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#1501 User is offline   Popsickles 

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Posted 26 January 2008 - 10:49 PM

Man, do you guys ever 'get tired' of the guy you like? I've liked this guy for almost a year and everything's been going great, but suddenly we've been talking on the phone a looot... and then these past few days, I haven't really seen him as much. Now I feel like I'm sorta bored of him. wtf? Am I PMSing or something...?

Cuz today I was on the phone with him again and maybe we've just run out of things to talk about? I have noooo cluueeee... =X It started today-ish. Maybe we're just hanging out too much?
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Posted 26 January 2008 - 11:11 PM

QUOTE (Popsickles @ Jan 27 2008, 02:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Man, do you guys ever 'get tired' of the guy you like? I've liked this guy for almost a year and everything's been going great, but suddenly we've been talking on the phone a looot... and then these past few days, I haven't really seen him as much. Now I feel like I'm sorta bored of him. wtf? Am I PMSing or something...?

Cuz today I was on the phone with him again and maybe we've just run out of things to talk about? I have noooo cluueeee... =X It started today-ish. Maybe we're just hanging out too much?


I like someone (top secretly) for 2 years and a bit.. I got tired of it bcos I couldn't get him out of my head. tears.gif
It could also be because I rarely talk to / see him or hung out. mellow.gif

Yeah maybe you are getting bored of him cos you see him so often.
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Posted 26 January 2008 - 11:37 PM

QUOTE (Popsickles @ Jan 27 2008, 03:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Man, do you guys ever 'get tired' of the guy you like? I've liked this guy for almost a year and everything's been going great, but suddenly we've been talking on the phone a looot... and then these past few days, I haven't really seen him as much. Now I feel like I'm sorta bored of him. wtf? Am I PMSing or something...?

Cuz today I was on the phone with him again and maybe we've just run out of things to talk about? I have noooo cluueeee... =X It started today-ish. Maybe we're just hanging out too much?

lol definitely not. before i went out with my bf, i saw him every single day for a month, for like 10 hours every day. never got sick of him, hehe.

you've probably ran out of things to talk about. haha. it happened for me with my past crushes.
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Posted 26 January 2008 - 11:57 PM

popsickle; dont worry, its pretty normal. You both are just friends, so it shouldnt matter that much. You probably have talked to him too much, to the extent where you totally forget your feelings for him. And suddenly, the bond between you two is different. You just dont want him as much as you did before, get over it
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Posted 27 January 2008 - 12:16 AM

Hey ladies. I have a question.

If you're fairly new to the school and you walked in a classroom with new students at the beginning of a semester, how would you react to a guy sitting beside you that you don't even know at all?

How would you react if he started introducing himself and tried to make friendship with you?

I'm sorry it MAY seem like an obvious question. But I'm kinda shy to meet new girls sometimes tongue.gif I don't want to get off the impression that I already like a girl for their looks.
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Posted 27 January 2008 - 12:28 AM

^ That`s the fun part about a new semester ! Meeting new people and stuff. I mean personally, I think it`s completely alright. The kind ones are always a plus side smile.gif




OK girls, here`s the thing . . .

There`s this boy I`ve been talking to for a WHOLE lot. The funny thing was, it started extremely randomly: through a Prank call. Me & my friends were bored one night, so we decided to prank call people. I got a new number, so it didn`t really matter if we blocked it (more chances of people picking up). The thing is, of the 32948324 people we prank called, this boy was the only one willing to stay on the phone and play along. The call lasted 2hours. Then a couple of months after that, we pranked call him again. It turns out he saved my number and we started talking about COMPLETELY random stuff, it was hillarious. Then a couple of weeks ago, we started to call each other back and forth and a daily basis. We both had cingular and unlimited text messaging, so everything was free. He would always call me at 1111PM to tell me to make a wish and we would always stay on the line forever. I`d eventually fall asleep on him around 3AM, and this one time I pretended to fall asleep, and I could still hear him laughing at me and talking to me about how glad it is that he found me (never quite figured out what that meant). When I wake up in the morning, it`s always due to his extemely loud radio alarm that sets off at 630AM. The latenight calls lasted for 5-6 days, consistently. Plus, he`d call me up after school, and after work, and everytime I have a schedule and he`d always give me words of encouragement. I mean, it obviously meant he was on to something right? I was interested in him, especially since he was a very nice boy and completely hillarious and DEFINITELY quite a conversationalist.

And here`s the bomb . . .
A couple of days ago, his mood starts to change. It started on his birthday too, ironically. I called him at :00AM, to be the first one to wish him a happy birthday. He sounded happy and all. And then we talked on AIM, his mood completely dropped. I told him to get some rest, and he did. Then the next day, he was complaining to me about everything. The conversations wasn`t as lighthearted and random anymore. I tell him to sleep early and not stay up as late anyway; I didn`t know what`s up with him. Yesterday, I was talking to his bestfriend (I knew his bestfriend since way, way back). It turns out the day before his birthday, he broke up with his girlfriend. I was utterly shocked, a girlfriend !? I felt like such a homewrecker, because doesn`t it mean that the whole week he stayed up for 6+hours with me, he had a girlfriend!? MAN. When I heard that, I didn`t talk to him at all. Then he IM me on AIM, and text me, but it never turned into a full blown conversation. We tried talking today, but it was just a dead-end the moment it started. His bestfriend told me he`s been sulking in the past few days. As for me, it feels like a daily ritual/habit is like yanked away from me, if that makes sense. It`s really hard to get back on track and go through a day without doing the things me & him did. Geesh. What should I do? What should I say to him? He never brought up the fact that he had a girlfriend. Should I ask him? Is that a dangerous thing to do? Dude, is there even any chance of friendship in the near future? He was one hell of a conversationalist and I`m pretty sure I don`t want to lose him as a friend.

EW I JUST WROTE AN ESSAY . wtf . sleep.gif
Still, this is one of those recuperating moments, I mean come on, it`s 1225 right now!
Usually, I would be talking to him. Bleghh.
All helps are EXTREMELY appreciated.

Honestly, I would love you anyway just for reading.
Meh, sorry if it`s long girls. Forgive a girl with a confused heart, will ya?
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Posted 27 January 2008 - 03:22 AM

^it doesn't matter if it's too long....anyway...that sucks....i wouldn't know what to do...but..you should remain friends....i think your friendship with him is unique...and....it sucks that he feels beat up about breaking up with his gf....i know it's lame and stupid..but...what if he broke up with her because he felt guilty of some sort? i don't know.....i've never been in this situation.....but......maybe you can help him out a bit...i don't know how or stuff...but....i think he just needs a shoulder to lean on.....i'm turning into a drama freak here but....maybe...you two don't have to talk and he can just.....mellow around you.....i don't know....there must be a reason he broke up with his gf...but anyway....good luck!
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Posted 28 January 2008 - 10:11 PM

Like the title says, share your stories on the cutest /sweetest way a guy asked you out or how you would like a guy to ask you out.
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Posted 28 January 2008 - 10:23 PM

he snatched the mic from our school captains during the assembly and asked me out. brave guy .__.
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Posted 28 January 2008 - 10:29 PM

QUOTE (addickshun @ Jan 29 2008, 02:23 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
he snatched the mic from our school captains during the assembly and asked me out. brave guy .__.


Wow!
This is sooo COOL!!
Hmm... I havent really been asked out by guys...
But usually what i heard from guys who tried to ask me out is:

"Let's go for a cup of tea when you are free."

I don't like the above phrase, alot of guys are using it to ask girls out
and what's worst is those guys who asked are not my cup of tea... so... well...
I am always not free for a cup of tea with them. LOLx

Currently I have no idea how i would like guys to ask me out...
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Posted 28 January 2008 - 10:54 PM

QUOTE (stevenn go rawrr @ Jan 25 2008, 02:46 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hey ladies~ if you're my girlfriend, would you like to see me jealous/protective? is it a turn on? or is it a major turn off? i'm afraid of expressing my true feelings (my jealousness) and i never say anything about it because i'm afraid it might rub the wrong way (making me seem selfish and processive). it's hurting me over the last couple weeks that my girlfriend is talking to this guy in a way like it was the first time my girlfriend and i met. i keep telling myself that she will leave me because they get along so well. any tips on how to tell my girlfriend that her talking to that guy makes me really really depress without damaging our relationship? it doesn't help that i got insecurity issues T___T

one more thing, if seeing your boyfriend acting jealous is a turn on, at what point will it begin to be a "turn off"? (hope you understand what i'm trying to say xD)


mm;; turn on up to a limit as mentioned before.. if you overdo it, it'll seriously just mess up the relationship. mm i'd know >//<~ aniwho! just tell her that you feel uncomfy that she's talking to him so much, and let her reassure you that she likes only you. also, trust is a BIGGG factor in relationships so if she tells you there's nothing going on, trust ME on this, trust her. well! thas my advice happy.gif


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Posted 29 January 2008 - 12:56 AM

QUOTE (x3 DiNOTASTiC @ Jan 27 2008, 04:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
^ That`s the fun part about a new semester ! Meeting new people and stuff. I mean personally, I think it`s completely alright. The kind ones are always a plus side smile.gif




OK girls, here`s the thing . . .

There`s this boy I`ve been talking to for a WHOLE lot. The funny thing was, it started extremely randomly: through a Prank call. Me & my friends were bored one night, so we decided to prank call people. I got a new number, so it didn`t really matter if we blocked it (more chances of people picking up). The thing is, of the 32948324 people we prank called, this boy was the only one willing to stay on the phone and play along. The call lasted 2hours. Then a couple of months after that, we pranked call him again. It turns out he saved my number and we started talking about COMPLETELY random stuff, it was hillarious. Then a couple of weeks ago, we started to call each other back and forth and a daily basis. We both had cingular and unlimited text messaging, so everything was free. He would always call me at 1111PM to tell me to make a wish and we would always stay on the line forever. I`d eventually fall asleep on him around 3AM, and this one time I pretended to fall asleep, and I could still hear him laughing at me and talking to me about how glad it is that he found me (never quite figured out what that meant). When I wake up in the morning, it`s always due to his extemely loud radio alarm that sets off at 630AM. The latenight calls lasted for 5-6 days, consistently. Plus, he`d call me up after school, and after work, and everytime I have a schedule and he`d always give me words of encouragement. I mean, it obviously meant he was on to something right? I was interested in him, especially since he was a very nice boy and completely hillarious and DEFINITELY quite a conversationalist.

And here`s the bomb . . .
A couple of days ago, his mood starts to change. It started on his birthday too, ironically. I called him at :00AM, to be the first one to wish him a happy birthday. He sounded happy and all. And then we talked on AIM, his mood completely dropped. I told him to get some rest, and he did. Then the next day, he was complaining to me about everything. The conversations wasn`t as lighthearted and random anymore. I tell him to sleep early and not stay up as late anyway; I didn`t know what`s up with him. Yesterday, I was talking to his bestfriend (I knew his bestfriend since way, way back). It turns out the day before his birthday, he broke up with his girlfriend. I was utterly shocked, a girlfriend !? I felt like such a homewrecker, because doesn`t it mean that the whole week he stayed up for 6+hours with me, he had a girlfriend!? MAN. When I heard that, I didn`t talk to him at all. Then he IM me on AIM, and text me, but it never turned into a full blown conversation. We tried talking today, but it was just a dead-end the moment it started. His bestfriend told me he`s been sulking in the past few days. As for me, it feels like a daily ritual/habit is like yanked away from me, if that makes sense. It`s really hard to get back on track and go through a day without doing the things me & him did. Geesh. What should I do? What should I say to him? He never brought up the fact that he had a girlfriend. Should I ask him? Is that a dangerous thing to do? Dude, is there even any chance of friendship in the near future? He was one hell of a conversationalist and I`m pretty sure I don`t want to lose him as a friend.

EW I JUST WROTE AN ESSAY . wtf . sleep.gif
Still, this is one of those recuperating moments, I mean come on, it`s 1225 right now!
Usually, I would be talking to him. Bleghh.
All helps are EXTREMELY appreciated.

Honestly, I would love you anyway just for reading.
Meh, sorry if it`s long girls. Forgive a girl with a confused heart, will ya?
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just talk to him about it, yknow. tell him that you heard from so and so that he broke up with his gf and that you were kinda surprised cos you didnt know. there are somethings that cant be brushed off. yeah. talk to him about it. and if it's not what you think, then you should just comfort him and things could get back to normal.
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Posted 29 January 2008 - 05:31 AM

QUOTE (Sam Sik @ Jan 27 2008, 04:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey ladies. I have a question.

If you're fairly new to the school and you walked in a classroom with new students at the beginning of a semester, how would you react to a guy sitting beside you that you don't even know at all?

How would you react if he started introducing himself and tried to make friendship with you?

I'm sorry it MAY seem like an obvious question. But I'm kinda shy to meet new girls sometimes tongue.gif I don't want to get off the impression that I already like a girl for their looks.

well I would think he's just trying to be friendly ^^
if he seems like a nice guy i would be friends with him

i would only think he likes me if he shows obvious signs
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Posted 29 January 2008 - 09:17 PM

QUOTE (Sam Sik @ Jan 27 2008, 05:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey ladies. I have a question.

If you're fairly new to the school and you walked in a classroom with new students at the beginning of a semester, how would you react to a guy sitting beside you that you don't even know at all?

How would you react if he started introducing himself and tried to make friendship with you?

I'm sorry it MAY seem like an obvious question. But I'm kinda shy to meet new girls sometimes tongue.gif I don't want to get off the impression that I already like a girl for their looks.

i'm fine with meeting new people, but only if they actually introduced themselves. haha.
but i'd be friends with him~
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Posted 30 January 2008 - 02:28 PM

QUOTE (Sam Sik @ Jan 27 2008, 03:16 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey ladies. I have a question.

If you're fairly new to the school and you walked in a classroom with new students at the beginning of a semester, how would you react to a guy sitting beside you that you don't even know at all?

How would you react if he started introducing himself and tried to make friendship with you?

I'm sorry it MAY seem like an obvious question. But I'm kinda shy to meet new girls sometimes tongue.gif I don't want to get off the impression that I already like a girl for their looks.



i wouldn't find it weird at all haha
i'd even say hi, random but yeah haha
i'd befreind the guy! ( :
and it'll only give the impression that
the guy likes the girl thru actions
hope that helps? ^^




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Posted 30 January 2008 - 02:46 PM

rofl i find it weird that girls have more problems than guys >_>
comparing 243 pages to 75 O.O
omg asianami dont you go to school?
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Posted 30 January 2008 - 02:50 PM

QUOTE (twilight1412 @ Jan 30 2008, 05:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
rofl i find it weird that girls have more problems than guys >_>
comparing 243 pages to 75 O.O
omg asianami dont you go to school?



HAHA i know 243 pages compare to 75 pages LMAO
and yes i go to schooool lol
i'm not some slacccccckaaaa
its 5:52 PM right now =______=
history&chem exams tomorrow, UGH. >_>



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Posted 30 January 2008 - 02:53 PM

QUOTE (twilight1412 @ Jan 30 2008, 04:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
rofl i find it weird that girls have more problems than guys >_>
comparing 243 pages to 75 O.O
omg asianami dont you go to school?

Oh my, you just stated something that I'm completely oblivious to. rolleyes.gif
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Posted 30 January 2008 - 03:03 PM

^ ROFL ignorance is bliss wink.gif

*checks asianami's local time* ..... concludes she lives in a different country HAHAHAH
chem is fun you can lie your way through it and still get good marks =D
i know i did

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Posted 30 January 2008 - 03:12 PM

QUOTE (twilight1412 @ Jan 30 2008, 06:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
^ ROFL ignorance is bliss wink.gif

*checks asianami's local time* ..... concludes she lives in a different country HAHAHAH
chem is fun you can lie your way through it and still get good marks =D
i know i did

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