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Ask The Ladies - Read First Post discuss about behaviors and relationships from female P.O.V.

#2501 User is offline   asianami 

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Posted 14 May 2008 - 04:33 PM

QUOTE (forum-love @ May 14 2008, 08:23 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
damn,i need ur set of female balls!!!!!
i blocked and deleted him....coz i had a feeling that he deleted/blocked me after my attempted 'owh,i need help with HW coz i lost the hand-out"........
some times i wish i could just ask his friends "DO you know if he likes me!??!?!?!?!!!!!!!!!" lol

i wish i wasn't such a shy/insecure gurl. i swear i could have had him by now.

why did he make it so hard for me to know him. i wanted to start of as friends so badly T_T


oh believe me when i say this: my female balls are pathetic like when i talked to him that day i spilt milk on us both (but he laughed it off) and i kept pacing back and forth behind him for a good 5 min asking myself whether to say hi or not and then the heartbeating and... >/////////////<

aww no need to take this out on yourself! you've got a harmless pillow take it out on it!

i seriously know how you feel.. it's so annoying the anticipation and the worrying and all.. @_@ and aww i see about that. do you have any connections to him? any mutual friends between you two? connections help a LOT.

(trust me on this! two guy friends of mine are friends with the guy i like and i think they know i like *HIM* because lately they keep talking about *HIM* so weird like "*HIM* has biceps!" "*HIM* is indian did you know that?" "*HIM* is like ___ " blah blah blah.. im getting suspicious a bit hahaa but maybe im overreacting!

OH IM SORRY i rambled on!! but i really wanted to let that out ><!!!!!)


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Posted 14 May 2008 - 04:35 PM

forum-love:
You have to be MORE braver than that!
It's not worth going through all the troubles and backing out! T___T
I don't think that it was a bad attempt of talking to him by making up the excuse!
Just go with the flow, ya know smile.gif

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#2503 User is offline   asianami 

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Posted 14 May 2008 - 04:38 PM

QUOTE (rufflezz @ May 14 2008, 08:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
^ You have to be MORE braver than that!
It's not worth going through all the troubles and backing out! T___T
I don't think that it was a bad attempt of talking to him by making up the excuse!
Just go with the flow, ya know :)

And you won't know what happen unless you try.


Oh, I second this.

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#2504 User is offline   BongSam 

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Posted 14 May 2008 - 05:04 PM

Alright, when a guy walks up to a girl and just says hi and starts a conversation, do girls automatically assume that the guy is interested in her?
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Posted 14 May 2008 - 05:09 PM

^ Most of the time, yes. Others would just think nothing of it and would think the guy's being friendly.


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Posted 14 May 2008 - 05:12 PM

QUOTE (BongSam @ May 14 2008, 07:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Alright, when a guy walks up to a girl and just says hi and starts a conversation, do girls automatically assume that the guy is interested in her?


depends how you say hi. and how you try to start the conversation.
if you say "hi" *smiles* how was your day, then it might sound/look like interest. lol
if the guy says "hey. whats up" or something, it sounds casual.

(not that what i said applies ALL the time)

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Posted 14 May 2008 - 05:14 PM

So then that means, guys can't meet girls unless the girl is interested in the guy, yes?
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Posted 14 May 2008 - 05:28 PM

^

Are you talking about "Guys can't meet girls..." in terms of dating? Well, then yes. But you could also work your way up starting from friends and have the girl realize your date-potential. Wholeeeeee package baby. Lol.


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Posted 14 May 2008 - 05:48 PM

Haha no not like that. I'm just saying if girls are always thinking that guys who talk to them are interested in them, and feel that they don't have the same interest, there will be no friendship.
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Posted 14 May 2008 - 05:59 PM

^ (@Bongsam)

Oh, don't worry about that haha There will be friendship; it just depends on the way the guy approaches to the girl and if it's in a freindly casual way she'll get the message your just trying to be friends thats all haha No problems in that department bud NOW USE YOUR PICK UP LINES! lol jkk


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Posted 14 May 2008 - 06:14 PM

QUOTE (Stevent @ Jun 26 2007, 06:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
1) What specific thing can a guy do to make your knees weak?
2) Why do you girls overanalyze things when our (guy's) intention are sincere?
3) Why do you feel the need to be correct most of the time? :huh:

1) I think there's a lot of things a guy can do to make my knees weak. There'd be even more if I was into a specific guy. Hm, I'd say; if they sang me a song, that'd probably win my heart. But honestly, I think a lot of things can make me happy, even just a hug would keep my smile up :D
2) For me, I tend to overanalyze things because .. I just do. LOL But the thing is, even if I do overanalyze a whole lot, the littlest things make me the happiest. I notice a lot of things from guys. Like even if they do one little thing, it's probably a big deal to me, even if it didn't take a whole lot from them. Idk, some girls are different but it doesn't take a lot to make me happy.
3) LOL. I feel like I have to be right because .. I just do! Plus, argueing with a boy is kinda fun, I find it flirty. ;D

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Posted 14 May 2008 - 10:48 PM

Hm, so my girlfriend and I broke up a few weeks ago. Three, I think. And since then our interaction has dropped significantly. (we go to different schools) So anyways, I was just wondering if..maybe we still had a chance? We broke up because she said she was too stressed to handle a relationship at the time.

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Posted 15 May 2008 - 10:39 AM

QUOTE (mojomunkeez @ May 15 2008, 01:48 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hm, so my girlfriend and I broke up a few weeks ago. Three, I think. And since then our interaction has dropped significantly. (we go to different schools) So anyways, I was just wondering if..maybe we still had a chance? We broke up because she said she was too stressed to handle a relationship at the time.


If you still want a chance with her.
I think your best choice is to still keep in touch with her every once in a while.
Maybe call her or talk to her online or something.
Don't do it too much that she's not getting enough space.
But do it every once in a while to let her know that you're still there.

If that doesn't work.
It doesn't necessarily mean that it's all said and done.
If you guys still have chance of meeting elsewhere and such.
There might be a possibility of you two again.

But my advice to you, if she ignores your call or whatsoever.
Is to move on.
If you definitely think she is the one, then maybe it will be worth the wait and time.
But if not so much, you can always find someone out there.
It depends.

I hope that helps a little.


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Posted 15 May 2008 - 12:13 PM

^ i agree with her.. Try to ask her sometimes how she's doing..but not everyday~~ XDD
if you catch her online, thats a good chance too =)

if ever you had the chance to chat with her, ask her if she's busy or watever.. Then if she's not busy, you can tell her how your day went, then just have a simple conversation~~

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Posted 15 May 2008 - 01:41 PM

Ah, if the pianist is sexy.... lol.
And it depends on how the drummer dresses, etc. If he's some disgusting boy, then that's definitely a no-no.
I guess it depends on how they play their instrument, how good they are, and how they present themselves.
Though, any guitarist would make my heart melt... wink.gif
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Posted 15 May 2008 - 05:26 PM

hmm...well i guess pianist?
cause they tend to be more of the shy romantic guys LOL
plus i play piano too XD
even though i've been learning since i was 5/6 i'm not very good -o-
but drummer is wayy awesome too =]
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Posted 15 May 2008 - 05:33 PM

I'm actually not sure.
GUITARIST biggrin.gif
hahaah
fsho.

But I think I would like a guy who plays piano better.

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Posted 15 May 2008 - 05:46 PM

pianist!

even though some of the buffer looking drummers are pretty cute. xD
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Posted 15 May 2008 - 05:55 PM

Drummers!

Then a violinist.
Then a guitarist.
Then possibly a pianist.
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Posted 15 May 2008 - 06:18 PM

pianists. I find men who are drummers are usually whitewashed. I know im a racist : (
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