[Sassarri]

whats the best approach for guys to randomly try and holla at you?

I usually ignore them. It's annoying for some random guy to just be asking for my number. Seems kinda...tacky. Eh...can't find the right word.

[LunaDiviner]

@mei-ahn - I think it's better if they don't tell you specific reasons. If they do, you'll probably try to express those things more and then you won't be yourself - the person that your boyfriend fell in love with.

[cinnamoroll]

Hi I'm new to this forum and I've got some questions or some situations that I'd like some insight too. These situations have been the past btw.

So how would you ladies felt, if you put yourself out for this guy, but he doesn't respond, or acts negligent to your actions, but still keeps his same friendly attitude towards you. However whenever you commit an advance he backs away.
Well certain people would be crushed and others not. For me, I'd hopefully get the clue and think of that as a nice way of rejection XD Though sometimes with other people, ya gotta be more strict and say it and not just imply that you're not interested.
How would you feel if you told a guy "I think your hot", but the guy replies "thanks" with big smiles and it ends there.
I wouldn't say that. Who does? Is that a pick up line or something? XD But I think if the girl says that, she says that to a lot of guys...I don't think she'll take it too hard. I mean that isn't really a meaningful statement in the first place. XD Sorry. I'm just saying that that statement won't really become an intriguing conversation.
And this one is more recent.

How can I make it up to a girl for her "hints" ? (because I felt I hurt her) Keep in mind this was a while ago (about a month). And I want something that makes her feel better, but something that isn't midunderstanding and something that doesn't make it obvious that I'm trying to make up for it. (lol?)
Why'd you do that? D: Oh well. Tell her you guys are just friends? If you are just friends, maybe invite her to go to group activities like bowling or something?
Lastly, it's apparent to me that guys and girls are very alike and yet different at the same time. They have the same feelings and thoughts, but some of those feelings and thoughts are hightened or recessive according to the gender. What do women want to feel ? What do women feel when they think of their "dream guy" (i.e. peace, happiness, homeliness, etc...) ? Which emotions do you associate yourself with more ? (sorry I know I'm sounding alot more like a researcher. but it's just something for me to consider when I do decide to have a relationship)
I think in the longrun, it's going to be personality. They just gotta be open and honest. When the personalities don't match up, I don't think the relationship is going to last.

Sorry one more, under what pretext or conditions would you allow yourself to be setup with a date (i.e. blind or non-blind)
Does not pertain to me. Ick

(More apologies as I haven't read this entire thread, and I haven't read the rules yet)

[hippiehop]

whats the best approach for guys to randomly try and holla at you?

The best approach is - don't "holla" at girls.

Most of us tend to ignore guys who try to "holla" at us.

[skadoosh!]

whats the best approach for guys to randomly try and holla at you?

dont holla.
be nice. :]
but uh, dont over flatter.
thats weird. and awkard.

[spark.]

whats the best approach for guys to randomly try and holla at you?

Most girls do not like guys to holla. Especially rudely. I mean I don't anyway. xb

[cavil.]

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[Xyeun]

So
I know im boring because I don't actually do much in real life. But when I chat and ask whats up and they say they're bored, I have no idea about how I can fix their boredom! Any ideas about typical fixes for that besides the typical find a random topic?

Albert, you should try to entertain them. Make up some funny jokes & play games or something with them.

~Nuey

[강유미]

So why are girls so boring and materialistic now? They act like they're already 80 years old.

[predator]

whats the best approach for guys to randomly try and holla at you?

98% of girls don't like to be holla-ed at,
please don't do it. (:

[hippiehop]

So why are girls so boring and materialistic now? They act like they're already 80 years old.

Maybe its you, not them.

[강유미]

Maybe its you, not them.

That does not make any sense. Be serious next time.

[ShinAoshi]

Whats the best way to find out if the girl has a bf besides asking her? ( I don't want to make it too obvious....)

[Jupichild87]

So why are girls so boring and materialistic now? They act like they're already 80 years old.

Sadly we live in the golden age where things are more important than people. A lot of girls these days are brought up without any needs or wants, causing them to grow up to be materialistic and to not know any different/better.

There are many girls out there, though who are not like this =D, just look hard! (It does narrow it down a little if you don't see us carrying around a little dog in a bag though >P)

Whats the best way to find out if the girl has a bf besides asking her? ( I don't want to make it too obvious....)

"Wow, that is cool, I bet your boyfriend likes that!"Best way to go about it.

That way you are not out right asking, but you find out. "Yes, my boyfriend does like it!" or "Oh... I don't have a boyfriend!"Hope that helps

[xsilentangel]

alright ladies.

what would you do if you caught a guy looking down your shirt?

happened to me and it was a kind of close guy friend..

[joongielove]

alright ladies.

what would you do if you caught a guy looking down your shirt?

happened to me and it was a kind of close guy friend..

Close guy friend? Maybe he likes you....? But looking down your shirt isn't a great way to start a relationship. Uh...I'd wear shirts with higher collars and if you catch him doing it again, maybe talk to him about it? o_O

[ladiixxpreciious]

alright ladies.

what would you do if you caught a guy looking down your shirt?

happened to me and it was a kind of close guy friend..

a close friend? was it a glance [it could have been accidental] or down right stare? if it's a glance i would let it go, but if it was a stare i would definitely wear higher necked shirts when around that friend.

[ilovesongyoona]

Whats the best way to find out if the girl has a bf besides asking her? ( I don't want to make it too obvious....)

more on this please! There's a girl who sits next to me in my humanities class and yes, I'm interested in her.

[Kennedy]

Whats the best way to find out if the girl has a bf besides asking her? ( I don't want to make it too obvious....)

more on this please! There's a girl who sits next to me in my humanities class and yes, I'm interested in her.

Keep hanging out with her or something until someone shows up. Or look at pictures to see if there's any that indicates that she has one.

But that seems stalkerish.

Or you could somehow include it in a conversation. Make her ask you first.

Sorry. Not a big help.

[hippiehop]

more on this please! There's a girl who sits next to me in my humanities class and yes, I'm interested in her.

The way one of my ex bfs found out I was single was by saying something like "Do you go to ____ with your boyfriend?" and I was like "What?! I don't have a boyfriend." Sneaky bastard.