Today my class was put into small groups to work on projects together. The person that sat next to me introduced himself so I thought he was a nice guy. He was a Caucasian guy and his girlfriend is in the class also. She got put into a different group though.
Anyway, he started talking to me and all was dandy. He told me his girlfriend is asian. I told him oh yeah, I noticed and that's cool man. He asked me if I had a girlfriend and I told him nah, I'm not ready for one yet. Then he asked me what race of girls do I like. I told him hmmm... I think there are pretty girls in every race but I guess I'd prefer asian since I'm asian as well.
He gave a little smirk and said "You do know they prefer us white guys right?" It sort of felt like he was bragging like he was better than me or something but I took it as a joke and I laughed it off. I told him well... white people are good looking so it makes sense I guess, I think white girls are pretty too especially when they have blond hair and blue eyes.
Then he told me that I should probably stick to asian girls unless I want a sexually unsatisfied white girl. He said, "I know how you asian guys are down there."
I paused and thought in my mind... wow... this dude might be racist towards asian guys. I still took it as a joke but I was offended by his way of thinking. I figured out he wasn't exactly the type of guy I wanted to be buddies with anyway so I spent the rest of class working on my stuff and doodling on my notebook.
So I guess if that's where the story ends, the racism is sort of blurry but that was ruined as I walked out the door when class was over and I heard him talking to his other white friends. He said, "Look, he's pissed cause he has a small cock." One of his friends started laughing trying to hold it in and they thought I couldn't hear them or maybe they purposely wanted me to hear them... whatever the case, I kept walking.
I was about to lose my cool but I kept walking because I thought that if I did turn back and get pissed, it would only make me look like an angry target to be teased again later on. Yeah, that's my story... I just wanted to vent it out and maybe hear everyone's reactions. I know not all people are racist but today I experienced some racism and it sure makes my blood boil.
It makes me think... does his girlfriend know he acts this way to asian guys? Would an asian girl be okay with a white guy that disrespects her own race as long as it is directed towards the male side and not the female side? I start to think even more... if he is racist this way towards the guys, is he genuinely dating the asian girl because he loves her or because of some other stereotypes?
Just for the record, my penis size is average and I don't feel the freaking necessity to go around explaining that to anyone. I'm proud to be asian and I wouldn't ever change who I am even if I was given the opportunity to change my race but these racist jokes make it seem like if your not white, your not the best. Making a remark like how I could never please a woman that isn't my own race really offended me. I bet an idiot like him would never know about true love making if he just spends all his time bragging about how he has another .0001 cm more penis than another guy and to top it off make it sound like all asian women prefer white men...
All I have to say is... W T F.
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I Feel Like I Just Got Spit On. I Experienced Some Racism Today. *sigh*
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Posted 16 May 2007 - 11:07 PM
this is why i don't date non-asian guys....i know doesn't hold true for every white or non-asian guy...but come on, is it that easy to ignore these sterotypes? i like how you played it cool...taking it with class is the best policy ^^
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Posted 16 May 2007 - 11:26 PM
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