[j-fer]

DRUMMER. Maybe it's just because I've had bad experiences with guys and pianos >__>

[lookitzthu]

pianist (:
i think its more romantic-ish?
idunno, i guess its just me.

[mezcal.]

i would definitely say a pianist....very romantic!!!!

[supercoolasianguy]

so, im currently a bit confused and would like some input.

theres this girl i really like and totally interested in, i met her in my math class. she actually moved to sit next to me and a week later asked for my number to be "study buddies". however, she dropped outa the math class so i didnt see her anymore. i started texting her and stuff and she asks me for my AIM SN so we could chat and stuff. so, i started talking to her online and the conversations seem so one sided, it would always be me talking and asking questions trying to get to know her, but she never asks anything back, just replies with a "hahaha" or "lol" and thats it, the convo is dead until i start saying stuff. after that, i figured she was just trying to politely say "im not interested dont talk to me" so i stopped msging her saying hello first and stuff. then 2 days later she starts up a convo with me, but the result is the same as all the other convos we have, which ends up in me asking her stuff and getting the same 2 replies.

so, im just wondering, whats up with this girl? is she trying to play hard to get? telling me nicely to stay away/not interested? falsely leading me on?

honestly, at this point i just wanna be friends and get to know her first, and i thought she felt the same, but seeing as how our convo's go, i dont think she even wants to be friends. thats how i see it at least.

[Blu_Velvet_Sea]

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To me it seem like she doesn't know how to hold a good conversation. But there are other possibilities like she could be busy, not interested in you or the conversation you guys are having. I can't give you a definite answer. If you really want to get to know her, I think the best way is offline. Ask her to come to hangouts with your friends or something. Don't try just once, at least twice and she how that goes.

*edit*

I just read your post on the previous page.

Haha okay so you've actually already asked. Well then I can conclude that she doesn't sound interested and definitely not ready because of her grandpa's death. Be patient, just keep talking to her...you guys will be friends eventually and maybe even more.

[supercoolasianguy]

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To me it seem like she doesn't know how to hold a good conversation. But there are other possibilities like she could be busy, not interested in you or the conversation you guys are having. I can't give you a definite answer. If you really want to get to know her, I think the best way is offline. Ask her to come to hangouts with your friends or something. Don't try just once, at least twice and she how that goes.

edit: nvm thx

[Xiaoba1tu]

Haha, cuz my friend told me that my "personality" is hot? cuz since i LOVE ANIMALS, and i want to be a vet and i want to save animals from the bad ppl that abuse them .. but at the same time I'm a nice sensitive guy, but i love getting into trouble.and i have this "Bad Boy" look?

haha i just want to know what she is talking about? she said guys that are sensitive yet a bad boy are really cute or hot w/e she said

is this true ladies?

cuz if so then i think she complemented me and i have to thank her

It's good that she said that. It means you're a bit of everything and not just one of the types.
Yeh, thank her but don't make it such a biggie.

NOT ONE REPLY?!?! DANG NO LOVE WHAT SO EVER!

ehh... at least you are getting replies. In this thread guys post like 3 a week.
In the girls thread, girls post 5 per two hours and not all are answered.
Consider yourself pretty lucky!

[michilatte]

yup, it's definitely a compliment!!

it could be a possibility that she's interested in you, but that's about a 2% possibility, so don't think about it.

[saysjessi]

Haha, cuz my friend told me that my "personality" is hot? cuz since i LOVE ANIMALS, and i want to be a vet and i want to save animals from the bad ppl that abuse them .. but at the same time I'm a nice sensitive guy, but i love getting into trouble.and i have this "Bad Boy" look?

haha i just want to know what she is talking about? she said guys that are sensitive yet a bad boy are really cute or hot w/e she said

is this true ladies?

cuz if so then i think she complemented me and i have to thank her

let me get this right....you are a good boy with a bad boy vibe? do my eyes see gackt in your avatar? (i could be mistaken, though, i am notoriously blind). where have you been all my life???

jk jk

yeah, just look at the leading male characters in all the popular asian dramas...bad boys who are actually very sensitive and caring. nobody would swoon over mike he if he didn't have a "devilishly cute" image.

[dk_]

k i need ur opinion on something... okay so there's this girl that i liked for a very long time (since like the beginning of summer).. i told her in maybe october that i liked her, then i got rejected.. then i got shut down a few more times down the road, but i really liked her and tried my best. we were really great friends before, and we hung out a lot before. so then, recently i decided to kind of get over her not to go near her group of friends and just talk to my other friends so that went on for about two weeks... then march break started, then she randomly posts on my wall asking how its going and how my march break was.. i was very brief to her and said it was okay and that i hope she came home safe.. then she posts back pretty much asking me hte same question about how my march break was.. i just ignored the post and posted on my other friends walls and all that.. then 3 days later, i notice she deleted her post... whats going on?

[nj.s.k]

she knows something is up...she is probably thinking why you dont talk to her and why you are avoiding her....she might even think if she did something wrong...

[chifuni]

Haha, I do that all the time. I delete my posts if they don't reply.

[loveamii]

um.. it's probably nothing that important
maybe you're just over thinking?

orr...
she wants to talk to you again,
maybe she wants it to be like how it was before when you guys were friends
um..something along those lines

[_ATELIER]

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word. she probably feels a bit embarrassed? you can't leave someone hanging like that dude. xD

[forgottenmemories]

She probably think you're avoiding her since she rejected you so many times. The same thing happened to me when one of my good guy friends confessed to me last year. I avoided him like the plague for a week. Then I felt bad and started talking to him again. Lol.

[angels.disguise]

I think your being a little spiteful because she rejected you. I thought it was pretty rude of you to ignore her.
So what if you got rejected? Can't you still be good friends like before?
Shes probably embaressed & a little hurt by your attitude towards her.

[twinkle_l0ve]

i think she misses you
regardless of what she's feeling, the important thing is that she's attempting to communicate to you
this is your chaaaance, dont blow it

[MoiraElla]

she definitely noticed that you haven't been responding to her and wants you not to realize if but not sure if you actually did so I odn't know. I guess she's kind of noticing it. thats all

[subdwfreaky]

Haha, I do that all the time. I delete my posts if they don't reply.

i do that too lol.
but yeah..don't worry too much....
if she doesn't like you n you wanna ignore her to get over her...
just carry on....
altho it may seem a bit weird.....it'd avoid anyone getting the wrong idea/getting hurt in the future....
but it could be a sign that she's concern as well..like someone up there said.......but to know if she really concern bout you....wait a lil more n see her reactions when you guys meet/or whether she's gonna reply again....
then...if you still like her......maybe you could try again....
most important is give some time to see the situation...
haha..i don't even know what i'm alking about...sorry...

[Sam Sik]

If you had to receive an apology letter thats lets say, "late"..

would you rather receive it on a random day or your birthday.

This does not involve intimate relationships whatsoever. Just involves a break up of friendship.