[Sweetraindrops]

again.. what i say about not care what they like...

now i gotta say..

DO WHAT YOU WANT... NOT WHAT THEY WANT YOU TO DO...

[mojomunkeez]

Okay.
So about the girl I posted about a page ago. We went on another date yesterday, watched a movie, got ice cream, bought a book for her little sister. I paid, of course. So throughout the date we were holding hands and generally being a couple, like we were before.
Thing is: I move down to San Diego for college in three months, and she knows that. So what's going through her mind, now, since we obviously have expressed to each other how we feel?

[watcher]

Funny you asked because I think I'm that girl. You know, I had a friend who was verrrry nice to me. I guess I was delusional, but I was skeptical of his kindness so I kept reiterating how we are the best of friends. He always comforted me by saying that we are JUST great friends every time I thought something was up. So in the end, I really believed him and thought we were just friends even though he took me to nice restaurants, paid for all our meals, and always drove. I thought he was one of those nearly extinct species-- a full gentleman. I was wrong. However, trust me. Girls do get suspicious, but so long as the guy keeps repeating the fact they're just friends, the girl will believe it's just that.

haha... no way... i think you twisted the definition of what a gentleman really is
but i should hold off on that topic for later.
i think not even your girlfriends will do such things
so why would it be that when a guy does it, that it's easily waved off as friendship?
i don't think there is any guy in the world that's just plain nice like that.
unless he's your brother, cousin, uncle, dad or some kind of close family relation.
i mean, im sure there are guys that'll buy girls a meal or two, but not with that kind of consistency.
anyways... i dont know what she's gonna do.
i won't get involved in this... haha

Okay.
So about the girl I posted about a page ago. We went on another date yesterday, watched a movie, got ice cream, bought a book for her little sister. I paid, of course. So throughout the date we were holding hands and generally being a couple, like we were before.
Thing is: I move down to San Diego for college in three months, and she knows that. So what's going through her mind, now, since we obviously have expressed to each other how we feel?

my best guess is that she doesn't know either. that for now, she likes you and enjoys spending time with you. she'll probably stay reserved until you make some kind of move to reinforce her belief that it'll work out, or write off the relationship while she has made minimal investments into it.

[sidney]

haha... no way... i think you twisted the definition of what a gentleman really is
but i should hold off on that topic for later.
i think not even your girlfriends will do such things
so why would it be that when a guy does it, that it's easily waved off as friendship?
i don't think there is any guy in the world that's just plain nice like that.
unless he's your brother, cousin, uncle, dad or some kind of close family relation.
i mean, im sure there are guys that'll buy girls a meal or two, but not with that kind of consistency.
anyways... i dont know what she's gonna do.
i won't get involved in this... haha




my best guess is that she doesn't know either. that for now, she likes you and enjoys spending time with you. she'll probably stay reserved until you make some kind of move to reinforce her belief that it'll work out, or write off the relationship while she has made minimal investments into it.

you know what, I'm one of those girls too.
This guy will take me to dinner, lunch, etc, one one one, pay and everything. Change my car oil. Buy me gifts. Call me and text me all the time. Bring me food to school. Take care of my car accidents stuff. Man, so many more stuff that I can't remember. I REALLY thought he was being nice. Of course, i get suspicious, but he never says anything, so i just concluded he's one of those rare extinct species too.
I don't know, girls are delusional like that?

[soymillk]

yeah, take her word for it..
your friend is trynna claim her before you do obviously~

I dunno about the girls you like but I really like these?:
w/o the long stand from the back
http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2278/253546...24c901a.jpg?v=0
she's a girl but it looks good on some guys
http://img90.imageshack.us/img90/9430/l64a...924def5djv4.jpg
or his hair is nice on most boys.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=8u118y_hYbY


i dunno. really depends on who you are and what suits you.

[beana*]

ummmz....random quesiton
what type of hairstyle do girls like

for some odd reason i love it when guys have buzz cuts idk why! soo hot and sexy hahah
but then again i like some hair nothing gelled idk i just don't like it and not hair longer than mine
i hate long hair! just keep it short and clean

ok more serious...
what do girls think abuot a guy who is all nice and caring around them..but around their friends he completely changes?

hmm... for this idk how to explain this but, i would like it if a guy was the same all around because that shows to me
he's not putting up some kind of a front. i want a guy to be real all around with his friends and with his emotions
with me. if he were to bring me to his friends and say "ay this is mah hot ass b^tch" oh hell no i would like a guy to
be like "i love you babyy" in front of his friends and don't care.

[watcher]

you know what, I'm one of those girls too.
This guy will take me to dinner, lunch, etc, one one one, pay and everything. Change my car oil. Buy me gifts. Call me and text me all the time. Bring me food to school. Take care of my car accidents stuff. Man, so many more stuff that I can't remember. I REALLY thought he was being nice. Of course, i get suspicious, but he never says anything, so i just concluded he's one of those rare extinct species too.
I don't know, girls are delusional like that?

gosh... those poor guys... i can only imagine what they're going through.... haha

[IATEYOU]

ok more serious...
what do girls think abuot a guy who is all nice and caring around them..but around their friends he completely changes?

like around his friends he's more perverted and stuff?
well my friend had a guy like that. she hated it and broke up.
my bf is like that and i dont mind. in fact, i rather like it. it makes me feel special ^___^

[kiss_bunny]

well, a guy should offer and insist to pay...if he did...i would kindly reject and pay.
but if he didnt, i would be suprised if it was a date but still pay my share...
but if a guy offered, then that shows me he kind ^__^

[d00zie]

What if Girl A liked Guy 1 but Guy 1 wasn't really feeling her/not ready for that kind of a relationship. Guy 1 goes to a dance with his friend, Girl B(as friends). Girl A gets upset. Girl A and Guy 1 kinda was like whatever for the rest of that year. Highschool comes. Freshman year Girl A went to a different school than Guy 1. Freshman year is over.
In the middle of Sophomore year, Girl A moves to Guy 1's high school. Guy 1 started liking her. Guy 1 and Girl A kinda talk on a regular basis, but they don't have any classes together.

What should Guy 1 do?

[lananhcali18]

What if Girl A liked Guy 1 but Guy 1 wasn't really feeling her/not ready for that kind of a relationship. Guy 1 goes to a dance with his friend, Girl B(as friends). Girl A gets upset. Girl A and Guy 1 kinda was like whatever for the rest of that year. Highschool comes. Freshman year Girl A went to a different school than Guy 1. Freshman year is over.
In the middle of Sophomore year, Girl A moves to Guy 1's high school. Guy 1 started liking her. Guy 1 and Girl A kinda talk on a regular basis, but they don't have any classes together.

What should Guy 1 do?

lolz...your story is kinda confusing but i get it at the end.
Ahh just be a guy/boy and be blunt. Ask her to go to the movie or hang out or whatever.
THen after a few times, see how the situation is and let her know your real feelings.
Guys are hot when they're straight up about everything.

[Missing]

When you're walking with a guy and there is a moment of silence between the two of you, do you find it awkward or do you not mind it?

[nonamebrand]

^ depends on how close i am with the guy.
if he's just a friend no big
if i was crushing on him i'd probably end up saying something stupid to kill the silence

[efflorescence]

When you're walking with a guy and there is a moment of silence between the two of you, do you find it awkward or do you not mind it?

Well it depends what we were talking about before the moment of silence.
If it was an intimate or confronting subject then, yeh i'd find it awkward.
But if we were just talking about normal stuff then I wouldn't mind.
Everyone's gotta shut up and rest every once in a while right? Can't keep talking non-stop forever haha

[marvinoppa]

if im 25, and ill be 26 in two weeks, how young is too young?

keep in mind my boyishly good looks, charm, wit and humor.

[watcher]

^ all things considered, i'd say anyone above the age of 35

[re.toon]

if im 25, and ill be 26 in two weeks, how young is too young?

keep in mind my boyishly good looks, charm, wit and humor.

´
Is weird if I aswer to your question? Since you reply mine?

[lananhcali18]

if im 25, and ill be 26 in two weeks, how young is too young?

keep in mind my boyishly good looks, charm, wit and humor.

Are you asking if 26 is considering a young age for dating?
I'm 20 (well about to turn 20 soon) and I usually date within the 6 years range.
But if a guy happens to pass that range, and he's absolutely date-able...i would go for it.
I think guys can date at any age...younger than 35.

[Sweetraindrops]

what would you do and what does this mean if...

-someone see you and pretend that you're not there and go n stand in front n do stuff in front of you...? and what should you do if something like that happen?

-someone walk in the library and see you and decide to sit next to you... then start playing with the freaking hair like mad... when you get up that someone look at you for a couple seconds... NEXT time something like that happen.. what would you do?

[fabulosity]

what would you do and what does this mean if...

-someone see you and pretend that you're not there and go n stand in front n do stuff in front of you...? and what should you do if something like that happen?

-someone walk in the library and see you and decide to sit next to you... then start playing with the freaking hair like mad... when you get up that someone look at you for a couple seconds... NEXT time something like that happen.. what would you do?

Ok. it really took me a while to digest your questions lol. I guess when you mean someone u meant like a girl you are interested.
So for the 1st one, that someone pretended like they didn't c you. -maybe they were ashamed of being at certain place -maybe they wanna ignore you and make you jealous lol anyways if that happens, i will just do my own thing and won't even mind ppl who are ignoring me. If you have like uber confidence go up to her and talk

for the 2nd scenario lol if they decided to sit next to you im sure that someone is interested in you =]
& start playing with their freaking hair? probably can't find something better to say i suppose. so try to talk to her.

well hope this helps in some way or not.