[Keris]

I just recently started my first relationship with this guy. The thing is... all his friends are girls and he's this really nice guy so he's very kind to everyone.
He told me that he's not going to stop hanging out with his friends or change anything that's always been part of his life. He says that he doesn't expect me to change my friends either... but the thing is, that's obviously easy for him to say because all of my friends are girls, I don't really have any guy friends so it's not like he has anything to feel jealous or worried about!

He basically does a lot for his friends that are all girls.. such as walking them home, helping them with homework, some of them even call him up and ask him to keep them company when they go shopping or even just to get a hair cut. It's just what he's always done 'cause he's this really nice guy... to all the girls. He doesn't want to change any of this for me... that, and he wants to keep our relationship "secret" and just "private". So basically, none of his friends will know that he's dating me... they'll still think that he's single.

I don't even get jealous... I'm just upset and hurt because this doesn't seem at all fair to me. And I really don't know what to do because it is my first relationship so I'm just confused, and it's not like I want to seem like his jealous clingy girlfriend or anything... but he's just making this very difficult for me. What can I do to improve my relationship?

[MUSTARD*]

It's sort of the same for me Keris except the other way around. My gf has heaps of guy friends who call her out and they do so much together. I don't have as many friends that are girls and I have tried to hang around them less because I would feel bad if my gf was to go out with guys to movies n stuff by herself with them. She's even lied to me before when she said she was going out with her girlfriend she ended up going with a whole bunch of guys to K.

Plus she's getting calls from this guy who just keeps calling. This happened a while back as well. But in the end, I don't know whether to trust or not to trust because i think it seems like she really likes me... She treats me nice, buys me things and keeps me nice and happy. then sometimes I just can't help but think of the bad side to things.

As a guy I don't really know what to do because if I start hanging around lots of girls again she will get pissed and think I'm just getting back at her or something.

Relationships are so damn confusing

[The Conductor]

I just recently started my first relationship with this guy. The thing is... all his friends are girls and he's this really nice guy so he's very kind to everyone.
He told me that he's not going to stop hanging out with his friends or change anything that's always been part of his life. He says that he doesn't expect me to change my friends either... but the thing is, that's obviously easy for him to say because all of my friends are girls, I don't really have any guy friends so it's not like he has anything to feel jealous or worried about!

He basically does a lot for his friends that are all girls.. such as walking them home, helping them with homework, some of them even call him up and ask him to keep them company when they go shopping or even just to get a hair cut. It's just what he's always done 'cause he's this really nice guy... to all the girls. He doesn't want to change any of this for me... that, and he wants to keep our relationship "secret" and just "private". So basically, none of his friends will know that he's dating me... they'll still think that he's single.

I don't even get jealous... I'm just upset and hurt because this doesn't seem at all fair to me. And I really don't know what to do because it is my first relationship so I'm just confused, and it's not like I want to seem like his jealous clingy girlfriend or anything... but he's just making this very difficult for me. What can I do to improve my relationship?

I hate to break it to you , but a guy who loves a girl doesn't keep his relationship secret except from her dad. Its up to you to decide since he aint making an effort to please you, are you comfortable enough to stay in this relationship. Ask him why he wants to keep the relationship secret is he ashamed of you or something? It doesn't matter if its your first or your 21st relationship date guys who loves you and willing to make efforts to make the relationship work.

Why do guys call girls fat but then say just kidding afterwards?
'Cause what's the point?
Do guys dislike girls with some meat?

Thanks, some questions stuck on my mind.

When a guy call a girl fat he usually means, just keep that in mind, but I love girls with meat, girls who too skinny is a turn off for me.

[o1hunny]

yeah, honestly i don't get this but

how can a guy "forget" to call their gf....

or are they using that to cover up the fact that they didn't wnat to call

[RiderKamen]

yeah, honestly i don't get this but

how can a guy "forget" to call their gf....

or are they using that to cover up the fact that they didn't wnat to call

bingo.

or he just forgot.

[Contour]

yeah, honestly i don't get this but

how can a guy "forget" to call their gf....

or are they using that to cover up the fact that they didn't want to call

Most of the time, the reason is they didn't really want to talk at the moment. Sometimes in a relationship there are certain times when they just don't feel like talking. Or they seriously forgot, however I would only believe that on very few occasions if their day was very hectic. There's no reason that they should "forget" to call on a frequent basis. Unless they somewhat forget not just to call you, but appointments, class times, days, etc., but to forget things like that everyday, maybe they need some therapy.

[Stevent]

yeah, honestly i don't get this but

how can a guy "forget" to call their gf....

or are they using that to cover up the fact that they didn't wnat to call

are we not allowed to "forget"? sometimes there are alot of things going on at one time that it slips our mind.

[moonk379]

yeah, honestly i don't get this but

how can a guy "forget" to call their gf....

or are they using that to cover up the fact that they didn't wnat to call

yup i think its natural thing lol i forgotten couple times too but why dont you just call him instead? solves that problem

[han.]

MUAHAHA!! that's just so straight forward. The guys might be looking past you right?

no, the guy might actually be looking at you. but that's explained by the fact that you are a girl.
it's just that girls have this tendency to make everything about emotions and let their minds go off.
which leads to questions like "there's this guy who is constantly looking at me during class, does this mean he likes me?"

[MoiraElla]

I just recently started my first relationship with this guy. The thing is... all his friends are girls and he's this really nice guy so he's very kind to everyone.
He told me that he's not going to stop hanging out with his friends or change anything that's always been part of his life. He says that he doesn't expect me to change my friends either... but the thing is, that's obviously easy for him to say because all of my friends are girls, I don't really have any guy friends so it's not like he has anything to feel jealous or worried about!

He basically does a lot for his friends that are all girls.. such as walking them home, helping them with homework, some of them even call him up and ask him to keep them company when they go shopping or even just to get a hair cut. It's just what he's always done 'cause he's this really nice guy... to all the girls. He doesn't want to change any of this for me... that, and he wants to keep our relationship "secret" and just "private". So basically, none of his friends will know that he's dating me... they'll still think that he's single.

I don't even get jealous... I'm just upset and hurt because this doesn't seem at all fair to me. And I really don't know what to do because it is my first relationship so I'm just confused, and it's not like I want to seem like his jealous clingy girlfriend or anything... but he's just making this very difficult for me. What can I do to improve my relationship?

you don't even have to be a guy to answer this question. what i think is that you deserve much better and since it's your first relationship, he's not worth it if he wants it to be a secret relationship. you deserve someone who will TELL everyone about you guys' relationship hhehe. so to improve it, talk to him. tell him how you feel and if he doesn't try anything to fix it, he doesn't care =\

[han.]

yeah, honestly i don't get this but

how can a guy "forget" to call their gf....

or are they using that to cover up the fact that they didn't wnat to call

because if a guy "forgets" to call their gf, it means they obviously don't care about the girl or their relationship right?
come on, it's not even that big of a deal. regardless of if he really forgot or just didn't want to call.

[grainsofrain]

I just recently started my first relationship with this guy. The thing is... all his friends are girls and he's this really nice guy so he's very kind to everyone.
He told me that he's not going to stop hanging out with his friends or change anything that's always been part of his life. He says that he doesn't expect me to change my friends either... but the thing is, that's obviously easy for him to say because all of my friends are girls, I don't really have any guy friends so it's not like he has anything to feel jealous or worried about!

He basically does a lot for his friends that are all girls.. such as walking them home, helping them with homework, some of them even call him up and ask him to keep them company when they go shopping or even just to get a hair cut. It's just what he's always done 'cause he's this really nice guy... to all the girls. He doesn't want to change any of this for me... that, and he wants to keep our relationship "secret" and just "private". So basically, none of his friends will know that he's dating me... they'll still think that he's single.

I don't even get jealous... I'm just upset and hurt because this doesn't seem at all fair to me. And I really don't know what to do because it is my first relationship so I'm just confused, and it's not like I want to seem like his jealous clingy girlfriend or anything... but he's just making this very difficult for me. What can I do to improve my relationship?

Dump him, lol.

[hiswendy]

This question should probably be directed to someone who's really a player in particular, but seeing as I don't have friends who are players (thank God), here's my question. (And NO I'm not saying only guys are players) But what sick, twisted satisfaction does a guy get from playing someone? =/ Recent situation of mine and I've no one to ask... x_x who would know the answer. Thanks. >_<

[han.]

This question should probably be directed to someone who's really a player in particular, but seeing as I don't have friends who are players (thank God), here's my question. (And NO I'm not saying only guys are players) But what sick, twisted satisfaction does a guy get from playing someone? =/ Recent situation of mine and I've no one to ask... x_x who would know the answer. Thanks. >_<

i'm not a player, i'm the furthest thing from it. but i'm going to go ahead and answer anyway.
i honestly believe a majority of guys don't go approaching girls with the intention of playing them. guys end up looking like players because he can just end up ditching the girl, for a variety of reasons. if you did get played, he probably didn't care too much about you. the only satisfaction a guy would get is the fact that he did get the girl he was going for. he just happened to lose interest. so yeah, don't get played anymore.

[xtiinee]

by the little things and big things he does for a girl. it all adds up over time like a puzzle, you put the pieces together to get one clear picture.

here's a bunch of random things i just put down to observe.

examples:
if a guy will drive more then 100 miles everyday to see you then you know.
OR
if a guy calls you everday just to hang out with you, or like EVERY SINGLE WEEK at least twice then he probably cares a lot about you.
OR
buys your medicine when your sick
OR
the way he cuddles with you when your watching a movie.
OR
if he gives you a rose everyday telling you "i love you"
OR
if a guy texts or calls you to tell you I MISS YOU and i was thinking just about you
OR
if he told you he a dream about you. not this one time, but many times. -this goes for both male and females-
OR
if he tells "you mean the world to me"

My boyfriend used to do stuff like this all the time, but now he doesn`t as much. When I text him saying that I love him and miss him (because he got out of school earlier than I did since he`s a senior), he just goes "Aww." Does that mean he doesn`t love me anymore?

This is a fun topic. I`m learning a lot. Lol.

[han.]

My boyfriend used to do stuff like this all the time, but now he doesn`t as much. When I text him saying that I love him and miss him (because he got out of school earlier than I did since he`s a senior), he just goes "Aww." Does that mean he doesn`t love me anymore?

yeah it probably means he doesn't love you anymore.
guys hate text messaging. i do, at least. it seems like a waste of time.

[xtiinee]

^
Well, he loves texting. Because he has a sidekick and he loves playing with it. So what now? Still same response?

[IlikeChicken]

^ Maybe you text him too much that he's getting sick of it lol haha

I mean I seriously hate doing stuff like that where you go

"Oh I love you too honey" like everytime ...Annoying

[xtiinee]

^
Ah, alright fine. I won`t text him like at all anymore. Because it`s not like I text him all the time. Just a couple times a day because I never see him anymore. Grr, whatevs.

Another question then: why do guys always have the "I-don`t-care-about-anything-anymore-I`m-so-big-and-bad-and-macho" attitude? It`s friggin` annoying.

[ultaeja]

Guys. Do you guys like girls with make-up or no-make-up? (Sorry if this has been asked before)