[mal3ficum]

if a guy likes you would he try to make you jealous? o-o
and would he lie to make you jealous? =/

because he told me he hoped he made me jealous O_O sooooo i dont know.

[woaini715]

im wondering...are guys more likely to date female friends or other girls?

[cutekrngurl12]

how is a girl suppose to tell a guy she lykes him ?
lyke there`s this guy that i lyke [kina a lot =x]
`nd i wanna just at least tell him i lyke him be4 he goes to a diff school [we`re going to diff schools] `nd towards lyke the last half of the year we got pretty close buh i don`t know a way to tell him that i lyke him .
it`s kina awkward if i just walk up to him `nd go "i lyke you"
suggestions ?

[CookSux]

im wondering...are guys more likely to date female friends or other girls?

I think that depends. At this age, I'd rather date strangers. I have too many female friends, and I usually put the ones I'm less attracted to in that 'friend' category, otherwise It's all fair play.

[cleo]

Shohin wrote "games to guys = clothes/shoes to girls? "
Damn I never considered it that way °_° That actually makes sense, I couldn't go on living without shopping lol.
Too bad guys usually play at night while we girls are shopping in the day^^

[dancesakura]

It depends on how much I like the girl. If I want her to break up with me, I'd be more dedicated to my own life and tell her that I don't have time for her. But also, when I am in that situation, I do really want my own rest time and want to be left alone. Girls are too selfish sometimes.

Well, like you described, the guy is getting up, going to work, then going to bed. If this poses a problem for you because he's not giving you the attention you desire, then you should promptly voice your feelings to him and tell him that you would like it if he made some time in his day to at least call you or come over even for an hour. If he feels that this is too much of a task for him then maybe he's not ready to have a serious relationship with someone at this time. In a serious relationship you must commit time into your partner to keep that bond between you two, in order to let each other know that you guys can talk to each other about your problems. However you have to find the balance between being too needy, and him having no time for you.

yeahh..i understand wat u guys r sayin.. i was suppose to go to my bf's place yesterday but i felt like...i was goin to disturb him n cut ino his restin time..so yea.. plus dere was no one home to watch my nephew..so i couldnt go anyway.. but wen i talked to him online..he told me dat he got the other job he applied for n hes takin the weekend off n startin monday.. so im goin to his place today.. im not sure if hes gonna be workin 7 days a week or not.. he didnt mention anything about dat..

but anyway..thanks for answerin my questions..^^;;;;;

[predator]

if a guy tell you that he likes you & asks you to go out with him
but you don't want to.
what should you say to not hurt his feelings?
i mean.. you're gonna hurt his feelings no matter what
but how do you do it in the least painful way? O_O

[meringue]

If a girl tells you she likes you and you like her also, what would make you hesitate or prevent you from asking her out?

[MMMILKII]

Guys can u give us girls about 5 or more things that YOU want US to know. The things that most guys generally think that all girls need to comprehend and drill into their heads or something.

Make a list and explanation please!

[miss sweetie]

Ok, this guy in my class makes a lot of eye contact with me. And sometimes when I'm not looking like at him, I can feel like he's looking at me.

um, what is that supposed to mean? lol is there like something in my nose or like a huge pimple?
haha im pretty sure i dont have boogers there every day though. lol


please and thanks <3 :]

[Contour]

Guys can u give us girls about 5 or more things that YOU want US to know. The things that most guys generally think that all girls need to comprehend and drill into their heads or something.

Make a list and explanation please!

*This is specifically for serious relationships and is directed towards being the age/mature to start dating seriously.

#1Your best guy friend can very well be your boyfriend.

Let me elaborate; If you've ever had a best friend that was a guy, that you talk to on the phone just to talk, or talk about yours/his problems, spend time with, go eat with, hang out frequently with, isn't that what you technically do with a boyfriend? As the relationship goes on and on of being 'best friends' in MOST cases, one or the other will start to develop feelings of more than just a friend.
It can be because they can trust you with their problems, or become comfortable with you, or just see you as a part of their daily life that they live. I've had a best friend that was a girl, she ended up having feelings for me, and for some odd reason; we stopped talking. A year or so later, I talked to her again and she admit that she started to develop feelings for me even though that whole time I was thinking of her as just a friend and the thought of her even liking me as a guy was almost impossible to me, yet it happened.

#2Don't wear away the bond that you're very well trying to build.

Stop being afraid that your boyfriend will get angry, so you hide your daily activities, or that you went out with a guy friend, etc. This can betray your boyfriends trust very easily. What you need to do is stop being afraid of him getting mad and tell him as you do it. And what he can do is learn to handle the fact that you do go out with friends, you do want some 'me-time.' However about the hanging out with a guy friend, tell him indefinitely, because he will feel less threatened as opposed to not telling him and finding out, or you telling him after a couple days, making him think; why didn't she tell me; and whatever your reason or however good of a reason it may be, he might not be able to help but feel threatened, often causing anger/jealousy. Also this applies to #1 as well.

#3Don't play mind games.

We are not telepathic, nor would we want to be if we had the choice to. To know and listen to all the thoughts thats going through your head would be rather unpleasant. (vice versa, for girls). Communicate your thoughts to us, and your needs. We have alot of useless and (believe it or not) important things to us going through our minds. Key here is to not expect so much from us and tell us about all your disappointments, but don't expect absolutely nothing where you insult him. Don't purposely toy with the guys feelings by making him feel insecure on purpose. He discloses his feelings to you, and information about him not so you can manipulate him, but to be considerate for them.

#4Stop trying to be the guy.

Maybe some guys like having the girl wear the pants in the relationship, but not me, and not ever. The thing that bugs me the most about this is, we can understand the whole independent woman side, as a matter of fact it's a turn on for me to see a girl who can take care of herself, however to not know when to turn that personality off and be a lady for your man can be very bothersome. Now, when I say "be a lady", I don't mean lay there and act helpless. But let the guy know that you still see him as the man in the relationship. We don't need two guys in this relationship, if we wanted that, we probably would have gone for an actual guy.

[Laxntiga]

Ok, this guy in my class makes a lot of eye contact with me. And sometimes when I'm not looking like at him, I can feel like he's looking at me.

um, what is that supposed to mean? lol is there like something in my nose or like a huge pimple?
haha im pretty sure i dont have boogers there every day though. lol
please and thanks <3 :]

He is checking out the goods. If he does it for a while, but doesn't say anything, it means he's too shy to come up to you and talk to you. He knows he's caught, so next time when he stares either give him a menacing look, or smile and wave.

How does it feel to date a girl who is inexperienced with relationship? She's quite.. NEW?

I feel like manipulating her and making her do things she's not really supposed to be doing. I want to push her buttons and see how far she can go before her conscience says "OH CRAP, WENT TOO FAR" or.... "WTH AM I DOING?!!" then coax her and try to get her to continue the behavior.

If a girl tells you she likes you and you like her also, what would make you hesitate or prevent you from asking her out?

If there is a prettier girl that we are working on at the same time we already know you like us, we will want to wait until the hotter girl gives us a reaction or reply.

[Laxntiga]

why are you guys so perverted sometimes? like sometimes my bf jokes around about "doing it", does that mean he want to O__O like he always mention it....but he's joking around so idk

Yes we are perverts. We think about sex almost 90% of the time. Every six seconds we think about doing it.

thanks for answering my question
i have another.....

when guys have girls as best friend, whats the percentage of chance that they actually went out/liked each other/etc? would he have feelings for her?

I would say 100% we thought about the girl as a gf or at least sleeping with her.

Is it normal for a guy to be really nice to a girl but sometimes just all of a sudden be quite offensive and then back to normal again?

Yes, because we are getting preturbed we aren't getting any returns out of being nice and cooperative.

if a guy likes you would he try to make you jealous? o-o
and would he lie to make you jealous? =/

because he told me he hoped he made me jealous O_O sooooo i dont know.

Yes we would, we do it in order for you to make us "want us" we are using the theory "you want what you do not have". If you cannot have us anymore, you get reinterested, so therefore the jealousy tactic works, most of the time, unless the person is extremely tired of the game and tired of you, OR has something better and doesn't even have a HINT of wanting the other party back.

im wondering...are guys more likely to date female friends or other girls?

Doesn't matter, we will date what we can take back home. We are animals.

if a guy tell you that he likes you & asks you to go out with him
but you don't want to.
what should you say to not hurt his feelings?
i mean.. you're gonna hurt his feelings no matter what
but how do you do it in the least painful way? O_O

"I am going to be honest and frank, I dont want to lead you on or leave you with any other misconceptions. I have another person in mind, im sorry I am not interested in you as of the moment. WOW! DID YOU SEE SALLY TODAY? Her mini skirt was HOT! I saw her last [insert close by location]."

Guys can u give us girls about 5 or more things that YOU want US to know. The things that most guys generally think that all girls need to comprehend and drill into their heads or something.

Make a list and explanation please!

We like beer = it makes us feel different usually... extremely sad, happy or fun or a mix of both. We use it for the same purposes women use it.... blame the alcohol!

We like food = makes us feel full and helps us keep moving along.

We like sports = its fun for us, we love competition. Girls love going shopping, leave it be.

We like money, power = it helps us do what we want, aids in the process and attracts women. What woman isn't attracted to power and/or wealth? Girls want the TOP DOG or the BEST MAN, not the 2nd place guy, no consolation prize for them, they only want the best. Its ingrained in their brains, breed with the top dog and higher % chance of their children surviving and continuing on to reproduce the human species.

We like scantly dressed women = See beer and reason above. Better fit, better looking, more attractive....... physically appleaing woman = better chance of children surviving and obtaining physical attributes necessary for survivial...... good genes = prettier children = sequence keeps going, you get the idea.

[JESS.]

One day, I was on the phone with my boyfriend, and I told him I wanted to sleep. He wanted me to stay on the phone, but i persisted to go to sleep because it's late for me. Then he text me saying:

Sometimes I think I sacrifice too much of my time and money for you. I am not saying I regret it, but all I ask is sometimes you do the same for me. If you can't then maybe I should just ignore you, and do what I NEED OR WANT sometimes... If you had notice, that is why I was mad at times this past week. Don't take this personally, I just want to tell you before I explode one day. Cause if you remember, we made a pact to tell each other anything...

SO... I thought I did a lot for him (I even did his homework a couple times...). When he was sick, I made him lemonade. I think I do a lot for him, but is that not what he wants? Does he want something else.. like attention? I didn't think guys need attention..

[Contour]

One day, I was on the phone with my boyfriend, and I told him I wanted to sleep. He wanted me to stay on the phone, but i persisted to go to sleep because it's late for me. Then he text me saying:

Sometimes I think I sacrifice too much of my time and money for you. I am not saying I regret it, but all I ask is sometimes you do the same for me. If you can't then maybe I should just ignore you, and do what I NEED OR WANT sometimes... If you had notice, that is why I was mad at times this past week. Don't take this personally, I just want to tell you before I explode one day. Cause if you remember, we made a pact to tell each other anything...

SO... I thought I did a lot for him (I even did his homework a couple times...). When he was sick, I made him lemonade. I think I do a lot for him, but is that not what he wants? Does he want something else.. like attention? I didn't think guys need attention..

Most guys love the attention. They act like they don't, but who doesn't love a girl who treats you like you're the only one for them.

[xx_princess]

There's this guy and he like stares at me everyday at school. One of my friends sits next to him and whenever I talk to my friend he listens to me instead of doing whatever he does and most people dont listen to the person talking unless the person is talking to them. He also stands next to me after school whenever I wait for my friend, but he doesn't talk to me or anything he just walks over and stands next to me. 0_o And like if he does something embarrassing he looks at me and blushes. He also follows me sometimes, like if i'm walking down the stairs in school he's always behind me. He doesn't talk to me AT ALL though. Does he like me or something? @_@

And he's very talkative and stuff. He's like one of the most popular guys and he's like friends with everyone.

And once his friend was like "[His name here] wants to talk to you!"

Are these signs?

[miss ambrosia x3]

i find some of thse questions extremely entertaining. especially the ones that are.. completely.. obvious.

anyways.

i got to page 11. and read the last page. to try to see if my question was not asked. it wasnt. i think. i tended to skip over the ones that were a paragraph long. anyways.

1) do guys notice when theyre being checked out? because, i do it a lot. and. im curious.

2) big butt, or big boobs. hmmm, im pretty sure that this must have be asked somewhere within these 44 pages, but.. its 44 pages. 0_0

3) this one is personal. ill try to cut it short. so theres this guy that i stare at a lot (see #1) because hes so hot! and he found out. and tried to talk to me. and i ran away. literally. but im still infatuated with him, and its pretty obvious that i am, because.. everyone knows. i know you guys are no mind reader, but if you were this guy, whats going through your head right now concerning me and my actions? i have a feeling the answer is going to be a harsh one...

[Contour]

i find some of thse questions extremely entertaining. especially the ones that are.. completely.. obvious.

anyways.

i got to page 11. and read the last page. to try to see if my question was not asked. it wasnt. i think. i tended to skip over the ones that were a paragraph long. anyways.

1) do guys notice when theyre being checked out? because, i do it a lot. and. im curious.

2) big butt, or big boobs. hmmm, im pretty sure that this must have be asked somewhere within these 44 pages, but.. its 44 pages. 0_0

3) this one is personal. ill try to cut it short. so theres this guy that i stare at a lot (see #1) because hes so hot! and he found out. and tried to talk to me. and i ran away. literally. but im still infatuated with him, and its pretty obvious that i am, because.. everyone knows. i know you guys are no mind reader, but if you were this guy, whats going through your head right now concerning me and my actions? i have a feeling the answer is going to be a harsh one...

1. Yes, unless he's very slow. Or he's concentrating on something at hand.

2. All depends on the guy, some guys love a little of both, then some guys love a LOT of both.

3. He probably feels stupid/embarrassed that he came to talk to you and you actually ran away from him. Personally I would feel very awkward in that situation, and probably not talk until you approached me about it. What you should do is probably apologize to him and explain the situation, and that you got very nervous. He'll most likely think it's cute or weird.

[JESS.]

Most guys love the attention. They act like they don't, but who doesn't love a girl who treats you like you're the only one for them.

So you think my guy wants more attention? Like... How? How do I give more attention? Sometimes.. I feel like if I do so much for him, I would want to expect something. Expectations lead to disappointments

[Laxntiga]

i find some of thse questions extremely entertaining. especially the ones that are.. completely.. obvious.

anyways.

i got to page 11. and read the last page. to try to see if my question was not asked. it wasnt. i think. i tended to skip over the ones that were a paragraph long. anyways.

1) do guys notice when theyre being checked out? because, i do it a lot. and. im curious.

2) big butt, or big boobs. hmmm, im pretty sure that this must have be asked somewhere within these 44 pages, but.. its 44 pages. 0_0

3) this one is personal. ill try to cut it short. so theres this guy that i stare at a lot (see #1) because hes so hot! and he found out. and tried to talk to me. and i ran away. literally. but im still infatuated with him, and its pretty obvious that i am, because.. everyone knows. i know you guys are no mind reader, but if you were this guy, whats going through your head right now concerning me and my actions? i have a feeling the answer is going to be a harsh one...

#1. If the girl is in front of me, yes I can tell. I just stare her a** down like she just insulted my whole family. Depending on if she maintains eye contact or not I can tell what kind of girl she is. If its someone I'm interested in.... I go up and talk to her.

#2. Some guys like the junk in the trunk, some like the mountainous fluffy cushiony goodness breasteses. Me personally, I prefer asian women and abandoned hope on big breasts on a skinny frame, also because I'm not a fan of silicone.

#3. If he's a sharp guy, he knows whats going on and will act like nothing happened and try to talk to you again sometime or another (if your cute/hot enough to meet his standards) until another hotter/cuter girl comes along and ur poof'ed out of his head. If he's a noob, he'd thing "WTF is wrong with her? She crazy?" Either or........ my advice is to approach him and say sorry for running away, but you ran away because [insert excuse]. Then totally flip the subject..... sayyyyyyy how about some icecream, will you accept my apology? (insta-date. so what if you asked him out? he's in your court now.)

So you think my guy wants more attention? Like... How? How do I give more attention? Sometimes.. I feel like if I do so much for him, I would want to expect something. Expectations lead to disappointments

How do you give him more attention...... hmmmm....... call him at all different times of the day and night, send him massive amounts of texts with sweet messeges. Cook for him, take him shopping, give him rides to work, hug him, hold his hand, kiss him out of no where in random places, say thank you, cherish him, pretend you cant live without him.

To me........ this is uterly unbearable and the girl will be banished from my phonebook if she ever did this to me, but your boyfriend looks like he is an attentionwhore and expects you to smotherhim with love and attention. Your bf, your problem. It seems like your not the type of person to do all the mentioned above things. Tell him thats not your style and not to expect to much, thats just your personality. Tell him you care, but at this moment in your life you cannot focus and accomodate everything for him, he should respect your life, future, goals and dreams and he should honor them and help you, support you, be there for you vice versa.

I guess what it comes down to is.... dont be so cold, be spontaneous and show you care every once in a while, try to put a smile on his face everyday.

There's this guy and he like stares at me everyday at school. One of my friends sits next to him and whenever I talk to my friend he listens to me instead of doing whatever he does and most people dont listen to the person talking unless the person is talking to them. He also stands next to me after school whenever I wait for my friend, but he doesn't talk to me or anything he just walks over and stands next to me. 0_o And like if he does something embarrassing he looks at me and blushes. He also follows me sometimes, like if i'm walking down the stairs in school he's always behind me. He doesn't talk to me AT ALL though. Does he like me or something? @_@

And he's very talkative and stuff. He's like one of the most popular guys and he's like friends with everyone.

And once his friend was like "[His name here] wants to talk to you!"

Are these signs?

Yes these are signs, but he's too much of a wimp to come up to talk to you. Forget him, if he needs one of his friends to come up to you and tell you that [insert noobs name here] wants to talk to you, he's not bf material. You should have replied "why are you telling me this? if he wants to talk to me shouldn't he come to me and talk? he has two functioning legs and vocal cords right?" before you walk off, should add "and besides, who said I would even talk to him, HA!" *walk

PWNED.