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#2751 User is offline   saysjessi 

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Posted 03 June 2008 - 02:27 PM

QUOTE (RE. @ Jun 3 2008, 12:00 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
not for the youngings.

Man i think im addicted to getting laid. 4 different girls in 2 months. I know that isnt much, but i was a reborn virgin for 5 years. I kind of started again to help me forget about my ex. I havent been thinking of my ex, but its like i opened pandoras box.

Am i still continuing because im coping still? Or i just have a problem? hahaha


you're probably just..."thirsty" after a long "dry spell." hahaha. you could either still be coping by letting out all your feelings into the physical stuff, or you just have a big desire to be back in the game.

QUOTE (Deafz @ Jun 3 2008, 03:20 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
If a guy calls you his sister, is that the ultimate rejection? What do you guys think?


i don't think it's rejection, because you'd still have kind of a close relationship, but personally i think it's hard to go from sisterly status to gf status (and vice versa for guys, to go from like-my-brother status to bf-material status). most likely you won't move anywhere past that, but friendship is better than nothing, right?
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Posted 03 June 2008 - 07:55 PM

okay,to the ladies,

So what tips/advice do u have about just seeing a guy as just a guy. I am sorry but for me, ppl frm the opposite sex can never really really just be friends unless there is no physical attraction,or the person has a totally horrible personality.

i am ready for some lecturing lol
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#2753 User is offline   marvinoppa 

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Posted 03 June 2008 - 08:04 PM

why does she say "hurry up" and then turn around and say "ow that hurts!!"
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Posted 03 June 2008 - 08:06 PM

QUOTE (marvinoppa @ Jun 3 2008, 10:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
why does she say "hurry up" and then turn around and say "ow that hurts!!"


erm,i don't get what u mean lol. isit what i think it means?
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#2755 User is offline   xTwilight 

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Posted 03 June 2008 - 08:13 PM

So I was wondering if starcraft skills made a difference or not in whether a guy is appealing or not. Especially to korean girls.
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Posted 03 June 2008 - 08:19 PM

QUOTE (xTwilight @ Jun 3 2008, 09:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So I was wondering if starcraft skills made a difference or not in whether a guy is appealing or not. Especially to korean girls.


dude...girls like guys with nunchuck skills. gosh!
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Posted 03 June 2008 - 08:19 PM

QUOTE (xTwilight @ Jun 3 2008, 11:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So I was wondering if starcraft skills made a difference or not in whether a guy is appealing or not. Especially to korean girls.



No. It's all about dem Maple Story SKILLZZZ

Haha. I don't think so. Not unless the girl's also a gaming geek. :]
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Posted 03 June 2008 - 08:23 PM

QUOTE (marvinoppa @ Jun 3 2008, 10:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
dude...girls like guys with nunchuck skills. gosh!


So you mean I should start playing ninja gaiden? Especially the newest one with all that nice gore and blood which will definitely be a turn on.
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Posted 03 June 2008 - 08:24 PM

QUOTE (xTwilight @ Jun 3 2008, 10:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So I was wondering if starcraft skills made a difference or not in whether a guy is appealing or not. Especially to korean girls.


well...thats sorta race related but lol.

anyway,i am sorry but why on earth would that make a difference unsure.gif yeah,like what the other ppl said. unless she's a gaming freak lol
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Posted 03 June 2008 - 08:27 PM

QUOTE (forum-love @ Jun 3 2008, 10:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
well...thats sorta race related but lol.

anyway,i am sorry but why on earth would that make a difference unsure.gif yeah,like what the other ppl said. unless she's a gaming freak lol


Well one day, I was browsing through youtube, and decided to watch starleague 2008, and you could see more fangirls in the crowd than guys (although I guess I may have mistaken some for women due to poor youtube-quality and long hair).

So unless a lot of girls are gaming freaks, which doesn't seem to fit any stereotypes I know about women in america.
Maybe I should move to korea.
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Posted 03 June 2008 - 08:29 PM

QUOTE (xTwilight @ Jun 3 2008, 10:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Well one day, I was browsing through youtube, and decided to watch starleague 2008, and you could see more fangirls in the crowd than guys (although I guess I may have mistaken some for women due to poor youtube-quality and long hair).

So unless a lot of girls are gaming freaks, which doesn't seem to fit any stereotypes I know about women in america.
Maybe I should move to korea.


lol u think too much.u either pplay the game or u don't. don't decide on that just to attract female attention.

but no worries,i understand that it is just a general question lol

owh wait, u want to move to Korean just to get the ladies. hah,ur funny.
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Posted 03 June 2008 - 08:30 PM

So then I ask you, which is better in your opinion: gunbound, or starcraft (2, when it comes out, cause you know everyone wants it)?
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Posted 03 June 2008 - 08:34 PM

in my opinion,i am not attracted to those forms of gaming at all hehehehe. i don't play wii or anything of that sort.

but one reminder,EVEN IF gurls do find a gamer attractive or w/e. it doesn't mean that ur game should come before ur gurlfriend!(its okay if its occasional but..)

All guys should note that down dry.gif
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Posted 03 June 2008 - 08:50 PM

QUOTE (forum-love @ Jun 3 2008, 09:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
in my opinion,i am not attracted to those forms of gaming at all hehehehe. i don't play wii or anything of that sort.

but one reminder,EVEN IF gurls do find a gamer attractive or w/e. it doesn't mean that ur game should come before ur gurlfriend!(its okay if its occasional but..)

All guys should note that down dry.gif


*girlfriend comes before nunchuck practice....*

noted!
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Posted 03 June 2008 - 09:13 PM

QUOTE (Deafz @ Jun 3 2008, 03:20 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
If a guy calls you his sister, is that the ultimate rejection? What do you guys think?


i wouldn't say ultimate, but i would think that i should stay in the friend zone. but sometimes guys don't always mean what they say. you know it could be a cover up if he likes the girl cause he's shy, but that just confuses the girl more. guys are weird :/
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Posted 03 June 2008 - 11:55 PM

QUOTE (xTwilight @ Jun 4 2008, 12:30 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So then I ask you, which is better in your opinion: gunbound, or starcraft (2, when it comes out, cause you know everyone wants it)?



DUDE, GUNBOUND > STARCRAFT
forreals....but i prefer halo. =)
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Posted 04 June 2008 - 12:07 AM

QUOTE (forum-love @ Jun 3 2008, 11:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
okay,to the ladies,

So what tips/advice do u have about just seeing a guy as just a guy. I am sorry but for me, ppl frm the opposite sex can never really really just be friends unless there is no physical attraction,or the person has a totally horrible personality.

i am ready for some lecturing lol



seeing a guy as just as guy simply means, you're a guy - there's no loveydovey feelings lingering inside the girl's heart, just plain friends. I'm pretty sure you had girl friends who you weren't interested or saw them as 'WOMEN' but just friends.

It's simple. If us girls can't picture ourselves with certain guy friends, we don't see them as more than guys, but just as friends.

True that there is SOME attraction among your friends, afterall, why would you be their 'friends', right? But I think girls have this discernment of feelings between liking a guy as a friend or more than friends. But sometimes we fail with discerning between those two feelings. We're only humans. We're not perfect.
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Posted 04 June 2008 - 04:32 PM

QUOTE (snoopy @ Jun 4 2008, 02:07 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
seeing a guy as just as guy simply means, you're a guy - there's no loveydovey feelings lingering inside the girl's heart, just plain friends. I'm pretty sure you had girl friends who you weren't interested or saw them as 'WOMEN' but just friends.

It's simple. If us girls can't picture ourselves with certain guy friends, we don't see them as more than guys, but just as friends.

True that there is SOME attraction among your friends, afterall, why would you be their 'friends', right? But I think girls have this discernment of feelings between liking a guy as a friend or more than friends. But sometimes we fail with discerning between those two feelings. We're only humans. We're not perfect.


i hear you, u make a good point.but that doesn't exactly help xD
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Posted 05 June 2008 - 06:20 AM

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bt i tink i'll go for DRUMMER
drummer is HOT bt pianist is SEXY
so i tink i wud like drummer type of guy
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Posted 05 June 2008 - 11:12 AM

Drummer. I've always liked drummers rofl (:
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