss / hug is enough to tell them alot of things when they're feeling down or when they've had a bad day, or just feeling insecure. Sometimes the initial reaction you expect won't come right after the kiss, but it'll linger in his mind and after he feels better, he'll remember the kiss you gave him when he felt like everything wasn't going his way. Because some guys sometimes just don't want to talk about what's wrong or they will when they feel better about it. Just you letting him know you're there to confide in when he needs it will be the best thing for him.

1) What do guys think about girls who had a lot of boyfriends? Do they lose interest in her because of that and think shes a hoe?
2) Would guys really get to know a girl in order to meet the girls best friend? And if so, how do you know they are using you like that?

1.)Me personally, I prefer a girl with a little experience under her belt, as in relationship wise, not 'in the bed' wise. I'd rather slim my chances of her possibly wanting to "meet new people" couple years deep into our relationship.

2.)One of the most obvious signs is if he's constantly asking what she's doing, where she is, etc. Anything to do with her that he keeps trying to dig more information out of. However if he's somewhat smarter than blatantly asking you for answers on your best friend, he could be using you to get closer to your friend when he makes excuses to meet up with her with you. Or the fact that he talks to her on the phone using you as an excuse to have a reason to talk to her. One way to find out is talk to your friend and see if this guy has done or said anything to remotely signal anything more than just talk. However trust should be a main component in all healthy relationships.

[Stevent]

i have two questions... if its been answered already just say so

1) What do guys think about girls who had a lot of boyfriends? Do they lose interest in her because of that and think shes a hoe?
2) Would guys really get to know a girl in order to meet the girls best friend? And if so, how do you know they are using you like that?

thanks

1) it doesnt really matter, if I like her, my interest in her would not be affected in any way due to the amount of bf's she had in the past; unless the reason they broke up is similar throughout each relationship.

2) Whatever method works to get her.

[ms. rachellica]

what if after like 2 weeks of ur bf not calling you, he finally calls. nd his reason? he's bored nd he felt that we haven't talked in a while. what does that mean?

[Stevent]

what if after like 2 weeks of ur bf not calling you, he finally calls. nd his reason? he's bored nd he felt that we haven't talked in a while. what does that mean?

he's bored and he feels that he has neglected the relationship a bit.

[Babi_T]

Once again, BIG THANKS to all the guys who provide answers as best as they can!


So here are mine:


1.What's your favorite part of err.. sex with an actual girlfriend?
I mean, is it foreplay, the actual intercourse or the bonding after?


2. Sex while there are people in the house? Yay or nay?


3. If you're the kind of guy who goes clubbing but just stand around the girls without any intention of hitting on them, WHY do you go?


4. Hardest thing to get used to after moving out of home? (Since for girls, I think it'd be separating themselves from the family..)


Unfortunately, I don't have any "does he like me?" questions for you
Thanks a bunch! =D

[Contour]

what if after like 2 weeks of ur bf not calling you, he finally calls. nd his reason? he's bored nd he felt that we haven't talked in a while. what does that mean?

I usually don't get very aggressive when I try to offer some helpful advice, but this guy and the guy who impregnated his ex g/fs aunt takes the cake. It honestly makes me want to say exactly what I say here.

It means you promptly give him the boot, and tell him you guys are done. In my honest opinion, there is no reason anyone should not get a call from their boy/girl friend for two weeks, then proceed to call and say "I was just bored, and thought we should just talk a little." I would be more than happy to lay this guy out for you with a nicely corked baseball bat to the head. Maybe then he'll snap to his senses than to treat another human being who has authentic feelings for him like last weeks trash.

Regardless of how this guy treats you though, one thing is important here, and that's the fact that you're not trash, and you deserve better. You just happened to be at the wrong place, at the wrong time even meeting someone like this in your lifetime.

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Once again, BIG THANKS to all the guys who provide answers as best as they can!


So here are mine:


1.What's your favorite part of err.. sex with an actual girlfriend?
I mean, is it foreplay, the actual intercourse or the bonding after?


2. Sex while there are people in the house? Yay or nay?


3. If you're the kind of guy who goes clubbing but just stand around the girls without any intention of hitting on them, WHY do you go?


4. Hardest thing to get used to after moving out of home? (Since for girls, I think it'd be separating themselves from the family..)

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1. A favorite part of mine would probably have to have been the fact that she was a beautiful yet cute girl, very fun to be around, and been the only one that actually understood me as a whole and my sense of humor. However sexually, i guess the best way to put this without getting too explicit would be a quote from a song : "Lady in the streets, but a freak in the sheets."

2. Whatever you're into, whether it excites you that there are other people in the house, or the thought of getting caught, fuels alot of peoples sex drives. It's all part of experimenting and finding your niche and what works for you two.

3. I personally dislike the whole clubbing scene, however some guys do go for the 'eye candy', if you don't know what that means, basically a guy goes to see all the hot girls, but either is not interested in a relationship with them cause they seem them as "party girls", or is just too nervous and feels comfortable observing from a distance.

4. A guys privacy.

[The Conductor]

well dat sux doesnt it

Another question: just say u got 2 gals after u, u like both.... what do guys do??

Wrong, there is one that we always like the most, even twins aren't that identical hehe.

IMO the guy wont choose cos he can have the best of both worlds, am i right?

Thats true some of us are skillful enough to manage to girls at once without getting caught, but that won't last long he will have to choose one unless both girls agree to be with him.

and what does he realli mean when he wants to be friends with everyone?

Do you mean the two girls, if that so, he doesn't like any of them.

what if after like 2 weeks of ur bf not calling you, he finally calls. nd his reason? he's bored nd he felt that we haven't talked in a while. what does that mean?

That mean you need to step up and renew his interest, if he calls you because he is bored well it simply means that he is losing interest well do what you gotta do.

[CookSux]

1.What's your favorite part of err.. sex with an actual girlfriend?
I mean, is it foreplay, the actual intercourse or the bonding after?
2. Sex while there are people in the house? Yay or nay?
3. If you're the kind of guy who goes clubbing but just stand around the girls without any intention of hitting on them, WHY do you go?
4. Hardest thing to get used to after moving out of home? (Since for girls, I think it'd be separating themselves from the family..)
Unfortunately, I don't have any "does he like me?" questions for you
Thanks a bunch! =D

1) Finishing
2) Never had to worry about that.
3) The last few years I feel as if I'm too old to go clubbing, so I don't really go unless my friends provoke me. But I try to be a good sport about it and enjoy myself.
4) Cooking for yourself.

[LisaFace]

Okay I have a few questions
1. Why do guys start to lose interest in their girlfriends when they have been together for a long while and yet the girl is still interested in the guy?
2. Why is it when guys start acting like gentlemen during the beginning of the relationship then start treating you like crap after a while?
3. Why do you get angry when we have guy friends and they are strictly just "friends?"

so yeah those are my questions

[The Conductor]

Once again, BIG THANKS to all the guys who provide answers as best as they can!
So here are mine

1.What's your favorite part of err.. sex with an actual girlfriend?
I mean, is it foreplay, the actual intercourse or the bonding after?

The last 10 seconds of the actual sex, nothing beats that.

2. Sex while there are people in the house? Yay or nay?

Nay, people will screw up the mood and everything.

3. If you're the kind of guy who goes clubbing but just stand around the girls without any intention of hitting on them, WHY do you go?

Well some dudes go there to because out of habit, and boredom, well there is no point staying around girls if you don't talk to them.
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. Hardest thing to get used to after moving out of home? (Since for girls, I think it'd be separating themselves from the family..)
Unfortunately, I don't have any "does he like me?" questions for you

The hardest thing is doing chores that girls usually do, that plus cooking.

You're welcome.

Okay I have a few questions

1. Why do guys start to lose interest in their girlfriends when they have been together for a long while and yet the girl is still interested in the guy?

There can be multiple reasons one is that he has other girls giving him what she doesn't.

2. Why is it when guys start acting like gentlemen during the beginning of the relationship then start treating you like crap after a while?

This question can go both ways , women do that as well, it all depends on the relationship, like the first question he does not love her.

3. Why do you get angry when we have guy friends and they are strictly just "friends?"

We don't get angry we just precautious, unless the guy is your family the opposite attract rule is always in effect remember that.