[aurorai]

oh no.. there's like full class of people... but whether i pack up fast or slow... there's this person who wait for me to pack up n leave.. then that person get up n leave... lol.. even if i sit there n just chill.. that person would sit there n chill..

the only time i cant pack up is when i gotta talk to my professor, then that person just leave...

sit behind her.. and see what happens..

[marvinoppa]

so ladies....what are you wearing?

[jello24]

what do you ladies think of a guy who acts like he's about to confess to you, says things like "I have something important to tell you..." then does all this tense build up to only say something totally unrelated to confessing, like, say, how he just finished eating the best-made Jell-O of his life...

jerk-off? prankster? douchebag of epic proportions? epic fail?

[efflorescence]

^ lol well if I actually like him, then I'd feel really disappointed/frustrated/ and cut.

If I dont, then I'd feel relieved and kinda hilarious. haha

But it depends how serious he was before the build up. If he actually led me to believe he liked me and purposely tried to get me to fall for him then I'd think he's a major douchebag.

[xTwilight]

So this question has been boggling me since I saw this on soompi.

Why do girls never make the move?
In addition to that, why do girls expect the guy to make the move, but also expect them to do it face-to-face, and also expect them to make it the best approach ever, and also everything that would make them want to say "yes".

[snoopy]

So this question has been boggling me since I saw this on soompi.

Why do girls never make the move?
In addition to that, why do girls expect the guy to make the move, but also expect them to do it face-to-face, and also expect them to make it the best approach ever, and also everything that would make them want to say "yes".

LOL! girls watch too much soap operas? hahaha...what can we say? it's the influence of the media. =P

but to answer your question, girls expecting guys to make the move first is just one of those stereotypical things. no one likes to be rejected. but girls i guess are more sensitive and they just hold that stereotype that guys need to ask the girls out. (although there are some brave ladies out there who make the move first )

no one wants to be asked out through aim, email, msn, phone, etc. asking a person out in person, face-to-face just shows that you have guts and that you're not a coward and that you really like the person. that's why girls like it face-to-face. =)

girls do go overboard with their relationship imagination, but we do know that it can't really happen (if it's too fairy-tale-like). i mean, it doesn't hurt to create our own imagination in our heads about how we want to be asked out. in the end, if a guy asks the girl out (and she's interested in him also) no matter how 'plain' and 'dull' the confession was, we still are flattered and content and happy and will most likely say yes. we may say all these ridiculous and absurd things about how we want to be asked out, but seriously, deep down, it really doesn't matter...just as long as the guy really really likes the girl and asks her out (face-to-face) at a perfect timing, the girl will be happy.

[saysjessi]

So this question has been boggling me since I saw this on soompi.

Why do girls never make the move?
In addition to that, why do girls expect the guy to make the move, but also expect them to do it face-to-face, and also expect them to make it the best approach ever, and also everything that would make them want to say "yes".

because we want to be treated like princesses and get swept off our feet. some girls make the first move because either they're tired of waiting around for the guys to initiate, or they're just more aggressive by nature. but i think most girls like when guys make the first move (i.e. takes charge) because it seems manly and we like to be taken care of

[First Blush]

If you were a girl, why would you choose to dress like a boy and act more masculine instead of dressing like a girl? In other words, why would you intentionally try not to be pretty? It seems to defy my logic....

I did this for quite a while actually... dressing not exactly like a guy but not exactly with a ton of feminine panache either - partly b/c I grew up with 2 older brothers that I looked up too and played tons of sports with and partly because I don't have a reason to dress up. Even now for the most part I like to wear the same tshirt in different colors and grab a pair jeans and converse and I carry a small wallet in my hand; it just feels more natural. Clothes, hair, makeup, shoes, bags, jewelry make everyone attractive to the point where we become blinded and attached to someone based solely on their look. I don't want to waste time. My logic is : if a guy likes me he'll like me for who I am first and then I'll worry about dressing nicely for him. Plus if you don't dress up everyday you bring back some spontaneity, getting ready in the morning doesn't become a chore.

The only reason I would ever act like a guy is too turn a guy off or to show a guy that I'm not interested in him beyond being a friend.

[sglolligirldd]

So this question has been boggling me since I saw this on soompi.

Why do girls never make the move?
In addition to that, why do girls expect the guy to make the move, but also expect them to do it face-to-face, and also expect them to make it the best approach ever, and also everything that would make them want to say "yes".

i make the move...i made it lik 7 times ahhahah...maybe even more...ohh maybe lik 10 times ahahah
girls make the move...
well i actually made moves cuz i was kinda bored wit my life n wanted somthing fun n spice up my life lollllll....then as i see a hot ass guy walk by i jus ask myself "hey y not"...its not lik if they reject u ull ever see them again LOLLL
but so far...all of them have been successful somwhat...either we ended up dating or becoming friends haha

[watcher]

insanity is when you do the same thing and expect different results.
some girls, however, cave in to constant acts of kindness... eventually
the question is... how do you know whether a girl will eventually surrender drenched in one's kindness,
or will someday pop open an umbrella and keep walking forward?

[Sweetraindrops]

haha I've done that many times...when my crush was in that class...so there's a good chance she likes you. But it could just be a coincidence...I dunno.

lol.. i dont know.. can't tell yet.. lol. thx for the info.

sit behind her.. and see what happens..

i do sit behind her.. lol.. hahaha

[KOGEPANN;)]

Girls never make the first move?
Personally, I'm stuffed with pride in myself and any form of rejection really crushes my self confidence and pride. XD
But if the guy I really really liked to the extent where I felt I was going mad crazy for him and he wasn't doing anything,
I'd probably make the first move one day.
But as long as you like her and you know that she likes you,
the timing doesn't need to be right, neither does the approach.

[_ATELIER]

^ omg me too, i actually dont' like taking the initiative in general when it comes to starting a relationship.

[HaplessChild]

I always make the first move. Too impatient to play games and wait for him to figure stuff out.

[Sweetraindrops]

In class, there's about 3-4 girls looking at me... i had this girl keep flipping her hair and about to break her neck turning side looking at me...she did it the entire time during class...

we were supposed to write a note about ourselves and walk around n talk to each other... the girl that was flipping her hair n about to break her neck turning side way looking at me avoid me the entire activity... i tried to talk to her but she walked far away everytime i tried to get near her... then when time was up... n we went back to listening to the professor talk... she flip her hair n about to break her neck looking at me again... hahaha...

whats going on here...? i thought you ladies could give me a better idea as to why shes avoiding.. well since.. you the ladiez...

[SkeptiCal]

In class, there's about 3-4 girls looking at me... i had this girl keep flipping her hair and about to break her neck turning side looking at me...she did it the entire time during class...

we were supposed to write a note about ourselves and walk around n talk to each other... the girl that was flipping her hair n about to break her neck turning side way looking at me avoid me the entire activity... i tried to talk to her but she walked far away everytime i tried to get near her... then when time was up... n we went back to listening to the professor talk... she flip her hair n about to break her neck looking at me again... hahaha...

whats going on here...? i thought you ladies could give me a better idea as to why shes avoiding.. well since.. you the ladiez...

she has dandruff and was trying to get all of it outta her hair.
lol jk but uh... i really don't know.
perhaps she likes you and is trying to play hard to get?
or maybe she looks at you because she heard some rumors about you and she's... disgusted?
i don't really know, to be honest, cause sometimes i stare at a random person for no reason at all.
so i guess it could be that too.

[k i k a i]

In class, there's about 3-4 girls looking at me... i had this girl keep flipping her hair and about to break her neck turning side looking at me...she did it the entire time during class...

we were supposed to write a note about ourselves and walk around n talk to each other... the girl that was flipping her hair n about to break her neck turning side way looking at me avoid me the entire activity... i tried to talk to her but she walked far away everytime i tried to get near her... then when time was up... n we went back to listening to the professor talk... she flip her hair n about to break her neck looking at me again... hahaha...

whats going on here...? i thought you ladies could give me a better idea as to why shes avoiding.. well since.. you the ladiez...

yeah same like SkeptiCal, I think she might be playing hard to get..
or hmmpf, I dunno but it could be that she can't be open about her feelings somehow..
like I know this girl, she likes this guy but she can't let others know, coz she'd feel embarrassed
I'd go straight to her and maybe just ask her "are you okay? I'm just worried you might get a stiff neck"... hahah JUST KIDDING, ok!

[_ATELIER]

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ooooooo she's a teaser.

lol it's just a hairflip.

[marvinoppa]

just for fun....i know what the differences are between pads and tampons...but why would a girl choose one over the other? or is the answer too personal?

[burntvinyl]

Have you ever tried wearing a pad? Feels like a diaper.