[LaydeeMel]

how can you tell if say one of your lady friends is interested in you? whats the easiest way to find out? like say a subtle question that one can ask?

I don't know I think it's different for all girls. What I did when I liked a guy though is I constantly called him, just to say what's up and talk him and get to know him. Tease him and stuff, kinda like in grade school when you used to pick on the person you liked.

I'd always try to stand near him or sit next to him. Just anywhere close to him. I guess the easiest way to find out without directly asking is to ... flirt and see if she flirts back. A subtle question would be, "hey you wanna go grab a bite to eat with me?" or "hey you wanna go hang out sometime?".

Hope I helped. x_x

[ilovejaejoong]

how can you tell if say one of your lady friends is interested in you? whats the easiest way to find out? like say a subtle question that one can ask?

they'd touch you a lot when you talk to them, i think. and you could always ask her if she wants to hang out sometime or have lunch or coffee or whatever ^^ or you could just call her!

[Xiaoba1tu]

how can you tell if say one of your lady friends is interested in you? whats the easiest way to find out? like say a subtle question that one can ask?

It depends, some can be open about it.. but most are trying to not show that they are interested in you..
(It's just embarrassing I guess.. the worst thing is realising that your crush knows you like them! )

Easiest way would be to ask straight up.. <-- that wouldn't be subtle though..
or other possible signs: if she likes talking to you more than other guys, acts very happy to see you when you meet, flirts with you but she rarely does the same thing to other guys, yeh like the other responses before me, if she likes being physically close to you.. or if you catch her looking at you & she turns away.

[j'adoreAZNpop]

ok im not a guy
but gals, please help me analyze this girl.
so the other day, while talking with a guy friend, this girl (i have met her before...she's a teammate of the guy) came up to the guy, said something to him and gave him garbage to throw out??? it all went by so fast so kinda unclear about the whole story.
was she targeting toward me?

[chineseduckling]

ok im not a guy
but gals, please help me analyze this girl.
so the other day, while talking with a guy friend, this girl (i have met her before...she's a teammate of the guy) came up to the guy, said something to him and gave him garbage to throw out??? it all went by so fast so kinda unclear about the whole story.
was she targeting toward me?

i dont understand what you're trying to say...

how can you tell if say one of your lady friends is interested in you? whats the easiest way to find out? like say a subtle question that one can ask?

if im interested in guy, i flirt like crazy. texting, calling, talking, hugs, smiles, ways to hang out, etc.

the easiest way? just ask her.

[&gravity.]

ok im not a guy
but gals, please help me analyze this girl.
so the other day, while talking with a guy friend, this girl (i have met her before...she's a teammate of the guy) came up to the guy, said something to him and gave him garbage to throw out??? it all went by so fast so kinda unclear about the whole story.
was she targeting toward me?

I think you're over analyzing the situation way too much. What if she just wanted him to just throw out the trash?

[AiriinxKumori]

asking advice for a friend,
what if the gf keeps ignoring her new bf and keeps being depressed over her ex?

[~SWEETwhispers~]

^Then she's not over her ex...o_O

[Big_Bang]

asking advice for a friend,
what if the gf keeps ignoring her new bf and keeps being depressed over her ex?

Yeah, she obviously still has feelings for her ex and hasn't gotten over him yet.
Probably best for them to try talk things out and see how things go. If it still doesn't seem right...they should end it and just remain good friends.
Because it's not fair on either the girl or guy to keep hanging on if the other isn't fully commited...you know?

[chineseduckling]

asking advice for a friend,
what if the gf keeps ignoring her new bf and keeps being depressed over her ex?

she has no true feelings for this bf. shes still not over her ex and is not ready for a relationship.

[eternal.happiness]

@ truexskills
SHE is in a relationship so you should back off (interest wise).
It's fine if you want to continue your friendship with her, but don't expect anything.
Nor should you make a move, because its just "wrong" overall.
IF however she decides to break-up with her bf than its a different story.
Don't keep waiting for something that might not happen.


@ bokcheelo
Ladies usually show interest by; talking to you more often than others.
Making more eye-contact with you, especially if you're in a group.
IF you make a joke and she thinks its more than exceptionally humourous.
IF she makes physical contact with you, perhaps touching your shoulder or smth.
I would think the easiest way to find out is, to try to get to know the person more.
On a one-on-one basis of course && see if there's anything.


@ j'adoreAZNpop
UHH no.
I believe you're overthinking.


@ AiriinxKumori
Kind of obvious, she's not over her EX.
She isn't ready for a NEW relationship as of right now.
I suggest her new bf to break it off and stay as friends until she's ready.

[myxo]

asking advice for a friend,
what if the gf keeps ignoring her new bf and keeps being depressed over her ex?

That's not fair for her current bf, now is it? Seriously, if she's going to be depressed over her ex, its evident that she's not over him yet. I don't think her current bf needs to put up with that. Now if she's going to ignore him because she's depressed over the ex, she's in way over her head. I think she's just using her bf to get over her ex, but it failed.

[Deafz]

So, is blowing of the ear a no no? What about walking fingers over the tummy?

[chocopie_cutie]

how can you tell if say one of your lady friends is interested in you? whats the easiest way to find out? like say a subtle question that one can ask?

well it's differs from the type of girl she is and how close your relationship with her is
but chances are if she's into you, she'll want to spend time with you one on one
try asking her to hang out like at the mall
dont mention other people when you ask her to chill
then when you guys do hang out, do little things that just friends wouldnt do
her reaction will tell you if she likes you or not

[babybluesxo]

So, is blowing of the ear a no no? What about walking fingers over the tummy?

i dont like blowing in the ear, but it depends.
fingers over the tummy is cute!
but depends on the girl, and your talking about doing this to you gf right?

[Deafz]

i dont like blowing in the ear, but it depends.
fingers over the tummy is cute!
but depends on the girl, and your talking about doing this to you gf right?

Yup yup.



Also, I had another question. How do you know if a girl likes you despite they have a bf (especially if she liked you before they became a "thing").

[kathy]

^ one obvious clue is if she talks to you / spends more time with you than her bf. Or if her bf is jealous of you.

[Deafz]

^ one obvious clue is if she talks to you / spends more time with you than her bf. Or if her bf is jealous of you.

Both cases are VERY true. We talk a lot and I mean a lot. We talk like from after soon until we both go to bed almost everyday. And we try to see each other often as possible which isn't often but yeah. Secondly, this probably sounds mean and stupid but her bf is jealous sometimes. He has even admitted it a few times. As well, she is kinda frequently telling me that her bf gets jealous. So, what does him being jealous have to do with if she likes me or not? What does this all mean?


Another thing, we talk about fashion and clothes a lot. It's takes up the majority of our conversations. She always asks me how this or that looks. How it looks on her. Is it her style? Does it suit her. Would it fit. How am I suppose to know. XD
We will be like looking up stuff from yesstyle and she'll ask if how this looks on her. We go shopping, she asks me if its cute, should she get it, etc. What does this mean? Can a guy/girl close friends relationship be like this or does this mean there is more to it?

PS. Do you guys think I should open my old thread since I have so many questions?

[Xiaoba1tu]

So, is blowing of the ear a no no? What about walking fingers over the tummy?

Blowing ear thing can become annoying. Do it at your own risk.

As for the other one, it's ok. I guess..

Also, I had another question. How do you know if a girl likes you despite they have a bf (especially if she liked you before they became a "thing").

What? That's hard. You're saying: ''how do you know if a girl liked you before she got a bf?'' Well, I don't know. She'll probably tell you if she breaks up with the current bf.

Another thing, we talk about fashion and clothes a lot. It's takes up the majority of our conversations. She always asks me how this or that looks. How it looks on her. Is it her style? Does it suit her. Would it fit. How am I suppose to know. XD
We will be like looking up stuff from yesstyle and she'll ask if how this looks on her. We go shopping, she asks me if its cute, should she get it, etc. What does this mean? Can a guy/girl close friends relationship be like this or does this mean there is more to it?

It's a good sign. It means she likes your company and likes to be with you doing things she loves (shopping).
Potentially there could be more to it but just see how it goes.
I sounds so far so good to me.

PS. Do you guys think I should open my old thread since I have so many questions?

I doesn't matter. Ask all your questions here. It's easier for us to answer everything in one thread.
Most girls come by here anyway. Unless you insist on having your own thread.

[angels.disguise]

So, is blowing of the ear a no no? What about walking fingers over the tummy?

depends. im pretty ticklish so it would just make me laugh but some girls think thats a turnon.
heh~ thats cute:)