[esm90]

Maybe one of those anime-game cosplayers. But the question is, is that what you truly want?

[xTwilight]

no.

Ouch. Reality hurts.

[saysjessi]

can i ask dating fashion tips here?

i don't see why not.

[marvinoppa]

yea im not really up on the fashion thing...so uhh...check out THIS THREAD, and let me know what you think.

[soyunee]

yea im not really up on the fashion thing...so uhh...check out THIS THREAD, and let me know what you think.

i replied to your thread. and no, you dont need to wear a burlap sack! xD that made me chuckle haha

-s

[saysjessi]

Does this type of girl exist IRL? (stunning eyes, killer stance, acrobatic, great mix of armor + fashion, masculine Cloud-like face...)

she does, but she probably doesn't want you.

jk jk.

yea im not really up on the fashion thing...so uhh...check out THIS THREAD, and let me know what you think.

replied in that thread, but just to reiterate...i lose all respect for a guy if i see him wearing anything close to pink. i draw the line at purple.

man...i just cannot express enough how much i hate pink.

[marvinoppa]

Because people run around in armor nowadays...

who DOESNT wear armor these days? gosh

[watcher]

so some guy confessed to you a while ago. he's a real great guy. takes you out to nice places, gives you a shoulder to lean on. you hold his hand sometimes, you share your thoughts with him most of the time. you like doing things on your own, but when you're doing something with someone, it's usually him. you know he likes you, and you still see him. you see him often actually. he reminds you every once in a while that he likes you. he even stole a couple kisses from you since he confessed. he's got a good head on his shoulders and while covering his career/life, helps you progress in yours. you're comfortable with him, enough so that you introduced him to your mom, and you're willing to travel back home with the guy to spend vacation with. you say that you're single to everyone, including him, and you like to be independent. you probably have more guys going for you than sand in a desert, but you keep this one guy in the picture significantly more than any other guy.

say you were this girl... and you were asked... who is this guy to you? what relation is he to you?
what would be your answer??

[marvinoppa]

so some guy confessed to you a while ago. he's a real great guy. takes you out to nice places, gives you a shoulder to lean on. you hold his hand sometimes, you share your thoughts with him most of the time. you like doing things on your own, but when you're doing something with someone, it's usually him. you know he likes you, and you still see him. you see him often actually. he reminds you every once in a while that he likes you. he even stole a couple kisses from you since he confessed. he's got a good head on his shoulders and while covering his career/life, helps you progress in yours. you're comfortable with him, enough so that you introduced him to your mom, and you're willing to travel back home with the guy to spend vacation with. you see yourself as single and independent. you probably have more guys going for you than sand in a desert, but you keep this one guy in the picture significantly more than any other guy.

say you were this girl... and you were asked... who is this guy to you?
what would be your answer??

i know im not a girl but um...thats easy man....who is this guy to you?

he is the guy that "takes you out to nice places, gives you a shoulder to lean on. you hold his hand sometimes, you share your thoughts with him most of the time. you like doing things on your own, but when you're doing something with someone, it's usually him. you know he likes you, and you still see him. you see him often actually. he reminds you every once in a while that he likes you. he even stole a couple kisses from you since he confessed. he's got a good head on his shoulders and while covering his career/life, helps you progress in yours. you're comfortable with him, enough so that you introduced him to your mom, and you're willing to travel back home with the guy to spend vacation with. you see yourself as single and independent. you probably have more guys going for you than sand in a desert, but you keep this one guy in the picture significantly more than any other guy."

damn im good.

[Kiribati]

Have you ladies every experienced a sudden loss of love, and broke up with a guy solely on that feeling? Like, you never even considered working it out with him, you just lost your love for him.

Any by sudden, I mean, for all of the time you've been with him, you've loved him with all your heart, then one day (okay, two days) you just...stopped.











And then you go and party the next weekend and flirt with guys without a thought of the ex-guy?
In my case, this all happened in one week.
Sorry, I'm just a little bitter.

[watcher]

i know im not a girl but um...thats easy man....who is this guy to you?

he is the guy that "takes you out to nice places, gives you a shoulder to lean on. you hold his hand sometimes, you share your thoughts with him most of the time. you like doing things on your own, but when you're doing something with someone, it's usually him. you know he likes you, and you still see him. you see him often actually. he reminds you every once in a while that he likes you. he even stole a couple kisses from you since he confessed. he's got a good head on his shoulders and while covering his career/life, helps you progress in yours. you're comfortable with him, enough so that you introduced him to your mom, and you're willing to travel back home with the guy to spend vacation with. you see yourself as single and independent. you probably have more guys going for you than sand in a desert, but you keep this one guy in the picture significantly more than any other guy."

damn im good.

yep, ur not a girl...
therefore YOU FAIL!!!

[underneathHERskin]

so some guy confessed to you a while ago. he's a real great guy. takes you out to nice places, gives you a shoulder to lean on. you hold his hand sometimes, you share your thoughts with him most of the time. you like doing things on your own, but when you're doing something with someone, it's usually him. you know he likes you, and you still see him. you see him often actually. he reminds you every once in a while that he likes you. he even stole a couple kisses from you since he confessed. he's got a good head on his shoulders and while covering his career/life, helps you progress in yours. you're comfortable with him, enough so that you introduced him to your mom, and you're willing to travel back home with the guy to spend vacation with. you see yourself as single and independent. you probably have more guys going for you than sand in a desert, but you keep this one guy in the picture significantly more than any other guy.

say you were this girl... and you were asked... who is this guy to you?
what would be your answer??

I'm not sure what you mean exactly by "who is this guy to you". But I'm guessing that you mean how do I label/see him as? If yes, then I would say he's my boyfriend (if it's official). Somebody I see myself having a future with at least. If two people are doing all those things that you listed, it's definitely more than just friends.

[watcher]

I'm not sure what you mean exactly by "who is this guy to you". But I'm guessing that you mean how do I label/see him as? If yes, then I would say he's my boyfriend (if it's official). Somebody I see myself having a future with at least. If two people are doing all those things that you listed, it's definitely more than just friends.

i edited it. she says she's single, and i do think she sincerely believes it. at best guess, the guy is someone she's considering, but unsure whether she wants to commit to. whether she's waiting for the right move, the right event or just making the most out of an opportunity... it's hard to tell...

[__mill]

^ she says she's single so that the guy would officially ask her The question.

aka

will you be my girl ?

not just some hints. (since you already mention the girl is comfy with the guy etc etc)well.. thats my opinion.. as a girl


i could be wrong. she probably see him as a BFF :x

[watcher]

^ she says she's single so that the guy would officially ask her The question.

aka

will you be my girl ?

not just some hints. (since you already mention the girl is comfy with the guy etc etc)well.. thats my opinion.. as a girl


i could be wrong. she probably see him as a BFF :x

well, he confessed to her. asked her to be his girl not just once, but several times

[towner64]

ok question:
if i call her to go hang out with me, and she cant go cause she's busy, and she calls me to go hang out with her and i cant go cause im busy, and this cycle repeats, should i just scream "Eff you, Destiny, you win!" or should i bring a baseball bat to Destiny's door and show him or her what i was so busy about? (No, im not gonna play baseball with Destiny...)

BTW, Destiny is not the girl's name.

#2,
what do the ladies (ie. YOUUUUUUUU!!!) think about a guy who is real nice to you when you're talking, then suddenly disappears for, say, 3 days, then reappears, says hi and becomes nice again, then shows up on MSN and doesnt talk to you, even though he's just playing counterstrike, waiting for YOOOUUUUU to be the one to say hi, then becomes nice again?

in other words, a guy who says hi one day, then waits for the girl to do the initiative the next day. i dont do it, my friend does. its just he doesnt know what a soompi is so i ask for him

#3,
what do YOOOOUUUUU ladies think about guys who are brutally honest... not LOOKS wise, i mean, situation wise... like a guy telling you that you're boring him... that youre typing skills are comparable to that of a baboon's... and the guy likes you to add to that.

mixed signals much? what do you think about mixed signals in general. again im asking for a really good friend.

dont tell me to just go ask the girl out, cause 1) im asking for a friend and 2) he's about to ask her anyway. just give me answers based on past, and present experiences.

and if you're gonna laugh at the Soulja Boy references, save it for the Humor section. Soompi L&R is a VEEEERY serious board. Very. Like it's so serious i almost mistook this part of the boards for the Chess Exchange forums.

[__mill]

well, he confessed to her. asked her to be his girl not just once, but several times

then.. maybe she's just comfortable being with him but not ready to give any commitment. but he's definitely stand above any normal guy friend she has but below 'boyfriend' status.

she probably needed more time

[catsinheat]

Have you ladies every experienced a sudden loss of love, and broke up with a guy solely on that feeling? Like, you never even considered working it out with him, you just lost your love for him.

Any by sudden, I mean, for all of the time you've been with him, you've loved him with all your heart, then one day (okay, two days) you just...stopped.











And then you go and party the next weekend and flirt with guys without a thought of the ex-guy?
In my case, this all happened in one week.
Sorry, I'm just a little bitter.

i have to wonder how sincere she was being if/when she told you she loved you. as far as i know, people don't just fall out of love within 24 - 48 hours. maybe it was a progression thing -- she got bored, had her eye on someone else, what-have-you, and she did a good job of hiding it from you. and she didn't know how to break it to you, or frankly, eventually stopped caring. so she finally made the decision to cut her losses.

either way, it's a crap move.

in other words, a guy who says hi one day, then waits for the girl to do the initiative the next day. i dont do it, my friend does. its just he doesnt know what a soompi is so i ask for him

#3,
what do YOOOOUUUUU ladies think about guys who are brutally honest... not LOOKS wise, i mean, situation wise... like a guy telling you that you're boring him... that youre typing skills are comparable to that of a baboon's... and the guy likes you to add to that.

mixed signals much? what do you think about mixed signals in general. again im asking for a really good friend.

that's just petty imo. just play chess with her then.

your friend likes girls who bore him?

[juchee]

so some guy confessed to you a while ago. he's a real great guy. takes you out to nice places, gives you a shoulder to lean on. you hold his hand sometimes, you share your thoughts with him most of the time. you like doing things on your own, but when you're doing something with someone, it's usually him. you know he likes you, and you still see him. you see him often actually. he reminds you every once in a while that he likes you. he even stole a couple kisses from you since he confessed. he's got a good head on his shoulders and while covering his career/life, helps you progress in yours. you're comfortable with him, enough so that you introduced him to your mom, and you're willing to travel back home with the guy to spend vacation with. you say that you're single to everyone, including him, and you like to be independent. you probably have more guys going for you than sand in a desert, but you keep this one guy in the picture significantly more than any other guy.

say you were this girl... and you were asked... who is this guy to you? what relation is he to you?
what would be your answer??

One way of interpreting it is this:
He is the guy that I really really like but am afraid of falling for because it's (he's) too perfect just the way it is. So I cling to being single and independent because that way if this perfection ever draws to a close (because perfection does not last forever) I don't lose myself.

But I'm prob just a bit messed up. So more objectively - the chick's most probably into you but can't admit it to herself just yet. So right now you're her security, confidant, and best friend.

[marvinoppa]

my answer was so much better....