[Sue.]

how do guys really impress a girl! honestly

Show her it's not just about getting into her pants.

-Sue.

[The Fey]

Show her it's not just about getting into her pants.

-Sue.

Quoted for emphasis.

It's as simple as that.

[beinspired]

Depends on certain girls, I for one would prob be reluctant to date one..I mean, how do you kiss on the cheeks? So yeah, invest more in facial care.softacoustic - For me, it would be generosity with presents, and being a gentleman.

If she herself has skin problems and it's clear that those acne problems are killing her level of self esteemthen its likely that she will try to prevent herself dating from a guy with acne.However if the girl herself has relatively good skin and isn't stressed out about her skin..she proberley wouldent see the deal about a guy having acne problems.

it depends on the girl. and it depends on how acne infested you are :crazy:By being sensetive, sweet, doing little things impresses girls. like writing a sweet note, poems, etc. etc. and saying sweet stuff. and avoid saying hot, instead, say beautiful.Usually, its later for me. Because there is so much going through my mind Unless the guy is really cute, haha

How do you impress? isntead of trying to get her interest, do the opposite-> SHOW INTEREST IN HER! and be confident, and bold in doing so.

[DarkWaltz]

I heard that in order to get a girl's interest, you need to be confident and funny (at least).

What if a guy is a bit shy, kinda quiet but more of a thinker, and stays in his little corner often? However, he talks in a very thoughtful and deep way, but he doesn't talk that much nor do that many jokes. Would you girls find that attractive? Or would you think bah, he's just a waste of time?

[Seralibra]

I heard that in order to get a girl's interest, you need to be confident and funny (at least).

What if a guy is a bit shy, kinda quiet but more of a thinker, and stays in his little corner often? However, he talks in a very thoughtful and deep way, but he doesn't talk that much nor do that many jokes. Would you girls find that attractive? Or would you think bah, he's just a waste of time?

First time posting in this thread haha, cuz your question interests me and i thought ill give my own opinion on this. Actually for me, a guy who's shy and quiet is fine (actually i find them quite mysterious and cute aha), as long as he speaks up at the right time. After all, if i cannot make any conversation with him, it is going to be boring and pointless. And also lastly, as long his shyness and quietness doesn't lead to having no opinion of his own at all.

Oh and u mentioned the guy talks in a thoughtful and deep way, so he's pretty smart? That's fine. As long as i can understand him haha.

[astro_girl]

In response to DarkWaltz also:
Depends on the girl. "

[.sukaii.]

I heard that in order to get a girl's interest, you need to be confident and funny (at least).

What if a guy is a bit shy, kinda quiet but more of a thinker, and stays in his little corner often? However, he talks in a very thoughtful and deep way, but he doesn't talk that much nor do that many jokes. Would you girls find that attractive? Or would you think bah, he's just a waste of time?

♥

1) Most of us girls like guys like that. Confident, and have a great sense of humor. Although confidence isn't a major turn-on, it's still better than with those guys that stutter at every word they say. I wouldn't be very comfortable knowing that he's scared of me and all. Also, humor plays a BIG role, and girls find that very attractive. We want to be around people we can have fun with. Most of us tend to love to laugh a LOT.

2) It really depends on the girl's tastes.
I personally wouldn't find that attractive, but it's not a huge turn-off whatsoever either.

[xt1naaa]

I heard that in order to get a girl's interest, you need to be confident and funny (at least).

What if a guy is a bit shy, kinda quiet but more of a thinker, and stays in his little corner often? However, he talks in a very thoughtful and deep way, but he doesn't talk that much nor do that many jokes. Would you girls find that attractive? Or would you think bah, he's just a waste of time?

Hrmmss...It really depends on the girl.
If he's mysterious and smart, i would find him attractive.

[Ryskie]

I heard that in order to get a girl's interest, you need to be confident and funny (at least).

What if a guy is a bit shy, kinda quiet but more of a thinker, and stays in his little corner often? However, he talks in a very thoughtful and deep way, but he doesn't talk that much nor do that many jokes. Would you girls find that attractive? Or would you think bah, he's just a waste of time?

You just described my husband >.<
When I met my husband, he was on the quiet side, a deep thinker, but once you got to know him, he's got a great sense of humor and can be a great guy all around, and I found that attractive because he wasn't trying to grab my attention with being loud and immature like most guys.

As long as yourself, and confident in it (because yes, confidence and a sense of humor are pretty important), then you'll find a girl to appreciate it.... Besides quiet guys can sometimes be the most interesting people in the room.

[I_broke_a_nail!]

First time posting here.

Do girls like whiter skined asians or darker/taned skined asians

For me, I like the whiter skinned asians.
I think it really depends if it suits you.
I don't think a guy should go out of his way to tan himself inorder to please a girl.

How would you ladies feel if your bf puts family before you?

That's a good thing.
Girls shouldn't expect a guy to do otherwise in the beginning of a relationship.
But let's just say you're at the age where you could get married and the guy says...
"I can't, my mom doesn't want me to." ... then oh my god, go marry your mom.

How much of a hit do I take if im unaccomplished for my age?
~In terms of education and lack of work experiences.

Why do girls get tired of me so quickly? Most of the time they seem to drift from normal conversations down to tiny replies within 2 months where I would usually just give up from awkwardness. Im talking mostly about people I meet online but unfortunately its the same in real life too except they might talk when I run into them or something.

I think you have to realize that there are other guys that might want the same girls you want.
They may be more accomplished than you and sorry to say, if you're personality is pretty AVERAGE, the girls are gonna go for the more accomplished type.
If you're a teenager, things like this shouldn't matter. But if a girlfriend has to lecture you about getting a job or going to school, then I can say, right off the bat, the girl is going to get tired.

Sorry...

if you have some acne scars on your cheeks will girls be like " EEEWWWWW" and not talk with you?
and also will girls not date guys with acne?

No. There's a guy at my work place who has some acne and man... he's a good catch, boyfriendwise.
So i think if you play your cards right and you have the personality to woo a girl, then there shouldn't be a problem.
Plus... no girl would say EWW or be like that. You shouldn't even give the girl the time of day if she does that.

So basically what is the quality that makes a friend a good friend and never anything more to girls? Because whatever it is... I have it...

If you are able to compare yourself to her female best friends, then... it's going to stay that way.
The traits are usually like... if you're nothing special OR when the girl talks to you... you don't have much of an effect on her.
A guy who is TOO nice and a complete push over... he's the best guy friend a girl could have. LOL.

when a girl first meets a guy for the first time (through a friend, randomly, etc.), does she immediately judge him to see if he could be a potential boyfriend or not, or she doesn't have this thought until much later when she starts knowing him more?

Yeah...
well me personally. But i guess first impressions are the best.
If you have this vibe that makes a girl start crushing on you then, cool.
But sometimes, if the girl gets to know you... she may still become interested in you.
I guess it really depends.
HOWEVER, if its first meeting and you guys don't really know each other yet, then sad to say, it may depend on looks.

how do guys really impress a girl! honestly

- His physique. If he has some incredible body, WOW.
- His grades. Especially if he works part time or if he barely studies. Basically, intelligence.
- His sense of humor. Wow, if I can laugh really hard from a guy's joke, then no doubt, any girl would be impressed.
----If you mean boyfriend potential. at that stage-----
- The small things he would do. How a guy would go out of his way to do something to please a girl.
- Doing something he hates, but it makes a girl happy.
- Doing something out of the ordinary.
- Sense of humor (that guy could be the fugliest guy... he is still in the running for the best boyfriendmaterial IF he can make a girl laugh)

I heard that in order to get a girl's interest, you need to be confident and funny (at least).

What if a guy is a bit shy, kinda quiet but more of a thinker, and stays in his little corner often? However, he talks in a very thoughtful and deep way, but he doesn't talk that much nor do that many jokes. Would you girls find that attractive? Or would you think bah, he's just a waste of time?

That's the "mysterious" kind of guy. Alot of girls like that. Not me though.
I think... if you're trying to get a shy type of girl, that would be hard if both of you are shy and aren't talking.
So i'm guessing, you want the outgoing type who sooner or later, gets you to talk more.
If a guy speaks in a way that a philosophy professor speaks, then... I don't find that attractive.
What do you mean "talking in a very thoughtful and deep way"
I kind of find that.... freaky.
I'm so sorry =(

[zzombie]

How come you girls never say what's on your mind and instead say something totally opposite of it?

I'm a girl, BTW, I just wanted to see everyone else's opinions ^^.

[MoiraElla]

How come you girls never say what's on your mind and instead say something totally opposite of it?

I'm a girl, BTW, I just wanted to see everyone else's opinions ^^.

ah i'm like this sometimes because im scared of being awkward =/

[Elee]

How come you girls never say what's on your mind and instead say something totally opposite of it?

I'm a girl, BTW, I just wanted to see everyone else's opinions ^^.

haha. its nature... idk why we do it

[chocolate*]

I heard that in order to get a girl's interest, you need to be confident and funny (at least).

What if a guy is a bit shy, kinda quiet but more of a thinker, and stays in his little corner often? However, he talks in a very thoughtful and deep way, but he doesn't talk that much nor do that many jokes. Would you girls find that attractive? Or would you think bah, he's just a waste of time?

Hmm.. having thoughtful conversations are good. However if the guy only knows philosophical talks, it can get boring.
Just like how guys like girls they can have fun with, girls like guys they can have a fun time with too ... boredom kills.

[강유미]

1. Why is my ex-gf on every single forums that I use?
2. Why do they never turn into your friend, after you break up?
3. Is there a way she could just disappear outta my life and never live in the same state?
4. Why does she tell the whole world about her family problems?
5. Why is she such a stupid loser?
6. How do we make her smarter?

[ultaeja]

1. Why is my ex-gf on every single forums that I use?
2. Why do they never turn into your friend, after you break up?
3. Is there a way she could just disappear outta my life and never live in the same state?
4. Why does she tell the whole world about her family problems?
5. Why is she such a stupid loser?
6. How do we make her smarter?

This is only my opininon. I don't know about the other girls here.

1. Stalking you? If not, then there must be other reasons.
2. Because it's hard if they still have feelings for you. IMO, maybe she might be scared of falling for you again.
3. Idk, but there is a possibility.
4. Attention? Maybe it's hard on her and she wants everyone to know about it.
5. How would I know? =_=
6. No clue.

[xt1naaa]

1. Why is my ex-gf on every single forums that I use?
2. Why do they never turn into your friend, after you break up?
3. Is there a way she could just disappear outta my life and never live in the same state?
4. Why does she tell the whole world about her family problems?
5. Why is she such a stupid loser?
6. How do we make her smarter?

1. The forums that you use just happen to be popular.. ??
2. Too awkward.
3. If you move to another state, then sure!
4. Because she feels like it.
5. If she was such a stupid loser, then why did you go out with her in the first place?
6. ...

[kimseo]

1. Why is my ex-gf on every single forums that I use?
2. Why do they never turn into your friend, after you break up?
3. Is there a way she could just disappear outta my life and never live in the same state?
4. Why does she tell the whole world about her family problems?
5. Why is she such a stupid loser?
6. How do we make her smarter?

1. Stalker? Let's hope not.. or maybe she's trying to keep an eye on you.
2. It really depends on if they want to. Most of the times, it's a little awkward being friends with guys that you had feelings for and did "stuff" with. o_o; But I know a couple people who are friends even though they broke up.. It just depends on what you guys decide.
3. Unless you commit murder. o_o Or a wish come true...
4. Either she wants attention, advice, or she just needs to vent.
5. Uh....you can answer that, right? D: What did she do?
6. .....Make her eat an encyclopedia?

[awdark]

wow I got replies to my questions!

Well, what do you usually talk about with them? It depends on what you talk about with them, too, you know. If there doesn't seem to be anything that you guys have in common to talk about, then the conversation is going to be a very brief one.

Ill just say I know to avoid talking about computers and games... obviously I would deviate to those topics if applicable but since those two things are the stuff I really know so generalized conversation can be difficult. I know lots of other general stuff but women seem to be fairly difficult to open up... im working on that though.

Sorry, but I don't understand your first question..What do you mean by 'hit'?

Next, why do girls get tired of you easily?

Easy.

1.You're boring
2.Your conversations lack humor and wit in them hence you're boring.
3.You don't share the same interest as the girl which equals to less chemistry while talking or chatting which makes you seem like a boring person.
But look at the bright side, atleast you're not mean to girls or anything..which means they won't run away when they see you which also means you have a chance to redeem yourself before being the main character of the 40 year old virgin.

Hit in terms of how much of a turn off it can be especially for the initial impression.
I sorta have that role all lined up for me already...
As for your list... I AM boring. My wit is strange and not many get it so I avoid it . Same interest... ugh sounds like I should refer to blindboi for conversation tips

Ill tell you this though... after leaping over the initial hurdle of being unable to clearly think around a girl, real life isnt quite as bad because they seem to be able to go into heavy conversation mode and I like that. But online most seem to stop short of that and dont talk as much after a while.

It really depends on your age and the age of the girl. For younger girls, it might not matter much. But I guess if you want to get into a serious relationship with a girl who's in her twenties, you better show something for it. Imo, I won't really care if a guy hasn't gone to college, but at least tries to get some work out there and has a future planned for himself. It shows he's ambitious and confident, which is attractive.

Because its online. You don't know what might happen in their real lives. They might have found some new guy, some new hobby, preoccupation of some sort, etc. How about you? What are you doing to stop that from happening? Are you just sitting there and wait for them to contact you? Show some initiatives! Email them, call them.

Im 22 and I guess I phrased it like there is potential for relationships... I don't go out nearly enough to be able to find a girl of any sorts. The school part is like this... im seeing a LOT of people my age graduating and almost graduating and I know im behind there since I have eh.. 1.5 years left if im lucky? haha >_< Bothers me like heck and my grades show for it (negatively).

As for the communication part online, I fear being around too MUCH and bothering them rather than being too distant.

Oh Albert..
It really doesn't matter as long as you have a passion and an idea of what you'd like to do, and you're on your way there

The reasons I would personally drift into tiny replies over a short time are..
1)I don't find you funny.
2)I don't find you exciting or unpredictable in your responses.

Notice how "I don't find you confident" and "I don't find you attractive" are not there?? Online those are not necessary to carry on an online friendship LOL (they are, however necessary in real life). So just try and be creative, think out-of-the-box and surprise the girl with a comment about her or yourself or something you have in common ^^ Good luck Albert =D

<3Stephanie

o_o"
Oh gheez those are difficult and high demands! I guess my computer humor and geek talk is unappealing

I think you have to realize that there are other guys that might want the same girls you want.
They may be more accomplished than you and sorry to say, if you're personality is pretty AVERAGE, the girls are gonna go for the more accomplished type.
If you're a teenager, things like this shouldn't matter. But if a girlfriend has to lecture you about getting a job or going to school, then I can say, right off the bat, the girl is going to get tired.

Sorry...

Hrm well since I never had a girlfriend im not one who gets told to get a job or do something about school. I presume I should get a job and all but ill get the joys of battling my antisocial conscience and personality. Fun...

thanks for your replies though

[predator]

1. Why is my ex-gf on every single forums that I use?
2. Why do they never turn into your friend, after you break up?
3. Is there a way she could just disappear outta my life and never live in the same state?
4. Why does she tell the whole world about her family problems?
5. Why is she such a stupid loser?
6. How do we make her smarter?

1. You guys have common interest - the forums are too popular - or she's stalking you 0.0
2. It's kinda awkward to be not so close anymore, I guess.
3. It's possible.
4. Attention or she just needs to vent.
5. Why'd you go out with her if she's such a stupid loser?
6. No comment.