Ask The Ladies - Read First Post

Ask The Ladies - Read First Post discuss about behaviors and relationships from female P.O.V.

#1 michele17

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Post icon Posted 26 June 2007 - 11:38 AM

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Hey folks,

This thread is for you to ask advice, not for you to throw potshots and insults (veiled or otherwise), or for you to troll. Just because I'm not posting here as often doesn't mean I'm not monitoring the situation. I'm sure you know who you are, so please don't step out of line.

Thanks.

Gentlemen, do you have questions/insights/thing you want feedback on about the ladies?

What kind of guys we like?
Why we do or act upon things that you just don't get?

Fellas: Post your thoughts and us ladies in the forum will try to answer
Ladies: Help your fellow girl out, if you got some spare time, answer some of the guys' questionss.

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#2 ChaeRinxx

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Posted 26 June 2007 - 11:40 AM

Haha! i loved this in the guy POV so
i will definitely help answer
any questions =]

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Posted 26 June 2007 - 11:41 AM

I was JUST about to ask if there was a girl version in the guy thread. I'll ask a really vague question that really depends on the person, Ladies, what personality traits do you look for in a guy?

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Posted 26 June 2007 - 11:47 AM

haha this is genius- but theres so little guys in the forum ._."

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Posted 26 June 2007 - 11:50 AM

QUOTE(Inevitable @ Jun 26 2007, 03:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I was JUST about to ask if there was a girl version in the guy thread. I'll ask a really vague question that really depends on the person, Ladies, what personality traits do you look for in a guy?

someone who's honest, trustworthy, upfront, real, down-to-earth, funny..haha u get the picture xP
i mean, it all depends on the girl, but i guess we're all looking for pretty much the same things...i personally like tall, athletic and smart added to the above.

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Posted 26 June 2007 - 11:52 AM

QUOTE(Inevitable @ Jun 26 2007, 02:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I was JUST about to ask if there was a girl version in the guy thread. I'll ask a really vague question that really depends on the person, Ladies, what personality traits do you look for in a guy?

this really depends, but IMO i would like a guy that loves me no matter what, not just based on outer appearance, personality as well. he has to be nice, caring, respectful, has commonsense, able to make smart decisions, intelligent, and yeah.. i think theres more, but cant think of anymore.

oh oh, and humorous. i def love a guy who can make me laugh.

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Posted 26 June 2007 - 12:13 PM

QUOTE(Inevitable @ Jun 26 2007, 12:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I was JUST about to ask if there was a girl version in the guy thread. I'll ask a really vague question that really depends on the person, Ladies, what personality traits do you look for in a guy?

For me, what really sets a guy apart in my mind is consideration and initiative. I'm always impressed by the whole gentlemanly chivalric behavior - opening doors, offering one's jacket, being courteous towards others. I don't see it very often these days, so a guy automatically gets my attention if he does those little actions. The other really important one is initiative because I'm generally a really independent girl and people expect me to take the lead all the time. So, I like guys who make the first move and aren't afraid to go after what they want (possible failure or not). Gives me a chance to sit back and not have to work so hard for what I want.

In general though, I don't have a list of traits a guy has to have. Everyone's different, gives off different vibes, brings different things to a relationship. So, when it comes to guys, I generally look to see if they're really being themselves, if we have any chemistry and if we can have comfortable conversations with each other.

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Posted 26 June 2007 - 12:24 PM

QUOTE(Inevitable @ Jun 26 2007, 12:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Ladies, what personality traits do you look for in a guy?

Girls tend to like guys who posess confidence. Confidence does a lot for a guy in terms of attractiveness...
Coward guyss = unattractive.

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Posted 26 June 2007 - 12:32 PM

QUOTE(Inevitable @ Jun 26 2007, 02:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Ladies, what personality traits do you look for in a guy?

I think it's really different for every girl but FOR SURE all girls want a guy who's independent. I really hate guys who are depended on other people. someone who's strong inside and wise. someone who is really funny is a must for me hehe. I really like to laugh and someone who has personality like who isn't shy sometimes and outspoken in a way. LOL like i said, this is for me. o_o I really like a guy who's caring too :X

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Posted 26 June 2007 - 12:36 PM

if some guy sang this for you, in the same similar fashion..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wWV7LWyTFQM

what would you do? or how would you react?

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Posted 26 June 2007 - 12:39 PM

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Ladies, what personality traits do you look for in a guy?

I dig for someone who have manner, get along well with others (esp parents, kids and grandparents), and someone who is himself. Oh, and someone who is able to deal with my attitude. =X

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if some guy sang this for you, in the same similar fashion..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wWV7LWyTFQM

what would you do? or how would you react?

Honestly, I would find it cute and quite flattering.

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Posted 26 June 2007 - 12:41 PM

QUOTE(Inevitable @ Jun 26 2007, 12:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I was JUST about to ask if there was a girl version in the guy thread. I'll ask a really vague question that really depends on the person, Ladies, what personality traits do you look for in a guy?

Course everyone is different. But things I look for in a guy is someone who can handle my...flaring personality? xD Someone wity, sarcastic, funny, able to hold their ground on any debate, and with the utmost confidence--probably a bit of arrogance. Independent, honest, extremely caring, and is able to tell me the most random facts or just things I didn't even know.

QUOTE(melee @ Jun 26 2007, 01:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

if some guy sang this for you, in the same similar fashion..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wWV7LWyTFQM

what would you do? or how would you react?

omg hahaha! Personally, that'll be embarrassing, but I'd find it so cute.

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Posted 26 June 2007 - 01:17 PM

QUOTE(melee @ Jun 26 2007, 02:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

if some guy sang this for you, in the same similar fashion..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wWV7LWyTFQM

what would you do? or how would you react?

I would be flattered and embarrased. But I find it cute.
I don't know how i would react...lol

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Posted 26 June 2007 - 01:21 PM

QUOTE(melee @ Jun 26 2007, 03:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

if some guy sang this for you, in the same similar fashion..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wWV7LWyTFQM

what would you do? or how would you react?

i would cherish every moment,
and never forget the guy <3

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Posted 26 June 2007 - 01:28 PM

QUOTE(Inevitable @ Jun 26 2007, 12:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

I was JUST about to ask if there was a girl version in the guy thread. I'll ask a really vague question that really depends on the person, Ladies, what personality traits do you look for in a guy?

a guy who could be surrounded by his friends or other people but still be with his girl.. who could put in effort to satisfy the girl.. emotionally..

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Posted 26 June 2007 - 01:33 PM

Just for the hell of it, ill give answer too since I have no questions.

not on soompi as much as I used to be...

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#17 michele17

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Posted 26 June 2007 - 02:29 PM

QUOTE(melee @ Jun 26 2007, 04:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

if some guy sang this for you, in the same similar fashion..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wWV7LWyTFQM

what would you do? or how would you react?

haha i'd be sooo embarassed, but if a guy were willing to go out on a limb and do that, i would be flattered xP

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#18 michele17

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Posted 26 June 2007 - 03:15 PM

C'MONNNNNNNN we need more questions from guys =D

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Posted 26 June 2007 - 03:21 PM

QUOTE(michele17 @ Jun 26 2007, 06:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

C'MONNNNNNNN we need more questions from guys =D

Just so that you wont be bored

1) What specific thing can a guy do to make your knees weak?
2) Why do you girls overanalyze things when our (guy's) intention are sincere?
3) Why do you feel the need to be correct most of the time?

QUOTE (sushiwhore @ May 3 2008, 09:19 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

exactly STEVEN YOU ARE MY HERO prince charming or w.e he was omg STEVEN IS MY HERO my brain is failure O_O

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Posted 26 June 2007 - 03:24 PM

QUOTE(Stevent @ Jun 26 2007, 07:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Just so that you wont be bored

1) What specific thing can a guy do to make your knees weak?
2) Why do you girls overanalyze things when our (guy's) intention are sincere?
3) Why do you feel the need to be correct most of the time?

haha thankss ur my hero xP
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1)look into our eyes and say something u truly mean
2)haha we hate to admit it, but we're insecure as hell
3)causeee women like to argue haha xP

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